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Unless you are saying an action been be erased. If it has happened, it happened. For example, I slapped your stupid face and then pet you later, would my latter action erased that slap?



Mason won't treat you nicely for sticking up for him.

ViperAda:
-Viper
1.What happens between the period between the rape and the consensual sex?. Why would she give consent for subsequent sex and raised an allegation aftet a gap in period?

-Viper

When they say a gf or wife doesn't owe their partner sex. It means you don't rape them because they don't want to have sex with you.

There is nothing westernised about anti-rape rhetorics. A culture that advises you hurt your wife because she doesn't want to have sex with you, is a culture fit for animals.

ViperAda:
" your wife doesn't owe you sex"- this is one hell of a trash I read up there in the comments section. If she doesn't owe him sex and he goes out to get one, you'd still accuse him of cheating. Can we also agree a man doesn't owe his wife sex?. This is one of the new narratives the west are pushing down our throats in the media to erode our African conservativeness and recalibrate our African women into rebellious converts.

There is an audio recording but you still wan form devil's advocate.

Starzo:
And how do you know he raped her?? have u seen video proofs or were you there when it happened??

How is setting a rapist up a bad thing? Did she send you a DM asking for your pity?

AfroKnight:
He will learn his lesson the hard way.

I feel no pity for the girl though. She chose to remain in the abusive relationship. Listening to her during tha recording shows how cunning she is. She set him up neatly.

A bf can rape his gf one day

Both have consensual sex the next day

Break up two years later

It doesn't erase the rape happened. It doesn't matter whether she is messed up. It happened. It happened. It bloody happened.

vanida6:
Don't forget she's he's ex'' am not surprised about this, some ladies can go extra mind when they re heartbroken. she probably went him back nd he does not, so she has to do something that will tarnish his career

He ruined his life all by himself. Twist it all you can, rape apologist. He used his two filthy hands to ruin his life.

Rape is not a class issue. Are you always this stupid or you are trying aiming higher today?

LesbianBoy:
Btw, when we talk now, SIMPS will think we no like women. But the BITTER TRUTH is that, as a man (especially when you are rich) you have to be careful with that gender if not THEY WILL RUIN YOUR LIFE.

Forget all that blackmail....."respect women don't you have a mother, do what women want, listen to women bla bla bla...."

Omo, if dem show you pepper eh, your eyes go clear

This guy life and career has been ruined before it even started.

From his tone, it's like he has spent so much money on her and now it was time to have sex she is refusing him.

This is what happens when you want to personalize a HOE. He is a rich footballer. He should have just left her alone and go and meet other girls.

Now see what he has done to himself

Better be but this doesn't sound good

Mariangeles:
They probably weren't always that way.

How do you end up with people like this?

We have normalised older ones taking up responsibilities that should never have been theirs in the first place.

Mariangeles:
When the older one is always expected to take care of the younger ones, who takes care of the older one?

You will be shocked by op's brother's side of the story.

Where is the sense?

Loewe:
I know they will come for him instead of seeing the sense in his post...

Now you have removed all doubts about your intelligence . Do you know what quora is? Wheb did phrases become scientific?

You can at least answer the questions despite your lack of intelligence. your mum uglier than she used to be? Is she uglier than your dad?

machote:
Always do your research
P.S:Google is your friend

Older women look better than older men. Look at your parents, is your mum uglier? Is she particularly uglier than your dad?

machote:
The older women get the uglier they get. aka The Wall. aka Women age like milk. aka Father Time at work.

The wall doesn't care how much "you feel like a new born" or how many surgeries or work outs you do. Anyway, she still looks better than before. We all have to take care of our bodies.

Isn't there a difference between Mushrikun and People of the books?

Lol. With that infantilisation, they should be looking for women with daddy issues.

pocohantas:
It is okay to console yourself. If the desirability of an older man is WISDOM, my uncle with classic nuggets would be married to the most premium woman. The 42yrs old vulcanizer would easily marry a graduate from a middle class home.

Please don’t slip into delusion. The desirability of an older man is financial stability. I understand that these young girls would tell you anything for iPhone, but remove that your money, then check how many stay.

So you think a young girl of 25 from a stable home would marry you at 47 because you are wise? Then start jumping Obalende bus with you? You can’t be this slow naw.

They should put him in the same cell as Kanu. They can form brothers in bigotry and hate association.

You are not a fucking sex psychologist!

EmmyDJourno:
Story, sexual Psychology is deep ehhen, not for immature minds to understand and is not subject to this relationship justice you are trying to preach
The woman needs to pull him back to save her marriage, he needs help, might not even know it and she has to be his light at the end of the tunnel
All this your grandstanding solves nothing and I don't want to continue this conversation with you

ChiomaCa

He can pay 380 for prostitutes, He can afford a couple of therapies in a week. Give it a couple of months then do an accountability check. Seek help and priotise your mental health. Figure out the cost of the possibile scenarios including the cost or benefit to yourself as a person and your children'sand make a decision. It isn't your fault your man turned out this way.

It MIGHT not could

She is under no duty to unearth these fantasies that he didn't discuss with her or become his object of fantasy. I see it as a form of blackmail like it is either she acts as a prostitute and enjoy anal sex to keep her man, remain stick and miserable or leave. None of us know how wild his fantasises run, we don't even know if he likes having multiple prostitutes too. Are we going to ask her to change her name, her hair, her voice every blessed day to satisfy his urges.

Ultimately, he is the one with the power to decide whether he wants to keep his marriage. For that he need to seek help, stick to it and she can choose to support that if that is what she wants as well.

EmmyDJourno:
Madam your husband is going through a Sexual Psychological Disorder

He doesn't want to have sex with you coz you don't satisfy his fantasy

Discuss with him and findout what he prefers sexually, it could even unearth your own sexual desires you never knew existed

Walk this path with him patiently, his recovery would be slow but assured

Lol. Like it is easy to up and be a prostitute . No question of her links and interests herwelf. She should become something she was never and she might never have had an interest all because of an irresponsible man's addiction.

The way you people dish out advice to women. If I wasn't one myself, I would think myself a programmable robot. Please one day, when you realise that your wife likes humiliatiing her partner's. Offer yourself, tell her you will dress like a dog if she wants.

VEXT:
Go online and ask what attract men to prostitutes,then act like one to your man..Be his prostitute..


You also have what those prostitutes have...

This is not peace. This is cancer and its brethren. It might cause genetic health issues, who knows.

obembet:
One thing I know it's that it's either Rivers state people continue with black soot or bad boy, criminals , arm robbers, kidnappers come back the state. People that leave in Rivers that can confirmed that we have been enjoying peace from this people cos of this bad business.. I just hope government with take care of everything.

God bless Rivers State

Thunder fire Buhari and his supporters

GenderMix

Move her to her room when she is asleep with lights on.

Or

Sleep with her on her bed without tangling with her o and leave her when she is asleep with lights on.

Hi, cousin, shut the Bleep up. You are speaking to yourself.

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I would also love my dad if I were in your shoes

OlawaleBammie:
Mama, u re right but i love my dad more than my mum.

My mum is good and selfless but she's a little bit manipulative. Pls the fact that she left us wen we needed her most. Tho she's still active in my life but i can never forget how my father bore the shame and sufferings to raise me and my sister.

How is it a bad habit to not like a kind of food? I used to eat onions, started disliking and I might have started eating again. However, the punishments and beating strengthened my resolve. Till date, It is a chore eating food with onions and I rarely touch food with onions in it.
I became overly sensitive to its taste and texture.

Leave her be. She might outgrow it ot not. There is a particular food other people don't like, onion is no different.

Solosolojohquay:
So she might continue like this to adulthood even when married what type of bad habit is that she doesn't even eat salad did your friends select food too

Can you outline the current sponsorship requirement please?

famousguy01:
My sponsor has submitted his documents to Belgium embassy in Canada, but he's yet to get reply

It is dated 2015. Some of the information might be outdated like the sponsorship requirement.

DeeKeem:
For all that are applying for visa:
Please read the document attached and follow all the instructions.

It tells you the documents you need, what you need to legalize, the documents your sponsor needs to provide etc.

Please make sure you have this document and have read through it thoroughly.

Good luck!!

Hi fikki1, can you help with these questions?

1. Will photocopies of origanal documents suffice for legalisation?

2. How does an applicant go about proof of language proficiency for visa application if the requirement has been waived by the university.

3. Will it be fatal to masters application and study visa if the applicant already has a master certificate?

Thank you

Did you have to go MOE and MOFA in Abuja? Can someone else do the legalisation on another's behalf?

fikki1:
This is what i did during mine, though it was expensive.
I submitted all copy of my credentials to MOE and MOFA for legalisation ( not original) so it was easy for the embassy to legalise it seeing the seal of MOFA and MOE. During visa application, i legalised the original documents.

If you have certified by a court, i dont not know if the embassy will recognise it, but above all, if u certified by court and MOFA legalised it, I THINK YOU ARE GOOD, BUT IF MOFA REJECTS IT, then i think you need to use MOE.


To be candid, no school will put a seal on a photocopy of credential when they have already issued a certificate of same. I stand to be corrected though.

Bro i advice you spend more to get better result dan to spend less n in turn you spend double.

For Admission,
Make photocopy of your sealed original certificate(s)from school, take it to MOE and MOFA den take it to EMBASSY.

For visa,
legalise all your original certificates, make photocopy front and back and submit like dat

N:B
This was what i did.


I hope i have answered your question bro

Thanks
Fikki1

If it was by money alone, many of you won't prefer your mothers over your fathers

To forge a connection with another, you need to bond with them. Bonding activities excludes money exchanging hands. Between parents and kids, you watch TV together, play games, bathing for them, helping with their school work, telling stories, cooking together, shopping together and so many 'women's work'.

Those activities are the reasons people love their mums more. My mum spent her hard earned money on me so does many women in Nigeria including your mothers. Many of them worked as hard as their husbands. Money will not leave a deep imprint on your children. What happens when they stop needing your money? You think they would care about you once you have nothing to your name? If you like be Atiku or Bill Gates, give them money not memories. Just pray to God you don't lose that money.

olawalebammie, victorazy

UncleKoboko:
Your mind seem messed up...
Were you raised by a single mom?

Lmao. Money doesn't make you likeable if you are a terrible father.

The question

Why would they illegally dispose off the corpse instead of reporting the case to the police?

The answer

In Nigeria, you are automatically the murderer when you report a crime.

Modified answer

In Nigeria, the police don't like to stress themselves. Once they find a body with you or aorund you, you are liable

Your reply is for the police to ponder.

Kobojunkie:
So you are saying they entered Timothy Oludare's room and then proceed to dispose Timothy Oludare's body from Timothy Oludare's room because they were afraid they would be seen as suspects in Timothy Oludare's murder?