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When you were asking her out, you were already thinking, I will ask her to remove this leg chain when she gree for me? You sound like a complainer.

They have been married for years and he wouldn't let a house go. This is the worse part of marrying rich in a lawless country. I hope these little girls are learning. Banana Island on Monday, thank your ori if you find yourself in Gbagada on Friday.

She married a greedy and corrupt man. She should deal with it.

Oh no, the ones I know didn't say no. More like outraged and offended. Then they realised the meaning of sexual harassment. Logical gender in the mud.

ityP:
Which one be "theory"? Many men have been in same shoes with gay men na. They simply say NO and go. It becomes harassment when, after saying NO, the idiot is still persistent

In theory of course

ityP:
I can always say no. It's not a crime

That is a despicable exchange.

If a gay man came up to you with that proposal, I bet you won't be so logical

Casan0va:
Nigerians and hypocrisy though.

It's a form of exchange.

What is Exchange?
This is what you given in exchange for a product or service.

There are different forms of exchange which includes:
Money for service
Service for service

This service can include sex, manual labor, exchange of your area of expertise for the expertise of another.


Not like the people dragging him have not either requested sex from a girl for something or the females offered sex because they could not give monetary payments.


Las las na hypocrisy to kill us for this country.

What will you when your wife flogs you with belts and canes in front of your children?

YinkaOlusesi:
what message are you trying to pass to her, she should packed out from her husband house

Does your family know? Do you mind reporting to the police? What is your family dynamics like?

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sazzyyarns:
My husband flogs me with cane and belt whenever we have an altercation. We are not newly weds and by now we should have understood each other.

He never apologizes when we reconcile instead he says i should stop doing things that provoke him (which doesnt include me going physical, so its not even in self defence). At this point im really just frustrated!!!
He flogs me in the presence of the kids, sometimes he flogs them and then flogs me too.

They tell their people their stories. If these stories become public because these men become rich or popular. Good for them.

Why will you be concerned about the consequences of a terrible human being? Why do you bother? Do you have something you a e worried about?

Dmacqh:
What stops you from telling the world your stories ? What if you die ? Or what if the person who planned nailing , die ? What if he got legs powerful to silence you then ? Destroying people career is meant for witches .
Telling the world who he is , after he had left her ? After he stopped financing her and possibly taking her around the world?
I don’t have problem if the case was reported immediately and evidence tendered , but against the delay in her reporting it ? Or did she need to get ‘ go on ‘ from feminist or gather the evidences ?
What stopped her from reporting him immediately ? Because from her complaints , it’s not the first time he’s doing it ? Why didn’t she report him when the wounds are fresh ? Why the change of mind , now ?
Help me check where Neymar accuser is now and all that Neymar lost for that case ?
I’m happy you acknowledged the fact it was not just for ‘ justice ‘ but pull Down syndrome. Bitterness and envy kills .

I understand you used it to buttress a point but I wanted you to understand that there are context as well.

I know some stories. I tell some now. There are other stories I will gladly tell if the subject becomes popular. The goal is to tell the world who he is and to pull him down. He is responsible for his actions and I am merely alerting the world to it. You are blaming the wrong person.

Dmacqh:
I love the courteousness you used in mentioning me . You are a good person .
For all the things I wrote , you choose abortion , that’s good . But there’s no abortion , I used it to buttress a point which is ‘ what stops people coming to me now , I’m a nobody to report me if I’d them any wrong ? At least now , I got no connection or power to divert justice , I only have my mouth .
But immediately there’s a rise in fortune , all the devils will start roaring ?
And most times , it’s not for justice but for ‘ pull Down syndrome ‘ . That’s why in marriage ‘ the priest say ‘ if you have any thing against the marriage , come forward and say or forever remain silent ‘ .
Neymar case comes to mind .

If the said abortion happened because you pressured them into having unprotected sex and they are foolish to not say no, it happened. That would be a good information for us to know, popular or not. It would be a valuable information when grace reaches you because it will generate traffic for blogs, new sites and social media. We love to consume content, bonus points if they are bad news.

I am surprised many of you pretend that this happened because he is a footballer. When we know that what he did to her happens every day and every day women come out on social media, to family, to friends to tell their stories. It doesn't make the headline because these men are not footballers. Women tell their stories every time, listen more and see you might catch some of these stories that your non-footballers and non-rich men have done to their partners. What is more surprising is acting like he is the ONLY footballer in the world.

Dmacqh:
I nearly towed the insulting line , but I remembered fighting with a mad person make same person mad .
Now you’ve cancelled ‘ the trash’ I wrote , which is my opinion, hope you’ve won award for it ?
Fighting for which right ? Why do they always target established people ? Now I’m a nobody , nobody will care to know my source of poverty ? My exes won’t come out and say how ‘ I damaged , killed , assaulted them etc . But immediately grace reaches my hardwork, they will be flying in saying how their womb got spoiled doing abortions for me ? EFCC will start looking for my source of wealth , and in cases where they found nothing , they resort to blackmail , intimidation and even harassment.
I don’t believe in punitive punishment, that’s the summary of what I wrote . If you shoot me , and Gods willing I survived even if the gunshot injured me , and you are caught , I won’t even agree if the judge sentences you to death . If you die what’s my gain ? Will it make me live better or what ?

He is going to Prison FC. He is ruined. He is done. His career and life are out of the door. You can wail, you can cry. He is DONE!!!

ViperAda:
I should feel sorry and be responsible for my stupidity if I allowed your filthy and never-do-well hands on me after proving you could not only slap a man but could also stab to death. You are less than a dog when you go back eating up the vomit.

You see, the female gender is the most greedy, stupid, self seeking & confused set of subhumans to have walked the surface of the earth.


-Viper

Good question. The same way you jumped into conclusion he might not be the one. Give it a few days.

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Starzo:
And how do you know he's actually the one in the audio?? or don't you know these things can be doctored??

What for forensic report to confirm he's actually the one in the audio before jumping to conclusions

Bride price doesn't mean you own a woman. It is sympolic. It is 2022. You can't own a human being. It is 2022, assault is a crime. Marriage is not an excuse to rape your wife.

Any argument to the contrary, you are also saying I can as well buy a human being and treat him with utmost disregard because his parents collected five kolanuts from me.

Agbegbaorogboye:
What do you think of the paying of bride price?

Unless you are saying an action been be erased. If it has happened, it happened. For example, I slapped your stupid face and then pet you later, would my latter action erased that slap?



Mason won't treat you nicely for sticking up for him.

ViperAda:
-Viper
1.What happens between the period between the rape and the consensual sex?. Why would she give consent for subsequent sex and raised an allegation aftet a gap in period?

-Viper

When they say a gf or wife doesn't owe their partner sex. It means you don't rape them because they don't want to have sex with you.

There is nothing westernised about anti-rape rhetorics. A culture that advises you hurt your wife because she doesn't want to have sex with you, is a culture fit for animals.

ViperAda:
" your wife doesn't owe you sex"- this is one hell of a trash I read up there in the comments section. If she doesn't owe him sex and he goes out to get one, you'd still accuse him of cheating. Can we also agree a man doesn't owe his wife sex?. This is one of the new narratives the west are pushing down our throats in the media to erode our African conservativeness and recalibrate our African women into rebellious converts.

There is an audio recording but you still wan form devil's advocate.

Starzo:
And how do you know he raped her?? have u seen video proofs or were you there when it happened??

How is setting a rapist up a bad thing? Did she send you a DM asking for your pity?

AfroKnight:
He will learn his lesson the hard way.

I feel no pity for the girl though. She chose to remain in the abusive relationship. Listening to her during tha recording shows how cunning she is. She set him up neatly.

A bf can rape his gf one day

Both have consensual sex the next day

Break up two years later

It doesn't erase the rape happened. It doesn't matter whether she is messed up. It happened. It happened. It bloody happened.

vanida6:
Don't forget she's he's ex'' am not surprised about this, some ladies can go extra mind when they re heartbroken. she probably went him back nd he does not, so she has to do something that will tarnish his career

He ruined his life all by himself. Twist it all you can, rape apologist. He used his two filthy hands to ruin his life.

Rape is not a class issue. Are you always this stupid or you are trying aiming higher today?

LesbianBoy:
Btw, when we talk now, SIMPS will think we no like women. But the BITTER TRUTH is that, as a man (especially when you are rich) you have to be careful with that gender if not THEY WILL RUIN YOUR LIFE.

Forget all that blackmail....."respect women don't you have a mother, do what women want, listen to women bla bla bla...."

Omo, if dem show you pepper eh, your eyes go clear

This guy life and career has been ruined before it even started.

From his tone, it's like he has spent so much money on her and now it was time to have sex she is refusing him.

This is what happens when you want to personalize a HOE. He is a rich footballer. He should have just left her alone and go and meet other girls.

Now see what he has done to himself

Better be but this doesn't sound good

Mariangeles:
They probably weren't always that way.

How do you end up with people like this?

We have normalised older ones taking up responsibilities that should never have been theirs in the first place.

Mariangeles:
When the older one is always expected to take care of the younger ones, who takes care of the older one?

You will be shocked by op's brother's side of the story.

Where is the sense?

Loewe:
I know they will come for him instead of seeing the sense in his post...

Now you have removed all doubts about your intelligence . Do you know what quora is? Wheb did phrases become scientific?

You can at least answer the questions despite your lack of intelligence. your mum uglier than she used to be? Is she uglier than your dad?

machote:
Always do your research
P.S:Google is your friend

Older women look better than older men. Look at your parents, is your mum uglier? Is she particularly uglier than your dad?

machote:
The older women get the uglier they get. aka The Wall. aka Women age like milk. aka Father Time at work.

The wall doesn't care how much "you feel like a new born" or how many surgeries or work outs you do. Anyway, she still looks better than before. We all have to take care of our bodies.

Isn't there a difference between Mushrikun and People of the books?

Lol. With that infantilisation, they should be looking for women with daddy issues.

pocohantas:
It is okay to console yourself. If the desirability of an older man is WISDOM, my uncle with classic nuggets would be married to the most premium woman. The 42yrs old vulcanizer would easily marry a graduate from a middle class home.

Please don’t slip into delusion. The desirability of an older man is financial stability. I understand that these young girls would tell you anything for iPhone, but remove that your money, then check how many stay.

So you think a young girl of 25 from a stable home would marry you at 47 because you are wise? Then start jumping Obalende bus with you? You can’t be this slow naw.

They should put him in the same cell as Kanu. They can form brothers in bigotry and hate association.

You are not a fucking sex psychologist!

EmmyDJourno:
Story, sexual Psychology is deep ehhen, not for immature minds to understand and is not subject to this relationship justice you are trying to preach
The woman needs to pull him back to save her marriage, he needs help, might not even know it and she has to be his light at the end of the tunnel
All this your grandstanding solves nothing and I don't want to continue this conversation with you

ChiomaCa

He can pay 380 for prostitutes, He can afford a couple of therapies in a week. Give it a couple of months then do an accountability check. Seek help and priotise your mental health. Figure out the cost of the possibile scenarios including the cost or benefit to yourself as a person and your children'sand make a decision. It isn't your fault your man turned out this way.

It MIGHT not could

She is under no duty to unearth these fantasies that he didn't discuss with her or become his object of fantasy. I see it as a form of blackmail like it is either she acts as a prostitute and enjoy anal sex to keep her man, remain stick and miserable or leave. None of us know how wild his fantasises run, we don't even know if he likes having multiple prostitutes too. Are we going to ask her to change her name, her hair, her voice every blessed day to satisfy his urges.

Ultimately, he is the one with the power to decide whether he wants to keep his marriage. For that he need to seek help, stick to it and she can choose to support that if that is what she wants as well.

EmmyDJourno:
Madam your husband is going through a Sexual Psychological Disorder

He doesn't want to have sex with you coz you don't satisfy his fantasy

Discuss with him and findout what he prefers sexually, it could even unearth your own sexual desires you never knew existed

Walk this path with him patiently, his recovery would be slow but assured