₦airaland Forum

confessionsad:
My younger sister has recently begun spending time with a neighbor in our apartment complex, a situation I find troubling. Despite her assurances that their friendship is harmless and she understands what she's involved in, I have reservations. This neighbor, who is part of a confra, engages in drug use, smoking hemp, taking Colorado among other concerning behaviors, and my sister has been increasingly involved with his circle of friends, which has greatly influenced her behavior and character

Over the past year, my concern for my sister has grown as I've noticed a shift in her attitude and behavior, which seems influenced by her new acquaintances. Our conversations about this issue have led to tension between us. Recently, this tension escalated into a physical altercation of me hitting her, which I deeply regret. Following our confrontation, my sister sought the assistance of the boy, who, along with his friends, retaliated against me. This situation left me feeling isolated and unsure of what just happened

I have reached out to our parents for support, but so far, they have not intervened in a way that has led to a resolution. It feels as though I am being positioned as the problem for trying to address these concerns. Despite the challenges, my primary goal remains to find a way to ensure my sister's safety and well-being, even as it seems we've drifted apart since she started associating with this group.

RushManni:
I stand to lose nothing. The real story is that these people were like leech. My dad who use to sponsor them is late. And could you believe, that open arms he welcomed them with, they have overcrossed the boundary.

Imagine stuff of my dad, I'm being threatened by these people concerning it.

And these are aunties and empowering their children (who of course have their own fathers ) to be choking eyes in stuff that is mine.

I can't understand people advising me to avoid to stand for what is mine cos of the danger they feel comes from stuff as assets such as lands.

I mean this is the height of provocation. And I'm willing to go all in. I just need to do it the best way and most effective way, not also making it look like I'm fighting with whom I should be fighting with.

I'm weighing to jail every single of them .... To curtail this. And leave them there to rot.

These people are leeches and arrogantly bold ones.

More like if they feel u don't have them in mind yo help them, they resort to dragging stuff that's rightfully yours with you.

Like I can't get it.... I can't be pushed to do stuff by another. Especially as this economy is.

Have to put an end to this rubbish before it tarnishes my confidence as a man. Period.

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Meektunz:
The picture below is a building of a Baptist church and a mosque built together in Adebayor street, Jos. It has been there since the 80's... There has been a lot of religious crises in Jos where many churches and mosques were burnt but nothing has ever happened to this particular one.

BeninRefugees:
The price of everything has gone up

inflation is all time high


NASS BUDGET & NIGERIAN WORKERS' MONTHLY MINIMUM WAGE

NASS Budget || Minimum Wage
1999: ₦2.2bn || ₦3,000
2000: ₦29.5bn || ₦7,500
2011: ₦111bn || ₦18,000
2018: ₦139.5bn || ₦30,000
2019: ₦128bn || ₦30,000
2020: ₦128bn || ₦30,000
2021: ₦134bn || ₦30,000
2022: ₦139bn || ₦30,000
2023: ₦228.1bn || ₦30,000
2024: ₦344.9bn || ₦30,000

In the 2024 Budget, estimated monthly entitlement:
Senator: ₦37.57 million
HoRep Member: ₦18.20 million

Minimum Wage of Nigerian Worker: ₦30,000

our minimum wage is one of the lowest in the world at $21 per month yes you heard that ! $21!

but our national assembly budget moved from

moved from ₦228.1B to ₦344.9B from 2023-2024

That's a ₦116.8B difference

the highest ever in Nigerian history


but our minimum wage is still ₦30,000 some states are not even paying upto the amount


which way Nigeria


Credit: StatiSense

Nemesis0147:
I really don’t understand why someone will be planing for marriage when you are not ready yet.

I have been added to almost 5 WhatsApp groups of committee of friends and all the weddings are going down this Easter period…
Creating group for financial support because you want to get married is doesn’t make sense to me at all…
If you don’t support now…they will tag you all sort of names
This is blackmailing abeg.

Rapsowdee01:
A Nigerian man @TOLUSHE on Twitter/X has taken on the platform to share a surprise he got from his landlord's family after the landlord's demise some months ago.

The letter has received various reactions on the social media platform. While some felt there's nothing wrong with it, others are surprised at the audacity in which it was done.




https://twitter.com/T0LUSHE/status/1767476021261955253?t=bqset0OXYBOXEfh6Cx4DLw&s=19[/quote]No contribute shishi. Just start prepping your money to rent some where else in case they decide to give you quit notice!

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Young Nigerian Appreciates His Girlfriend For Transforming His Diet Routine



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Tonytonex:
na wa oh. Another pesin dey cheat, na another person come dey die for her sin.

Testiebobo:
As a drummer, i was invited to one church to perform for their upcoming concert.
So in one of their rehearsals, their choir mistress was just staring at my face, and i wasn't comfortable with it. So after the rehearsal, she called me privately and told me that my hairstyle was ungodly and that the church might not want to permit me entry into the church on the choir concert day. And that the pastor will not want strangers to pollute and corrupt the minds of their youths.
Lo and behold, on the concert day i came to the church with my fade out hairstyle, like a handsome nigga i walked towards the church main door, and one skeleton usher didn't allow me to gain entry for the concert, pointing at my head repeatedly. Majestically, i walked away happily. I don chop 10k with no stress , their lazy youths could not produce a drummer. Emi ti jelo temi

BeautifulSolace:
Don't know, maybe because of some videos and stuffs I read online.

faceland:
Even as a child, we were like family with neighbors but only eat their food on Christmas Day Visitation. This one is eating steadily and didn't expect gossip to start flying (never once met the man to thank him for the food, probably offer to teach the children in exchange). This is humiliating a working man in his own neighborhood. And he has a car.

Most of the people in the forum would prefer the pleasure of a tasty food over sex.

cococandy:
why couldn’t you wait the 5 days and use the complete money to buy the land then?


What’s wrong with some of you.

judatech:
Nigerian lawyer...care-giver for Yankee...
5 years of schooling in Nigeria...
What's a caregiver called in Nigeria Abeg?
Nigeria happened to her!

Olaolar:
you can't even post pictures. Lol

Olaolar:
I wanna make agreement with my girlfriend inlaws ..
To pay bride price instalment..

I will pay advance , carry the girl go,after she give birth firstborn. I will pay half again.
If she con born second &third born i will round up the pay ..
So i need who will be my shortee.
Economy do hard and about to dew for marriage ..

stevestifler:
A woman wanted to travel & to see her sibling who invited her because they'd not seen in more than a year & her husband says no. She involves her parents & pastor & even her best friend, they all have different opinions. Some said go, some said stay.

As a married woman, whose words should be taken in highest regards?

1. Her siblings that she's spent all her life with
2. Her parents that gave birth to her
3. Her pastor that sees visions & guides her spiritually
4. Her husband
5. Her best friends that she's known from childhood

Let's have matured responses from experienced and responsible nairalanders.

Fireboy02:
I can supply to u, I base in Ebonyi state

Astra101:
There are two possible scenarios here.

1 it's either she did Hymenoplasty surgery. Or

2 She is only sexually satisfied through anal sex. Some ladies won't tell you this as their husband just to avoid the unthinkable.

During courtship, sexual compatibility should be prioritise. Discuss your sexual fantasies with your intended partner, what you like and what you don't like should be communicated to each other so that issues such as these will not affect the marriage in the future.

Open up! Don't hide your feelings and sex fantasies.

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