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@Zaynie mummy Atinuke... I see you in 5D.
Happy bumping

Liftedhands:
I'm good o, Ekenes sister is on her way soon. Abeg do and give Ayo a sister Biko nice reading from you again

Yaaaaaaay congrats! Wish you happy bumping and safe delivery.

Ayo would get one when the time is right

to Ekene

Liftedhands:
Mummy Ayomide!!! Is this you? How are you and Bobo Ayo? Long time sis.

We are fine o, howz Ekene? Hope you have a baby sister for him already o
I'm on pregnancy suspension o, so I've not been following any of the threads.
Hope you are good too?

chizeal:
You made my day Grt8fulHeart.


Almost shed tears seeing my moniker ,dnt believed am still remembered.
Team September 2016, am well,strong ,better, though edey pain me oo, but God put another bigger smile on my face ,I had another joy.


Cappo Sugar or Sugah, lifetedh.ands, mit.chy, pretty.mom,jazzyj.azz,preeg.ygee,enej.eta,goldenr.uby,, all team 2016 I hail ooo,so much love from me to you all

Congratulations Chizeal. May God bless and keep your LO.

Somebodydaddy01:
Thanks for that...I have a bussiness here ..I sell cars and I promote shows and work for the government

So if her kids are not allowing her come visit you in Nigeria, would they now allow her come live here when you do finally marry her?
So it means, at some point, you would have to relocate to the abroad to live with her...that's a migrant intention.

Crying for 5hours could lead to high blood pressure and depression . Let her bring the kids to Dubai and you meet them there. She doesn't need a visa to enter Dubai and the kids are on summer holiday too.

emailaddy:
pls na edakun?

Earliest dates:
Lagos: November 28th
Abuja: October 19th

Bolamike:
Every details originated from my boss. We have an immigrant lawyer and the lawyer was the one who told us to go ahead with it that way. What are my chances?

Again, like the other person said, you are asking on the wrong thread. This thread is for visiting visas not work/immigration Visas...no one would be able to tell what your chances are as experiences shared here are for B visas.

Momo13:
Hi people! My previous visit to the us I stayed with my sister who no longer lives there (diplomat visa things). I'm applying for renewal and the question about immediate relative pops up. I feel that I should state no but hubby thinks they may view that as a lie and deny based on that or call for interview which I dont have the luxury of time for.

Please advise. Thanks

So your sister no longer lives in the US, right? Then the answer should be No.
Saying yes to the answer is a misrepresentation and besides they can easily check and see your sister no longer lives there....

GoodFaith:
U said marriage is we
fully understood that but your other view you error

Learn to read to understand.
Cheers!

GoodFaith:
that is your narrow view. Please open ur mind what about using it show that his family need little support
from him and his wife, why the wife family is well off doesn't need their support
family is
wife, husband and kids
but we must not forget that
we have aging father and mother that we have responsibility too.
Our parents was our rock and they made us the person we are today
Are you telling me he should watch is father bad health and do nothing?
You know what u just directly said to me as a father is that i should put myself above my kids
to enable I don't need my kids at my old age.
Should I pay 100% school fee for my kids?
or just 50% and the kid can go get the other 50% loan for school

Unfortunately you are the one with a narrow mind and either not understanding my post or just being prejudiced. Go back and read my initial post, the first paragraph to be precise.
At no point did I condemn his taking care of his father's ailing health, so there's no need for the attempt at a sermon you are preaching.

ImaIma1:
Your comment is really insightful and deep.

They both need to see each other as one...a unit...a family.

Yes. They are only seeing each other as business partners not a unit and it's the man's responsibility to make sure his family is a unit.

GoodFaith:
You made some sense in your above comment but you was narrow minded
here
"he was from a more financially stable background but you brought it up even though it added no value to the issue at hand. Deal with your complex problems else it would destroy your home."
He above statement was to make the readers understand that there are different need for wife's family and his family
He did ask his wife before using part of his money to send his father for a medical treatment

His mentioning it only displayed his complex issues, like I said earlier it did not add or change the narrative of the issue at hand.
Also like I said, the foundation of the marriage is wrong and if it isn't fixed they would keep having issues.
Maybe you should help him answer this question; @ bolded, who is his family?

cococandy:
If he accuses me of cheating, then I’ll try to find out why he thinks I’m cheating. No one wakes up and accuses another of cheating. What led to that? If I were him, I’d focus on proving to her that I didn’t cheat. Over-reacting and tantrum throwing is a way of trying to stop the wife from digging deeper into the cheating issue. If there’s nothing to indicate that he might be involved with another lady inappropriately, she won’t accuse him of it.

As for @bold, Keep manufacturing things that no one said.

I also do think the man is cheating.
He has found a small girl and he is acting the big God. But the wife has decided to overlook his philandering ways and work on her marriage so I wish them the best.

MIKOLOWISKA:
so his parents not his family? or what is all this nonsense you're typing

Read what you have written and ask yourself who's typing nonsense.

sweetrie:
IT WAS A HUGE HELP. Found the Info, I was right. Thank so much!!

Yes, you fill your details as the one filling the form.

pacesetting:
Whoever you are, you have completely nailed this issue. You just wrote virtually everything I had in my mind. I've read the two sides of the story. And as you rightly pointed out, OP wants to destroy his family. Unknowing to him, he's just being selfish and wicked to his children.

He should be thanking God he has a wife who could think up a smart business idea for both of them to invest together. He is here claiming property he doesn't even have any right to own. As a man, I find it hard to believe that some men in this current generation are still living like our fore fathers. No wonder most rich people would rather marry people in their class than marry people who will never get rid of their inferiority complex.

@Bolded, I was going to add that to my write up. It's very true.

Unfortunately though, I think the man has found a woman he feels he is more superior to and who is probably grovelling at every cents handed down to her he now is eager to do away with his independent minded wife. The success/failure of his marriage lies with him.

ExtraExtra and HEseesall
The foundation of your marriage is flawed. In marriage there's no I, me, my share, his share. You went into a biz and shared the profits into his and hers instead of ours. Assuming you had the profits as "ours" then taking part of it to take care of an ailing father and using the rest to build your house wouldn't leave doubts as to whose name should be on the house documents.
ExtraExtra your faults are plenty.
1. You have inferiority complex. Your wife, in her write up, did not mention she was from a more financially stable background but you brought it up even though it added no value to the issue at hand. Deal with your complex problems else it would destroy your home.
2. You are not nuclear family oriented. Yes you are the first son so you still have a responsibility for your extended family but you don't do that at the detriment of your nuclear family. Your wife bought and built a property to completion and you are only just finding out the details of the documentation? How unconcerned were you exactly I understand putting health first in cases of emergency but afterwards you went ahead to complete your father's house before adding the change to your own house? You should be grateful to your wife for covering up your weaknesses. At least she's more family oriented and built a home for you and your kids.
3. If you are having a heated argument with your wife, the reasonable thing to do is to excuse yourself from the situation. Go out to a bar, have a drink or two to cool off then return home to a calmer atmosphere and discuss the issue. How on Earth do you ask a woman to leave the house during an argument (forget that your joking b.s, I'm not buying it)? Where do you expect her to go to cool off?
4. This one goes back to your not being nuclear family oriented.... you have already gone ahead to report the situation in your home to your extended family and even your wife didn't do it. Now you are making unreasonable ultimatums just so you can satisfy your bruised ego or at least prove to your extended family members that you wear the trousers in your home.
5. You are not willing to keep your home and you are taking for granted the fact that your wife is willing to do anything to keep the home. You have applied for a transfer to another state because of this issue? Did you consider what the move would do to your children? Have you even thought about anyone else except yourself in this issue?

HEseesall,
Learn not to make assumptions (you assumed he would know the property was in your name)... communicate! Communicate!! Communicate!!!
Agree to put the property in his name and if he doesn't change his stance about it, that's having both your names on it, then consider your stance in the marriage. Unfortunately you married a man who doesn't understand what marriage is about or the relationship between marriage and Christ so you either chose to carry your cross and make it work or seek professional help.

All the best.

Opinionated:
Water

Air travel can dehydrate you, among other physical side effects, but know that you do not need to buy water at the airport. Instead, you should keep a water bottle with on you. Since you can’t have liquids during a security check, you just pack an empty bottle water in your carry on. This way, you can just fill it up whenever you can.

Source: Things You Should Never Buy at the Airport

L

You obviously copied this off a foreign blog.
How and where would you get the water to fill your bottle at Nigerian airports?

Holla3110:
Thanks LadyG for your swift response, please advise if I should try to visit UK before reapplying and if I confess for misinterpretation hope this won't affect my ever visiting the US.. thank you

You have to come clean First, set the records straight then when you have genuine reasons for being you in the US you can reapply again.
Unfortunately, a wedding photoshoot means you plan to go and work not vacation...so the B1/B2 visa isn't the right category at this time.
Or is it?

LadyGuinivere:
Leader of the mop gang.
Information reaching me is that he's waiting for you at poe o! Be very afraid

Izz not serious like that o brother tkpako.

Na to begin carry otumokpo follow body to POE win am be that

AfonjaBoston:
You cleaned my tiger jisos are you a lion?
My tiger is now lonely in the scary dark woods

Plix I wasn't part of the mop action.

I only axed a kweshun.

LadyGuinivere:
OK. Una whey done with the puns. Lol

it's a lazy kinda Saturday

lollipop29:
My wife would be going to the US soon for delivery. Pls what are the Nigerian foods that she can go with that won’t pose a problem at the point of entry and also, what is the best packaging method we should use for these food items ?

Thanks in advance for your response

You might want to visit here:
https://help.cbp.gov/app/answers/detail/a_id/1272/~/food---general-food

For packaging, Ziploc bags!. Neatly packed and labelled (optional)

AfonjaBoston:
Seems like the "mop" gang has succeeded in chasing my tiger into the woods

I won't take this ooo

I guess he was very properly cleaned.

seyewest:
My question is this, What will happen if nothing was done to her visa at POE (No stay extension) can she stay in U.S legally till Jan meanwhile her visa will expire in Nov.

A visa grants you access to show up at the POE and request access into the US (or any country).., the length of stay granted each time you present yourself is at the discretion of the CBP at the POE.
So if you have 1 month left on your visa, you can show up at the POE. Wether the CBP stamps you in for 6months or less is at his discretion but staying for 4months is NOT illegal.
The length of stay granted at the POE is not dependent on the time left on the visa.

There are 2 -3 specific monikers that come around periodically to confidently and arrogantly spill utter rubbish.
I think they do it for fun and to rile people up.

Uglyaddy:
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She is an online ADC to him.

...

Hopefully it's getting paid commensurately for the troubles

zeeLady:
zeeLady:
Good morning. Okay let's have some break from all these brouhaha.......

Question
Can I reschedule my Visa Interview to a closer date without any consequences?





Please answer ooo......

Madam somebody answered you already. Kindly check your mentions