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No! YOu will regret itr if you do so. I had a terrible experience already

I think the prophet made juju ( those bullet proof juju) and they wanted to confirm the juju. Why didn't anyone of you think about this scenerior? I should be with the CSI So they argued and wanted to test it. He should have choosen is leg though

Shared bedroom is what works for me. She almost hated me cos I was bringing the laptop to the bed. Texting all night because I have to keep up with some partners in different country with different time zone. I'm in Nigeria and have to keep in-touch globally. I work from home and obviously she doesn't like it , so I just created another room an office in the house now and separated our bedrooms. There is no point not allowing her to have sound sleep because I have to work at odd hours. And she can't stand it when i talk to any woman , I mean any woman !!!! Even if we talking the deal of my life.

I'm an advocate of privacy, separate rooms etc and this is what can work for my situation

Little privacy is required. But it depends on the level openness you both have. For example not everybody can cope with some information. If you have a wife that thinks about how to spend money alone whenever she notice you just got paid etc you will like to hide little of that information fort he better of both of you and the kids. If you work involves meeting a lot of people plus meeting ladies, and your wife is a jealous type.

So I think this thing depends on individual situation. For me privacy is required , we have separate rooms. We rendezvous when we want in my room.

This is stupid. NOrmally police have never required to get warrants before taking actions before. Neither do they charge a person to court than to first give the beating of his life

One person will over-do and there goes your relationship out the window. Well its not a bad idea. You may consider polygamy too

This guy is going to go free I can bet with the aid of good lawyer. Plus the police thinks we are stupid they just generate names in the news Okonkwo doesn't have a SURNAME ? what type of bullshit is this

The LASMA story sounds false. IF its broken down then it shouldn't move lol. They once towed my vehicle i taught it was stolen lol.

And better still keep him away from all female in the house ; your daughters and wife

Let it be no harm in it. She'll do it and then stop it. I mean out-grow it. When she start getting the real deal atleast. That wont be my problem with my sons as long as they dont do it publicly/iuncontrollablly. There are several things to worry about than you kids masturbating. I rather have them masturbate than bring home STD. Plus kids will never tell you when infected

People say mastuubating is good to ease of stress or when you can't really get the real thing. But in the case of a married woman who claims she didn't even know when she was doing it,  claiming she was asleep all the while even till heavenly feeling; and its been happening atleast a 7th time. Could it be denial or spiritual problem? Is it possible to be self-servicing while sleeping without knowing? And still denying wet dreams or consciousness of the indulgence.

I'm not against mastubating but just against someone in denial. I've read Nigerian Christians talk about spirit husband and wives could it be such case? Because there are lots of things I dont believe spiritually. Or maybe they're just over-rated myths.

Any inputs?

No number to reach you on harakiri and you will have to come to ojota

Yeah my stay has been nice , Yeah the travel guides are scary they tell you you'll get robbed blah blah like you gonna get robbed from the airport. Beautiful country. Nigeria can't be like this in 100 years . I wish we waited long enough for eyinbos to develop our country well enough , can't believe i'm still in Africa; looks EU. Though i'm bored already I've seen lots of places in 14days so i reshedule my flight i'm leaving SA in 2days more can't spend a whole 30days here lol. plus its expensive to keep doing that

Anyone visit Pretoria? like Sunny Side where Yoruba is spoken like every corner? lol funny. ANd some part of Jburg I was is like Igbo township they even contesting for Igwe and stuff.

He should be allowed to just pay restitution

Freaking cold any Nigerians gonna be watching tomorrow match? Nobody yet to upload live pictures lol. Not sure i'm leaving my hotel room.

My flight ticket is booked for 19th if you still wanna sell the match tickets contact me via email majormediainc at gmail

That car can never be 06 get your facts right. You will sell regardless no need lie+hype

The other gun na him paddy own the guy quickly enter mama put make him chop garri and egusi soup. He can't catch up with the guy with two guns man. He might get angry and fire one of them though

Topic has been blowned out of proportion , my son is not that bad!!! I'm only saying he does this things daring at times. And I understand he's a kid but quite daring. He's just a little daring than his older brother that goes by instruction word for word all by the book.

Dont touch it! He'll dare you and touch! He knows the consequences though and he's getting better. And I'm working on him. He's not that bad only that I was comparing him to his older brother. I didn't know this topic will make it to head liine and now people come to talk about spiritual shitt and giving my son depressant drugs!! My father never did non of that to me or my siblings.

I've seen good advices and bad ones. I'm an adult and I know which of the advices will work for the situation. But I thank you all for contribution.

By the way what time will a 2years old stop waking up in the middle of the night and knocking your bedroom door like 'My daddy, my daddy, my mummy, then comes to sleep on your bed (his best position between the husband and wife).

And @one of the poster. Yeah my kids go to school with the school bus is that bad? I can't combine work and everything have to take them to school and pick them up. I'm not that rich to have a driver do that.

And true talk I'm trying to ban African Magic in my house I think I should use the password thing on the decoder. I don't like it and don't want my kids growing with that mentality of juju and unnecessary spiritual myths they show in those station.

Thanks everyone though, I was just wondering if other people have daring kids like mine.

LOL @ mortgage free house. Anyone got mortgage in naija? we all PAID CASH DOWN !!!! Brute CASH on car, house and other big purchases.

@dejia can you contact me via thiis email majormediainc at gmail . com please need to ask you some questions

Yeah fighting , but I wasn't like that. Though my younger ones fought a lot but I taught it was because they where twins back then and wont respect each other

This is no joke because before you know it the yeye people will be here with all sorts of talk and this is my son I'm talking about.

I have a two year old son that I think is mean. Here is the break down: When he was younger he seldom smiles  with anybody (like his mum ) ,  But then I hope things will be better and try as much as possible to be his best friend in the house. The only time he enjoys with me is when we wrestle (fighting wrestling)  on the bed and all sought of tough play; i.e I slam him on bed gbish, give him upper cut etc (I get tired first); even his elder brother can't handle this type of play. Now we are good buddies but this guy is easy to offend and he's just two years old!!!

1. You cant correct him. Or advice him on his choice. i.e when he wants to select cloths. Or when he says he wants something. He always tries to find his way and doesn't get tired of crying ,  he can't loop is cry for hours.

2. He's kinda bully in school ; nobody messes with him in class. i.e the day we forgot to have his juice in food pack his class mates saw hell . And his class teacher warned us not to ever do that again 

3. Yeah lets say someone hurt him in the house he keeps it on his mind till he releases vengeance on any unsuspecting person or original offender (vengeance could be simple kick but  you will see he'll be happy he did it and leave the scene)

4. He got energy and sleeps late. Very restless he wont allow himself to be belted when in the car . And can't stand staying in one place for too long. Yeah is body will start hitching him; and he'll do something.  His fingers must touch something or break it. Will wander the whole house at night when he's suppose to be tired and asleep. Then hates early morning wake up for school bus.

I'm not sure smacking him all the time like his mom does will work (though they resemble in character; I don't know why she beats him even when she herself is mean and can't take corrections)

lol the funny part this boy always have boil I think its because his mean . Like how Pinocchio nose grows longer when he lies. Boil comes up on his face when he's mean at someone.

I'm making this post just now because he codedly was stepping on his elder brother loose shoe laces either to make him fall or something :

His elder brother his the opposite, very gentle; obedient; once corrected wont do the same thing again etc

Anybody have experience with mean kids? Or advices on how to help him get softer or maybe he's just a kid and will outgrow this?

Anything soul from Maxwel, Jaheim, Musiq, Erykah badu, Anthony Hamilton, Babyface, Calvin Richardson, Jill Scot, Dwelle, Jazzy Fantasies I can hear those for a lifetime. And some real old soul from Sam Cooke, Al Green , Temptation, Stevie W.

Any fine ass lady can become my girlfriend if she does soul

Then we should have sponsored media house run large campaigns. Damn almost impossible our shitty leaders. Thats why Al Jazeera always getting introuble with the west media

Its worse in Nigeria.

1. Driving while young and rich (police brute),  Police arrests you without warrant or real reason forcefully take bribe or else waste all your time. I've spent more than 6hrs with this bleeps because i dont wanna pay bribe. Eventually did so I could go. Police, FRS, Lasma, Kai  most corrupt gangs. Authorized thieves; Bigger than all the university cults and more powerful lol.

2. High rate Tribalism. Yoruba landlords wont take Igbo tenants ; I'm sorry to say these though; I've witness a lot of very stubborn Igbo tenants give my grandma problems with her houses. I dont know if it has to do with tribe or its individual. But the rates are higher with them. I.e as I believe Hausa people are more loyal people.

3. Looking affluent is bad you can't go to the market they'll sell stuffs ridiculously expensive to you. Those market people know just by seeing (this is a stupid rich Bleep). no price standardization. And make sure you Range is packed 10 blocks away from the market.

4. Generally no TRUST amongst Nigerians we even rip ourselves badly. Even within the same family. They'll say 'Na because na you o! if no be you I know they do ham for that price' but still you have been ripped badly

5. Insurance doesn't pay out. They'll try their best to find your flaw and use contract against you

6. No business bureau. Even so called big companies rip you off. Have you ever put your diary products on scale and check the real weight? Or you buy coke that is half filled and can't be returned :p or telephone company stealing your credits. Bank charging you for no reason. Lol and fake stocks. Nigerian companies just increase share value without backing capital. i.e 70% of bank stocks and the biggest scam in Naija 'TRANSCORP'. Just like ENRON (America).

7.  And do you notice the soldiers in Lagos are mostly Northerners and the ones in say Kaduna are Yoruba. I overhead some Yoruba soldiers in Kaduna talking about they brutally beat some mallams up and called them 'eranko oshi' And same happen to us in Lagos when mopo beats southerners for no reason

8. No justice system. Its all the way guerrilla. You use your fist to settle matter like a barbarian instead of a civil court.

9. First to report to police station wins the case , now police station is our court.

10. Big discrimination amongst class. You will constantly hear words like do you know WHO I'M ?  I'll get you locked up! As if his younger brother is the CHIEF JUSTICE

Everyday i'm hustling! Everyday i'm hustling!!!! Lol she was getting her papers. BUt didn't those men where on viagra

shitty picture! thats an old man , around 46 by my aging dictector

Same day! for me

Because of alimony / palimony. , We dont wanna PAY or split my estates