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Culture › Re: American Women That Marry Nigerian Men by Theblessed(f): 7:56pm On Jul 17, 2009

Nwaka77:
My sister, don't mind that confused ignoramus who calls herself agathamari. If she is not on this forum bad mouthing Nigerians and Nigeria, then she is busy bad mouthing the man she married like anyone forced her to marry him in the first place. And then if it is not that, she is disrespectfully making inappropriate comments about the private parts of other women. She is not worth communicating with. The topic is about American women who marry Naija men and not Asian women and the shape of their punanies. She cannot stick to the topic of the thread for nothing. Please, my sister ignore her and engage in conversations with intelligent folks on this forum who have something meaningful to contribute. Stay Blessed and keep the posts coming.

Thanks my dear sister for airing your views about this 'Oke Nkita' of a woman. Too sorry for the Nigerian brother that didn't know what to do with his life in the States and end up with this Trash, that has no class. The sad thing is that, the Igbo brother even brought this thing home to Nigeria, what a pity!! Goes to show, people would do anything for money and security probably, the reason he ended up with a woman that seems to have gone through 10 husbands in a row. No wonder, he sleeps around searching for a decent lady whilst she ends up on N/L shouting about it and, seeking our sympathy. Shows the calibre of a woman she is - a shameless ignorant.

Politics › Re: Non Indegenes Going Through Hell In Kano. by Theblessed(f): 3:38pm On Jul 17, 2009

Fhemmmy:
So only the Northerners has stolen money?
How about the Yorubas and the Igbos?

Ok, shall we compare the size of the money pot stolen by each tribal group to identify the CHIEF THIEVES who have brought our country to its knees in poverty, shall we?

Family › Re: Can You Get Married To Your Cousin? by Theblessed(f): 3:14pm On Jul 17, 2009

Is it how your mind operate? Hmmm! Your thought process is extremely devilish - too deviant for our culture and most cultures of this world. Who knows what else you'd come up with next time?

Whatever led you to ask this question, are you sure you are not meddling with your cousin and come up here to find out whether we would approve? Naaaaa!!!!!!!

Don't bring it here, please!!! We are no Indians or Pakistanis, ok! We are Africans with morals and we can tell good from bad, ok!

Family › Sisters In-law - a blessing or a curse? by Theblessed(op): 2:25pm On Jul 17, 2009

Positive and negative stories about sisters in-law abound like that of mothers in-law, but how nice is yours? An achiever, a blessing or a curse to the family?

Politics › Re: Non Indegenes Going Through Hell In Kano. by Theblessed(f): 11:09am On Jul 17, 2009

samparian:
Abeg, i reject that your war prediction. haba
violence will not solve anything o

Well, you may reject my prediction but at the rate this country is going, it would happen. Look at MEND fighting for the same thing - better life for everyone. How many more factions do we need in Nigeria for the Federal Government to listen and do something? Don't worry, we shall all see where all these inequalities and sufferings would lead to, won't we?

Politics › Re: Non Indegenes Going Through Hell In Kano. by Theblessed(f): 10:33am On Jul 17, 2009

[b]'One Nigeria' I hear them say, abi huh

? Now, I rest my case.

When I say each to his own and some people on N/L verbally abuse me because I have issues with inter-tribal marriages as a result of this sort of thing. I wonder who is right now. Since Nigerians don't feel safe in their own country, can not travel and work, set up businesses and have properties in other states, why consider yourselves one Nigeria?? There is no such thing as 'One Nigeria', period.

The Hausas have stolen our resources and refused to share it - what a pity!! And what is the Federal Government doing about this? And if the Federal Government kept a blind eye about this, and do nothing what else shall we do? The best thing is for us to bite the metal and do it ourselves by way of SELF-HELP - I mean develop our own areas just as someone has suggested here - our own ports, towns and cities , airports etc that way there would be no need of going to SAHARA DESERT - a dry and unfriendly soil to look for crumbles.

After that, the South would have to decide how Nigeria would be governed and I predict, another war in the horizon. But this time, it would be horrendous as there are so many dangerous weapons out there and every where you look now, I pity Nigeria.[/b]

Family › Re: Your Husband Dies While Cheating On You by Theblessed(f): 9:41am On Jul 17, 2009

[b][size=16pt]Did you call him 'HUSBAND'?

If he was husband enough why leave his side of the bed in the bedroom to some where else? Or didn't he realise the woman he was with, doesn't look like his wife - meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee huh

?

Nahhhhhhhhh! He had a choice not to go with a woman that's not his wife but he chose to. He made his choice, why would I bother with a looser? I have a choice too to make - to bury him and forget about him or let Nigerian VULTURES deal with him. As far as am concerned, VULTURES would eat his meat where ever they find his body. I won't have him disrespect and disgrace me this way, period. Who knows the disease he's passed on to his innocent wife, who knows? I am not one of these women that put up with this sort of thing. I am well brought up with balanced physical, mental and emotional well being therefore, have no psychological problems of attachment or dependency mentality that would lead me to cry about the loss or quickly replace him with someone I consider, not a cheat. With the bastard or not, I have a career - I will live my life and raise my children and he can rot in 'Hell'.

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Family › Re: Should He Take His Wife Back? by Theblessed(f): 9:09am On Jul 17, 2009

feelgood:
Great stuff, theblessed, ferdii, ndipe et al,

My brother claims their quarrel was the usual couple's stuff which was settled by a friend. He then went out for a drink with the same friend to allow tempers to cool down. A couple of hours later, he came home to find that the wife was no where to be found. Days later, after making frantic calls to her folks in Kaduna (they didnt confirm her whereabouts to him), someone called him that his wife was seen in Kaduna. When hto confirm based on thee called new info, the wife's folks ignored him. They only told him to send money for her antenatal, to which he refused as he wanted to know the clinic.

However the lady told me that my brother beat her and she ran away for fear of her life. She also said that when his mother was smitten with stroke, her mother flew down to see his mother en route to her brother's house in Lagos. My brother claims the mother didnt come to see his mother but to mock/laugh at him. And why didnt she bring along his wife? Also stated that when he mentioned his mother's state to the wife for her to come back, she wondered whether the mom was not dead yet - an accusation the wife denies. Claims and counter claims.

To the poster who wanted to know what the girlfriend did to help my brother - she helped to clean the old lady's mess and give her a regular bath amongst others I will not mention here. Taking care of a stroke patient is no piece of cake. Where was the family? Good question - but no good answer to that. I can't venture any either.

Anyway, the burial is monthend, and I will discuss with my brother with a view for him to forgive his wife and give her a chance.

Thanks for getting back to us! But I should suggest you let your brother go with his heart. Let him marry the woman that truely loves him and in my view, it's this woman that was with his mother till the end, the other was a mistake and we all make it, don't we? He mistakenly married another man's wife not realising it as the length of their courtship failed to reveal that. The wife is still young and can find another man but, you want your brother to be happy, don't you? If not for any other reason, now his mother is no longer with us. Let it be, please let it be especially, now children are not involved thus, finding themselves a victim of this difficult relationship! Let him follow his heart!!

Politics › Re: Fashola Warns Mend by Theblessed(f): 7:51am On Jul 17, 2009

Negro_Ntns:
Your people need negotiators to speak for your interest. You do not need antagonists to make it more difficult to give credit and symapthy.

I will give you example. . . MEND blows up oil facilities in Lagos. Few days later some terrorists blow up a hotel in Jakarta. The situation in Lagos makes it very easy for your struggle to play into the hands of a propagandists who might want to market you as a terrorist and disgruntled tribe.

You need negotiators. . . people who know how to tear down political barriers and deliver results. You see in US for many years the African Americans spent hours marching and protesting with placards. It became the rule to contain their protests and allow the vent. . . knowing it will soon dissipate and the country can return to normalcy"business as usual". The mainstream society held on to the upper hand. The protests were not delivering results. A new set of political radicals saw fit to begin negotiations with the powerful white ruling communities. . . and that's how the Blacks in America made inway to establishments and became effective

Hey Negro man, God bless you for saying the truth!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

MEND should use their political common sense and rethink their strategies by developing effective Network and dialogue with the powers that be. This tack of distrupting the country and economy by way of violence e.g. blowing things up can only present them as a terrorist group instead of peaceful people who only want better life for all Nigerians. No, violence would not get anything done/achieved. Destructions can only lead to Nigerians spending the little resource we have to foot the bills from all these damages when such resources can be invested in developing other areas needing serious attention in our country. Thus, it doesn't worth it! Please, MEND, rethink your strategies.

Culture › Re: Inter-tribal Relationships by Theblessed(f): 6:45am On Jul 17, 2009

Did I hear someone say something about our 'Thought process'?

Well, maybe some of our thought processes could be checked out 'ONLY' and I say 'ONLY' when we have walked a 'MILE' in other people's 'SHOES' then, we can begin to realise what they've been through and the need to focus on ones own people instead of flashing this band wagon of 'One Nigeria' when in reality, there's no such thing as one Nigeria in this country.

Culture › Re: American Women That Marry Nigerian Men by Theblessed(f): 3:24pm On Jul 16, 2009

Imagine the blind trying to lead a fully-sighted person - How RIDICULOUS!!!!!!. My own profession, that this lady is trying to inform me about on here when she hasn't got a clue and couldn't even defend her own assertion or prove it's CREDIBILITY with RESEARCH EVIDENCE - too sorry indeed. She's just opening her mouth and bringing out things no one asked her about. To be honest, there's no point trying to have a dialogue on here with an IGNORANT, no point. People are talking from their a-ses instead of using their brains. Please, be well informed, get some education and show some decency. It would do you much good, huh!

Culture › Re: Inter-tribal Relationships by Theblessed(f): 2:30pm On Jul 16, 2009

Inter-tribal?

No way! Not after what they did to us during Biafran/Nigerian civil war and even till today, we are still going through it and been marginalised by these lazy a-se holes in our own country.

Imagine, being constitutionally banned from ruling Nigeria - a country we the Igbos basically built. It's like being banned from entering your own home. Those marrying out of tribe, I consider traitors after what we went through. Better marrying a foreigner (White or black) than a Nigerian inter-tribal marriage. Call me old fashion, your problems not mine.

Culture › Re: American Women That Marry Nigerian Men by Theblessed(f): 2:50pm On Jul 15, 2009

agathamari:
@theblessed. i said vagina not ass. the vagina in most women point toward thier navel (use your finger to find out on yourself if you dont know already) oriental women point toward thier tailbones. ask any ob-gyn who has had dealings with oriental women to find out. btw oriental men member
s have a slightly different muscle structure then other men as well.

Well, lady, your commentary above sounds sweet only to an idiotic mind. Intelligent people can not be fooled by such write ups hence I ask you ONCE AGAIN please, point to your AUTHORITY and WHERE'S THE RESEARCH EVIDENCE to back up your specialist knowledge of ASIAN WOMEN fanny. I believe - NONE, ZERO so leave this matter you can not defend.
As a woman, you mustn't be making crude comments of womanhood like this. In your view, they are ASIANS but hey, they are still WOMEN, ok!

You have made so many crude and trashy comments here that's unworthy of a decent lady, leaving people on this site to assume the kind of a lady you are and the kind you associate with. You might be a nice lady but be selective of your words and how you use them. Don't just use words for the sake of it, please!!!

Culture › Re: American Women That Marry Nigerian Men by Theblessed(f): 1:34pm On Jul 15, 2009

IGWE_USA:
TheBLESSED, I used to hold your previous posts on this forum with high regards with the believe that it's being dished out by an authority.

But the above post, typed by you, says other wise. Infact, it depicts the apogee of ignorance on your part as an igbo woman. I wont care

to know your state of origin in the east neither will I engage you in a debate to prove you wrong because it will be a grotesque display of

my decorum as an Anambra guy.

On a second thought, I hope that I just exchanged words with an AKATA that doen't even know where Nigeria is, talkless of ANAMBRA STATE.

[b]Thanks for your high intelligence!!!! Is this how you resolve issues huh

? By way of insults? Thought you're far better than this - living in Democracy or should I say Autocracy? Freedom of speech, eh!! It sounds like GREEK where you are, eh huh

?? However, your moto confirms all I said and who you really are - money conscious and money minded hence forget your SOUL and, God! YOU SEE, WE'LL LEAVE IT ALL BEHIND WHEN WE DIE - MICHAEL JACKSON and others did. So, all these struggle, does it really worth it huh

And your assertion 'AKATA' actually, shows your sub-consious mind - a very, very scared and insecure man - intimidated by strong independent and beautiful women. Hey body, CHILL - nothing to be scared about, ok?? A REAL man does not stoop this low unfortunately, wimps like you do and for the pleasure of strong and beautiful women like us. And since I don't know where NIGERIA and ANAMBRA STATE is perhaps, you should go back to school to learn your geography and maps VERY WELL INDEED to be able to read and understand Nigerian map as to realise that, IGBO land is located not basically, in the EAST of the country rather the SOUTH and SOUTH EASTERN Nigeria, Mr Educated man of ANAMBRA STATE please, take NOTE!!! I spoke the truth and most Nigerians would agree with me, not for PATRIOTIC reasons but for my own SALVATION thus, I do not do blind PATRIOTISM so, go EAT YOUR HEART OUT, IN HELL!!![/b]

Culture › Re: American Women That Marry Nigerian Men by Theblessed(f): 5:39pm On Jul 12, 2009

sistawoman:
What did you do?

Good question Sisterwoman? And we are still waiting for some answers - my take is, we won't get the answer because she probably swallowed the bitter pill. What could she do to a Nigerian man on Nigerian soil, chasing and sleeping with single Nigerian women, tell me let me hear that one.lol!!!!! If I were her, just make sure he is using some form of protection else, it would not surprise me when she becomes statistics as some women in marriages on N/L are.

Culture › Re: American Women That Marry Nigerian Men by Theblessed(f): 3:18pm On Jul 12, 2009

sistawoman:
@theblessed,

I disagree with your first post.

Well, I respect your views however, I am entitled to mine if you don't mind me saying. I did not say that all Nigerian men are rather, majority - and thank God there's quite alot of changes in many of them at present.

Culture › Re: American Women That Marry Nigerian Men by Theblessed(f): 3:04pm On Jul 12, 2009

agathamari:
aparently you didnt know that oriental womens vag is tilted the oposite direction of everyone else. from what i have been told white women are more adventurous in bed. when was the last time you tied up your guy? he'd like it

But where's your research to support your assertion that Oriental women fanny is in the opposite location as everyone else? I need facts here, not exagerations. Physiologically, all women are the same and anyone in the medical profession would tell you so. It is a fact, that some people have abused or misused their bodies leading to different shapes in that region but naturally, that's not how nature intended and should not be take as how it is.

As for your abuse, I can not comment on that really.

Culture › Re: American Women That Marry Nigerian Men by Theblessed(f): 2:35pm On Jul 12, 2009*

Euchena:
I had heard that an Igbo man was the best kind of man to marry but I wonder what on earth did I do to deserve this poor ass excuse of a man that I got stuck with. I hear that this other woman is married to an American man trying to get her papers. Now that I know who she is and where she lives I think that I need to turn her in to immigration so she can get her free one way ride back to Nigeria. I can't change his behavior but I can change her address. If he doesn't like it he can go back with her. Now when he f#@@s up she can pay! He can't have two wives in America and I won't share.

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Well, I am very sorry reading your story here. But, quite truely didn't anyone warn you about such marriages? Even if they did, you may not have listened. Anyway, let me correct certain things here. For marriage sake, you are right to say that Igbos, have the right attitudes towards marriage in Nigerian however, as an Igho girl I would not marry an Anambra man for 3 reasons:

a) they are domineering and too controlling. As a woman, you can only be
seen not heard, period. They have very high MALE EGO! As an Igbo girl
yourself, you should know this.

b) They are highly business minded and would not tolerate you knowing
every details, ins/outs of their business in fact, you might not know where
all your husbands investments are located - your inlaws (his bothers,
family and your grown up sons if you have one) are meant to know that
NOT you.

c) Since after the Biafra/Nigeran civil war, most Anambra men basically
refused to go to SCHOOL and thus are mainly, ILLITRATES OR HALF
EDUCATED therefore will not share your views or communicate at the
same level as you (assuming you are educated yourself) but their woman
are highly educated. It's better to be with someone at your level, if I
should suggest.

Anyway, good luck but I should advice you not to revenge - for revenge is for the Lord. Just kneel down and present your case to God, morning/night, continuously/relentlessly, your prayers would be answered for the Lord does not look down on the BROKEN HEARTED. Believe in him, you would be surprised.[/size][/b]

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Culture › Re: American Women That Marry Nigerian Men by Theblessed(f): 1:38pm On Jul 12, 2009

[b]Guys - both American, African, men/women from other nations, why expose yourselves to risks you know that is always there in your face huh

Common sense dictate a man/woman on the run with illegal entry is a criminal in the first place. If you haven't got a psychological problem of ATTACHMENT AND NEEDING TO BE LOVED (as a result of your childhood, lack of confidence and self esteem) why even think of such people let alone being in partnership with them? Majority are only out to use you, can't you see that? Or should I say, are there some common sense left upstairs or is it just an empty space up there? Why moan when you let yourself being used and abused by these bastards? Because, you let your emotions cloud your God given common sense - you don't need a degree to get this you know!! You are either born with it or without as this is only showing that some of you have ZERO COMMON SENSE. Please, stop moaning here? As I write, some of you are still letting yourselves down in the name of love but where is this LOVE? If you happens to meet such people, don't be merciful to them, kick their a-se off as they only want to HURT you. Why pity a man/woman that has evil intentions against you, why huh

The signs are all there for you to see but you vehemently chose to ignored it and come to N/L to moan. For those who are still BLIND, DEAF AND DUMP, I should say it again, if they hadn't got their legal papers in neat order please, NO DEAL! Hear it huh

Because, it will all end in TEARS.

Now, the BEDROOM ANTICS - this specifically relate to most if not 98% of Nigerian men. Their BEDROOM MANNERS are absolutely zero. CULTURALLY, sexual explorations are not in a Nigerian man's genetic make up but it can be learned. Thank God some of them are gradually learning how to now, they find themselves in the West and have access to the world of INFORMATION TECHNOLOGY. In exploring the beautiful body of a woman, majority would prefer doing so with a WHITE WOMAN THAN a BLACK WOMAN, why huh

You better ask them? In my view, it is their ignorance as they think a WHITE WOMAN'S BODY is more beautiful than that of a BLACK WOMAN and everyone knows that WOMEN BODIES are PHYSIOLOGICALLY the same and no difference apart from the COLOUR of their SKIN and TEXTURE of their HAIRS. What else?? And for my sisters, I would like to say, if you can, try else where - you should not be deprived because, there are many ADAMS as there are EVES in this world. Try them, that's my take! And, you should all go for the best and the best all the time. Personally, I get it all the time from the man who can and knows how to RING my BELL - no mess up here!

Good luck with finding the right guy that could ring your bell to heavenly PLEASURE AND HAPPINESS! [/b]

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Politics › Re: Dora Akinyuli's Daughter's Wedding Shown Live on AIT earlier by Theblessed(f): 5:49pm On Jul 11, 2009

But when did Lebanese or the people of Lebanon become whites/Europeans? I would like to know.

Abi, them no bi Arabs anymore??lol!!! Please, stop confusing yourselves, people are well informed these day, ok!!!!!

Anyway, best wishes!

Career › Re: Which Are The Top 10 Law Firms In Nigeria? by Theblessed(f): 6:19pm On Jul 09, 2009

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Politics › Looters Of Nigeria - Nigerians, Please Make A Citizen Arrest On These Thieves. by Theblessed(op): 5:46pm On Jul 08, 2009

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See Nigeria o o o.

LOOTED MONEY DISCOVERED IN FOREIGN BANKS
NAMES OF DEPOSITORS LONDON SWISS($) USA ($) GERMANY(D)

GEN IBRAHIM BABANGIDA 6.25bn 7.41bn 2.00bn 9.00bn

GEN ABUBAKAR 1.31bn 2.33bn 800M -

REAR ADMIRAL MIKE AKHIGBE 1.24bn 2.42bn 671M 1bn

GEN JERRY USENI 3.04bn 2.01bn 1.01bn 900M

ALH ISMAILA GWARZO 1.03bn 2.00bn 1.3bn 700M

ALH UMARU DIKKO 4.5bn 1.4bn 700M 345M

PAUL OGWUMA 300M 1.42bn 200M 500M

GEN SANI ABACHA 9.01bn 4.09bn 800M 3.01M

MOHAMMED ABACHA 300M 1.2bn 150M 535M

ABDULKADIR ABACHA 700M 1.21bn 900M 471M

ALHAJI WADA NAS 600M 1.32bn 300M -

TOM IKIMI 400M 1.39bn 152M 371M

DAN ETETE 1.12bn 1.03bn 400M 1.72bn

DON ETIBET 2.5bn 1.06bn 700M 361M

MAJ AL MUSTAPHA 600M 1.001bn 210M -

ANTHONY ANI 2.9bn 1.09bn 360M 1.66bn

BASHIR DALHATU 2.3bn 1.001bn 161M 1.43bn

GEN WUSHISHI 700M 1.301bn

ALH HASSAN ADAMU 300M 200M 700M -

T Y DANJUMA 300M 200M 700M -

GEN ISHAYA BAMAYI 120M 800M

SOURCE: WORLD BANK TO THE PRESIDENT OF NIGERIA

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b] Fellow Nigerian,

Sorry to disturb you all with this painful email sent to me from the USA.

Please, learn about the killers of our beautiful country and for the sake of the future of Nigeria and that of your children decide what next.

I am upset, angry and disoriented right now to think straight on what what to write here but you can research further on this.

And for those who said they would VOTE for Abacha's son trying to contend the 2010 Guba Candidacy could now, do so and Good luck for helping these thieves in bringing our country to its KNEES. [/b]

Date: Monday, July 6, 2009, 3:45 AM

fellow Nigerian,

See waht our leaders has down to us.

Read bellow, please

--- Forwarded Message ----
Sent: Monday, July 6, 2009 10:25:40 AM
Subject: Fw: World Bank releases list of Nigerian looters

HI SUPOL GABRIEL!

See what they have done to your country - Nigeria.

World Bank releases list of Nigerian looters
Fellow Nigerians,
Find bellow the reasons why Nigeria is in the situation it is in, Lacks all infrastructures. Pass this on to the people you know. This need not be let to rest. This men are selfish and for all I care they were trusted by all Nigerians to lead us rather they robbed us blind.
See Nigeria o o o.

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Christianity Etc › Re: Pastor Adeboye Says Pray Btw 11p.m To 1 A.m by Theblessed(f): 5:57pm On Jul 05, 2009

[b]PLEASE, IGNORE THESE PURISTS!!!

Ignore them and worship God the way you see fit and just. I just don't understand what these so called Pastors, Bishops, Layreaders etc are trying to prove. Some are even behaving as if they are supernatural - more closer to God than Jesus Christ himself.
People, please understand that we all are sinners before the Almighty God and no one, would come to God if not through Jesus Christ including your so called Pastors and Bishops. What upset me more about these lot is, the status some of them accord themselves. Some regard themselves as the Holy men of God yet have worldly ambitions and lack humbleness. Imagine some calling themselves Bishops! Who ordained them Bishops?? It's always the empty barrels that makes the most noise. What's wrong with calling yourself PASTOR? If you look deep, you would see that those with Doctorate Degrees simply call themselves Pastors only the ILLITRATES and HALF EDUCATED among them raises their stakes to BISHOPS thus, showing their hiden motives and WORLDLY nature. To me, this meant, DON'T TRUST THEM. What's wrong with being HUMBLE huh

So, don't let them fool you as if they are holier than anyone else and nearer heaven than you are because, they are not. For we are all SINNERS and short of the glory of God until we repent, believe in Jesus Christ, confess our sins and ask for forgiveness that way, the Kingdom of God would be ours.

In a nutshell, Pastor or Bishop is no better than you. [/b]

Politics › Re: Governors Abandon States For Abuja, Lagos, Abroad by Theblessed(f): 5:13pm On Jul 05, 2009

[b]PLEASE THINK BROADLY, WILL YOU??

Why can anyone think a bit broadly to understand why these so called governors, who are nothing but thieves are leaving their respective sites to Abuja and other places they consider safe haven?

Don't we understand - all the crude kidnapping activities going on in the South and South East could be one of the main reasons. They've lost control of securities in their respective states. Their lives and that of their families are in danger and, who wants to be in a place so lawless and chaotic like the Niger Delta and the South East Areas at this present time? No one! The evil monster they created is now hunting them and many more awaits them. It's already a vicious circle for them. They can run but they can not hide for ever.

ALL AM ASKING THE KIDDNAPPERS IS PLEASE, TARGET THESE SO CALLED GOVERNORS AND THEIR FAMILIES AND LEAVE POOR INNOCENT NIGERIAN TRYING TO MAKE ENDS MEET ALONE. THEY HAVE NOT DONE ANY WRONG TO DESERVE THESE KINDS OF ATROCITIES. THE PEOPLE WHO ARE DESTROYING OUR COUNTRY SHOULD PAY FOR IT AND NOT INNOCENT NIGERIANS AND EXPARTRIATE WHO ARE TRYING TO HELP US GET OUR COUNTRY'S ECONOMIC WHEEL ROLLING BACK AGAIN. IF YOU CAN GET RID OF THESE GOVERNORS IN THEIR RESPECTIVE STATES, YOU COULD DO SO IN ABUJA TOO. I AM SURE THAT, JUST AND FAIR MINDED NIGERIANS WOULD NOT HESITATE TO SUPPORT YOU IN YOUR QUEST TO BETTER NIGERIA THAT WAY, THESE THIEVES WILL EXPERIENCE THE PAIN AND HARDSHIP THEY ARE INFLICTING ON THEIR OWN PEOPLE THUS, CHANGE THEIR WAYS.

IF YOU LOVE YOUR COUNTRY AND WANTS TO RESTORE HER HONOUR AND DIGNITY AS I BELEIVE YOU DO PLEASE, DEVIATE FROM PUNISHING INNOCENT AND POOR NIGERIANS AND HUNT THESE THIEVES IN ANY HOLE THEY AND THEIR FAMILIES CONSIDERS SAFE HAVEN, UNTIL THEIR LAST BREATH. IN MY VIEW, THAT'S WHAT YOU SHOULD DO - TO GIVE NIGERIANS BACK THEIR COUNTRY. ENOUGH IS ENOUGH OF THESE EVIL PEOPLE!

GOOD LUCK WITH YOUR QUEST!!!! [/b]

Culture › Re: Did You Hawk Anything On The Streets As A Child ? by Theblessed(f): 12:45am On Jul 05, 2009

Absolutely! Don't advocate it either but the experience can strengthen you both ways. It did for me, and without it, how could I have been street wise enough to get to where I am today coming from a back ground such as mine without 'Abraham as God father'. Tell me!!!! Boy, it has its ups and downs but it did open my eyes, though. Otherwise, I would have still been there today married to 85 year old grand father with 10 wives and I the 11th plus my 20 children. Thank goodness, it didn't happen.

Onyekwe, chi ya ekwe!

Family › Re: Ladies: Can You Be A Housewife? by Theblessed(f): 1:42pm On Jun 24, 2009

JJYOU:
mmmmmmmmmmm u wish u waz right. always nice to hear the sensible minority on matters like this. some people cant believe one size dont fit all. it is money and money alone that decides everything. mostly agree. always so good to hear common sence on these matters

Well, if I wasn't right, I challenge you to count the number of people on here who said 'No' to the idea of full-time Housewifery and cookie bakeries then, let us know the result. That way you will know you are backing the loosing horse. The whole thing boils down to WORK LIFE BALANCE - balancing motherhood with your own self esteem, ok.

Family › Re: Ladies: Can You Be A Housewife? by Theblessed(f): 1:21pm On Jun 24, 2009

zaliya:
this is ridiculous

That's my girl!! Good you showed the chicken heads the difference and what they're missing. Hope, they got the idea.

Politics › Re: Abacha’s Son Set To Join Pdp : May Contest 2011 Guber by Theblessed(f): 12:29pm On Jun 24, 2009

[b]What am I hearing? ANOTHER ABACHA, AGAIN huh

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No, this can't be!!!!! Enough is enough of these people. What do they think we are? Nigerians rise, rise up against these bastards and get rid of them all and their children otherwise, they will continue messing with us.

As you can see another Abacha is on the horizon again waiting for his chance after the Lord pulled the curtain down on his father and he FELL from GRACE like a BRICK WALL, his son still has the gut to rear his urgly face in this sad Nigerian politics - what a shameless family!!!!!!!. If he hasn't got any thing to do, why don't he join the ARMY and serve his country as his father did though, this has now been clouded by his wicked and selfish ACTS.
Is that not a good option huh

?? To help Nigeria forgive his father's atrocities, ABACHA'S son should join the Army and serve this country in honesty or do something CHARITABLE for the poor all over Nigeria and the world that way, Nigerians will begin to acknowledge and respect his individuality and contributions instead, he's about to jump the cue to Guber candidacy and, this goes to show how immoral this family is. It seems they hadn't had enough, this time will be the end of them all - ARROGANT BASTARDS!!![/b]

Family › Re: How Can A Woman Understand Her Husband After Wedding? by Theblessed(f): 11:52am On Jun 23, 2009

[b] Quite inappropriate question? How about this?

How can a Man Understand his Wife After the Wedding? This is how it should be, ok!

It's all too well to put pressure on women in marriage on how to understand their husbands/inlaws (African culture). What about men? What's wrong in them understanding their wives after the wedding, too? It seems to me that this question applies to those off the shelf marriages - where BOY met GIRL in the street and got her married the next day without proper courtship thus, not knowing or understanding each other very well before jumping in with their HEADS.

Modern marriages that worth it's GOLD do not operate this way at all.
To start with, you've got to date each other for months if not years before plunging in, and there is no need in doing that HARD work after the wedding because it had already been done.

To that question I say it goes both ways, ok! So, stop piling pressure on women to behave in fact, it's men that need that behaving not women because we understand our positions and roles.

Trouble starts when men ego gets the better of them and their controlling and abusing behaviours suddenly emerge that some of us would not condone, that's when katakata don come in the marriage and thus,the woman is labeled 'A BAD WIFE'.[/b]

Family › Re: Ladies: Can You Be A Housewife? by Theblessed(f): 2:09am On Jun 23, 2009

[b] Wish Beyonce' INDEPENDENT WOMAN could hammer into the chicken brains of our housewifery sister for life. No intelligent, ambitious, confident woman with high self esteem and knowing exactly where she's going and where she wants to be in this day in age, would want to sit around at home prepare cookies, eat babies leftovers and tidy up afterwards, no! There's nothing wrong in being married and having a career or even work part-time. It gives you a sense of SELF/RESPECT. Even men themselves would tell you, they don't like DEPENDENT women as they want their women to have a life and the fact that, you are contributing into the family money pot would accord you greater respect from both your husband, the inlaws and your social circle.

Am I harsh on these ladies? Absolutely! Someone on here said it's 'Choice', and I am saying no - it's has alot to do with self esteem, laziness, lack of ambition, the values they were brought up with, their social circle etc - otherwise why would an intelligent and educated woman end up in the home as a domestic slave even if her husband is BILL GATES. In fact, Bill Gates wife is a very busy woman - doing something all the time e.g. her/her husband's charity work - check her schedule!!

I'm only sorry for the men that hooked up with these layabouts but then, men don't realise the quality of women they ended up with until after the honey moon and first baby by then, skool don dismiss. Personally, in this situation I can only forgive those of them who could not read or write (the illitrates) but many of them are quite industrious - striving to set up small businesses of their own thus showing not only ambition but dignity however, their educated counterparts hide behind motherhood - an excuse for dependency mentality. Sorry for their husbands, though. [/b]

Family › Re: Ladies: Can You Be A Housewife? by Theblessed(f): 1:41am On Jun 23, 2009

SeanT21:
I have nothing against being a housewife but I can not see myself in that position. I am too Ambitious and Independent. I like the idea of going out there and making my own money. I think a husband will better respect a wife that makes her own money than a woman that relies on him for everything. I do not care If I marry a billionaire, I will never be a housewife. I will be out there doing what "real women" do.

GOOD GIRL, YOU CAN SAY THAT AGAIN! They will all learn one day as my auntie did when her darling husband went to see God that was when she realised the meaning of the word INDEPENDENT and how to be, too late, huh!

Education › Re: Suing My University To Court: Any Hope Of Justice? by Theblessed(f): 10:31am On Jun 12, 2009

No, you can't win! You see, there's no justice in Nigeria besides, the University would draw from all their resources (money, their status, contacts e.g some of the Big Wigs they know and who knows someone else and, whose almamater the University is - I mean, Judges, Barristers, senator etc) baby, don't even think of it as they would stop you before even you could consider it. Don't bother!

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