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bawomolo:
yeah right

what's with UK people and stones. didn't they tell you olodo's about pounds and kilos in school 

[size=18pt]Please, show us how the UK people become the Olodo here?  If the person who stole their language and tried to make it his by changing certain quarters to suit himself is not an Olodo, I wonder who is. 

Yet, at the end of the day, both POUNDS, KILOS, STONES etc are of European construct - Pounds and Stones are ENGLISH LANGUAGE that belongs to the ENGLISH hence British English. Kilogrammes is a FRENCH construct and belongs to the FRENCH.  Now, show us the AMERICAN'S above, let us see!  You have the guts to use our language and make unnecessary noises, how dare you[/size]

McDoe:
@ Theblessed "Just think of your SALVATION when you indulge in these EVIL practises in the name of fashion!"

Abi ooooo?

But, wetin be the abiooooo you de talk about?  No be true say, we go answer to God one day? Na him be the Salvation man de talk about.  Abi, Adam and EVE, them get open marriage Don't mind, every thing we do here wey God warn us no do, and we do am?  Wait, you go answer for am, na him be my point.

Udode:
stop insulting each other, `what is that for.
I asked a simple question, hoping to recieve a simple answer, what you think of others is not really what i wanted to know.

anyhow, i think i will not be going to nija this xmas,  i have talked to my husband again and he reassured me that he does not want to take the risk. i can accept that, he must know better and from what i heard from some of you, his opinion is not just out of the blue,

i am just reallly reallly really hoping that things will get better very sooon, i wanted to bring my mother to nigeria so she can see the places and the family, but if the country is insecure like it is right now, i dont think i will feel good to bring her over, !!!!

2sleek2NV:
Nice 1. Am realy impressed.
ADAKE DAJO- D SILENT JUDGE
Kabio-osi- no 1 questions u.
Arugbo ojo- ancient of days
Eli-my God n Father.
N.B- D topic says names for God. Pple are including d names of JESUS n HOLYSPIRIT. Dnt mean to spoil d thread,jst an observation.

[size=18pt]Sure, it says favourite name for God but, people are being creative by including prayers and praises in showing their reverence (i.e. deep respect) for God so, what's wrong with that?  God's Name is powerful, a mere mention of His Name raises feelings of enthusiasm to worship and praise him - Halelujah, Amen![/size]

Sagamite:
Who threatened you with violence? Or where did you see the threat of violence? And YOU are talking about intelligence? YOU?

You lack the intelligence to differentiate between what you want and what is your right that is why you struggle with men in relationships

You can continue mourning all your life but I can guarantee you you well never get a man that would stay with you because you are obviously not balanced. There are thousands of better women out there why stay with someone like you?

Arrrrrrrrrrrrrrrh, another Nigerian Brain-wash!  When was marriage made COMPULSORY for everyone?  Abi, na di 11th Commandment  And, why would a man/woman marry if they don't want to do so.  Is it because, unintelligent men like this one here think every woman must be married to be a woman, eh!  Marriage is CHOICE, ok!  Afterall, in the Biblical times there were many unmarried women (e.g. Mary Magdaleen and others.) and nothing happened to them nor were they abused by men then as you all do now due to your insecurities.  And here we have these ignorants, abusing women who chose not to be involved with MARRIAGE because of the stresses Marriage can cause and other related issues e.g. the topic above: Can You Disclose Your Salary To Your Spouse?  Wouldn't it be nice not to be involved with marriage than to have this kind of headache everyone here on N/L are trying to resolve?  If being in a decent marriage is like this, who wants to be married, yooooou?  Better you than meooooo!  Naaaaaaaaaaaaaaah, I DON'T WANT IT, DON'T NEED IT IF THIS IS WHAT MARRIAGE IS ALL ABOUT.  HAPPY SINGLE IF ONLY THE MAN IN MY LIFE WOULD LEAVE ME ALONE but, he won't that's the problem.  Can you help, kick him out, please! Women don't need men rather, men need us more than we need them and statistics have shown that men are more healthier and live long in marriage than when single whilst marriage is stressful and a health hazard for women.  A man in marriage is refreshed, healthier and lively whereas some married women look like 'Oke Nkita' just like meooooo.lol!!!! But, if marriage is this stressful, I need my FREEDOM because the benefits out weighed all the stresses.  For example, as an independent woman, I will be free to date any guy I want, when I want it.  Shop, cook and eat when I want without worrying how to feed and water husband tonight - a nightmare for every married woman.lol!!! In fact, I could go to bed when I want without disturbing or wake anyone when I get in.  Also, I could visit my friends at the crack-of-dawn and come back if I need to and when I want without any questioning or explanations to my almighty husband.  You see, I could choose my own holiday destination without disagreement or arguements about how we've been there 110 times last year why go again this time etc.  Above all,  I am absolutely ACCOUNTABLE TO MEOOOOOOOOOO and no one else.  In fact, no one would even venture to ask silly question like, WHERE HAVE YOU BEEN WHEN I HAD NIPPED OFF TO SOMEWHERE  You see, it's a fantastic life ahead of me, should I CHOOSE to go SOLO!  Good gracious me!!!  It seems in your head, a single woman is lonely and no man wants to marry her that's why she is single, eh! Problem finding a man, isn't it Naaaaa! Let me ask you, should I go SOLO, do I look like a woman with difficulty in this department? Naaaaaah, not one bit I could PULL any man I want on-board my SHIP any time, ok?? So next time don't make such silly comments I quote,'and hence the stupid hatred for males that your posts are pregnant with'.  Again, let me tell you - No, I don't hate decent men - I love them rather, I HATE THE A-SE OFF CROOKS AND CRIMINALS LIKE YOU AND OTHERS ON HERE SUPPORTING THIS EVIL, ok.  Also, you said,''There are thousands of better women out there why stay with someone like you? As if every women desperately need to be married.  No, not all women perhaps, the one you are with, that has no clue about her rights and wouldn't even know when a Bus hit her in that your silly marriage hence, instead of kicking your a-se, hung on to the biggest LOOSER of all times that not only disrespects women but marriage with all his deceits and lies.  Because, smart women like myself are well informed, knows our rights and how to go about it that's why CROOKS/CRIMINALS like you feel insecure and frightened we'll dig up you a-se and sure, we will if you mess up.  Equity says, 'He who comes to Equity must come with clean hands'.  He who wants peace and honesty in a marriage must bring the same to the table.  With this kind of behaviour (deceit and lies) your hands are not clean and why would I pity you when trashing your a-se.  Hope you meet your kind one day and learn your lessons

Sagamite:
Thank you o!

If you are my wife and you ever have the guts to ever do this, you will see FIRE!

There is absolutely no way you will see a minute of happiness in that household til the minute I kick you out (And I would ensure you don't see much of it after you are out). You would wonder the curse someone placed on you or, if there is a god, that allowed you to get a man like me.

Tears would be coming out from not only your eyes but also your ears by the time I finish.

This is the kind of trouble I love because I know how to deal with it.

Chei, you are well brought up o! You should be giving classes to women.

You should thank your star for the lame woman in your life.  As you said, should I be your wife (thank God I'm not, you would have been gone long time ago because, there's no way I will put up with this kind of sh-t one second!), by the time I wake up for you, YOU WON'T HAVE LEGS TO STAND - not by MIGHT nor the VIOLENT way you are proposing but PURE INTELLIGENCE.  But why would an intelligent woman ever consider an unintelligent man for a husband I wonder You see, a SQUARE SHAPE and a ROUND SHAPE can never ever fit, can they  Based on the Bible, 'those who make them, look like them' - you marry your kind.  There's no 'hell' in the world I would touch you with a BADGE POLE as an acquaintance let alone, a boyfriend and then that big thing called LIFE PARTNER when the risk is obvious - DECEIT AND LIES, Naaaaaaaaa!!! No, way!   

Your THREAT OF VIOLENCE to subdue your opponents for ascertaining their rights is the hallmark of ILLITERATES  and only suggests what little intelligence there is UPSTAIRS and the answer is zoocoooh! JUNGLE MAN,  in your head, by killing somebody you must have achieved something, eh?  Remember, you are not the only one with access to guns or knives etc these days, ok!  So, we mustn't go there.  Let me WARN YOU, never ever threaten people with violence because, as you think you know some thing, there's always someone out there that KNOWS BETTER.  BE WARNED else, you might be stopped before you could even CRAWL!!! 

I suppose before you contemplate this threat, you must have thought a MERE WOMAN I can squeeze with my big toe.  Boy, I have NEWS for you - there are different kinds of women.  We may all have been built the same way but we certainly don't LOOK, THINK, FEEL and ACT the same way, ok!  There are women born with the heart and determination of a man, you better not forget this.  So, never you under-estimate the POWER OF A WOMAN - I mean what a determined woman can do, WATCH YOUR BACK when you make such threats you could be made to WEE and POOH in your pants. 

It seems to me, you've been threatening small woman your end/surrounding areas and getting away with it.  Though, I wouldn't behave like you however, if shove comes to push, I will certainly challenge the ar-e off you and your kind and bring you all down to earth in order to ensure you respect women, when next you come across women, you'd be the first to eloquently acknowledge there is a difference - EMPTY BARREL!

lastpage:
@theblessed
Ma Shista, no be fight now, unungo?
See grammar, see Police, see lawyer, see judge, see appeal!  

Anyway, thats how you feel, and its your right to feel as you like!

BTW, l want to make a general observation:

When a man loves his wife and is ready to do anything for her, hold her bags, open doors for her, sweep, cook and wash for her,do her biddings and both are generally happy with each other, e.t.c, some third-party person, MEN especially would refer to the man as "stupid, Woman-wrapper, weak man, mugun or that Juju is working on his brain   and all sorts of dissings like that!

The other side of the coin is when a woman loves her man and does not question his authority nor challenge his place in the household, she generally will do what pleases him, some third-party persons, especially women will call her "village-wife, child-wife, mumu, bush-woman, uneducated, uncivilized, unenlightened, dormant, dumb, unexposed, unambitious, e.t.c"!

Could it be that some have taken it to be their right to "set the rules" on how a husband and wife must relate and anything other than that is viewed negatively? Why cant people just mind their business and let husband and wife decide what is best for them instead of trying to influence one against the other?
And if per-chance, this same spouse should change to the opposite, some other groups will start the name-calling!

Feel free to comment on this, man or woman, take your side

@xstdreason
The whole house is waiting for d salacious, juicy details please!
Ameebooo!

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Yes, I believe in democracy and freedom of speech.  'Say what you like even though it can hurt some ears that hears it'  And you see, I am not a Saint and have never claimed to be but one thing is sure, I get furious when I see what I consider EVIL.  

It's true, we all may have embarked on labelling such women but you forgot in this case, that labelling goes both ways.  If we perceived her as you just said, "village-wife, child-wife, mumu, bush-woman, uneducated, uncivilized, unenlightened, dormant, dumb, unexposed, unambitious, e.t.c so do these women perceive us who have the guts to challenge men that treat us this way.  These women forgot that the little rights we all have today e.g. the right to vote, to work and earn a living independent of our husbands are given to them by strong and influential women of the past who fought for the rights we enjoy and take for granted today - see, Afganistan women today and ask them what they think  Yes, these may be happy with things in their household as it is now but when things are derailed and she find herself homeless, husband lost his job or run off with another women then the chicken nyash will be seen, won't it?  That's when they would need help/support and information from enlightened women around them to enable them manage their sudden change of situation.  As far as I'm concerned, that's the hypocrisy I found in such women that makes me want to jeer and tell them, 'I TOLD YOU SO'.  

Hey, we mustn't get distracted from the main issue here, please!  The issue is 'Is it wrong for a man or women' in relationship to behave this way?  You see, I assume most people here married their husbands/wives for love and affection and if others went into it for other reasons - it's between them and God!  I'm glad majority here with a sense of fairness and fear of God in them overtly said it's damn 'Wrong' and that's where I stand.  In a trusting, happy and peaceful relationship, there should be no secrecy.  If a woman does not bother about what her husband earns, why should he bother about hiding it?  Lying to your wife, some people seems to approve but wait till she lies to you by tell you one day that, the the BELLY she is carrying is not yours but your brothers or someone else then you will realise that lies and secrecy is EVIL and SATANIC which aims at nothing but DESTRUCTION.  And for those who continue to lie in their relationships, I say good luck with your lies and secrecy, you'd be caught one day hence, your destruction!

hackney:
Only my boss knows how much i earn.
Not telling your wife is not an indication of trust issues.
It's just a need to have a level of privacy.

After all, why would she even need to know about every single penny?
All she needs to know is when you inform her that either you can afford something or not.
As long as the[b] family is thriving financially,[/b] i dont see the need for all the details.
But then that's just me. . . . . .

KunleOshob:
It really pieces me off when people try to force their own opinions into the bible, ther is absolutely NO injunction in the bible which forbids the drinking of alcohol by christians. We were just advised to drink in moderation.There is no point in subtracting from the bible just becos it doesn't favor your argument the bible makes it clear that he drinks in that passage. The emphasis of the passage is not what is the issue here it is the drinking issue which th passage confirms and for emphasis i would reproduce it here:

Luke 7:33-34:

   33For John the Baptist came neither eating bread nor drinking wine, and ye say, `He hath a devil.'
   
   34The Son of Man is come eating and drinking, and ye say, `Behold, a gluttonous man and a winebibber, a friend of publicans and sinners!'

cesc4:
according to the dictionary wine is anytin dat has alcohol and the bible neva said we should not take alcohol.though takin too much may be bad because we all knw that too much of everytin is not good including money and since the sayin goes thus that money is the root of all evil we as xtians cant say we wont send money because it is the root of all evil so as alcohol we av no right to say takin alcohol is a sin.

baslone:
NOT POSSIBLE!!![/i]

Every policeman in Lagos wants to ride in the yellow danfo's picking
up innocent people. One in every 5buses in  Lagos is packed with
armed kidnappers claiming cops. Each squad has a daily target they must meet and
return to the DPO at the station. Increasing the salary will only cause
more harm to civilians.

Most of the displaced touts at Orile Iganmu and Amukoko[i] ended up
joining the police force. A former class mate of mine that was jailed 10years for
cultism was realeased when he agreed to join the police force. Although he died early this
year, he was a self confessed murderer. Imagine such a character.

Meanwhile someone should tell them to respect themselves and stop smoking weed[i][/i] in
uniform at the Okada park of Alaka end of Bode Thomas broad day light.

olalekan1:
is there an organization or body that examines anybody that want to become a pastor? fate has no limit my brother and you can not just justify that you are on the right religious fate. Moreover you might not know if you have a wrong fate until you find a fate that is superior. Is there any guidelines for naming a church? sterling drive must be either a street or a small location in a vicinity, which mean a church located at sterling drive. Simple!

Again2:
Nigerian factors? Inflated budgets and contracts, ghost workers,bribe me b4 u get promoted, no sex no job. Nigeria factors. What Nigeria factors while the country is sinking? Lecturer are not been paid a living wage while educated-illiterates(politicians) are earning millions in a month for doing all the wrongs things. Tell me the Nigerian factor u are talking abt.