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ogabentley:
I befriended a beautiful lady about 3 months back. I was introduced to her by a friend of mine then we started talking, one thing led to another made it official and we began dating.
She is a lovely and caring lady but i have a problem with her, she demands sex always. At first i enjoyed every bit of it but now its no longer funny.
Every passing day she demands sex when i say no she would seduce me so much that after initial refusal i will give in.
Weekends are usually worst, she could initiate sex for more than 6 times in a single day.
I love her overall personality but this sex thing i'm getting tired of the whole thing.
Please what should i do?

You are behaving like a weakling in the sense that your NO means half YES. That needs to stop, discuss it with her and let her know you are not OK with her high sexual demands.

Lyydia:
There's this guy that we have been dating for 6month, we love each other very well and we plan on marrying each other.. Here is the deal, we plan on no sex before marriage due to personal reasons... I don't ask for money also, we do cuddle and kiss sometimes..[b][/b] But not sex! [b][/b]Of recent, he is been acting strange and want to go beyond our normal cuddle level.. I cautioned him about this and he promised to change! But he still does this. Yesterday it happened again as I got furious and asked him to leave.

Did I overreact? I called, he has not pick up since yesterday.

Rubbish @ bolded.

That "No sex till marriage is a scam". Legends know this.

And yes you overreacted by reacting in a rude and undiplomatic manner. What happened to reminding the young man of the vows both of you made in a kind and respectful manner. But instead you choose to displayed how uncultured you are.

How I wish I know this guy, I would have pointed out obvious red flags to him.

Truth is you are piece are a garbage. And bitches like you should be discarded where they belong. To the trash can.

Nonsense.

Learn to type words in full and proper manner.

tunjilee003:
We have been dating for over three years,she buys me wears, she fed me always,i sees her to be a cheerful giver..all my life she's the girl I'll first love ❤️ ❤️, she's everyman dream girl..
Our relationship began to go moribund in mid December, she no longer call, if I call,she don't pick, i was depressed for weeks,I lost appetite, everything about me was going awry,I started losing my academic focus, i was battered deeply... Is this the end of a three years relationship?? Was i being played on?? Many thought found solace in my fragile heart....
Well, i moved on,l exerted much energy into my academics, i tried to maintain Balance with my social life, i was not being haunted by my past relationship failure, things were going well .....
Now she wants me back...

Before you make any decision make a time to have a discussion with her regarding her recent attitude and what made her behave that way... Pay attention and look out for warning signs in her words...

But if I were you I will call it a day.

You will find someone way better than her without all the baggage.

itsme01:




So US once shutdown an Iranian comercial jetliner killing 290 people of which 66 were kids, and they only paid compensation and case was closed

Iran did the same and all the noise going on and double standard from hypocrites

..

Bro the cause of the uproar is Iran refusing to admit it was the cause despite multiple intelligence sources indicating the plane was clearly shot down by an Iranian surface-to-air missile. But I think the dust will settle since have openly admitted it was shot down due to human error.

sojayy:
Middle East has been the world's problem from time immemorial........

ignorant

The deadliest and most destructive war in the history of mankind didn't happened in the middle east you seem to denigrate.

Ciscogod:
There are jobs in Nigeria,

[/b]Is either you are over qualified for the Available job or not qualified,

We have vacancy in my unit and have been sourcing out for qualified candidate but still yet to find one.

The qualified ones want something close to 6 figures.[b]

Load of rubbish!.

Are you in anyway saying most of these unemployed graduates are unqualified? What an ignorant thing to say... You have no idea what you are talking about.

A lot of people who graduated with first are stuck with menial jobs. The good jobs are almost non-existent(except if you are from an elite family)

The fact is the shit hole of a country has failed its youth.Its glaring.

Its easy to sit on your sofa and type nonsense when you are completely out of touch with reality.

franchasng:
Because there are no enough jobs to employ the available Nigerians ready and willing to work.


And the reason for the above is because Nigerian government for many years refused to make policies that encourages the startup and growth of small scale and medium scale businesses and industries.

The resultant effect is the skyrocketing rate of unemployment and under-employment in Nigeria today, and it will continue for the next centuries to come until Nigerians develop sense and start voting the right leaders with right vision and goal.

In Nigeria, a young man or woman will have a beautiful business idea and skill....but he or she cannot get capital to kickstart his or her viable business idea unless he or she is from a rich family background that can fund his or her business ideas.

Nigerian banks will claim they give small business loans, but the collateral is out of reach of young entrepreneurs, and even the interest rate can kill big/established corporations like Google, Microsoft or Facebook if at all they succeed in taking the hell-fire bound loans offered by Nigerian banks.


What about basic amenities that support and encourage the growth of businesses like steady electricity supply, good road network, affordable internet, etc, do they exist in Nigeria NO!!

It is small scale and medium scale businesses that grow a nation, not the big companies....any booming economy you see anywhere in the world, go and check, there are uncountable number of successful small scale businesses.


Nigerian government need to focus on helping more small and medium scale businesses and industries to spring up and grow faster....that's the only way out, not through N-Power or increase in minimum wage.

Brilliant comment.

nickxtra:
Hmmmm!!!! I think it can only be possible if each State is allowed to generate its own electricity

you have no idea!

That will make the situation even worse.

Cunnilingus and Mouth Gig are just a matter of taste and preference just like the sex position.

Bringing morality into it is pure stupidity

I can see a lot of hypocrites here displaying their idiocy.

frozen70:
Forget about the fact that women are always wet down there

They are extremely neat in that area

Body Odour is quite different from pussy odour

The real pussy odour doesn't smell bad, it's fragrance is made to arouse a dick

[/b]When a man loves a woman, he pulls down her undies and suck that area without even asking you if you have taken a bath [b]

It's only when you date a pigs, you suspect that the area is dirty

If a woman doesn't wash her pussy a whole day, she will just be uncomfortable naturally

Date neat and clean girls and you will be rest assured that she is neater down there

Utter nonsense!.

Millions of men dearly love their women but ain't interested in that.

What exactly are you going there to do?
With which visa?


"If you fail to plan you plan to fail"

Arm yourself with enough information before embarking on this life-changing path.

What's wrong with that?....

A war between this two sides would surely be ferocious, but at the end of the day we know who will emerge victorious.

alezzy13:
Chai!! See as them finish us

Some truth, but a lot of exaggerations. In the health sector for instance I don't agree the issue of fake drugs is still as serious as it once was.

Secondly I don't totally agree medications are not available in most hospital. There may be occasional stockout but I don't think it's a general issue


Lastly in this day and age how many people still request for tap water? It's almost always bottled water even in those road side bukas

There is no any exaggeration as far as this report is concerned. In fact the embassy somehow underestimate the current reality in Nigeria.

1. In some cities and their surrounding suburbs its quite common to come across mini-pharmarcies that sell this fake and ineffective drugs. As a matter of fact some chemist with little or no certification produce their own drugs without Government regulation.

2. Have you been to some random hospitals/pharmacies in some parts of Kaduna? Their stocks are mostly inadequate and in some casses unavailable. Its very common for a patient to go for an alternative because the prescribed one isn't available.

3.lastly, just yesterday a nanny in my school was fetching water from the tap and from afar I can easily see how unsafe the water is. it was a pathetic scene

. And let's be clear here, vast majority of Nigerians use this unsafe water for almost everything in their day to day activities. And how many people could afford bottle water every now and then? Imagine a family man with 10 or more dependents and his monthly income is less than 60k? Is it feasible for him to provide adequate bottle water for his household through out the month?

Its easy for some one who is apparently out of touch with reality to sit in his sofa and spew load of gibberish. Its quite annoying, but more annoying is the innept and clumsy leaders the country is unfortunate to have.

The truth is bitter, learn to accept crictism and acknowledge your short-falls instead of arrogantly and ignorantly trying to dispute docummented facts.

rexchazy:
Walahi I know him, He taught me that year in funtua. RIP

is he really a lecturer in ABU?
Because the article appears to be contradictry

ashcall:
Libya has been the cause of the crisis in the region. since the death of of Gaddafi terrorism has been let lose all thanks to the war in Libya. arms and ammunation i n the country are mostly from Libya

To the best of knowledge sub-shahara Africa had faced turbulent times prior to ousting of muammar ghaddafi. It only exercerbated the situation but it wasn't actually the root cause. To even say that is a clear distortion of fact.

And the last time Nigeria is not even among top three in terms of military strength in Africa. Its personnel are I'll equipped and poorly trained compared to its African counterparts.

Its a shame Nigerian authorities are resorting to this pathetic "whataboutsim" tactic instead of facing core issues currently besetting the country.

Birdeyeview:
i laugh wen i hear hw depressed some people are because of admission into d university, wen we have millions of graduates out there still in search of jobs even years after they've graduated.
well since u completed ur sec sch, have u acquired any meaningful skill that can help u forge ahead in dis hard time?
a nephew of mine who acquired a skill in welding, iron bending nd also a pro painter.. He learnt all these immediatly he was done wit sec sch after his first attempt in jamb which was in 2014. now he's 25 nd has a toyota camry nd living in a 2bedroom rented apartment since d beginging of 2018 all 2 himself.
infact he registered his company wit CAC last year march nd has a workshop to himself wit boys who are under him... nd each time i bring up d issue of going further into higher institution he'll smile nd tell me aunty no nid abeg..although nw he's planing to enroll for a partime program in NOUN.
so OP its never 2 late to turn ur depression into sumtin meaningful...

Am not saying its not possible but he is more likely to be successful if he is educated and has a university degree ( though not a sure-fire way considering Nigeria turbulent economy but it raise ones chances).

And let's be clear here, not everyone will be like your bro. That jobs are hard to find still doesn't negate the fact that education is the gateway to success and prosperity(though they might be few exceptions as in your bro case).

However, OP is a different individual with distinct abilities. @op never ever allow anyone to discourage you from achieving your academic dreams. Its difficult to wait but its more difficult and painful to regret later.

that said, I will only iterate what someone up there wrote "NEVER EVER GIVE UP"

Stepsse:
Bros, don't ever give up. It will be frustrating, trust me I know. Change your approach to reading. Pick subjects combination you can pass effortlessly. Avoid subjects that will choke you up. While waiting, find something doing. Never too hell bent on money for now. That almost made me not to wanna go to school again. Avoid outdated syllabuses because what you learnt 5years isn't the perfect same now. Read everyday (at least 3hours). Be prayerful and God will answer your prayer. Smile padi, delay is not denial. Mafo
Take it from a guy that it took 7years before being offered admission. Now, I am a graduate in one of the varsities.

You are really a source of inspiration. Your words really motivate me .

Bless your heart.

MISTAICEY02288:
Hi there. It seems you know pretty much about Germany students visa. Please can you help me with the procedures and which school would you suggest. Thanks

Check the German student thread here in Nairaland, Read from the first page to the last, you will gain lots of vital informations.

Www.studying-in-germany.com is also another useful and helpful site. In fact Make google your friend.

A single person may not be able to provide you with all the latest and useful informations you need.

Good luck.

Study abroad. Nigeria isn't a good place for investment. That said, The easiest and fastest way to emigrate is via study route. The UK, Canada and Australia are good choices, but you will pay a price for it. Another fabulous choice is Germany which offers free tuition fee for all students. Except for the block account as proof for means of sustenance.

The ball is your court man.

Choose wisely.

Kekereekun123:
Blacks are cursed

Cursed by who? And why?

Okpa042:
Dubai was nigeria's mate at one point but look at them and look at us.


Oh well...I heard finland is a good place to relocate plus they are as nice as canadians

Yeah overall its a decent country, just the harsh weather is only downside.

HospitalityDiva:
This is the product of good and visionary leadership.

Remind me of sheik zayyad bin sultan al nahyan, the founding father of UAE.

cColumbus:
Lol.. I'm guilty of both!
Funny enough, the stupid anxiety no dey disturb me when I mastubate...how come?

Its because what you are about to do is the real thing bro... But there is still hope. I strongly suggest you see a certified phycologist. You will get vital support there.

And regarding your babe, calm down just follow the above suggestion and everything will turn out fine.

21cents:
look at how they're all numb on the thread. my fine babe bin wan dey gimme attitude until I cut her down to size with that question. she thought I'd beg her cos she was threatening me with "give me a break BS". mtcheww I hissed and ended the call. she knows I've got her in a tight corner cos unlike those boys chasing her upandan, i don't go head over heels simply because she's hawt. she's got nothing to offer me except sex. i hustle, independent and pay my bills, gosh I'm fawking handsome!! she called to apologise tho cos she knows I can never lack female hook up with my qualities. now I turned her to my hoeee

You are a legend.

KevMitnick:
Your subconscious is trying to protect you from something sinister. Pay attention.

so two adult who decide to engage in consensual sex are doing a sinister act.

Wao! Oshe holiest man ever

Privatepart00:
You Can't Say You Are A Typical Bad Boy But Get Nervous Just To Shift Her Pant.The Bad Boy Name Is Earned Not By You Calling Yourself Such. If You Wanna Be Tutored More Drop A Contact , I Will Do The Calling [/b]So Long Is An MTN Number.

[b]

Am spending more on calls, what is the secret bro?

cColumbus:
so I need straight and sincere suggestions please... this is a matter of damaged ego. Life and Death, if possible!

I'm your typical bad boy, I love boobs and ass to a fault, thankfully, my girlfriend is blessed with both... but anytime we make out (smooch or 4play), I get sooooo nervous when it's time to do the needful... Like I legit start having panic attacks when the hour is always near. Please what do you think I should do?, I've not had sex first of all, since I was born and since I started dating my girl 6 months... and to make matters worse, I'm overly paranoid... like to a fault... so stuff like this is bound to mess with my mind.. plus my girl is one of those girls that like sex a lot judging from our bedroom discussions that we have. so please what do you advice that I should do, cos i really don't want lack of sex to be the reason for our breakup. I feel like she'll soon get tired of my slacking!

Do you masturbate?

Are you suffering from anxiety disorder?

Please Answer

Ascold:
To The Glory Of Jesus

I don't get it.