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mariahAngel:
Only a man that is sure of himself can admit that.
Others would want to shame him into silence.
To some men, it is simply unacceptable to them that a man would choose to stay celibate.
There are also some things that they wouldn't want their fellow men letting ladies know.

It depends, women who aren't virgins get very irritated if you are a virgin & about to get down with them because they automatically believe you have no experience. While Men shame you to silence if you speak amongst the that you are a virgin. Even from High School, never for once will anyone accept that they are virgins.

Infact, it is so bad that you can't even say you are single in guy's hangout. You go just lie say your babe dey busy, na why she no fit follow you.

Like it's a curse to be single.

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I bought a perfume for an expensive amount from a friend that advertised her perfume business, when I used it in the morning before heading to work, the fragrance had cleared off before 30 mins. I was so pissed. I got back home & threw away the perfume.

She later asked me if the perfume was good & I said yes, very nice.

2nd time was when I wanted to support my friends food business & ordered two plates for 5k, the food was the most terrible food ever.
She asked me if her food taste good, of course I said that was the best food I ever tasted.

I don't want enemies abeg

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pcguru1:
Did you go to MiddleSex ?

Baba how far. After checking your pictures, I realise that I recognise you lol. I've been on Nairaland since but I hardly talk. Congrats on your new job oh, I suppose call you or message you on WhatsApp but this EndSars thing has taken everyone's focus.

Good morning sir, but ehn $3,000 is not small money anywhere oh. If you ask Dangote to Loan or dash you $3,000, he will ask for collateral or services you are rendering because he his a business man. Very rare will anyone send babe $3,000 monthly. A guy can buy gifts oh, but that amount is a lot even for big boys in the US.

I come in peace please, I didn't come to fight lol

Saintsammurai:
I know it's non of my business,, but the way you are stressing the 3,000 dollars it's ridiculous..

No offense but 3,000 dollars is chicken Cheng to some people living in Nigeria,, not to talk of Rich guys living in USA..

are there no 3,000 dollars panties and trousers,, bags,, even stockings in the market?

Abegi!!!!!

3 thousand dollars is like 1000 naira to some people.. even those that are not Even so rich..

there are guys that spends not less than 10,000 dollars in strip clubs every Friday..

cococandy with your beauty,, i would not mind spending 100,000 dollars on you every month..

Angelfrost:
Damn Son... Is this all??!... Come now, you're sounding like a broken record! Come up with something better. This is WEAK!!!

Oga rest! let me leave you this morning cause I have got work to do, if not.

I'm so sure that next time you won't do this nonsense!

Angelfrost:
Deep down, I am almost certain you think you have either made sense or struck a cord!... Sorry, you achieved neither!

Accept correction and move on! This Tomfoolery will get you no where!

Angelfrost:
Like play, una don turn this lazy ass bimbo to celebrity!!!
Na endorsement deals remain!

She fit even blow pass the Lil Frog abi Foam!!!

From turning a lazy ass bimbo to celebrity and moving to get endorsement deals. Telling her she can't be blow pass Lil Frosh!
It went from this to emotional and mental laziness to continue to endure abuse.

LMAO! I wouldn't even quote you if you stood by your words, but you aren't only an unintelligent Liar but also a cheap Coward.

Gosh I can still tolerate Liars for a minute, but Cowards? No Fvcking way!

Angelfrost:
Yawns!!!... See the meaning of Bimbo below:

bimbo
/ˈbɪmbəʊ/
Learn to pronounce
nouninformal•derogatory
noun: bimbo; plural noun: bimbos

an attractive but unintelligent or frivolous young woman.

Next time, make use of that thing between your ears before mouthing off poor perceptions. Thank you.

According to you, She is lazy and a Bimbo meaning she couldn't do anything better for herself and got with Lil Frosh because he was successful.

Bro, be a Fvcking man say whatever you want to say. She will not beat you.

Fvcking coward.
Lil Frosh that has only two miserable songs.

Angelfrost:
I'm not talking physical laziness, sis!

In my book, it has to be nothing short of emotional and mental laziness to continue to endure abuse, humiliation, and violence all because you feel someone loves you, or that breaking up would leave you alone or lonely... Or for any other lame sentimental reason.

I could have sworn that you were talking about physical laziness. You called her a Bimbo right?

Say she is lazy with your chest & don't be a coward. Stop changing mouth.

niceadebola:
I am 30 and married.

This may not be related but if you are married, does it mean your wife is with you in Germany?

I remember for Uk, you can apply for Student Visa and state your marital status, It means your spouse can work full time as long a you are still schooling in the Uk.

Is this the same for Germany?

I would be really interested in finding out whatever decision you finally take

- Msc in Uk is 1 year
- Msc in Canada is 2 years & Express Entry is super tough now.

What does Uk guarantee you? are you going to get a PR in the Uk after working for many years
How about Tech jobs in the Uk compared to Canada? have you done any research yet

@ednut1: People just want to leave Nigeria, they really don't care about Msc

DanTheGeek:
This is my 7th year as a software developer.

Do you mean this is your 7th year professionally or since you started learning how to code?

404Dev:
Thanks to all who contributed.

I started with 200k and we negotiated down to a monthly pay of 150k which I accepted.

So congratulations to me.

Congratulations, In as much as I don't agree with every thing KristaPretty says, starting at 200k was really good for you as she said. Imagine if you started lower, you would be blaming yourself. I remember getting hired in a company & earning 280k because I negotiated but the other developer I met was on 180k, a whooping 100k difference & we do the same thing.

Infact the guy was better in terms in technical skills but I was more respected, people feared me. I was like a Jackpot hire
It's all about the way you carry yourself.

ImaIma1:
There are many factors involved in a lady not wanting to marry or date down. It is very easy to bruise a guy's ego when you are higher than him. And that might make the lady constantly walking on egg shells.

I once shared here how I had a date with a guy that I had been talking to. I drove to meet him while he took a taxi or public transport because he didn't have a car. We wanted to move from our meeting point to where we were going to hang out. Do you know that this guy refused to enter the car? We had to walk down there in the hot sun.

It was sooo obvious that he was uncomfortable with the fact that I drove and he couldn't just let me drive him. We didn't see after that.

Some guys cannot handle it. Who wants to keep apologising for being up if you are with a guy that has a big ego.

Every thing you said is true, First I want make a statement that there is nothing wrong with "low self esteem" in certain situations. It simply an integral part of life depending on the event & also changes with time & maturity. There are also extreme cases where a Guy can be completely stupid, which your case was clearly an example of. I wouldn't want to suffer my date by allowing her walk when she has a car. Makes zero sense!

A man needs different things to boost his confidence, Self esteem is usually tied to something of substance, people may deny it all they want.
It may be looks, money, personality, talent, exceptional intelligence etc. You need to have one else you would just be living a fake life with a fake self esteem. A lady smart enough would soon realise & move on.

I agree with you & I don't recommend a lady marrying a guy who earns less, for his own sake.

DZTech:
"convert ur funds to dollars.
then-
research mutual funds or a fixed deposit account"
hope dt helps?

I'm sorry but this doesn't help. I know how mutual funds & fixed deposit works. I also shared the current rates with you, I am only trying to understand how this would benefit me and other people reading this thread who have some cash to invest & you have given me no information.

Why would I invest in mutual funds that gives me 4% returns? Fixed deposit is also trash too, at least at this current times.

DZTech:
his money would earn interest in dollars, even as naira depreciates further.
so, if warnings of a recession r true, there'll b increased demand for dollars by sept/oct for school fees, which he can sell at peak price; then buy dollars again after Christmas.
or just go into gift card sales- buy cheap, sell dear!

If we all sell our dollars to students by Oct, let's say we buy it at $1/480 sell it for $1/500 or 550. We are making 30k - 70k Naira profit.

This is good though.

DZTech:
the original post was:

convert ur funds to dollars.
research mutual funds or a fixed deposit account- all interest payments added to d principal.
by October, ur money might have doubled (forex for schools abroad).
avoid shares, forex, crypto- unless ur a professional in the field.

if u want to invest in Nigeria, STRICT retail of FMCG is ur best bet-
make sure u hire competent staff, pay well & ensure monitoring.

good luck,
God bless

When you say mutual funds or fixed deposit, are you referring to Naira Accounts?
Currently mutual funds in Naira interest rates is 4%. Fixed deposit rates also has dropped.

1M is around $2,000 with $1/470 rate. So are you saying by October, dollar would have become $1 / 1,000 Naira?

I am asking just for clarification, I come in peace.

bizgenera:
If he was paid up to 500k as severance, he should try this:- www.mbatrades.com

They would be paying him 75k monthly and he is free to take out his 500k every 6 month. With this, he and his pregnant wife would be fine. Lots of people are enjoying this. This is the info gift I can give you.

Why are you so Wicked? Gosh! If there was any Business making venture that 500k gets you 75k, You would not even be here telling us about it, you would secretly be eating the profits alone.

Someone who just had a baby & lost his job, you still want to SCAM him.

See God will Punish you & your generation for this, Bastard oshi!

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Ejadike:
Why not just add like 12.5k and get the latest Camon 15? You can the Camon 12 for around that price.

Thanks, i have ordered for Camon 12 PRO. the problem i have is delivery because of this pandemic. It will take so long to get delivered.

Hi Guys, I urgently need to purchase a brand new Android Infinix or Techno phone that falls within the price range of 50k.

I have contacted over 13 Online Vendors from Instagram & I'm really tired at this point, for the past 2 weeks during this Pandemic lockdown.

Please reach out to me If you can deliver a Phone to Osapa London, Lekki.

I need it Urgently please, because I have been on this for 2 whole weeks.

Infinix HOT 8, HOT 7 or In short anyone you have.

flyca:
She could still marry of she wanted to. She might even be engaged already. It's never late!

If she is into kids, she might soon adopt and be able to send the kid to an elite school. The making of a star kid comes with money - fact!

Besides na this kind late dey get money to take care of her parents, pamper them, take them on vacations etc

I'm happy for her abeg

Quite hard to marry @ this age but who cares really? She is Rich & can take care of herself, her parents and siblings. I'm sure knacking would not be her problem as Men can knack anything knackable. She will only have problems finding love. I feel life generally is a lot harder for Women who chase their dreams, a man @ 40 can still marry a beauty queen of 22 years but the other way round is almost impossible.

izzou:
She's happy because she said she's happy

Why should I believe she's unhappy? Because you said so?

Hahaha abi oh, honestly you cannot have it all in life. Most important thing is to be happy whatever your situation is.

Married or not, she is Rich & Doing well.

Bcpump:
Thank you. I definitely would compare the prices and not go for anything low such as <<10k. what I want is something totalling about 16k for hospital/doc and all medicals.

for the location, I am actually free as I was not asked where exactly I wanted to birth during my Visa update.

Hello Mrs, sorry If my question sounds very dumb, I am a guy (not married yet, just planning ahead) & i just want to understand some things.

- Why & how come delivery is so expensive in the US?
- Are these prices only for immigrants or Women who only come to give birth?

I understand people with jobs & insurance would have it cheaper but even that, insurance only caters for a small percentage of the bill.

- There are poor people in America, down town NY etc. How do they afford to give birth to their own kids?

chibertha Beautyaddy cretin
Please guys, help me out here. I'm going through this thread & my brain is going ballistic because of the prices.

tygar:
No more good ebening

Good afternoon

Mogajunior:
I don't think, perhaps the reason for using team B. They are still leading their group except Az Almkaaar wins tonight.

ok

Aturitoroman:
No, they are currently topping their group with 10points

ok

Mogajunior:
When I saw man utd squad, I knew they underestimated Astana Wich is risky and now they are paying for it by loosing.

If they loose to Astana, would they be out of the Europa League?

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This thread na big eye opener.

ImaIma1:
You are so right. She should have stayed with her family till the white wedding instead of living with him as a "half wife".

If she's going to be his wife, she has to do it completely with all the benefits. She can't sleep in his bed as his wife and expect him to free her.

Actually, the problem is Ignorance. This is what happens when you're dating an Ignorant person who has told you she is ignorant from the jump & you still went ahead.

Church wedding & Traditional is totally unnecessary, proper waste of funds.

- Go to Court
- Tie the knot
- Take pictures together
- Then head to a decent low-budget reception

Go home & Fvck your wife happily, Then head to Obudu Cattle Ranch for honey moon.
Finito.

BiggyB242:
I'm telling you. I have seen a lady who had a no-sex relationship for a year, but had sex within a month of meeting a new guy.
From my own perspective, if a girl gives me conditions of any sort and she still stick to it after a month then I know she isn't really into me, I quietly move on.

What you just described is totally different from what the OP is saying.

This is a case of religious woman who wants a church wedding, that is all.