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frozen70:
Well in as much as you are protecting your interests, her family interests is equally involved and need to be considered too

If the man has been sending things to her and the family acknowledged that, it's possible she is doing it with the interest of her family

In that case you are left with a decision to end the relationship let her go ahead with the man so that she and the family will keep benefiting from the man, am sure they have not benefited anything from you for the years you guys have been

So if you are ready to marry her, go to her parents and do the needful then after the marriage, even if its introduction, let her be aware that she is married now thereafter you can compel her to make a call to the man in your presence and tell the man the truth that she is married now

I said the above because you don't have to stop her from getting the goodies from the man to them, yet you are not doing anything to show that you are getting married to her

In other words, you can give her a break to sort herself with the man before you guys can continue whatever you have with her

Excellent Post, so in conclusion the man is helping her family financially and they know he is 50 years and they are fine with that. Great!

Poster (mowaconfused), If you know you cannot cater for her family and financial needs, it's better to take your leave & move on.

This is what I keep emphasising online & offline that no one should date women from poor families. NO DISRESPECT to these women but they are not capable of loving you, not because they are evil or self centered but ONLY a person who has eaten 3 square meals with a family that has a good roof over their head can fall in love. At this point they are just trying to survive and they would take money even from a dwarf just to keep them afloat.

A woman who is barely trying to survive cannot love you, It is obvious that the money you are giving her is not enough.

Even if you go ahead to tell the Family you want to marry their daughter, can you provide for her like the Man in America or Canada?

Please move on OP.

Very legit way many Lekki dudes sleep with so many Women though, drive a nice car & superb house

It is way cheaper to date a babe when you have a great arranged house & nice car to compliment

pocohantas:
Women are futuristic beings. If your house looks like a sare-wagba spot, you’ll be begging ladies to visit and they’ll refuse. You’ll say it is because you didn’t send urgent 2k- it is a lie!

All the money you use in drinking beer, channel half of it into making your space livable and trust me, na babes go dey ask if you are home.

There are some guys house you’ll enter, so homely, you will just imagine yourself pregnant and watching TV. Why won’t you try to hook such a man?

Afam4eva:
This Apple own sef don dey too much. Lai Mohammed needs to sanction them

They are already sanctioned in Brazil and must make sure they sell iPhones with chargers

fancyto:
I don't know but the facts are there.
Do you research yourself.

Why are you contradicting yourself, you shouldn't have replied at all. You made a statement, now you say you don't know. You are not even convinced about your own statement. SMH!

ProphetM0hammad:
This Leeds no be easy team o
Toughest match of the season so far

Asin ehn, I am wondering how they are in 14th position. I really can't understand why. So confused right now, they play like Bayern Munich.

obibanks:
But it's true. The pages are filling up fast because of such repetitive questions and people's motivations are wavering. At this rate, we'll have to beg the MOD to open a new page soon.

We are really hoping things gets back to normal & Germany remembers us. If y'all aren't aware with current affairs, International Migration is at a shaky point and we just have to stay optimistic and keep faith that these people reconsiders because Truth be told, they don't owe us sh*t.

Come off with this mindset, no country survives without immigrants. Who is going to do those jobs citizens don't want to do? Menial jobs, construction, Nursing & even programming jobs, Going to study in Germany shows that you are actually impacting their country with Skill & knowledge, Immigrants work their ass off & also pay 40% or more taxes to their country. We work like rugrats, 60 hours per week for some just to earn a living & pay their taxes.

My point is: They need us as much as we need them. 50/50.

Ayobami2001:
Please does any one know a specific email address I can reach the embassy with? I visited the website and only saw a contact form. I would like to withdraw my visa application and close my blocked account.

Bro can you reach out? I am trying to withdraw my block account funds as well. There seems to be almost no process of refunding. They just think everyone has no other choice that once they block their funds, they'll never remove it.

fancyto:
Wow you got a good one o.
Canada or Australia is far better than Germany as far as I am concerned.
The only issue is that it's expensive.

Why is Canada and Australia better?

Brawlscartel:
380 in bank

Money is not spent in the bank, you spend it by exchanging it for value from people who sell at 500.

I have to train my children out of Nigeria to be fair.

I don't even have a choice.

ProfAmaben:
So let's blame PHP's slowness on verbose scripts and styles.

Actually YES. PHP is slow, but Wordpress is madddddd slow.

If you do a little research, you will find out that most themes comes with unnecessary clog of scripts & styles. Once you remove all that & only include what you want, meaning maintain only your custom built HTML website styles & scripts, It works like magic.

I wouldn't advice anyone to learn php in 2020 cos it's severely limited to backend development.

Hmm is this the major reason though? PHP is actually dying a natural death, I mean we have GO, Ruby which people still learn & use daily with growing numbers & they are only Backend.

ProfAmaben:
Congratulations to him. I'm an advocate of technology and not a fanboy since technology is just a tool utilized in solving problems. You asking me to build a WordPress theme from scratch is like me asking you to use JavaScript to analyze topological features using synthetic aperture radar interferometry and rendering the result with React.

We should all pat ourselves on the back regardless of tech stack or framework. Someone lost his life in Arkansas over Angular vs React fight, say no to fanboyism. Shalom.

Assumptions Assumptions Assumptions. Assumptions flying every where!

Everyone of us assumes about the technology we don't know about, Someone says Mern stack is the worse, another says PHP covers 70% of the web so people should learn it instead. Another says don't learn it cause It sounds like PDP.

Ironically, an ideal way to create a Wordpress website is to create the Theme from scratch, not as hard as some people think. Performance issues already solved just by taking this approach, because readymade themes tend to include a lot of scripts and styles which makes Wordpress sites slow like tortoise. You can also implement your own security easily.

Anyway RIP to those that lost their lives in Arkansas, they have 7 virgins waiting for them.

Graysons:
She no they pass 25? This girl mumu sha, very beautiful lady just turn herself into baby mama smh.

Very young beautiful women between 18 - 24 are overrated to be honest, they go for instant gratification instead of men of real substance & character. Take a look at Chidinma too, she is beautiful & without sense. If you find a beautiful woman in her early 20s, omo run for your dear life.

I don't want to stereotype… but it's true. Don't be surprised if your young 21 year old Wife sleeps with her Celebrity crush. It's normal.

pocohantas:
Currently, a male minor for me is 0-25yrs.

Habana! Madame ahn ahn, wetin happen So 25 is same worth & value as 0. Omo life no balance

Denique:
I like that I look younger than my age but the downside of it is, when SSS students begin to woo you on the streets.

Last month, some Secondary School Boys tried to chyke me but my response to them and some grownups that greeted me right before them made them apologise.

I just chuckled and went my way.

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On one hand it seems good that you aren't ageing or aging just as Pharell, on the other hand people treat you like you are so young. I remember toasting a babe in 2016 & she asked me If I was still in school, gosh I was so embarrassed. I later found out that I was 5 years older than her & she was just preparing for NYSC. Just imagine oh, Meanwhile she looked so big, both Boobs & Ass already poking out like she was in her 30s.

One thing that distinguishes you is a smart person would know you aren't so young by how you communicate, a foolish person wouldn't because they don't have any sense.

Toks2008:
You are a beauty goddess.

Your beauty will be ageless because of your stature Infact I call ladies like you evergreen beauty..

If only you know how sweet you look.

Bros Bros, this one you're falling in love. It's rare to see the LION himself, Aka odumodu fall in love oh

Bacteriologist:
I won't be surprised if these pastors run background checks on their members then tag it prophesies afterwards

Actually, he doesn't know me that well & never spoken to me before. People can tell you about your past/future through diabolical means that I have witnessed on many occasions so he own wasn't new at all. He even called the names of the ladies I have dated, i gave no one that info. So it was definitely not a background check, but that one no move me, I be Lagos boy!

pocohantas:
But think am na, how you go get 3 cars and your daddy in the Lord go dey trek. E no balance.

Make Daddy in the Lord come & do 9 - 5 abeg. Then after he has completed it the first month, he should come back & we can have a sit down.

One told me my full life's story & It was super accurate. Then he proceeded to asking me to sow my full month salary. I chuckled & told him Okay.

He felt I would be so blown away by hearing everything about my life from someone I never knew. Omo I downloaded TrueCaller & blocked him.

cescky:
Stress is a silent killer.. Survival in naija even on a fat salary is stressful..

My take resign from the wahala company snd and take up the second one.. Even though one man company is normally more stressful than structured big companies... But its better you go there and see as it, especially as its the same salaries.. No matter how things span in the second company.. You know you tasted both.. The big company is your father's property so, its not like you wont be sacked or seek better work esle where in future.. One major thing is DO NOT BE AFRAID.. it takes risks to reap rewards take the other offer. Another thing is id two of the companies. Offered you the job.. You're very good at least on paper..

Hmm wahala dey for small company oh

As a lady, one man company is highly not an option. Sexual harassment and so many nonsense in one man company. In a big company you can report your boss to his/her own bosses if you feel he/she has been taking advantage of you.

In a one man company, when your salary is paid, you are expected to kneel and say thank you sir/ma to your boss for doing you a favour by paying your salaries. Something you worked for.

One man companies can also owe salaries, big companies will never. Instead they will declare bankruptcy.

Even if you get fired in a big company, all earned benefits up to the time of dismissal must be payed to the employee. Small companies no send you, na anyhow belle face.

Lovelyn451:
u think he's crying for just the relationship? age is not on his side, his mates have grown children instead of encouraging him u want to slap him...na ur type dey make person commit suicide. please allow him, let him cry and relieve himself of all that stress, crying is good for the health

Honestly you have a point, because if your heart gets broken by 49 & you are completely single with no children, It's a lot of problems.

At that age, only very few women want to marry you. It isn't even about money at this point, unless you are stupendously rich like Ned Nwoko. Even at that, these Women like Regina don't really care about you, they are there for the money.

That's why I wonder when people make statements such as Men don't suffer the impact of late or delayed marriage. Every sensible man should be married by 35, at worst 37. Once 40 hits, some ladies would start rejecting you.

OJURONGBE1:
Human beings are distinct individuals not generic people. How many ladies have you woo or gone out with to observe their decency and manners?

How much does an ET earn at those banks ? 2.4-3M p/anum after tax? If i don't know much, at least i know Wema bank pay their ET's 221k b/tax & 300k annual leave while Polaris ET's earn 3.1M A/tax.
And they're probably going to be on the same position for 5-6years, that is if they meet their KPi.

Please what is the full meaning of ET?

Valkyrie, I watched this movie on a flight to Ethiopia. Omo I cried like a baby chai.

Miracle in a cell was just too overrated for me, I almost shed a tear sha but the movie didn't make much sense & story line was too basic.

I was too young when I saw Titanic, I can't really decide if Jack leaving to die made any sense but I did cry.

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Gerrard59:
The mistake OP makes is believing only those girls who stand outside in the streets or hotels are prostitutes. With social media, a homely and comely girl can engage in prostitution and no one will know. To you, she's a very good girl. No be here we discover say a girl who went to Covenant University engages in prostitution even though she didn't stand in the streets? To her family members, she's not a prostitute but this is a girl who takes in d!ck and accepts come in the mouth.

Where was this post?

pocohantas:
The 32 took me by shock. Nigeria na useless country sha. 7yrs in the labour market with 80k salary. Kai!!!

He was working 7 years without a BSC oh, he just graduated last year.

Dapcity007:
[s]Dont be fooled by Leftist media CNN who seek to promote radicalized feminism , homosexuality, gay marriage, LGBTQ, abortion under the disguise of supporting End SARS look at their DJ Switch media talk and compare to their news of female celeb Adele divorce from her spouse, who after the divorce she will be feeding as their culture support female hypergamy creating broke emasculated men , my fellow youths let's not be deceived , the ends protest has been hijacked

Obviously its expected she married an emasculated Simp(a potential gay**t), because their society is so progressive and allows for female hypergamy hence the rise of weak nonvirile men , homosexual men, non binary men, She Male,Bisexual men,and other aborminations we see openly in these society,I commend her success as an individual , attaining these height in her music career based on her own merit but I'm against their society killing natural masculinity in their men via queerness,sexless,and genderless notion

The African Man is a natural redpiller , our conservative culture alone produces Alpha male,and also strong independent women who don't see men,babies,marriage,family as threats to achieving their personal set out objectives eg Mrs Folorusho Alakija(richest woman in Africa),Mrs Awoseka of first bank , Arch bishop Mrs Idahosa , Mrs Tara of house of Tara, Former senator Mrs Florence It's Giwa, Rev Mrs Adejumo, Aisha Yesufu of Endsars protest, Mrs Stella okoli the founder and current CEO of Emzor pharmaceutical,and a host of others

These compared to what the leftist american media who want to promote single motherhood,divorce,queerness and other progressive ideologies and we see in some of our female celebrities Toke Makiwa (divorce),Vanetta of big brother(divorce),Genevieve Nnaji (single mother),Waje(single mother ),INI Edo(divorce),Tiwa savage(divorce and single mother) and a host of others

Note I'm not against single women or men Apostle Paul was single,Jesus was single,Mother Theresa was single, you can be single and still fufil destiny, have peace of mind, attain happiness without needing the institution of marriage or family,what I'm against and I now see in some women is that they now see that marriage, family, .men, babies all as threats to attaining women right,and women independence hence the wave of radical feminism, toxic feminity ,progressivism,LGBTQ, genderless and queerness notion

An example is an NGO called feminist coalition that was headed by modern feminist kiki mordi and a host of other ladies who where one of the major sponsors and organizers of the End SARS protest specifically in Lekki toll gate protest under the guise of fighting for police reform,end to police brutality ,end to extra Judicial killing, were actual fighting for radical leftist ideologies like LGBTQ,abortion,gay marriage, etc which are against God and Nature, they were verified by progressive twitter owner Jack Dorsey to gain popularity and donation for these so called purpose

We are all complaining about Buhari today , his bad economic policies as we are seeing rise in fuel,food,transportion costs etc. poor govt educational policies keeping youths from school because of ASUU strike, dictatorial tendency by trying to ban social media,corruption by holding covid 19 pallatives ,etc. We see former pres Jonathan as a weak, incompetent , corrupt politician who could not handle the Boko Haram terrorist insurgency ,people don't see the reason for these was his refusal to accept progressive Obama Gay marriage policy,Jonathan not only refused these satanic leftist feminist ideology but also penalized homosexuals with new legislative bill of 13 yrs imprisonment of homosexuals,Obama punished Nigeria by refusing us the money and arms to fight these terrorist hence leading to countless loss of lives and properties,human displacement into IDP camps,violation of women body and right in the case of Chibok girls , and now these tribalist bigot incompetent president Buhari.[/s]

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10minutes:
web designing is not programing.

Ghen Ghen Ghen Ghen.....This & that is not programming crew is here again! Wahala dey for who know sabi wetin be programming oh

Majority of Websites now contain huge JS animations, that alone sef is programming. Now, most websites cannot do without JS. So all na programming.

CalliDora1:
Was this the only thing you could dig up? Search some more, I'm sure you'll find enough to buttress your points.

Learn madame, nobody is fighting you. Everyone is not your enemy!

You know Judging by your behaviour here & how this supposedly fine boy gave you 50 Naira as opposed to paying a significant amount for your shopping. You said & I quote "I zeroed my mind about us ( didn't tell him though)." .

Going by your current logic, It means there is also a possibility he was testing you.
You see why the "Test" in quote of a thing is pure rubbish. Further more, someone even pointed to you on that thread that her current husband who was based in Canada at the time, sent a little token to her which she was disgusted but decided to be patient & watch.

But you as the All Knowing & All powerful human decided to be a Tester. Testing Microphone. Kontinu.

CalliDora1:
Yeah you read right! And now the why's

Why is that you meet a guy, he's everything you want but "rich".

Why is it that you meet another guy, he's rich but not everything you want?

Why can't there be a sort of balance? Like being rich and everything you want?

I'm not a leech, neither am I a liability but we all know how important it is for both couple to be financially ok at least for the unborn childrens sakes because no body wants to bring children into the world to suffer.

This is really making it hard for people to settle down because trust me, if you decide to go ahead just for marrying sakes, you'll regret it. Imagine a fine boy who can't do a 70-30 shared responsibilities with you or a rich man who can't be your fine boy and bestie in marriage, making you feel like you're one of his funitures.

Met one recently ( fine boy) and I decided to give it a shot.
So we went shopping and I was about to pay for my stuff and there was #50 naira on top, so I told the cashier not to do the 50 with my card that I'll give her cash. Next thing Bobo said, don't worry I can do the #50.. lol.... I developed instant headache. Like what? Even though I wasn't expecting him to pay, I wasn't comfortable with that gesture. He should have just kept quiet. So, I zeroed my mind about us ( didn't tell him though). Hm. It is well with our young boys.

I know this might sound silly to some, but it is what is still keeping a lot of people single. Speaking from experience. It's crazy though but real.

Why is life not balance?
Just thinking aloud this morning.

Brandonx:
NOT just in Berlin alone, as you see them they are demons. If they want to frustrate you they do it so well like that's what they are being paid for. They don't want to know where you are coming from and you would be wondering if they Nigerians.

If even Paulinus in the Germany Embassy gate in Nigeria alone feels like a god. Why wouldn't someone inside the Nigerian Embassy In Germany feel like Zeus? When It comes to travelling, Nigerians make themselves god.

In the US Embassy, the useless police officers expect you to greet them & call them Sir, after you leave they will now be asking for "Anything for boys". It's God that will punish all of them.

He should be deported & removed from Service. Suspension is too small. His documents should be revoked.