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pocohantas:
Lol. Even guys dey break babes heart na. One of my colleagues wey be virtuous woman, if you see the kind table tennis wey her guy dey use her heart play ehn, you go find one of your brothers for her.

LMAO! how far madame, give us gist na

I hope she wasn't steadily knacking as a virtuous woman sha?

temmypotter:
This low-key wiz and Burna gang up though.. it has anti Davido agenda all over it.

Make them forget.. This one nor dey move OBO! The best.. sho get?

Asin ehn, you are really observant

I recently discovered this like a month ago & was really surprised unlike what the society tells you about women that's it's all about Money Money Money.

This is why proper Data analysis is good, it shows you the true information.

Most women who have jobs would prefer a very good looking guy who is atleast responsible and career focused. Even if he his not rich, it doesn't matter so much.

*Emphasis on jobs

A combination of good looks & money is a banger.

skentelelady:
What's wrong with you. Please grow up

I just ate a bucket full of beans this morning, I believe It will make me grow.

Adios.

Wow congrats, please share your I.V, so some of us can at least attend the Wedding.

Congrats again & God bless your Union IJN. Amen.

skentelelady:
You should have waited for her to ask if she could be joining every morning if she really needs the free ride

I remember when I just started work on the island and no car. I was fortunate to meet a guy one morning going to my area on the island too. After a while I quickly asked him if I could be joining him every morning because it would save tfare and bstop rush. He agreed and we exchanged numbers. We became friends till I got to ride my own ride and later family friends.

You might and might not have ulterior motives but you sounded as if you had one with your question. The best answer would have been I have nothing with smile

Magnoliaa:
Just what I was saying. Claiming feminists are this and that offline—yet nobody knows our addresses to verify what we do.

Well.

You want Pamela007's address? I have it based on request.

Regards
Tosin.

pocohantas:
efulefu

L + efulefu = Lefulefu

Abeg na Joke oh, I no find anybody trouble please.

DaddyRochie1642:
Oga tell us the truth, ... That your so called Innocent Offer you made to that woman, If it were your Fellow Man, would you have made such an Offer to him

No mind am, na e-diot him be a Pocohantas would say

pocohantas:
hahahahahahahahahahahaha! Werey!!!

Your mum will start serving you rice and stew with two plates.

You gerrit, all of a sudden they start asking for your opinions in family meetings.

gbeymey:
I remember turning down a marriage proposal cos I was too broke for marriage then. Thanks to God story has changed now. Tho some friends told me I didn't love oga enough but na me know wetin I see.

Congrats, you did the right thing. Money directly or Indirectly makes people Lord over you, whether we choose to accept or not.
Even my parents started respecting me when I started earning some money.

Palema007:
Alright... Thank you.

I'm an advocate of Balance.

Palema the Avatar: The Last Airbender...Bring Balance to The WORLD

smithclito:
u people succeeded in turning my anger into laughter. well thanks for all meaningful and respectful contributions. I believed this thread will help other couples. as for me I will consider all meaningful advice here and conclude what my next action will be .My wife is a wonderful home maker and an excellent mother, she use to be a good love making person but she lost it along the way I tried talking to her but highest after apology she go straight back at it .well I dey one Change now only

I really wanted to write something very long, but mehn I just erased every thing as I don't have strength. Just Kindly watch this video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Na6fHABGK44

It's a couple having a discussion about about Women losing their sex drive, due to all kinds of situations. EG: Loss of Interest in sex, process of childbirth, complications, taking care of children etc.

In this video, his Wife was able to have a sit-down discussion & be honest about these issues. You see ehn, you cannot force a horse to drink water, If she isn't willing to change, nothing can change her.

Confuzedman:
This is not a fiction, i had to create a new acct for advise. I have been dating my fiancee for over a year, tho it was a long distance stuff. Trouble began when she started visiting regularly. I noticed that whenever she comes, she’ll be reluctant to do certain things. When I get back from work, she will start acting like she is sick, somebody that was online all day. Later she said she doesn't know market,i got someone to buy foodstuffs for her, she still didn’t cook it. Whenever she visits, same story.I decided to have a talk with her over it, can you believe she said I am complaining too much. She asked if I haven’t been eating before she visited. I was heartbroken to hear that from her. As if that wasn’t enough, she said she is not marrying again and she isn’t a housegurl

I called her to talk after work today and she was still giving me attitude. Her friend is saying I was too harsh

Lalasticlala, plz help

I'm not even a good relationship adviser, neither do I have my own problems solved but I can tell you one thing for sure.

1. Within that short period of ONE YEAR, she has met someone else better & she wants to leave but there is no other excuse.

OR

2. She doesn't really like you that much, but there is no one else. So better you than nobody.

If you want to satisfy your curiosity, apologise to her & marry her.

Zzor:
he will want a feminine woman, he enjoys having the opposite energy in his life, masculine men loves to be the hero, provider and protector. Avoid men that will want to engage you with financial obligations by simply and cunningly asking you what you will be bringing to the table, you should only render assistance when necessary, it is abnormal for a woman to be the bread winner

UjuJoan2:
But men who intentionally seek out richer women to date or marry and only making things worse for themselves in the future. No woman likes being the head of a home financially.

I only have two questions to ask.

Does every woman in this Family section or on this post agree with this statements above?
By this: It means I have to consistently make sure my Wife never prospers by hook, crook or Juju & try to belittle every thing she does, Else I am doomed.

Is this what I should look forward to achieving?

cc: UjuJoan2, Zzor, bukatyne, mariahAngel

Dickson178:
This is almost what happen to me. I met this girl last year december,so i started dating and we also had a sex still that december till march,we normally had a sex 2days in a week(but am always using condom anytime we had a sex) .Unfortunatly she text me that she's H.I.V+ .i was afraid at that moment ,i even started crying thinking how am living a short life. But my mind was telling me u always had a sex with condom,why will u be afraid. Then i clean my tears and text her back that you're the one H.I.V+ Not me. She boldly texting me the second time that she has contacted me with H.I.V. I started crying again asking my self ,i dn't have money for test and for drugs(bcus i hav'nt went for text b4 and i struggle man alone to eat). I block her that moment,started thinking . Then i said with my mind that,since i dn't have money for test,lemme stay and check the symtom of H.I.V in my body. I break up with d girl immediatly in march this year. But up till now i hav'nt went for test and am living comfortable.

Ogbeni go and do a test, why are talking like an illiterate

Exodora:
To cut the story short am still alive and strong without any drugs since then and my boyfriend is even married with kids.

So you married you BF or he married someone else and he his with kids? Which one

CHoccolaTE:
You must be a very cool and calm person in real life for you to read Nairaland for 6 years without feeling agitated enough to react to something and post reply.


Either that or you are a liar and this is not your only account.

This is a very good observation, a certain dude called DHTML18 who use to be a broken record on the programming section made me create an account back then in 2014, the Idiot used to say a lot of rubbish that gets me agitated. Airforce1 was another person who constantly makes me laugh with his Yahoo Boy posts that I had come online & fake praise the guy, so I can selfishly continue to be entertained by him

Has anyone requested a return / transfer back of their money in Fintiba before from Nigeria.

Any good response will be appreciated.

authe911:
Thanks for the opinion but like I have said on this platform before. This winter semester will be mostly be hybrid, even if you defer your admission till summer semester, they will still have to attend to “enrolled students” first before summer students.

We all know there is a second wave of Covid in Germany and some part of Europe. Most universities including mine allow you to do classes online, only in the case of exams are you required to be on campus which is Feb/March 2021.

If you still wouldn’t be able to come due to travel restrictions in 2021 you can register same exams in next winter semester. The good thing is you have more time to get your blocked and wouldn’t have to be spending so much on expenses since you are not in DE yet.

My take....

Please does anyone know how to request money back money from Fintiba to decline the whole German admission processs?

TAGM:
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Don't loose a man of destiny, purpose and vision because of 50 naira.

bukatyne:
Why does the average poor Nigerian have against a privately rich Nigerian?

Not anger against the Govt that made you poor: Not anger against the parents that probably did not plan well: Not anger against the headmaster that syphoned the learning aids.

Anger against innocent rich Nigerians who have defied all odds and climbed out of the pit.

Why?

I think It's important that i add this little information, that what people call "privately rich Nigerian" isn't rich at all, they haven't climbed out of the pit yet. They are middle class families who have struggled and currently still struggling just to stay afloat.

Poor people don't want to do anything to leave poverty neither do they want you to also be elevated, same reason why Nigerian witches will never help their children to be Billionaires instead they rather see you become as poor as them, so you all can languish together.

I have stopped having sympathy for the poor, they can die for all I care.

Petyprincess:
She was a regular customer on romance section,she used to upload two to three threads a day for attention sometimes she uploads her picture claiming she's natural beauty even at her age she still looks young.
So one day she opened a thread looking for men nd listed her criteria that's hw i got to know her age,she later hook up with one shorty on nairaland that someone even uploaded their photo but due to her attention seeking self things couldn't go the way she wanted, she started trolling this guy because of his height claiming short men are devils, after people realized how she's an attention seeker she deactivated that account nd opened another always asking about her old moniker claiming she's popular blah blah blah
She had a fallout with this lady because she refused to give her the money she dared her in truth and dare game,she had the guts to insult someone having postpartum depression!!

All her topics are usually about men interested in her blah blah blah, she claims born again yet she curses nd insults people telling her the truth lol

If you wanna know more search "ashirawealthy" "jewessgratitude" and "sassygem"
I have forgotten are other monikers lol.

Lmaooo thanks for the details. I didn't even imagine I would get a response

Pretty nice FBI work

Petyprincess:
Lol all these insults from a 40 years old woman baffles me, only people that don't know you will take you serious,we know hw you seek attention from romance section now you have moved to family section lol
Well i ain't in mood for insults,i was told not to insult my elders today but next time you might not be lucky lol.

Quick question, how do you know she is 40 years old? I mean both of you have agreed that you don't know each other, but calling someone's age is pretty specific.

So let's have the fullllllllll gist

I just want to say this is very common in Black Communities, we have proof that this also happens Only in other Black communities as well.

I have a recent video where the same happened in a SHOPRITE around Black community in West Philadelphia. They were also protesting.

This never happens in a non-black community, but let's just pretend that Blacks don't find any opportunity to loot.

mariahAngel:
Only a man that is sure of himself can admit that.
Others would want to shame him into silence.
To some men, it is simply unacceptable to them that a man would choose to stay celibate.
There are also some things that they wouldn't want their fellow men letting ladies know.

It depends, women who aren't virgins get very irritated if you are a virgin & about to get down with them because they automatically believe you have no experience. While Men shame you to silence if you speak amongst the that you are a virgin. Even from High School, never for once will anyone accept that they are virgins.

Infact, it is so bad that you can't even say you are single in guy's hangout. You go just lie say your babe dey busy, na why she no fit follow you.

Like it's a curse to be single.

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I bought a perfume for an expensive amount from a friend that advertised her perfume business, when I used it in the morning before heading to work, the fragrance had cleared off before 30 mins. I was so pissed. I got back home & threw away the perfume.

She later asked me if the perfume was good & I said yes, very nice.

2nd time was when I wanted to support my friends food business & ordered two plates for 5k, the food was the most terrible food ever.
She asked me if her food taste good, of course I said that was the best food I ever tasted.

I don't want enemies abeg

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pcguru1:
Did you go to MiddleSex ?

Baba how far. After checking your pictures, I realise that I recognise you lol. I've been on Nairaland since but I hardly talk. Congrats on your new job oh, I suppose call you or message you on WhatsApp but this EndSars thing has taken everyone's focus.

Good morning sir, but ehn $3,000 is not small money anywhere oh. If you ask Dangote to Loan or dash you $3,000, he will ask for collateral or services you are rendering because he his a business man. Very rare will anyone send babe $3,000 monthly. A guy can buy gifts oh, but that amount is a lot even for big boys in the US.

I come in peace please, I didn't come to fight lol

Saintsammurai:
I know it's non of my business,, but the way you are stressing the 3,000 dollars it's ridiculous..

No offense but 3,000 dollars is chicken Cheng to some people living in Nigeria,, not to talk of Rich guys living in USA..

are there no 3,000 dollars panties and trousers,, bags,, even stockings in the market?

Abegi!!!!!

3 thousand dollars is like 1000 naira to some people.. even those that are not Even so rich..

there are guys that spends not less than 10,000 dollars in strip clubs every Friday..

cococandy with your beauty,, i would not mind spending 100,000 dollars on you every month..

Angelfrost:
Damn Son... Is this all??!... Come now, you're sounding like a broken record! Come up with something better. This is WEAK!!!

Oga rest! let me leave you this morning cause I have got work to do, if not.

I'm so sure that next time you won't do this nonsense!