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Gerrard59:
The mistake OP makes is believing only those girls who stand outside in the streets or hotels are prostitutes. With social media, a homely and comely girl can engage in prostitution and no one will know. To you, she's a very good girl. No be here we discover say a girl who went to Covenant University engages in prostitution even though she didn't stand in the streets? To her family members, she's not a prostitute but this is a girl who takes in d!ck and accepts come in the mouth.

Where was this post?

pocohantas:
The 32 took me by shock. Nigeria na useless country sha. 7yrs in the labour market with 80k salary. Kai!!!

He was working 7 years without a BSC oh, he just graduated last year.

Dapcity007:
[s]Dont be fooled by Leftist media CNN who seek to promote radicalized feminism , homosexuality, gay marriage, LGBTQ, abortion under the disguise of supporting End SARS look at their DJ Switch media talk and compare to their news of female celeb Adele divorce from her spouse, who after the divorce she will be feeding as their culture support female hypergamy creating broke emasculated men , my fellow youths let's not be deceived , the ends protest has been hijacked

Obviously its expected she married an emasculated Simp(a potential gay**t), because their society is so progressive and allows for female hypergamy hence the rise of weak nonvirile men , homosexual men, non binary men, She Male,Bisexual men,and other aborminations we see openly in these society,I commend her success as an individual , attaining these height in her music career based on her own merit but I'm against their society killing natural masculinity in their men via queerness,sexless,and genderless notion

The African Man is a natural redpiller , our conservative culture alone produces Alpha male,and also strong independent women who don't see men,babies,marriage,family as threats to achieving their personal set out objectives eg Mrs Folorusho Alakija(richest woman in Africa),Mrs Awoseka of first bank , Arch bishop Mrs Idahosa , Mrs Tara of house of Tara, Former senator Mrs Florence It's Giwa, Rev Mrs Adejumo, Aisha Yesufu of Endsars protest, Mrs Stella okoli the founder and current CEO of Emzor pharmaceutical,and a host of others

These compared to what the leftist american media who want to promote single motherhood,divorce,queerness and other progressive ideologies and we see in some of our female celebrities Toke Makiwa (divorce),Vanetta of big brother(divorce),Genevieve Nnaji (single mother),Waje(single mother ),INI Edo(divorce),Tiwa savage(divorce and single mother) and a host of others

Note I'm not against single women or men Apostle Paul was single,Jesus was single,Mother Theresa was single, you can be single and still fufil destiny, have peace of mind, attain happiness without needing the institution of marriage or family,what I'm against and I now see in some women is that they now see that marriage, family, .men, babies all as threats to attaining women right,and women independence hence the wave of radical feminism, toxic feminity ,progressivism,LGBTQ, genderless and queerness notion

An example is an NGO called feminist coalition that was headed by modern feminist kiki mordi and a host of other ladies who where one of the major sponsors and organizers of the End SARS protest specifically in Lekki toll gate protest under the guise of fighting for police reform,end to police brutality ,end to extra Judicial killing, were actual fighting for radical leftist ideologies like LGBTQ,abortion,gay marriage, etc which are against God and Nature, they were verified by progressive twitter owner Jack Dorsey to gain popularity and donation for these so called purpose

We are all complaining about Buhari today , his bad economic policies as we are seeing rise in fuel,food,transportion costs etc. poor govt educational policies keeping youths from school because of ASUU strike, dictatorial tendency by trying to ban social media,corruption by holding covid 19 pallatives ,etc. We see former pres Jonathan as a weak, incompetent , corrupt politician who could not handle the Boko Haram terrorist insurgency ,people don't see the reason for these was his refusal to accept progressive Obama Gay marriage policy,Jonathan not only refused these satanic leftist feminist ideology but also penalized homosexuals with new legislative bill of 13 yrs imprisonment of homosexuals,Obama punished Nigeria by refusing us the money and arms to fight these terrorist hence leading to countless loss of lives and properties,human displacement into IDP camps,violation of women body and right in the case of Chibok girls , and now these tribalist bigot incompetent president Buhari.[/s]

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10minutes:
web designing is not programing.

Ghen Ghen Ghen Ghen.....This & that is not programming crew is here again! Wahala dey for who know sabi wetin be programming oh

Majority of Websites now contain huge JS animations, that alone sef is programming. Now, most websites cannot do without JS. So all na programming.

CalliDora1:
Was this the only thing you could dig up? Search some more, I'm sure you'll find enough to buttress your points.

Learn madame, nobody is fighting you. Everyone is not your enemy!

You know Judging by your behaviour here & how this supposedly fine boy gave you 50 Naira as opposed to paying a significant amount for your shopping. You said & I quote "I zeroed my mind about us ( didn't tell him though)." .

Going by your current logic, It means there is also a possibility he was testing you.
You see why the "Test" in quote of a thing is pure rubbish. Further more, someone even pointed to you on that thread that her current husband who was based in Canada at the time, sent a little token to her which she was disgusted but decided to be patient & watch.

But you as the All Knowing & All powerful human decided to be a Tester. Testing Microphone. Kontinu.

CalliDora1:
Yeah you read right! And now the why's

Why is that you meet a guy, he's everything you want but "rich".

Why is it that you meet another guy, he's rich but not everything you want?

Why can't there be a sort of balance? Like being rich and everything you want?

I'm not a leech, neither am I a liability but we all know how important it is for both couple to be financially ok at least for the unborn childrens sakes because no body wants to bring children into the world to suffer.

This is really making it hard for people to settle down because trust me, if you decide to go ahead just for marrying sakes, you'll regret it. Imagine a fine boy who can't do a 70-30 shared responsibilities with you or a rich man who can't be your fine boy and bestie in marriage, making you feel like you're one of his funitures.

Met one recently ( fine boy) and I decided to give it a shot.
So we went shopping and I was about to pay for my stuff and there was #50 naira on top, so I told the cashier not to do the 50 with my card that I'll give her cash. Next thing Bobo said, don't worry I can do the #50.. lol.... I developed instant headache. Like what? Even though I wasn't expecting him to pay, I wasn't comfortable with that gesture. He should have just kept quiet. So, I zeroed my mind about us ( didn't tell him though). Hm. It is well with our young boys.

I know this might sound silly to some, but it is what is still keeping a lot of people single. Speaking from experience. It's crazy though but real.

Why is life not balance?
Just thinking aloud this morning.

Brandonx:
NOT just in Berlin alone, as you see them they are demons. If they want to frustrate you they do it so well like that's what they are being paid for. They don't want to know where you are coming from and you would be wondering if they Nigerians.

If even Paulinus in the Germany Embassy gate in Nigeria alone feels like a god. Why wouldn't someone inside the Nigerian Embassy In Germany feel like Zeus? When It comes to travelling, Nigerians make themselves god.

In the US Embassy, the useless police officers expect you to greet them & call them Sir, after you leave they will now be asking for "Anything for boys". It's God that will punish all of them.

He should be deported & removed from Service. Suspension is too small. His documents should be revoked.

pocohantas:
Lol. Even guys dey break babes heart na. One of my colleagues wey be virtuous woman, if you see the kind table tennis wey her guy dey use her heart play ehn, you go find one of your brothers for her.

LMAO! how far madame, give us gist na

I hope she wasn't steadily knacking as a virtuous woman sha?

temmypotter:
This low-key wiz and Burna gang up though.. it has anti Davido agenda all over it.

Make them forget.. This one nor dey move OBO! The best.. sho get?

Asin ehn, you are really observant

I recently discovered this like a month ago & was really surprised unlike what the society tells you about women that's it's all about Money Money Money.

This is why proper Data analysis is good, it shows you the true information.

Most women who have jobs would prefer a very good looking guy who is atleast responsible and career focused. Even if he his not rich, it doesn't matter so much.

*Emphasis on jobs

A combination of good looks & money is a banger.

skentelelady:
What's wrong with you. Please grow up

I just ate a bucket full of beans this morning, I believe It will make me grow.

Adios.

Wow congrats, please share your I.V, so some of us can at least attend the Wedding.

Congrats again & God bless your Union IJN. Amen.

skentelelady:
You should have waited for her to ask if she could be joining every morning if she really needs the free ride

I remember when I just started work on the island and no car. I was fortunate to meet a guy one morning going to my area on the island too. After a while I quickly asked him if I could be joining him every morning because it would save tfare and bstop rush. He agreed and we exchanged numbers. We became friends till I got to ride my own ride and later family friends.

You might and might not have ulterior motives but you sounded as if you had one with your question. The best answer would have been I have nothing with smile

Magnoliaa:
Just what I was saying. Claiming feminists are this and that offline—yet nobody knows our addresses to verify what we do.

Well.

You want Pamela007's address? I have it based on request.

Regards
Tosin.

pocohantas:
efulefu

L + efulefu = Lefulefu

Abeg na Joke oh, I no find anybody trouble please.

DaddyRochie1642:
Oga tell us the truth, ... That your so called Innocent Offer you made to that woman, If it were your Fellow Man, would you have made such an Offer to him

No mind am, na e-diot him be a Pocohantas would say

pocohantas:
hahahahahahahahahahahaha! Werey!!!

Your mum will start serving you rice and stew with two plates.

You gerrit, all of a sudden they start asking for your opinions in family meetings.

gbeymey:
I remember turning down a marriage proposal cos I was too broke for marriage then. Thanks to God story has changed now. Tho some friends told me I didn't love oga enough but na me know wetin I see.

Congrats, you did the right thing. Money directly or Indirectly makes people Lord over you, whether we choose to accept or not.
Even my parents started respecting me when I started earning some money.

Palema007:
Alright... Thank you.

I'm an advocate of Balance.

Palema the Avatar: The Last Airbender...Bring Balance to The WORLD

smithclito:
u people succeeded in turning my anger into laughter. well thanks for all meaningful and respectful contributions. I believed this thread will help other couples. as for me I will consider all meaningful advice here and conclude what my next action will be .My wife is a wonderful home maker and an excellent mother, she use to be a good love making person but she lost it along the way I tried talking to her but highest after apology she go straight back at it .well I dey one Change now only

I really wanted to write something very long, but mehn I just erased every thing as I don't have strength. Just Kindly watch this video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Na6fHABGK44

It's a couple having a discussion about about Women losing their sex drive, due to all kinds of situations. EG: Loss of Interest in sex, process of childbirth, complications, taking care of children etc.

In this video, his Wife was able to have a sit-down discussion & be honest about these issues. You see ehn, you cannot force a horse to drink water, If she isn't willing to change, nothing can change her.

Confuzedman:
This is not a fiction, i had to create a new acct for advise. I have been dating my fiancee for over a year, tho it was a long distance stuff. Trouble began when she started visiting regularly. I noticed that whenever she comes, she’ll be reluctant to do certain things. When I get back from work, she will start acting like she is sick, somebody that was online all day. Later she said she doesn't know market,i got someone to buy foodstuffs for her, she still didn’t cook it. Whenever she visits, same story.I decided to have a talk with her over it, can you believe she said I am complaining too much. She asked if I haven’t been eating before she visited. I was heartbroken to hear that from her. As if that wasn’t enough, she said she is not marrying again and she isn’t a housegurl

I called her to talk after work today and she was still giving me attitude. Her friend is saying I was too harsh

Lalasticlala, plz help

I'm not even a good relationship adviser, neither do I have my own problems solved but I can tell you one thing for sure.

1. Within that short period of ONE YEAR, she has met someone else better & she wants to leave but there is no other excuse.

OR

2. She doesn't really like you that much, but there is no one else. So better you than nobody.

If you want to satisfy your curiosity, apologise to her & marry her.

Zzor:
he will want a feminine woman, he enjoys having the opposite energy in his life, masculine men loves to be the hero, provider and protector. Avoid men that will want to engage you with financial obligations by simply and cunningly asking you what you will be bringing to the table, you should only render assistance when necessary, it is abnormal for a woman to be the bread winner

UjuJoan2:
But men who intentionally seek out richer women to date or marry and only making things worse for themselves in the future. No woman likes being the head of a home financially.

I only have two questions to ask.

Does every woman in this Family section or on this post agree with this statements above?
By this: It means I have to consistently make sure my Wife never prospers by hook, crook or Juju & try to belittle every thing she does, Else I am doomed.

Is this what I should look forward to achieving?

cc: UjuJoan2, Zzor, bukatyne, mariahAngel

Dickson178:
This is almost what happen to me. I met this girl last year december,so i started dating and we also had a sex still that december till march,we normally had a sex 2days in a week(but am always using condom anytime we had a sex) .Unfortunatly she text me that she's H.I.V+ .i was afraid at that moment ,i even started crying thinking how am living a short life. But my mind was telling me u always had a sex with condom,why will u be afraid. Then i clean my tears and text her back that you're the one H.I.V+ Not me. She boldly texting me the second time that she has contacted me with H.I.V. I started crying again asking my self ,i dn't have money for test and for drugs(bcus i hav'nt went for text b4 and i struggle man alone to eat). I block her that moment,started thinking . Then i said with my mind that,since i dn't have money for test,lemme stay and check the symtom of H.I.V in my body. I break up with d girl immediatly in march this year. But up till now i hav'nt went for test and am living comfortable.

Ogbeni go and do a test, why are talking like an illiterate

Exodora:
To cut the story short am still alive and strong without any drugs since then and my boyfriend is even married with kids.

So you married you BF or he married someone else and he his with kids? Which one

CHoccolaTE:
You must be a very cool and calm person in real life for you to read Nairaland for 6 years without feeling agitated enough to react to something and post reply.


Either that or you are a liar and this is not your only account.

This is a very good observation, a certain dude called DHTML18 who use to be a broken record on the programming section made me create an account back then in 2014, the Idiot used to say a lot of rubbish that gets me agitated. Airforce1 was another person who constantly makes me laugh with his Yahoo Boy posts that I had come online & fake praise the guy, so I can selfishly continue to be entertained by him

Has anyone requested a return / transfer back of their money in Fintiba before from Nigeria.

Any good response will be appreciated.

authe911:
Thanks for the opinion but like I have said on this platform before. This winter semester will be mostly be hybrid, even if you defer your admission till summer semester, they will still have to attend to “enrolled students” first before summer students.

We all know there is a second wave of Covid in Germany and some part of Europe. Most universities including mine allow you to do classes online, only in the case of exams are you required to be on campus which is Feb/March 2021.

If you still wouldn’t be able to come due to travel restrictions in 2021 you can register same exams in next winter semester. The good thing is you have more time to get your blocked and wouldn’t have to be spending so much on expenses since you are not in DE yet.

My take....

Please does anyone know how to request money back money from Fintiba to decline the whole German admission processs?

TAGM:
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Don't loose a man of destiny, purpose and vision because of 50 naira.

bukatyne:
Why does the average poor Nigerian have against a privately rich Nigerian?

Not anger against the Govt that made you poor: Not anger against the parents that probably did not plan well: Not anger against the headmaster that syphoned the learning aids.

Anger against innocent rich Nigerians who have defied all odds and climbed out of the pit.

Why?

I think It's important that i add this little information, that what people call "privately rich Nigerian" isn't rich at all, they haven't climbed out of the pit yet. They are middle class families who have struggled and currently still struggling just to stay afloat.

Poor people don't want to do anything to leave poverty neither do they want you to also be elevated, same reason why Nigerian witches will never help their children to be Billionaires instead they rather see you become as poor as them, so you all can languish together.

I have stopped having sympathy for the poor, they can die for all I care.

Petyprincess:
She was a regular customer on romance section,she used to upload two to three threads a day for attention sometimes she uploads her picture claiming she's natural beauty even at her age she still looks young.
So one day she opened a thread looking for men nd listed her criteria that's hw i got to know her age,she later hook up with one shorty on nairaland that someone even uploaded their photo but due to her attention seeking self things couldn't go the way she wanted, she started trolling this guy because of his height claiming short men are devils, after people realized how she's an attention seeker she deactivated that account nd opened another always asking about her old moniker claiming she's popular blah blah blah
She had a fallout with this lady because she refused to give her the money she dared her in truth and dare game,she had the guts to insult someone having postpartum depression!!

All her topics are usually about men interested in her blah blah blah, she claims born again yet she curses nd insults people telling her the truth lol

If you wanna know more search "ashirawealthy" "jewessgratitude" and "sassygem"
I have forgotten are other monikers lol.

Lmaooo thanks for the details. I didn't even imagine I would get a response

Pretty nice FBI work

Petyprincess:
Lol all these insults from a 40 years old woman baffles me, only people that don't know you will take you serious,we know hw you seek attention from romance section now you have moved to family section lol
Well i ain't in mood for insults,i was told not to insult my elders today but next time you might not be lucky lol.

Quick question, how do you know she is 40 years old? I mean both of you have agreed that you don't know each other, but calling someone's age is pretty specific.

So let's have the fullllllllll gist

I just want to say this is very common in Black Communities, we have proof that this also happens Only in other Black communities as well.

I have a recent video where the same happened in a SHOPRITE around Black community in West Philadelphia. They were also protesting.

This never happens in a non-black community, but let's just pretend that Blacks don't find any opportunity to loot.