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starbuck:
20 years

LOL.... Seriously?

You must be kidding me

longetivity:
keep wetin rolling...... you sure say you dey alright

Why using panadol for another person's headache?

Pls is there any reason why so many ladies wear beeds on their waist, cos, I keep wondering why it has becomes a norm for most ladies. pls if there is one genuine reason can you share it?



Ladies, oya keep it rolling

petitejolie:
really. An overbearing woman right? Gist me

that one nah long thing oo, na seasonal film wey get part 1,2&3...smile Anyway sha, you can add me up and let's meet on WhatsApp... 08065742633

petitejolie:
it’s better to be practical about it. Now she knows this is who he is can she cope with it or not.

Yeah, only if she knows doing good for selfish reasons doesn't make you good, it just makes you good at being selfish.


I had also had my fair share, not until I cleared her out recently that I knew what peace of mind really is and how bad not to have one

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petitejolie:
well she should expect series of opinions. She wants d series of opinions to help her make a decision thats why she brought her story to a public space. And there cant be only one person going through a particular challenge in d world. There are people that have been there. Over bearing partners is not perculiar. There are a lot of them

of course, you are damn right, there is a saying that "nothing ever gets healed if you keep it covered up", but you know sometimes, when most responses you are getting are not align with what you really wants to hear you get confused. [b][/b] Overbearing person? For me is hell no.

And I have found in my experience people rarely change. And when they do, they're not to be trusted

petitejolie:
I don’t understand wat you’re saying o

I mean in this kind of situation, when series of people with different opinions surfaces, it is in best of the @OP Interest to choose wisely because, none of us are in her shoes (she's the only one that knows what damage this whole stuff is causing her) and none of us will be part of the consequences of her decision. So, she should choose wisely.

Doesn't matter what I think, or @forgness or @combination 123 or @petitejolie for that matter. None of can possibly know how it feels to be in your position and none of us have to live with the consequences of your decision.

Alwaysachick:
Good evening ladies in the house,

I have a friend he is every good thing but overbearing. He kept that part till we started dating. I don't have issues with a man wanting to be a man but when he does it to the extent your opinions don't count again and if you do otherwise even when you are right, it gets him angry. Shouldn't it be a thing of concern?

I've been feeding his ego but I think its getting out of hand. The relationship is getting serious but my fears have started building and im beginning to ask myself if I can cope??

Please help a sister, what can I do to stop this? Married women in the house with husbands with such traits how do you cope?

Should have have learnt from my parents but my father is the exact opposite and with my observations, his dad is also overbearing his sisters at always complaining.

I don't even care if he's overbearing or you are overbearer or whatever. Don't interpret his attitude as love, it isn't, it's toxicity. PLEASE, anything that is tampering with your peace of mind and happiness is not worth doing. Your happiness should come first.


I just digged one out of my life recently.

I peeps!

With the current situation nationwide right now, unemployment, underemployed and most especially covid19(which has made many people to lose their job/s). But I can assure you that some are still getting employed even with this current situation. I'm thinking you can just drop your qualifications and location and if necessary, area of discipline. Who knows, favour might smile on you.

SILVERLINES:
This is impossible

A man of that age raping a three months old baby, can't be possible now Haba

Please the security intelligence department should investigate the matter very well.

my thought exactly. Even the smallest finger, I mean the little finger can't enter talk less of a whole d!ck... I'm confused

purplecoco:
This is real life sad. Nobody is all into marriage no more, things are really happening.

Not really men's fault anyway, the few sensible, house materialistic ladies have been kobalized by the insensible and non iota of feminism ones

FreeSpirited:
If no woman will prove to me beyond reasonable doubt that she's worth a longtime investment and that she will really make marriage worth it for me, forget it, I may not marry cos I can't see what's in it for me that I can't get without it

If I desperately need a child, I will impregnate a stable working class lady. If I needed food badly, I would employ a cook. If pvssy is my issue, I will get on short fvckmate dates..or FWB.

But for the stress of a nagging, fickle wife and the overwhelming responsibility of marriage, a woman has to convinced me it's worth it, that she will give me rest. otherwise, I will live my life as detailed above, and pursue my own personal ambition. I know what makes me happy at my present age. And I can't see marriage in the picture of my happiness until I'm proven wrong by a woman.

I think a FreeSpirited man needs a FreeSpirited woman

truthhurts2:
If you are a Doctor / medical practitioner/specialist pls sir/ma, I need your response, you could be saving a soul.

Pls help me to push this to Front page... Admins

If you are a Doctor / medical practitioner/specialist pls sir/ma, I need your response, you could be saving a soul.

RedPhoenix:
Grammar. They ought to give you drugs you would use whenever the pain reoccur and not give you medical jargon like it's a big deal. It's a small issue na. Please go to a pharmacist tonight and explain. He will counsel you on some drugs to take, if the come comes you take them and it doesn't alleviate, I'll deactivate this account



Doctors can be very annoying

Thanks man

RedPhoenix:
Visit another hospital without telling the docs the places you've been to before and the tests that had been carried out on you before so they can run fresh checks without biases. I have some things to say to alleviate first the pain before diagnosing the situation, but it's best left for professional medical examination to give you this information

Go for new checkup. Don't forget what I said. Asked them to give you treatment to first reduce the pain whenever it occurs and then guide on solution to the problem

thanks so much, but also uses standard hospital, LAUTECH for that matter, yeah, they noticed something, they name or call it "ectopic pus" which I don't know the meaning but according to what they said, it's nothing to worry about. Exactly how they said it

I'm in my early 30s and I have been experiencing what I can call a total discomfort in my chest for like 7yrs now. This is the feeling...
Any time I inhale deeply I do feel a very sharp pain in my chest somehow close to the heart or when I yawn (it also goes through the process of inhaling) I will have to abort the yawning prematurely due to the pain. Now, it's getting much more complicated every I say.

How complicated?

The pain have now spread out to both of my shoulders, if I sleep and by the time I wake up the pain will be worse if I try to relax my shoulders, as time goes on it will adjust. I'm not feeling any external pain, what I mean by that is, by pressing my shoulders, chest and other parts of my body I don't feel any pain, everything is internally.
I did couples of tests (ECG (3*), ECHO and this other one I don't know the name but they collected blood samples) which everything came out positively. This pain is not funny at all, it's getting more complicated. Please help!

Lalasticlala
Mynd44

nuelsam:
wait...a girl you haven't walked on the aisle is giving u this typa heartache and u still contemplating on whether to dump her sorry ass or live with her toxicity...wow! just wow! u gave her the audacity to be honest...if u had put her back to her place making her realise the obvious fact that she's your girlfriend and not your wife,she wouldn't have the gut to pull this Kanye.
op don't mistake her action as love...it's basically toxicity.
when u eventually tie the knot with her,she might make u cut ties with your immediate family.....
you've been a weak man all along,stand your ground.
don't be scared to lose any lady in a relationship,there are thousands of good girls out there.
Be a man of high value and build your self esteem.... girls will run after u.

Hmmmm... I really appreciate your 2 cent. I'm nt contemplating on living her or nt, I already left her. What I'm seeking from you guys is how, I mean HOW to overcome this HEARTache of a thing coz, I'm not feeling any thing different from what she has caused before leaving. Still same feeling so far.

There is this feed mill place we went (one male friend and I) to formulate feed for rabbits, we met this lady which was the one that formulated it for us, but unfortunately, by mistakes, some ingredients were missing and some were not complete so the feed is dangerous for the rabbits to feed on. We complained and asked them to return the money or formulate another (which they initially didn't agree but they eventually agreed to). So the boss there ordered the lady to formulate another one (in annoyance) which she did. So, Upon leaving, there was this thought that strikes our minds that what if this boss will revenge this mistake of a thing on her maybe by deduction of her salary (if she has one anyway). The only way we can get to know that is by maybe collecting her digits and putting a call to her the next day if they eventually sell the feed or she will be the one to pay for it so that, maybe, the next visit we would give little out of the money bact to her.
We got home and met my girl at home, left my phone on the table and enter the bathroom for a shower. I came out met her going through my phone and she started are wahala again... Shouting on me why would I collect another girl's number, started reigning courses on her and so on and on. This drama took us at least an hour, telling me that I DARE NOT TRY TO LIVE HER FOR ANYONE.

NOW THE REAL PROBLEM IS THIS... Due to all these her wahala, l have started having HEART Ache. Seeing her alone will strike a great fear into my heart that I will have to hold my chest, or if my phone rang and it was her I will experience same thing again. I'm losing my confidence, I'm becoming a shadow of myself... I broke up with her last month, but, I can't get her off my head and at the same time I'm losing myself.... Pls help me!

Sammy07:
come back and complete it.

please if you have the first one I posted you can help me to repost it, I mistakingly modified it... Thanks

truthhurts2:
(continues)...

Later My girl came back, but I noticed there's a change in her reaction (very sober), not quite long she entered her phone rang continuously but when she refused to pick, mine rang and it was prayer(the lady that left), asking if my girl is there with me saying... Eso fun oloriburuku iyawo yin wipe ko gbe call e (Tell your unfortunate fiancé to pick her call), to ba je pe iya ee ati baba ee lobi Eso fun pe ko gbe call e (if she is really the real daughter of her parents she should pick up), upon asking her what happens, she said my girl called her calling her all sorts of names... That she's a prostitute, what is she doing on her boo's bed, is she trying to seduce me, did she want to snatch me away from her and all sorts of things. It really pissed me off, but to cut it short, I begged prayer and I settled the whole thing.

I'm not yet on the real bang... But I will be back..


Continues...

Another instance :

She came in one night and met me on a call and I did pause the talking in order to attend to her, after all pleasantries, I returned to my call, her mum was seriously sick coupled with her younger brother admission into uni and she can't cope with all the pressure (due to the money she needed for her mum treatment which it's kind of huge and brother's tuition fee and the likes), she thought of committing suicide and I was just lucky to be the last person she talks with before embarking on the evil act as she claimed anyway. So, the call was lengthy, immediately, I had noticed a change in her like... Banging the door when coming in or going out then later upgraded to telling me to end the call ASAP, ended up the call anyways, then I later left my apartment went outside my street, find a place to sit and continue the call. But after some minutes, I saw her dash out to the street looking everywhere for me, she later found me, locked up my clothes, dragging the phone with me at the same time hitting me seriously on my face, my head and so on. Passers-by immediately turned us to a cinema and watched.... Will be back...

Another one....

A younger sister of mine (which she also knows, though not blood related), came to do something in my area from another city (Oyo) , she had put a call to me days before that she has something to attend to in the next two weeks in my area which is very important and that she have nowhere whatsoever to stay and I said OK no worries. But unfortunately, she came three days after the call saying that they shift it back, so it was an impromptu that it came as a surprise to her. I didn't had the time to tell my girl about it due to the change in this my sis movements, but it's better late than never. When I told her about it she flared up seriously saying never would she allowed such and I begged and scolded her because part of me knew it doesn't speak well but wetin man go do. She concur, and everybody was good... But it wasn't for long. Three days later, she came and confronted this my sis around 7pm which led her (my sis) to pack her load and head back to Oyo that same night.... Will be back

Another one...

(continues)...

Later My girl came back, but I noticed there's a change in her reaction (very sober), not quite long she entered her phone rang continuously but when she refused to pick, mine rang and it was prayer(the lady that left), asking if my girl is there with me saying... Eso fun oloriburuku iyawo yin wipe ko gbe call e (Tell your unfortunate fiancé to pick her call), to ba je pe iya ee ati baba ee lobi Eso fun pe ko gbe call e (if she is really the real daughter of her parents she should pick up), upon asking her what happens, she said my girl called her calling her all sorts of names... That she's a prostitute, what is she doing on her boo's bed, is she trying to seduce me, did she want to snatch me away from her and all sorts of things. It really pissed me off, but to cut it short, I begged prayer and I settled the whole thing.

I'm not yet on the real bang... But I will be back..


Continues...

Another instance :

She came in one night and met me on a call and I did pause the talking in order to attend to her, after all pleasantries, I returned to my call, her mum was seriously sick coupled with her younger brother admission into uni and she can't cope with all the pressure (due to the money she needed for her mum treatment which it's kind of huge and brother's tuition fee and the likes), she thought of committing suicide and I was just lucky to be the last person she talks with before embarking on the evil act as she claimed anyway. So, the call was lengthy, immediately, I had noticed a change in her like... Banging the door when coming in or going out then later upgraded to telling me to end the call ASAP, ended up the call anyways, then I later left my apartment went outside my street, find a place to sit and continue the call. But after some minutes, I saw her dash out to the street looking everywhere for me, she later found me, locked up my clothes, dragging the phone with me at the same time hitting me seriously on my face, my head and so on. Passers-by immediately turned us to a cinema and watched.... Will be back...

Ha . ok leme list em in no particular order.

Still maintaining close contacts with you ex and telling me she's just a friend now...

Not acknowledging me in front of people that matter to you.

Comparing me with your ex... Giving me a constant reminder of how she does this and that better..

Not being appreciative of my little gestures.

Not giving me room to be a part of his decision making or making my advise to seem inconsequential.

What the guy can do...avoid all of the above and communicate constantly...that's the key but not limited to it..

And you think you can find ALL in one man? I doubt it, no man is complete, no one can be perfect in them all cos nobody is[perfect].

chidibond:
. The truth is that over half the power generated in Nigeria is wasted. Energy consuming products are shipped down here and we don't care. Lights are left on even when we travel. We need to save energy, while working on producing more.

Truth-hurts

idupaul:
This govt and it's appointees though ..what kind of balderash idea is this ..So the plan is now for people to buy 50 KVA solar of grid system.

balderdash

Estharfabian:

I no go talk

MrPresident1:
The biggest pastors in Nigeria are all Yoruba too. Kumuyi, Adeboye, Oyedepo, Abiara, Ashimolowo, Olukoya, T. B. Joshua, all Yoruba men. Yoruba are a deeply spiritual people, Yoruba is Judah, Judah has accommodated so many people to himself, Judah is wise, Judah obeyed the commandment to 'go into the world and multiply' and 'make disciples of all men'.

Judah=lineage+grafted.

AND "SAM ADEYEMI (DAY STAR)"

Flexherbal:
Wonders shall never end!

this one don end te te

Godtaye:
Swerve na..
Story is dry...
We don't want sex scenes again

Totally fed-up with the story due to too much $ex scene, Is kind of boring. Pls try to cut short the $ex scenario.

RadicallyBlunt:
What makes you think she's not forming in d 1st place. Girl see you carry car to pick her up, nysc level for that matter. Which gal no go think say opportunity for marriage don show so make I behave like wify material? Guy do more testing

However if ur testing don sure, then its simple. Plan a time out with her as in take her out. When u come back, start d talk gradually till all her attention is gotten

Go like .."When I met u and picked you up what did u think I had in mind?" Or what kinda man dyu think would pick you up at such a nite time?" You'll be suprised at d response. She probably might know u have such in mind but taking time to also watch you closely.

And if she dosent, just confess to her that u had a playboy intension but she made u fall in love like d-banj

Love this

Afamjudeoffor:
He be like the place he dey get him stories from,dem never update new episode... lol

TRUE TALK