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One of many reasons is the fact that in a typical Nigerian family, the man shoulders more than 80% if not 100% financial responsibilities. The culture shock of adjusting to a situation in which both of them need to contribute immensely to the smooth running of the family could sometimes lead to domestic issues at home.

Yea, you're right. This should be fun for a CSS student who is serious. This reminds me of my days as an undergraduate of Criminology and Security Studies... Criminology is more challenging at the Msc. level and Glory be to God, I'll rock Forensic Science PhD. in a few months from now.

thesicilian:
These are very practical questions. The key is not to let the names distract you.

No.

Lawman4sure:
Sir, is it true that the agency grants accomodation to their staff in the state which they are deployed to?

"Gonna Make It" by Trey Songz

I've eaten all of it.

This type of students will be the first to start teaching our leaders topics on moral compass. Equity, fairness and justice begins from home- family.

😁

Yea

QuinModah:
In Nigeria?

I receive an average of 25 official calls a day. I meet up with about 15 new people and I'll definitely be in about 5 meetings at least in a day. More than 20 people are willing to meet with me daily. Sometimes I forget I'm yet to take breakfast @2pm. I am a criminologist.

Haynnie:
What kind of job do you do and what's the hardest part of your job you (learn how to) or (can't) tolerate?

The mat without the lantern 🏮 is incomplete... Superstition.

Enemyofpeace:
The "Bushbaby" tale, is it real or fake? Have you seen one before? Is it true that, when you collect their mats from them, you become rich and wealthy?

The governor that introduced "stomach infrastructure" into Nigerian politics.

KingsCity:
Stomach politicians everywhere

There was a day when I was driving on a street and I saw an inscription on the wall, "GET PREGNANT FAST 080**********". I was so surprised. It was written with a brush and red paint. It appeared so big that you could see from a distance.

Age is just a number. My advice to you is to look beyond the physical aspect more and focus on the behavioural part which you've just attested to. Try to find a balance with your family if truly she makes you happy. Finally, let your little secret be between you and her.

Testiebobo:
Most tribes in Nigeria demands that a man should be older than is spouse(wife), in order for d man to gain respect from his wife. But in my own case, am seriously in love with a very pretty lady that is 5years older than me, and am ready to spend the rest of life with her. But my culture does not support dat even my family. And dis lady is very loving, beautiful, sexy and a great cook etc. And I can't afford to lose her. Pls what can I do?

A total of 135 more Boko Haram terrorists and their family members have surrendered in the Bama Local Government area following the weeklong sustained offensive by the troops of Operation Hadin Kai in Sambisa Forest.

Before this huge successes, this paper had reported that over 800,000 repentant Boko Haram members are camped and well taken care of at their designated camp within Maiduguri metropolis since last year.
This is even as troops of 151 Task Force Battalion Banki, Operation Hadin Kai, have nutrialised unspecified numbers of Boko Haram terrorists and rescued two humanitarian workers in Sambisa Forest, (names withheld).

Reliable Sources have said, which was also confirmed by an Intelligence Zagazola Makama, a Counter-Insurgency Expert and Security Analyst in the Lake Chad region on Sunday morning.
“The terrorists laid down their arms fews days after the troops of 21-Armored Brigade, Bama, Operation Hadin Kai (OPHK) and 199 Special Forces Battalion in collaboration with Civilian Joint Task Force (CJTF), stormed 12 hideouts of the terrorists and killed 35 Boko Haram terrorists.” Said a military officer who pleaded not to be mentioned in print, as he was not authorized to talk to the press.

It was gathered that the terrorists and their family members, 3 males, 6 females and 13 children, from Ngurusoye, and Kelani village surrendered to troops of 202 Battalion in Bama.
In the same vein, one male, 5 females and 6 children, from Kauri, Siraja and Lene Hassana villages surrendered to troops of 151 Battalion in Banki Junction.
Sources told our Reporter that additional 113 insurgents from Balangaje, Bula -Waziri, Bula – Kurma and Sabil – Huda villages surrendered to the troops of 192 Battalion in Yamteke community.“The subjects were handed over to the authorities for profiling.”

Maj. Gen. AE Abubakar, The General Officer Commanding(GOC) 7 Division and Commander Sect 1 Joint Task Force North East Operation Hadin Kai, while addressing the troops of 21 Armored Brigade Bama, charged them to defeat remnant terrorists and ensure return of total peace to the North East.
In another development, troops of 151 Task Force Battalion Banki, Operation Hadin Kai, have nutrialised unspecified numbers of Boko Haram terrorists and rescued two humanitarian workers in Sambisa Forest.

It was gathered that the insurgents were killed after the troops in collaboration with the Civilian Joint Task Force and Hybrid forces, stormed the Hideouts of terrorists in Gargash in the axis of Bama Local Government Area of Borno State.
The sources said that in the cause of the engagement, two humanitarian workers abducted from Monguno in 2022 were rescued.
The troops also recovered three hilux vehicles with one of them mounted with Anti Aircraft guns.

https://www.vanguardngr.com/2023/04/again-135-boko-haram-members-surrendered-to-troops-in-north-east/

Nollywood actress, Jumoke Odetola has expressed grief over the incessant traffic gridlock in Lagos state.
Odetola, in a post on her Instagram page, shared how she spent 10hrs moving from Ajah to Magodo on Friday.

The actress wrote, “SHEGE vs SHEGE BANZA
“Yesterday, I saw shege ,shege saw me. Today again, the shege continues, shege is looking at me and smiling. In fact, shege is romancing me 😫🥲
“How can somebody have long life and prosperity in this Lagos, with this crazy traffic? Yesterday, I finished work at 4pm, I didn’t get home until 2am (Ajah-Magodo)…10hrs! Lagos to Lagos! Time that could have been put into productive work or relaxation.

“This morning again, Lagos- Ibadan expressway is marking the attendance of wickedness, it’s doing competition of na me wicked pass🥵
“Woos, e be like say na to dey sleep for house sure pass. Independent woman in the mud, I no do again.”

https://www.vanguardngr.com/2023/04/how-can-we-have-long-life-in-lagos-actress-jumoke-odetola-groans-over-traffic/

Those symbols/signs on Asiwaju's caps means "INFINITY". Take note.

swaggerjack:
Money and occultism.

It's very common in media practice. It might be as a result of the source of the information. The impression has been corrected in the reportage... But it's a good thing they corrected it on time.

Don't you think such move is suicidal? However, you should understand that Nigeria is on autopilot.

First, you'll experience a culture shock... then you need not to be told on how to behave. My advice is for you to be in your best behaviour. I'm referring to societal standards. The world is different here... you'll run into different people.

It's good to have a legitimate job with a fat salary but the woman in question is exhibiting the symptoms of a LAZY woman. Besides, how much does she earn?

I love privacy a lot. And away from girlfriend issues, i hate drawing unnecessary attention.

Smiles...

Lying is a complex human behavior that can have a variety of motivations and consequences depending on the situation and the individuals involved. From a scientific perspective, lying is often considered a form of deception, which involves intentionally conveying false or misleading information to another person or group.

There are a number of different theories about why people lie. One common explanation is that lying is a way to avoid negative consequences or to gain some kind of benefit. For example, someone might lie to avoid punishment, to gain social approval, or to achieve a personal goal.

Other theories suggest that lying may be a way to protect one's self-esteem or to maintain social relationships. For example, someone might lie to avoid admitting a mistake or to spare someone's feelings.

Regardless of the motivation behind the lie, lying can have a significant impact on relationships. When one person lies to another, it can erode trust and lead to feelings of betrayal or resentment. Over time, repeated lying can damage the foundation of a relationship and make it difficult for the individuals involved to communicate openly and honestly.

In addition to the emotional toll of lying, there are also cognitive costs. When someone lies, they must remember the false story they have created, which can be mentally taxing and may interfere with other cognitive tasks.

Research has also shown that lying can have physiological effects on the body. For example, lying can increase heart rate and blood pressure, which can have negative health consequences over time.

Overall, the science behind lying and its impact on relationships is complex and multifaceted. While lying may sometimes seem like an easy way to avoid conflict or gain an advantage, it can ultimately have significant costs for both the liar and the people around them.

‘Japa’, a lingo in Nigeria for deliberate exit from the country especially for greener pastures abroad, has been a constant happening over the last few years with students, professionals and partners forming the chunk of those fleeing its shores.

As enticing as the idea of being in a relatively ‘better’ country is, the experiences of people who have left have continued to prove that truly ‘there is no place like home.’
Taking a look at the diverse peculiarities of Nigeria, here are five things you will miss if you find yourself abroad.
Nigerian Foods

Food is peculiar to every country. And Nigeria, with its plethora of ethnic groups, has a slew of foods its citizens don’t joke with. From Amala, to Akpu, Ogbono, Bread and Beans down to Moi Moi, these are foods that are dear to every Nigerian, and no amount of civilization can unplug the relish for these foods.

The moment you are leaving the shores of the country, you are as well leaving behind these ‘unique’ delectables whose tastes are never the same even when taken outside of their place of origin ( Largely because they’re transported to other markets with lots of additives that change the organic tastes ).

2. Weather

If there is a thing in Nigeria that is highly underappreciated, it is the weather. Nigerians in the diaspora have always expressed their struggles with the frosty weather abroad, and how much they miss the cozy and friendly weather in the country.

3. Family and Friends

Moving to a new country most times entails leaving behind family members and friends who you might not see for as long as your stay abroad. Though technology helps us connect beyond boundaries, the feeling of being physically around your family members and friends is matchless.

4. Owambe

Nigeria is ‘big’ on parties – and that is on period. Flamboyant, lavish, expensive, food-filled, dramatic, these features of the Owambe parties are unequaled anywhere in the world. It is one of the many things that make Nigeria exclusive, and being in the country unparalleled.

5. Free Amenities

Abroad you pay for almost everything from as high as electricity bills to as low as water bills. Their social amenities are prioritized, and it works in a way that you cannot evade paying for the bills of the amenities you use. In Nigeria, water bills are scarce as almost everyone has their own system of getting water; indiscriminate parking of cars is common but can’t be dared abroad without you being ticketed.

https://www.vanguardngr.com/2023/04/5-things-you-will-miss-when-you-japa-from-nigeria/

She got admission into the university way back then. Throughout a whole semester I was unable to visit her because there had been so much to do at the office as an IT staff. I paid her a surprise visit after calling one of her friends to know where she'll be at the time. I showed up while she was reading in one of the classrooms. Immediately she saw me, she left her books, her 'pampered' Blackberry phone fell off, she didn't bother picking it up. She raced towards me and gave me a hug with tears running off her cheeks. She said, "I've missed you Mine, what took you so long?". Over fifty people were staring at us because a lecture was going on in the next classroom and there were passersby. I was so moved. It was a leg day for me from noon till the following morning. She was indeed a master craft when it comes to ***

He is needed more within.

theamazonguru:
That's the new minister for Foreign Affairs.

Step momma starved my younger brother and I for days. We had no option than to eat sand and the night before then, we were locked outside, we had to sleep while it was raining. I was 15, my brother was 12.

1. Doggy style makes a woman butt bigger. 2. It's risky to have sex while it's raining because of thunder strike. 3. Having sex in the afternoon can make you give birth to albino offspring.

Real talk... the best advice ever.

Mindlog:
It is not advisable to move with your family, immediately. You alone have to go first, to survey what is on ground in terms of business opportunities, accommodation etc with less pressure. If you are okay with your findings then you can rent an accommodation and go back to the East to get your family.

Yes daddy...Real talk.

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My e-mail ma'am.
tyronepriest@outlook.com

teeninite:
I'm married and would like to make friends. Mature minds. You can dm me or drop your details.