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Ogogoro na bastard! So Nigerians should not speak out in the face of misrule? Why not ask your principal to stop aiding a climate that provokes Nigerians to make unguarded utterances. The country is too divided for his divisiveness.

Capacity & Competence are two different things!
How do you compete favorably when the exchange rates for parts, lack of electricity, poor standards monitoring, consumer high interest rate and government policy somersault makes imported used & new vehicles cheaper and better!!!!

Nigeria served his kind well!

Looks like what women can do, men a beginning to do it better!

The numbers in the north is cooked up. We need credible census in Nigeria, where advanced technology will be used.
The North CANNOT win in a free fair & credible election where there is electronic voting / transmission of results, with no underaged / foreigners voting &no mass multiple thumbprinting.

nairavsdollars:
I pray APC fields a Southerner.North will defeat them easily because they have the voting number

You are not getting it. Because it is acceptable doesn’t necessarily make it moral.
Anyway, thanks for the conversation, good night.

Kobojunkie:
I am saying moral laws are not universal, whether they are legally represented or not. Here's a story about centuries old practice that many are now calling for an end to

https://www.eurasia.undp.org/content/rbec/en/home/blog/2015/2/26/A-Call-to-Action-Stop-Bride-Kidnapping-.html

Now, for centuries, this act was considered moral and accepted as law by those who practice and uphold this culture. But the attention of the outside world has been drawn to it and now voices arising to put an end to what was, for 100s of years considered culturally acceptable.
And what would an end to this practice mean? Criminalizing a practice once considered moral by those whose culture it is...

You see where you are wrong? Right & wrong has to do with morality while crime has to do with law. You may do some things that are wrong but legally nobody can hold you against it. For instance, you can be rude to a beggar (this is wrong), but you have not commited a crime.
Legality is relative, but morality is universal. If I was talking about legality, I will ask the 1st husband to sue her for bigamy. The moral thing to do is to finalize your divorce/separation before remarrying.

Kobojunkie:
The concept of right and wrong is not universal as to some extent it is determined by your leanings as an individual and your geographical location as well. For instance, what is concerned right and acceptable in some northern states of Nigeria is a crime in other parts of the same Nigeria, so let's try to stay honest here, shall we?

Never said all Nigerians are savage brutes, however, they aren't all practically governed by the same exact laws and principles. I was looking earlier at what passed as Marriage laws in Nigeria, and I had to make a decision not to post a link to it after carefully examining it and realizing that the vast majority don't even follow it , nor is it widely implemented as such.

If you don’t know that the concept of right & wrong is universal, I won’t be able to help you further.
You can’t just generalize that ALL Nigerians are savage brutes who have no sense of right & wrong just because some people refuse to do the right thing. Even monkeys know right from wrong to an extent, unless you think Nigerians are lesser than monkeys

Kobojunkie:
But who defines what is right in the Nigerian context? Obviously, not you and honestly, it seems even that changes from culture to culture, so you can imagine the real problem isn't as simple as you try to make it seem.

We know how the rules work in, say, developed countries, but we cannot simply cut-&-paste that into the Nigerian situation and expect that it ought also to work exactly right - obviously it still doesn't as it has been set that way for sometime now.

There is no definitive law against polygamy or polyandry in Christianity, so it is best to leave that out of this as the proper divorce here is as defined either by the state or culture or even both.

Because everyone does it the wrong way doesn't make a thing right.
She can avoid this controversy if she and Mr world bank had been patient enough to finalize the end to her 1st marriage.
IMO both of them were too eager to show off what they were hiding to eat. Her new marriage would have been less scandalous if both adulterous-newly weds had properly ended the marriage from both ends. Pentecostal Christianity doesn't permit polygamy or polyandry anyway, does it?

Kobojunkie:
In the same Nigeria, many abandon their legally spouses( no legal divorce) to marry other partners. This is common place and widely condoned in cultures across the country, so claiming she had to be legally separated only works where it is an only required option.

The mother's solution is that a bride price was not paid at all and there are indeed numerous cases of unions formed without the payment of bride price - these should not be ignored.

As for what the Bible says, divorce was described according to Jewish custom - the laws of divorce in the Old Covenant are meant only for the Jews and not for the Nation of Nigeria, so it would make no sense attempting to apply them to the Nigerian situation.

Honestly, when it comes to the Nigerian situation, I am of the opinion that there still doesn't exist what can be called a " proper divorce"

She married him legally according to the man & not disputed by the woman, so at least divorce him in civil court 1st?
Secondly, only one side of the family claimed bride price wasn’t paid after 11YEARS & 2kids! This I wont take unless she Divorce/ separate from him in customary court too. Pictures show her kneeling for prayers in what looked like a trad.
Thirdly , it is claimed that another woman like her is still married to her current husband-in-adultery for Pete’s sake. Why not resolve that 1st? Abi pentecostalism now permits 1man & multiple wives. For her ‘happiness’, she has chosen to make another woman’s marriage & life miserable. What kind of evil woman is that?!
How do you go ahead to remarry, not date o, another man when there is so much doubt about the status of your 1st marriage & you don’t want tongues to wag or be slut shamed
If you do what whores do, expect to be called a LovePeddler , period!

Kobojunkie:
In Nigeria, what does it mean to properly separate from her ex? She said she had been separated from him for many months so what more should see have done given the tradition that is obtainable in Nigeria?

As long as ALL housemates ain’t up for eviction, subtle scheming & alliances are part of playing the game.
Also, apart from warming up to the viewing public, avoiding nominations is a card you should play. Whitemoney was trying to be so indispensable, nobody will be willing to nominate him for a long time. Pere saw through that & attempted to ruffle the strategy… that is fair game!

TheGoodJoe:

This is big brother. You can not game the system. You have to find a way to bring out your inner quality. Focusing on bringing down another will block your inner quality.

I disagree with you that the men are mortified that she got someone better than her ‘legitimate’ husband. The problem seems to be that she didn’t properly separate from him before her adulterous marriage to Mr. World bank.
Trust me, most REAL men are not bothered about how women who made their lives miserable in marriage are doing. Only broke men stalk their exes doing well. If a man has it going for him, who cares if the witch in his life remarries Dangote?
As a single father for 6years and counting, there is absolutely no biggy in raising kids if you know what you are doing. The difficulty in raising kids exist, but it is overhyped by women to scare men. My advise to men is Work smart, earn good money, devote valuable time, invite God & avoid remarrying until you lay a solid foundation for the kids, also avoid any sexual contact in front of your kids with other women & never put any women above your kids (they may be equal but not above! Once a man can do this, he can raise his kids without the lifelong torture of staying married to a witch.

pocohantas:
Dearest Tina Adeeyo,



*drops mikrofone*

I totally agree. That Pere guy is a tactician. Unlike other clowns in that house that have no strategy & cannot see other people’s strategy. Typical Nigerians, they are just there to mark time, eat, probably f**k , and make fame that may never come.
Like our football teams and athletes, there is no long or short term strategy to win the top prize!

After all una gra gra?! I am sure FBI has a dossier on each and every clown in this dictatorship. Hush’s exposure was a hint that reset their brains. Sadly, once they play ball with Twitter, the threat will dissipate.
America has interest only for its own… justifiably so.

I totally agree. Broke women also be like HIV.The worst is Olosho whose market sells, they are like cancer.
I have learnt to stay with legit babes who can hold their side regardless of how low their income is. Those women are life! When you support them, they know the value of every penny because they earn theirs legit.

ahnie:
Happy birthday girl.its your life flex it as it pleases you,you rock baby girl.pls stay away front broke nigggggaaaars them be like malaria.

I guess you are semi literate & that is even worse than being illiterate! Nobody is inconsequential in a sane society where there is one man one vote (of course Nigeria isn't one).
Since you are such a scum of the earth to throw insults instead of knocking off the facts posed, (such as, the article did not indicate the scope & spread of their imaginary poll to validate it) I will choose to let your stupidity slide. The poll was meant for cretins like you anyway.
How does a credible poll not indicate the scope & spread sampled, instead the article went ahead on an adulation frenzy of a fulani slave.
FYI, I am proudly Yoruba and an Omoluabi. I am also not a PDP or APC boxed in person.

Ovamboland:
When your state governor of your state and big time experienced politicians are decamping to join APC where they will sway their supporters to vote for Osinbajo, an inconsequential person like is sharing your opinion. Go and vote for your Fulani loser candidate as usual. It will shock you that even Jonathan and Pepe will cast their vote for Osinbajo.

Are Nigerians not mad people?!
You stacked a list of people over 45 who have milked Nigeria selfishly to stupor & conduct an imaginary poll that nobody was aware of, then you chose a prof / pastor/ SAN that doesn’t have the guts to speak truth to power or resign honorably in the face of gross misgovernance… then you want someone like me to believe in your rubbish poll?
You know the kind of gullible and foolish Nigerians this poll was directed at.

Awon ageless corrupt retards!

That man is so lucky. God got rid of two witches (mother-in-law & ex wife) in his life. He should go for thanksgiving!
Do DNA test on the children. If they are yours, collect them & move on to bigger & better things.

So they want us to believe these illiterates wrote those placards?

JEWELofHELL:
Previous thread https://www.nairaland.com/6694252/1081-boko-haram-members-senior

Over one hundred Boko Haram fighters with their families, who surrendered to the Nigerian troops, have offered their unreserved apologies to Nigerians for all the evil they've done.

Will you forgive them?

Oga, go and collect your kids and move on!
My people say, you can take the wife of a coward/lazy man, but not his child.
Since you married her legally, you can sue her for bigamy if you want to avenge what she did (that is if you are not broke o!). The truth is that she is not right for you as a wife. Check the paternity via DNA of those kids before you commit to them too. Who knows, they may not even be yours!

aminulive:
https://politicsnigeria.com/popular-pastor-in-hot-water-for-marrying-church-members-wife-in-rivers-photos/

You don’t need an answer with a daft response like this.
The poster asked because the part of Nigeria he comes from will determine who automatically inherits the property IF the title owner didn’t leave a will.

Slimslimqq:
lol, he's a nigerian

Another stupid policy to drain scarce FOREX!
What kind of ineptitude has God plagued Nigeria with!

So these BH members held a placard written in English to address fellow members who mostly hate & can’t speak English!
What kind of childish propaganda is this? A lot of people in this government are just stupid!

lalasticlala:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2021/08/just-in-1-081-boko-haram-terrorists-senior-commanders-surrender-in-bama/

Lies! Unless prof counted the FDI from boko haram sponsors o?!

TheRareGem1:
Adefarasin, Ekeh, Ahmadu win Forbes’ awards



https://www.thisdaylive.com/index.php/2021/08/09/osinbajo-at-forbes-awards-says-nigeria-attracts-10bn-investment/

For survival and existential reasons, YES you can! Last year, with hoarded palliatives, the government asked people to stay at home for 6months! Did they die?!!!

Speak for yourself, you lust prone weakling!
Not everyone gets turned on at the slightest body exposure.

Interesting15:
Well, I don't even have a DStv yet, and I rarely watch TV. I only discovered what Bbnaija is on the internet, as well as the descriptions of the immorality attached to it.

But what I want everyone here to know is that there is an intelligent (but mischievous) system crafted by the devil on the earth realm, to prevent people from serving and walking intimately with God.

The devil doesn't want you to fulfill destiny. Our destiny is to maintain an eternal intimate relationship with YAHWEH through Jesus Christ, which gets us empowered to have dominion over creation (including having dominion over the devil and his negative gangs - like poverty, curses, etc). But the devil doesn't want this. So, he put in place systems (initiatives, events, etc) that distracts and makes people unworthy of walking on the path of destiny.

Since it is impossible to walk with God without holiness, the devil makes people embrace things that defiles them. One of such is Bbnaija. Either the organizers are aware or not, such immoral initiatives are sponsored from the deepest parts of hell. They are meant to corrupt your soul and get your spirit dull, so you won't be conscious of the voice of God's Spirit, placing you at a point of disadvantage in the spiritual realm, and ultimately on earth.

God's Will is that all sexual pleasure should be shared between a married man and his wife inside the safe circle of their marriage institution alone, and that anything contrary is a sin that will fetch harmful repercussions (including premarital sex, extramarital sex, masturbation, pornography, homosexuality, etc).

Temptation is defined not only as "something attractive or seductive", but also as "pressure applied to your thinking designed to create wrong emotions which will eventually lead to wrong actions". Hence, an initiative like Bbnaija is a representation of sexual temptation meant to entice you into committing sexual sins. The aim is to make people dirty and separated from God their Creator, so he (the devil) will have the chance to steal from them, get them killed, and then destroy them (John 10:10).

The kingdom of darkness are always crafting devices that lures ignorant individuals into immorality. The dark world is vividly aware of the negative potency of lust. They understood the business of planting lust in people's heart via seductive appearances. So, you don't know the damage you are doing to yourself by seeing immoral stuff via watching indecent shows like Bbnaija.

What many of you don't know is that many of Bbnaija's stakeholders are not ordinary humans (both the brains behind it as well as the actors and actresses you see doing rubbish on your screen). Many of them are directly working for the devil. They are actually witches and wizards, possessed with demonic spirits, belonging to the evil marine kingdom. They appear innocent and harmless. But they are evil. Inwardly, they are dark and dangerous. They intentionally draw people away with lust, then it becomes easy for their preys to fall into sexual sins (which then gives their master the devil a chance to ruthlessly plunder such a life).

When you see immoral stuff, they sow seeds of lust into your heart. These seeds will start growing in different forms, until you find yourself indulging in immoral activities too.

I want you to realise that the kingdom of darkness has colonised a large part of the territory of the entertainment industry, and have been utilising it to corrupt millions of people in different parts of the world. Today, it is a common sight to see TV shows that promote indecency and tries to paint immorality in a positive light. The lusts they dispense keeps growing in different degrees and forms, and you start seeing people practising what they saw on TV.

So, rather than watching stuff that invade the mind with darkness, you should give more attention to pure and productive activities. Give more attention to the Christian movie industry (thank God there are tons of cool Christian movies and series out there right now).

This world is deeper than the superficial appearance you know. The organizers of immoral stuff like Bbnaija don't love you nor give a hoot about you. Be wise. We are in a terrible time. You can get the right wisdom to live life from God, through a relationship with Jesus Christ.

Hence, you must first make Jesus your LORD and SAVIOR. Simply call upon His Name wherever you are, and He will come into your life. Always partner with the Holy Spirit (through prayers, studying the Bible, fasting, etc) to cleanse your heart daily and uproot any seed of lust deposited into your heart.

"Therefore “Come out from among them And be separate, says the Lord. Do not touch what is unclean, And I will receive you.” 2 Corinthians 6:17

https://www.sundayakanni.com/2021/08/bbnaija-vehicle-of-lust-and-sexual.html?m=1

Trust this dude at your own peril. Anyone who speaks from two sides of the mouth cannot be trusted.
I watched him in an interview struggling to defend Nigeria’s situation & I totally gave up on this former brutally honest & vocal commentator.
At least , you can join APC without spewing obvious lies. Any ambition based on lies is a SCAM!

WTF! These people no dey tire?!!!

Oga the following are the possible reasons she isn’t giving you the coochie:
1. She was severely circumcised. Some culture tear off the labia, cut the clitoris & sew up the open wound. This seals off the vagina. They leave a small hole for urinating & period. When such a lady is ready for marriage she goes through traditional rites to cut her fully open. These types of ladies don’t want anyone to see their p*ssy until after the rites.
2. She was severely raped in the past & is suffering from PTSD. Therefore, sex is very painful to her, because she can’t get wet enough and long enough to make sex pleasurable.
3. She has a main guy f*cking the hell outta her & you are just the maga.
4. She has an oath with God or for personal reasons, she decided to stay away from sex.
5. She is a transgender with a feminine body, but with penis & scrotum.

Whatever the case is, you did well by moving on. She is not to blame that you offloaded you account on her because you wanted to f*ck. My advise to men is that you never spend an amount that you will regret if the woman leaves. Just spent what is convenient & wont hurt your pocket or ego.

Nehemiahjnr:
There is this girl I dated till last year before I got tired of everything.

She is always willing to come to my house or any place I invite her buh won’t allow sex, we will be dragging like someone that is dragging land in the village, struggle for hours buh she no go still gree and me I don’t want to force her.

When I ask her what happened she won’t say anything or sometimes will say stuff like AM AFRAID due to my past experiences.

Am tired of the relationship sef.
Money wey I don spend just Dey pain me and I don’t want to force somebody oo.

What should I do?

FYI, Ignorant and lazy Nigerian, Jesus protested (violently) in the Synagogue (John 2:13-16).

Also, Scripture is full of Jesus and Biblical prophets protesting misrule, tyranny and disobidience.
Exodus 4-14
Isa 29:20-21
2 Samuel 11-12
1 Kings 16:29 then 2 Kings 9
Matthew 14:1-13
Luke 13:31-35

Hausaman:
Why politicze religion ?. Why should they use dunamis church to attack a sitting president ?.
even Jesus son of Mary said give to ceasar what belongs to ceasar.