₦airaland Forum

I don’t trust anything from this man’s mouth. He speaks with both sides of his mouth.
I remember that he was very vocal against APC misrule. As soon as APC gave him their usual empty promises & he jumped ship, he started singing APC praise. People like him can’t be trusted. Greed & ambition drives their moral compass & loyalty.

I know your type.

Born2Breed:
You need more schooling with your copy and paste nonsense.

I am sure you are more miserable. Anyway, I choose to educate you a bit, so if you are not too miserable & lazy, please read the below link. Bini monarchs came from Yoruba monarchy, while Itsekiri monarchs came from Bini monarchy. This accounts for the strong similarities found in their language, culture & traditions.

https://www.britannica.com/topic/Itsekiri

https://www.pulse.ng/lifestyle/food-travel/itsekiri-people-kingdom-history-and-culture-of-the-iwere/2bwtylt.amp

Born2Breed:
Says a miserable ignoramus

You are an ignoramus who knows nothing about history.

Born2Breed:
It was changed to Olu recently by Awolowo. The agitation for Mid West region from the then Western region were not just political but cultural because Awolowo was bent on disrupting the tradition of the Mid Western to promote his own tradition.

Many of his atrocities should be left for another day.

Just like the Bini’s of Benin kingdom, the Itsekiri have a deep tie to the Yorubas. Infact, the 1st kings of these great kingdoms were from ancient Ife. In the past, coronotions were done with links and similar rituals to that of Ile Ife. Technically, Yorubas, Binis & Itsekiris are from the same blood & root.
These three great peoples have created their current variants of language, culture and traditions which are similar due to their roots, but evolved differently/uniquely due to politics & conflicts with one another, contact with other people & civilizations, their unique environment and other factors.

donestk:
I though 'Olu' is Yoruba name

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Why are these assholes not getting shot as instructed by the failed & incompetent C in C?

Then Buhari has won! This was one of his objectives.

Wow! so sorry for your challenges with your brother.
I think she should get evaluated for bipolar disorder too. The way she switches accent from British to Nigerian, and switches from flirty to irritated, from powerful/dominant woman to weak/vulnerable looks suspicious.

Mr. P and his wife were not the problem after all! We all just demonized them for our rubbish sentiments.

The North only mouths one Nigeria when it wants to cheat and exploit the foolish South.

Nigeria is not and will not be one, as long as the North continues to live by a totally different value system different from a secular value system which the constitution advocates. I don't know why the legality of Sharia law in some states cannot be tested in court by Southerners?!

Wike did well on the VAT issue.

Atiku! You are Fulani, they are your brothers! I can NEVER trust a Fulani man or woman again. The fulanization of Nigeria agenda is real, but it will never manifest as God lives!

Evil man, celebrated by evil people! Typical Nigerians tweh!

Evil man celebrated by evil Nigerians!

Do you buy a car without test driving it? Do you buy Ijebu garri without tasting how dry it is?

Ogogoro na bastard! So Nigerians should not speak out in the face of misrule? Why not ask your principal to stop aiding a climate that provokes Nigerians to make unguarded utterances. The country is too divided for his divisiveness.

Capacity & Competence are two different things!
How do you compete favorably when the exchange rates for parts, lack of electricity, poor standards monitoring, consumer high interest rate and government policy somersault makes imported used & new vehicles cheaper and better!!!!

Nigeria served his kind well!

Looks like what women can do, men a beginning to do it better!

The numbers in the north is cooked up. We need credible census in Nigeria, where advanced technology will be used.
The North CANNOT win in a free fair & credible election where there is electronic voting / transmission of results, with no underaged / foreigners voting &no mass multiple thumbprinting.

nairavsdollars:
I pray APC fields a Southerner.North will defeat them easily because they have the voting number

You are not getting it. Because it is acceptable doesn’t necessarily make it moral.
Anyway, thanks for the conversation, good night.

Kobojunkie:
I am saying moral laws are not universal, whether they are legally represented or not. Here's a story about centuries old practice that many are now calling for an end to

https://www.eurasia.undp.org/content/rbec/en/home/blog/2015/2/26/A-Call-to-Action-Stop-Bride-Kidnapping-.html

Now, for centuries, this act was considered moral and accepted as law by those who practice and uphold this culture. But the attention of the outside world has been drawn to it and now voices arising to put an end to what was, for 100s of years considered culturally acceptable.
And what would an end to this practice mean? Criminalizing a practice once considered moral by those whose culture it is...

You see where you are wrong? Right & wrong has to do with morality while crime has to do with law. You may do some things that are wrong but legally nobody can hold you against it. For instance, you can be rude to a beggar (this is wrong), but you have not commited a crime.
Legality is relative, but morality is universal. If I was talking about legality, I will ask the 1st husband to sue her for bigamy. The moral thing to do is to finalize your divorce/separation before remarrying.

Kobojunkie:
The concept of right and wrong is not universal as to some extent it is determined by your leanings as an individual and your geographical location as well. For instance, what is concerned right and acceptable in some northern states of Nigeria is a crime in other parts of the same Nigeria, so let's try to stay honest here, shall we?

Never said all Nigerians are savage brutes, however, they aren't all practically governed by the same exact laws and principles. I was looking earlier at what passed as Marriage laws in Nigeria, and I had to make a decision not to post a link to it after carefully examining it and realizing that the vast majority don't even follow it , nor is it widely implemented as such.

If you don’t know that the concept of right & wrong is universal, I won’t be able to help you further.
You can’t just generalize that ALL Nigerians are savage brutes who have no sense of right & wrong just because some people refuse to do the right thing. Even monkeys know right from wrong to an extent, unless you think Nigerians are lesser than monkeys

Kobojunkie:
But who defines what is right in the Nigerian context? Obviously, not you and honestly, it seems even that changes from culture to culture, so you can imagine the real problem isn't as simple as you try to make it seem.

We know how the rules work in, say, developed countries, but we cannot simply cut-&-paste that into the Nigerian situation and expect that it ought also to work exactly right - obviously it still doesn't as it has been set that way for sometime now.

There is no definitive law against polygamy or polyandry in Christianity, so it is best to leave that out of this as the proper divorce here is as defined either by the state or culture or even both.

Because everyone does it the wrong way doesn't make a thing right.
She can avoid this controversy if she and Mr world bank had been patient enough to finalize the end to her 1st marriage.
IMO both of them were too eager to show off what they were hiding to eat. Her new marriage would have been less scandalous if both adulterous-newly weds had properly ended the marriage from both ends. Pentecostal Christianity doesn't permit polygamy or polyandry anyway, does it?

Kobojunkie:
In the same Nigeria, many abandon their legally spouses( no legal divorce) to marry other partners. This is common place and widely condoned in cultures across the country, so claiming she had to be legally separated only works where it is an only required option.

The mother's solution is that a bride price was not paid at all and there are indeed numerous cases of unions formed without the payment of bride price - these should not be ignored.

As for what the Bible says, divorce was described according to Jewish custom - the laws of divorce in the Old Covenant are meant only for the Jews and not for the Nation of Nigeria, so it would make no sense attempting to apply them to the Nigerian situation.

Honestly, when it comes to the Nigerian situation, I am of the opinion that there still doesn't exist what can be called a " proper divorce"

She married him legally according to the man & not disputed by the woman, so at least divorce him in civil court 1st?
Secondly, only one side of the family claimed bride price wasn’t paid after 11YEARS & 2kids! This I wont take unless she Divorce/ separate from him in customary court too. Pictures show her kneeling for prayers in what looked like a trad.
Thirdly , it is claimed that another woman like her is still married to her current husband-in-adultery for Pete’s sake. Why not resolve that 1st? Abi pentecostalism now permits 1man & multiple wives. For her ‘happiness’, she has chosen to make another woman’s marriage & life miserable. What kind of evil woman is that?!
How do you go ahead to remarry, not date o, another man when there is so much doubt about the status of your 1st marriage & you don’t want tongues to wag or be slut shamed
If you do what whores do, expect to be called a LovePeddler , period!

Kobojunkie:
In Nigeria, what does it mean to properly separate from her ex? She said she had been separated from him for many months so what more should see have done given the tradition that is obtainable in Nigeria?

As long as ALL housemates ain’t up for eviction, subtle scheming & alliances are part of playing the game.
Also, apart from warming up to the viewing public, avoiding nominations is a card you should play. Whitemoney was trying to be so indispensable, nobody will be willing to nominate him for a long time. Pere saw through that & attempted to ruffle the strategy… that is fair game!

TheGoodJoe:

This is big brother. You can not game the system. You have to find a way to bring out your inner quality. Focusing on bringing down another will block your inner quality.

I disagree with you that the men are mortified that she got someone better than her ‘legitimate’ husband. The problem seems to be that she didn’t properly separate from him before her adulterous marriage to Mr. World bank.
Trust me, most REAL men are not bothered about how women who made their lives miserable in marriage are doing. Only broke men stalk their exes doing well. If a man has it going for him, who cares if the witch in his life remarries Dangote?
As a single father for 6years and counting, there is absolutely no biggy in raising kids if you know what you are doing. The difficulty in raising kids exist, but it is overhyped by women to scare men. My advise to men is Work smart, earn good money, devote valuable time, invite God & avoid remarrying until you lay a solid foundation for the kids, also avoid any sexual contact in front of your kids with other women & never put any women above your kids (they may be equal but not above! Once a man can do this, he can raise his kids without the lifelong torture of staying married to a witch.

pocohantas:
Dearest Tina Adeeyo,



*drops mikrofone*

I totally agree. That Pere guy is a tactician. Unlike other clowns in that house that have no strategy & cannot see other people’s strategy. Typical Nigerians, they are just there to mark time, eat, probably f**k , and make fame that may never come.
Like our football teams and athletes, there is no long or short term strategy to win the top prize!

After all una gra gra?! I am sure FBI has a dossier on each and every clown in this dictatorship. Hush’s exposure was a hint that reset their brains. Sadly, once they play ball with Twitter, the threat will dissipate.
America has interest only for its own… justifiably so.

I totally agree. Broke women also be like HIV.The worst is Olosho whose market sells, they are like cancer.
I have learnt to stay with legit babes who can hold their side regardless of how low their income is. Those women are life! When you support them, they know the value of every penny because they earn theirs legit.

ahnie:
Happy birthday girl.its your life flex it as it pleases you,you rock baby girl.pls stay away front broke nigggggaaaars them be like malaria.

I guess you are semi literate & that is even worse than being illiterate! Nobody is inconsequential in a sane society where there is one man one vote (of course Nigeria isn't one).
Since you are such a scum of the earth to throw insults instead of knocking off the facts posed, (such as, the article did not indicate the scope & spread of their imaginary poll to validate it) I will choose to let your stupidity slide. The poll was meant for cretins like you anyway.
How does a credible poll not indicate the scope & spread sampled, instead the article went ahead on an adulation frenzy of a fulani slave.
FYI, I am proudly Yoruba and an Omoluabi. I am also not a PDP or APC boxed in person.

Ovamboland:
When your state governor of your state and big time experienced politicians are decamping to join APC where they will sway their supporters to vote for Osinbajo, an inconsequential person like is sharing your opinion. Go and vote for your Fulani loser candidate as usual. It will shock you that even Jonathan and Pepe will cast their vote for Osinbajo.

Are Nigerians not mad people?!
You stacked a list of people over 45 who have milked Nigeria selfishly to stupor & conduct an imaginary poll that nobody was aware of, then you chose a prof / pastor/ SAN that doesn’t have the guts to speak truth to power or resign honorably in the face of gross misgovernance… then you want someone like me to believe in your rubbish poll?
You know the kind of gullible and foolish Nigerians this poll was directed at.

Awon ageless corrupt retards!