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Comparing Male & female promiscuity is more complex than that.
I agree that you should not deliberately pick up women, deceive them into loving you and giving you their bodies, then dump them.
However, one of the key qualities women desire in men is sexual experience. This experience is acquired mostly from having real time sex and voraciously learning about the body of a woman. No woman likes an inexperienced man in bed.
On the other hand, men love when a woman is sexually inexperienced, but willing to learn from her man. Too much sexual experience from the woman is usually a turn off for most men. Simps don’t really mind, because every sexual encounter is like they have won a lottery. But for high value men, they cannot deal with a woman with a history of promiscuity for long term relationships. Women usually love a man they can learn new things from… especially in bed. On the other hand, a man will feel insecure if it is his woman that keeps teaching him stuff in bed. Even the woman will get tired of teaching.
So my dear, you see why men may want virgins or sexually inexperienced women. It boosts our ego to be the teacher and leader. It does not look fair that promiscuity is judged differently, but it is what it is.

Little21:
You are right. As a women you can't allow just anyone inside of you. Like why the hell would you get inside of me..?! But you forgot something as a man.. you can't just have your way with a lot of girls.. do what you want with them and dump them when you want, and in the end when you want to get married you are looking for a virgin.. You can't see that cuz "what goes around comes around" And Note* no well trained woman and respected one would ever settle down for a man that you no he is the worst asshole ever in the past. So any man that sleep around with anything that has skirt can't expect to marry a good woman cuz in the end you only attract your like.

Males & Females can not be held to the same sexual standards because we are different. Women are supposed to be the prized and valuable party that men are supposed to pass a hurdle to get. Will you go through thick and thin for junk?
As a man you are expected to
1.Make enough money and status to be attractive to women
2 Initiate conversations with women
3. Develop the skills to woo the girl to like you
4. largely fund the relationship
5. take the lead when it comes to how to make the relationship interesting, progressive and worth it for the woman.
6. Be ready to protect and provide for the woman, even at the expense of your life as a man.
7. Accept many rejections from women regardless of these efforts.
If you can’t do these as a man most women will leave you. Some women are masculine enough to take the lead in getting a man, however, such dynamics doesn’t make a healthy one because it is unnatural. Most simps loose their women eventually, because women quickly get tired of playing the masculine role.
Now imagine going through all these hurdles as a man, only to realize that the woman you slaved to get was a community tramp?

jaeyking:
Hmmmm

What about the guys

Why are they looked at as top guns but the ladies as a bad egg

Different scenarios prove that we are not equal before the law

A man with a high body count is given a high rep
A woman with a high body count is seen as a slut

A woman screams sexual molestation, quickly the man is manhandled and quickly put on trial

A man screams sexual molestation, he is laughed upon by the society.

Imagine going to school and u were called that your 16yr old son is banging his hot female class teacher, (i know most of us guys will be extremely proud and happy)

Now look at it that you were called that a male teacher was banging your 16yr old daughter. The teacher has signed his death warrant.

So it's more or less what the society approves or see fit

But above all PLEASE BE MORALLY UPRIGHT

Oga, you have an entitled manipulator in your life. Tell her how you want it & she MUST abide. Make effort to spice it up here and there. If she is not willing to comply, send her packing and look for a better girl. Unless you are not a high value man that women will want. Then manage her demands with simping.

Brokeandnolove:
Hi fellas, I will go straight to the point. My girlfriend of over a year hardly ever initiates sex, so sex between us strictly depends on when I make a move. Sometimes it might coincide with when she's Hot and everything goes well. Again I don't like going for more than one round of sex because I hardly cum during the second round till it eventually turns to hard work. She will still be the one that will complain that she's tired. I believe that sex is meant to be enjoyed and not stressful.

Now I am not a freak for sex, and can comfortably go for a week without sex depending on the situation of things between us even though we stay together for now. I don't initiate sex if we are having issues and sometimes she complains that other men come crawling to their women for sex at night after an argument with most times leads to reconciliation but I always lock up as if I am staying with a man thereby making some of our issues linger longer than necessary.

She gets moody each time she's Hot and I don't make a move, I simply told her to initiate sex anytime she wants because with the economic situation on ground sometimes sex is the last thing on my mind.

We had sex yesterday afternoon and later that evening we were gisting and we talked about early morning sex, she pointed out that I hardly initiate early morning sex and I told her it was because she hates being disturbed when sleeping. I proceeded to tell her we will have early morning sex today. Unfortunately I worked all night and slept around 4 am so I couldn't initiate any sex. She woke up moody and angry which made led to an argument that culminated in her leaving the house.

While chatting on WhatsApp she told me not to carry my boring sex life into marriage. So guys is there anything wrong with a lady initiating sex when she wants it I am pretty sure if she initiated sex this morning I wouldn't have refused.

At least we have seen what ‘ironu’ people are doing. What has your ‘alainironu’ people done for you?

TINUBUISMAD:

They even tagged it food bank.
Las Las, na hunger and depression go finally quench and finish ironu people

Fools

Una think say una wise. Now who is feeling the heat more?

This one don chop boko haram prick and lost her brain!

This MFer should just STFU. I hate this loser so much. I have never seen an individual destroy undeserved goodwill so callously.
Buhari almost made me lose faith in Nigeria!

After you have looted the country blind?!

Omo Oko! Omoluabi rere!
No be some omo ale wey dey use left hand to give directions to their father’s house.
Proper fulani slaves!

Abegi! I have no pity for these slay queens. They live their lives hard and fast, so they should deal with the consequences.
I only have a soft spot for really conservative and feminine women who encounter male monsters!

Beautiful!
Unlike some descendants of fulani slaves who have decided to denigrate their ancestors!

Nigerians and hypocrisy. These same muslims who forbid their ancestors religion still find solutions from traditionalist under the cover of night.
Nigerian religiousity without true righteousness is the definition of pure evil!

He honestly didn’t need the unnecessary appearance!

I absolutely support the separation. Marriage should NEVER be by force. I am one of those who think this union was forced and not Divine. However, pending when those who want to leave can, it is better that the current politcs and power play is done in a way that will favor you.

M4A1carbine:
Support their BIAFRA so they leave you to go and suffer in their land.

Igbos are not my problem. I only gave advise on the debacle. Igbos have only 5states, the region is also the least populated, because the indegenes keeps flooding out of the region. This puts the SE at a sharing disadvantage. Unfortunately, Nigeria has been structured as a unitary, resource sharing system from the central. How does a region with the least number of states and least populated region want to get what is equal? The SS, SW and the SE can never get what is equal if the narrative remains the same for the SE.

M4A1carbine:
The Northerners are everywhere
Other tribes are everywhere
Yoruba are also everywhere (in small groups)

but na IGBO be your wahala...

IGBOs are too much abeg...

What is wrong with this Linda Ikeje wannabe?? Why won’t we break your heart? You want to slut around, yet you want a dumb man to reward you with faithfulness and long term relationship? It will NEVER happen!
As long as women decide not to be loyal, submissive, respectful, homely, less slutty, resourceful, fertile and hook the highest value man they can get before 28-30yrs old, they will continue to experience their delusion of male heartbreak.
Women are MOST TIMES responsible for their bad experiences with men, yet they always refuse to take responsibility. Instead, they turnaround and blame men! They refuse to give men what they want, yet they want men to give them their desires. Women always want to impose their version of what is desirable in a relationship on men, but most men don’t do this. Men are built to resist domination from women and their fellow men, no wonder why there is friction in a relationship where the woman is trying to dominate and manipulate the man. This is where the so called heartbreaks come from.

Says a selfish woman who gets everything from government!

Onigbo dey hate on Onigbo senior.
This chic dey blaze like anything, those who know, know!

Excellent advice. They should invest and live in the SE. With increased population, they can demand for an extra state, allocation and political positions which they will then deserve. But when they all decide to run to Lagos and other states they indirectly add to the disadvantages the SE gets.

I think some interests are bent on destroying Tobi Amusan!
I don’t know what she did to offend them, but looks like they ain’t happy with her winning streak.

fergie001:
The AIU confirms on July 19, charged and provisionally suspended Tobi Amusan (NGR) for 3 Whereabouts Failures.

The Charge will be heard by the Disciplinary Tribunal and determined before the World Athletics Championships which holds on August 27-29, 2023.

The AIU has promised to head to CAS to appeal the decision.



Athletics Integrity Unit

Previous Thread:
https://www.nairaland.com/7770125/tobi-amusan-provisionally-suspended-anti-doping#124514433

Read your employment contract.
But ideally, if you collect weekly salary, give a week notice, if you collect monthly salary, give a month notice,

I still don't know how the SE thinks the VICTIM / ENTITLEMENT WITHOUT SIGNIFICANT CONTRIBUTION strategy will work!
The entire nation already knows this weakling strategy and the Oyinbos that the SE are trying to manipulate to take action are too selfish to act and will soon get tired of the PROPAGANDA.

Nigerians are so greedy, ungrateful and insensitive.
I hope you and your family have enjoyed your extortion and one day of fame? Now that you have dented the man’s ego with your demands, you don’t want to live with the consequences?
The man has given you and your greedy/ poverty stricken family what you want, GIVE HIM THE LIFETIMES OF PEACE & QUIET HE ALSO WANTS!
You cannot eat your cake & have it!

This boy has finally killed his father with heart ache. RIP old man!

Oga NLC should just STFU. Nigerians will determine how they will respond to the hike.
I won’t advise any Nigerian to follow this partisan and selfish agenda driven NLC.

Well, Tinubu asked & fought fiercely for the job. He deserves everything he is getting! As long as Nigeria isn’t fixed yet, I expect all Nigerians to give him and all elective position holders the most hellish attack they can muster!
There is too much at stake for mediocre performances!

Where do you think many Boko Haram, killer herdsmen & the so called bandits come from?

lexy2014:
when did his people experience constant invasion from Niger and Chad?

Continue tolerating the bad behavior o!
Since you don’t want to be the reason a bad brother wants to fvck is brother’s wife.
I think you may also be interested in the guy too, otherwise women don’t tolerate BS from men they ain’t secretly fantasizing about.
You better tell your naive husband and let the idiot be kicked out if you want to save that marriage. Otherwise, one day you will come here with crocodile tears, narrating how you ‘unintentionally’ slept with your brother in law!

Nataliace:
The younger brother to my husband occasionally comes to visit us. My husband takes good care of him and support his business dealings.

He trusts his brother that he can travel for weeks leaving us together.

Recently my brother in-law's movement towards me changed.

He sometimes rub his hands on my back as if he was just being friendly. He made strange and unusual move towards me several times and I was uncomfortable with that.

I warned him that if he doesn't stop I will report to my husband.

My husband travelled last week and his brother has begun his behaviors of unexpectedly touching my body and showing up in my room or just following me to the kitchen whenever I am preparing meal.

I thought of reporting to his brother but I don't want to be the reason they will be enemies for life.

How do I stop him so this remain between two of us?

This is sincerely becoming unbearable.

You are being manipulated!
She keeps testing how much of a SIMP you are. Don’t disappoint your ancestors and demonstrate your masculinity and stop being such as sissy!
NEVER apologize if you know you are right. You also don’t need to apologize everytime you are wrong either. Ensure your apology is valued because it is scarce. You keep stroking her ego by apologizing all the time … she should be stroking your ego instead. She is not the man in the relationship, YOU ARE, so MAN UP!

Deenillah:
I'll just go straight to it.

My girlfriend of 2years gets upset when I don't apologize even when I'm not at fault. , saying I don't care about her feelings.

I'm this person who believes that everyone is responsible for their actions and should shoulder the consequences for thier actions.

I don't apologize except when I know I'm wrong and I try as much as possible to avoid things that will make me apologize unnecessarily except of course for the ones that happen coincidentally.

But she wants it to be that at every little instance, I apologize even if she's at fault which to me I find unacceptable and this causes quarrels between us when it happens.


MY QUESTION IS

Am I wrong to want to apologize ONLY when I'm at fault?

Niger has always held Nigeria ransom. Northern rulers have always tolerated the brazen exploitation by Niger and Chad. It is about time they suffer for their past atrocities!

You wey be expert, what has your expertise done to save your people from constant invasions from Niger & Chad?

This is a very lazy excuse. Innoson is not the only manufacturer that assembles vehicles in Nigeria. Why not order from those other brands?!
All these politicians are just the same! How many LP politicians have complained in the National Assembly when it comes to sharing positions and money they don’t deserve?!
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Unless you tell us how your anus tore, I don’t think anyone can help you.
Anus doesn’t just magically tear na!