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I see your POV, even if I don’t agree with it. However, I need to address what my real concerns are and why enforcing the rights of sexually odd people trample on my rights at a personal level.
You see, I have kids. My grown up kids were easier to raise because there were no major and legally regulated influences that forces them to act and behave in ways that forces their then very impressionable minds against my family’s moral etos. My younger children who are not even yet teenagers are my major concerns. With TV programs, books in school, laws and regulations and several other tools used to force my kids to act and think in ways severely different from what I as a parent would desire make parenting challenging for me. My young son came home from school one day and asked me why his classmate wore a girl’s dress to school and the kids who laughed at him were scolded by their teacher. As a parent, I really did not know how explain the oddity to a 5yr old. Do you know how much work I had to do to make my kids know that it isn’t proper for boys to use female public toilets? As an adult the woke culture can be fended off and avoided if I want. But when that culture is being forced on my children with laws to enforce it and I have to work harder as a parent to instil my training on them, then it is personal.

Calitoscassius:
Again, How has it affected you personally? What exactly are you afraid of? The LGBTQ are not the only ones who are protected under the human rights and free speech act, we that are not LGBTQ has rights also, If i come across a trans man as long as he/she is not interfering in my sexual life or tryna encourage me to be like him/her or harrassing me sexually i wouldn't worry or be aprehensive of his/her existence or presence.


We have to work with these people as colleagues at our work places. So far i have not had any negative ecounters with any of them, they know there place and i know mine. This is only point of view, feel free to disagree..

Please familiarize yourself with the transgender rights bill in Canada

Calitoscassius:
You are completely wrong! No one is forcing you to accept anything, you have the right to your opinion on who to call a man or woman.

How has it affected you personally?

I am derailing nothing, I live with them and know how they are forcing us to call men women and women men. I know how they are pushing the LGBTQ agenda even in kindergarten school curriculum.

Trudeau submitted rather brazenly to the woke agenda and it affects people like me personally. His weak leadership style likely leaked into his private life too. No real woman wants a weak man for duration of a long term relationship or marriage. I strongly believe that is why his marriage collapsed. I may be wrong though.

Calitoscassius:
You are wellcomed, Yes, your opinons are only tolerated how ever wack they may sound

No one is shoving any unnatural anything down your throat evidently you can, have expressed and continue to express your disagreement opinions on it. so how can that be shoving it down your throat?


Again, more opinions, labelling people who you have never met as mental disorder people or gender dysphoria sufferers


Mad people? Who are mad people? i am guessing you diagnosed them to be mad, you tested these truths right? More wack opinions and conclusions. You seem to know so much about these people, one wonders why and how? what exactly are you frightened of?

Talk about thinking rationally, you definitely do not qualify as a rational thinker, with all your narrow minded and ignorant wack opinions.


The topic is about Justin Trudeau's divorce but for some bizzare reasons you are trying so hard to derail it to be about your own wack and uhealthy opinions on some folk you have never met.

Be lucky!

Thanks for tolerating my opinion, even if my opinion is that the shoving of unnatural sexual orientation down the throat of others and nuturing instead of treating mental disorders such as gender dysphoria is diabolical.
If this my opinion is wack to some people, I can only be sorry for them. If you notice, even mad people think every rational, natural and tested truth is false.

Calitoscassius:
Your opinion, every opinion is wellcomed how ever wack they may sound.

I guess she just got tired of his pandering to the weird LGBTQ++ autocratic demands.
Every woman deep down, no matter how independent still wants a proper masculine and stoic man. All these attempts to effeminate the male gender is causing chaos. The PM seemed effeminated to me.

This is so disappointing!😡
I was expecting young technocrats to occupy at least 60-70% of the entire list.
Tinubu you fall my hand with this list!! I guess their performance will justify or nullify my disappointment and disgust at Tinubu with this mediocre and same of same list!
My heart is beginning to feel broken. You better perform Tinubu o! Otherwise, obidient wrath will be child’s play!😡😡😡

This is a lazy design. They just enlarged the FJ Cruiser!
I am not impressed!

Oyinbo marriage is a big scam!
How many men sue their adulterous wife for a financial gain?!
If a woman is trying to force you to legally marry her in civil court, just RUN! It’s a huge RED FLAG! She doesn’t love you, but is trying to put shackles on you.
Paying her bride price should be enough for any decent woman.

This man needs to go back to school. There are several ways to save money!
You can save money you have OR save money you don’t have if you eliminate the need to spend the money in the 1st place.

The list is so uninspiring!😡

Men and Women process sex and love TOTALLY differently... know this and know peace!

Who wants to join a clearly partisan and biased NLC in a protest that points to attempts to deliberately destabilize the government?!
Why has the NLC not protested or penalized their members in the refineries who have wasted all the money allocated for revamping these refineries??!!
When will this NLC encourage and insist that the government should fire all their members in the petroleum and power ministry who have ensured that we neither have affordable and available fuel and electricity in Nigeria??!!
We know the politicians are evil and we can deal with them during elections, but what have the NLC done with its members in the CIVIL SERVICE who have conived with politicians to keep Nigeria on her knees?
I know if the NLC focused more on the rot and corruption by her members, the politicians will have a hard time looting and the masses will get the dividends of good governance.
I DARE SAY THAT THE NLC IS PART OF THE ROT AND OPPRESSORS!

The hospital and elevator installer / company should be prosecuted!

So a stolen phone cannot be replaced easily by a so called billionaire again? What is the fuss about the denial?

It takes a druggie to know a druggie.
Go and rest, Tinubu is your president whether you like it or not!
I can't wait for the tribunal to shut you guys up finally. Make una come out after Tinubu wins in court, make you collect woto woto. I can't wait for all these online warriors/cowards in Nigeria to come to the streets in real protest against Tinubu presidency... you guys need to reap the fruits of your well deserved LABOUR. Don't just cry to us and claim victim when e set finish.

Odin13:
Druggie hardly look presidential.. yesterday was looking like one retired Alaye ..

Now see this ..

Make tribunal no use their hand spark light for where no good.. e go to burn them..

Nigerians Dey provoke .. even people wey Dey form support .. Dey provoke.. he’s fellow Yoruba gods Dey para.. no joy..

However .. e no go bad make we try this man for just a term..

He still fit deliver one or two..

Power to the people!!

Nigerians! Una don count the water for table fast fast?
Does not giving shishi incude two guests sharing one bottle of 75cl water?!
Or have they gone broke already?

9jatriot:
Lamba master wee be like:

Una must give me discount o. Since the petition only cover admitting Tinibu won but the court should just disqualify him. The part of the money wen suppose be to tell the court that "I won and I wee prove hit:", make una return the money for that part to me because we non use that argument again.

Lawyers wee be like:
Baba, na 2 people wan share these bottled water? Because lawyers plenty pass the water wen you bring o. Make we drink water fess before we discuss discount

Well, it is because men have a primal, evolutionary and innate NEED to spread their genes / increase the chances of the continuity of their genes. This need pushes them to mate with several females to increase the odds and vary the genetic mix of their offsprings. This need is ingrained in our lizard brain and cannot be controlled in spite of what modernity wants to have us believe. Only recently did modern humans make mating recreational. At an evolutionary level human mated to procreate and create continuity in existence. This does not eliminate that prehistoric and genetic part of males to want to spread and increase the chances of the survival and continuity of their genes. If not for great leaps in modern medicine and human well being, to survive, it makes sense to sow your wild oats everywhere. But today to make the gene pool of your offsprings rich, you should mate with different females from various backgrounds.
Also note that men and women are not the same. Our fat, chromosome, bone density, lung capacity, hormonal mix and many other things make us different.
Therefore, men and women don’t rationalize things the same way. This is why women can never understand why men think this way. Just like men can’t understand why women think in some ways.

blessingnenye:
Why Is Cheating Considered Normal In Men? But For A Woman, Hell Will Let Loose?

Jokers! A politically biased labor union has become useless. There is no more moral ground for all Nigerians regardless of political affiliation to follow a biased NLC!

How can Nigerians who mostly have a flawed sense of morality send ‘distinguished’ representatives to the National Assembly?!
As long as Nigerians retain their warped morality & flawed sense of what is right and wrong in their personal lives, they will continue to get these kinds of leaders.
You reap what you sow. Nigerians want to sow thorns and reap roses!!

Sadly, you married the man for the wrong reasons. You do not choose a husband based on emotions alone.
You married him primarily because you felt ‘in love’?! That is not supposed to be the primary reason to be married to a man. You can date or have a fling because of love, but you don’t marry because of love. You marry because you have a man you can respect, be loyal to and submit to, and this man MUST be competent and capable of protecting, providing for and loving you. Love from you should be a secondary offshoot of this complex but fundamental mix.
Sadly, the marriage is flawed and likely doomed. You can keep the marriage for your kids sake, but if it is about your long term happiness, you have to restrategize, with several loses for you here and there. It looks like the man is incapable of being a husband long term and you may have to move on if you want your sanity to be sustained. However, moving on comes at a huge cost and consequence too. Both scenarios are not in your favor.
You will have to bear the huge consequences of bad decisions. I think you should approach your religious organization and family for financial help too. I don’t think random online Nigerians are capable of helping you financially and long term.
I pray that God will guide you in the right path. Good luck!

beautifulsoul12:
Good morning everyone. I have to create this account to post this.
I can't even sleep at night lately.

I'm so tired and I need help right now. I have been doing this all by myself for so long now, without much complain but now, I need help.
Before I got married to my husband, I didn't know he had a seasonal mental health challenge, but not violent.

I met him in the university, he was in medicine, he had dreams, very ambitious, one of the best in his department, Working his way to travel abroad to continue his education. We were just friends, but I liked him. He kept on asking me out, but I declined. I wanted to graduate first.
We parted ways in year two. He changed school, so, I knew nothing about him again till years later.
Reconnected with him years later after graduation, to my greatest surprise, he didn't graduate, wasted all his resources and couldn't travel out. We still love each other, so we got married.
after the birth of my first child, I wanted to leave him, but I couldn't because he was a good man, but with too many changes and I was the only one who truly care and was there for him.
Three years ago, he became much better. He got a small job, Started bringing in little for upkeep. I saw change and I was happy. We had our second child last year after 8yrs.
Since early this year, the whole thing came up again. Since then, he became jobless again.
The financial burden is all on me. Right now, we can't afford to renew our rent.
I lost my business capital some times ago in wrong business, since then, it has been so much struggles.

I'm trying hard but it's not enough.
I'm thinking of working away, but to where? what about my children? Who will be there for them? What about him? But I'm tired of being in a marriage where I have to struggle for everything, where I can not depend on my man.
Pls, help us renew our house rent.

What do I do?

In barely 2months? What were you expecting? I am neither happy nor unhappy with him. In 6months, I will decide.

blazepascal:
with the state of the economy are you still happy with tinubu .let's keep sentiment aside please.

I totally agree!
The Obidient’s strategy of propaganda, sensationalism, misdirection, manipulation and online noise is also not in doubt.
So, in my opinion, they all just using Nigerians to achieve their selfish agendas. Birds of same feathers!

Racoon:
Lamidi Apapa mole role In the LP has never been hidden to a well discerning mind

Just like INEC’s refusal to obey her GUIDELINES to transmit results on IREV invalidates the results declared, any ministerial screening outside the Senate rules in null and void! THIS IS THE LAW!!😏

Maybe your land will become less cursed, errosion free and barren when you are less bitter about these brown roof admiring people.😝
Besides, they have continued to rule you with their ’brown roof’ ….maybe you should start admiring brown roofs too😅🤣! Since you desperately want to rule.

Bolacocaine:
Of course it was fake news from the brown roof admirers

Never! It is an abomination!
But I will have nothing against her. She just can NEVER be my wife again. Unless I don’t catch her.

You just gave the government a good reason to rule by force.

Akwamkpuruamu:
If the FG can disobey court orders to free MNK, then the NLC should disobey the fake and deceptive NIC court orders not to embark on strike.

He that comes to equity must come with a hand washed with hypo

Sadly, NLC has lost its teeth since the leadership became partisan. Nobody takes them serious again.
When Emefiele was terrorizing Nigerians with his evil policies, where was the NLC?!

His werey supporters… haven’t you seen some online?
There is no type of evil deed that doesn’t have a critical mass of supporters in Nigeria. Nigerians can rationalize every type of evil on earth… yet they think they know God!

Thieving hypocrites! Spits!

I do not believe Nigerian scientist.
What experiment did he carry out to arrive at this conclusion.
All these lazy arm chair so called 'professionals'.

Religious sycophants!
Go and stone the politicians and civil servants who swear oaths with the Quran and Bible, then steal the country blind first!

The problem of Nigeria is the civil servants who enable politicians to steal our commonwealth.
They all also pretend to be saints.