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@CharisEleos

Me too, I'll lock everywhere.


@me
Hahahaha... Lock "everywhere?" I hope it's not what I'm thinking. If it's your soup and food, no problems. With my locked pocket I can buy a decent Iya fusi. When your soup finishes you will look for my pocket. Score = 1 - 2

@CharisEleos


Well, that's because I'm the one cooking and it's different from going to the pot after cooking and setting the pot down. It's not a good habit. The soup can get soured like that.

That is why some women lock their soup inside the cabinet. Lol..


@me
Hahahaha....if you lock the soup in the cabinet, I'll will lock my pocket. 1 - 1

@CharisEleos

What will I do to an adult?
I'll simply let him know he has taken his own portion. So when I'm serving his next meal, no meat.

I know someone who deos it and still expects to be served food with meat.[/quote]@me
The ones you used to take for tasting when you are cooking and warming soup nko?

@Fiscus105
If not that her life is completely on the ground already, 18 years old toddler hooking up with 28 years old madam, even if one wants to eat meat.........must she kneels down for cow?

Anyway may her soul rest ............


@me
Money for hand back for ground. Ashawo no dey consider age. Once you have "the boy is good" they are good to go.

Any man of honour will always own up if he makes mistakes. That's what Pastor bakare is doing.

We saw massive corruption under GEJ and weakness in handling it and insurgency. A lot of us believed that with the buhari we knew during his military regime that he is the right man to deal with the situation.

I must confess that the man is empty and he and his cabal will not allow knowledgeable people to help out. The worst is his tribalistic and sectional tendencies. I don't think that the man is thinking of history.

Welcome to the life of a clergy. Full of temptations. This situation will forever hurt you even if go back and get qualified. People will use it against you. You and the girl were not qualified to be in such school.

We have always said that many are pastors but few are called. It's a life of self-denial and sacrifice.

Forget about marrying the lady for now because you can't claim that you are led. If you do, divorce is an option. Visit the family with some elders. Promise to take responsibility for the care of the baby as much as you can. Plan to go back and finish your program and the skill training course.

Make a vow to the Almighty that you will not defile yourself again. Hopefully you have learnt the lesson of how not to be a pastor.

Good luck.

Op you and your fiancée are deceiving yourselves. You are already committing fornication. You agreed no sex before marriage but you kiss and romance.

You have violated your vow.

@billyG
If your branch is not making money,mega churches that operate like corporations makes big money gather d money all over d world wide branches is big money where do they get money to build Universities, structures,tv station & private jets?a church of 500,000 members if each 30% of them contribute a month inform of tithes, offering,seed offering,pastors offering,first fruits that is big money.

@me
Because of your way of thinking I will reveal my identity. By the grace of God I'm a senior pastor in charge of RCCG provincial headquarters parish. This is biggest in any province. I have attendance of both junior and main church of about 1000. About 28 altar ministers and workers of about 125. I'm teaching you the nitty gritty of how a church finance operate and you are here doing armchair calculation.

I'm not saying that large attendance is not good but it's not proportional to the income of the church. Do you know that I have covenant partners that sponsor projects but they are not members of the church.

A church could be smaller in attendance but richer than bigger churches. Sometimes they support some locations that have attendance but low income eg up north, rural churches and foreign mission fields.

There are a whole lot of things involved in church administration that you guys don't know. You just think and calculate money money and money.

Like I said before I have a secular profession and I'm a pastor. I can tell you that the life of a true pastor is scary. Particularly if you have a definite call.

Why not contact some law firms in the city

I don't know oooooo

@billyG
Most members pays tithes & contributions either by persuasion, cajoling, threat or fear of consequences.
Infact d most of d poor gives all their mites because of promise of thousand fold rewards.

@me
Who told you all these. This is what most of you that are not into church administration assume. I am talking based on empirical evidence.

The size of the congregation may not have a bearing on the amount of income of the church. Some people drop empty envelopes. Some fill it with lowest denominations.

Any pastor that didn't think outside the box will have his church struggle financially. So many assumption fly about concerning the church and money.

I will not reveal my true identity, church and position. I know what I'm talking about. Before you begin to say what you guys usually say, I have to state that I have a solid profession and I take no income from the church. I work for God with his gift upon my life and support with my finance.

@Kobojunkiee
So after reading through the Gospels where you are told that even Jesus Christ discouraged many from following Him, that His mission on earth was "soul winning"?

Jesus Christ fed thousands, healed hundreds, but at the time of His death, He had only a couple dozen followers and you think His mission on earth was "soul winning"?

Jesus Christ sent even told His disciples that only a few people will be chosen even though many will be called to hear the Gospel , yet you are convinced that the mission is "soul winning"?

Jesus Christ even declared that He alone will build His own Church implying that the administration and growth thereof is in His hands alone and you think He sent you out for "soul winning"?

Way too many of you are drunk on the lies you have been fed by your Pastors and Mogs who lie and use you regularly to grow their earthly kingdoms in the name of God.

You actually think yourself smart believing Jesus Christ, who only offered the gospel to a few, discouraged many and also stated clearly that not all will 3enter into His Heaven sent you out on a "soul winning" mission. :


@me
I have taken good note of your comments on religious issues in this forum. The intention is to deceive the very elect. Everything you wrote here sound funny to someone like me.

Subsequently I will not be reacting to your comments on religious issues. It's share waste of time.

@billyG

Attendant has direct proportionality with revenue.Did you say true church of God.


@me
You are wrong. You are ignorant of church administration. In most churches you will find the multitude but the church will be mainly financed by a handful.

Majority might be seeking help always from the church.

@Kobojunkiee
It is not?

Do we not recieve it from Jesus Christ at the point of Salvation from Death?

What other gift does Jesus Christ hand out when He redeems a one from Death? :-


@me
Keep twisting. What Jesus did on the cross was to show everyone the way to salvation. It's not the end of salvation. Every man must work out his own salvation.

@Kobojunkiee

]If this is all about God, why measure this church growth you speak of?

Did God say "church growth" is of importance? Did God assign anyone "kingdom advancement" tasks, assuming here you are referring to God's Kingdom of not Man's kingdom?

What is oyedepo's labour in this? the growing of His kingdom/business here on earth or some assignment that God assigned him in secret? :-


@me
Smart man!!! Jesus sat in one place and he did not spread the gospel winning souls - Acts10:38.

Paul, Peter and the rest of the early apostles sat in one place without winning souls.

The purpose of the Holy Spirit upon you is for you not to expand Acts 1:8. If you think that being a pastor is for lazy people and drop outs to come and hide, try and be one.

Funny people everywhere.

@blamingthedevil
Interpret "growth index" for us



@me
In ministry there's growth assessment. It has to do with attendance and expansion. It has nothing to do with money.

I'm a pastor in RCCG. It's done in RCCG. You people should be careful with what you say about a true church of God. There are consequences.

The society is safer when hunger kills a lover of evil. His existence is dangerous to the society. Am I communicating?

greenie77

Women outlive men and you both are debating a 28 year old woman would get older fast? Who dies earlier?

Going by Nigeria's life expectancy, where for males it is less than 60 yrs, na so your friend wan put one smallie for trouble?


@me
My GF how you dey?

@LadyRosa


I'm a daug of eve and I've cheated countless times in relationships but not the one I'm currently in, he is a security personnel and well trained so, I just dey calm like cold water because his eyes dey my movements like wizard.




@me
Hahahaha...... that's good for you

@Cee0nne

What do people really gain from cheating..
I can never do that, it's crazy.
How would one cheat on the one one truly love :


@me
See question. All cheaters come and answer.

@sinola

Women will never comment on this topic.. Trust me.
Itz just like telling them that God will punish any women that has slept with a married man...


@me
Those daughters of Eve.... don't mind them.

@Juicy001

Not married yet but omoh I no fit keep track of the babes weh man don slaughter for bedroom, not that she doesn't knack other men,she knows i know and likes the fact that i dont do it when ever shes around so, no stress


@me
You are a bad guy..... I will tell aunty.

@evil1

Yes

The thought still anmoys me whenever it flahses through my mind

Wasn't just worth it at all.


@me
Yes not worth it bro.

Gentlerespect76
Parish Priest, as you wan listen to confession, first tell us your diocese.




@me
Even if I tell you, you will still not confess. Guilty as charged.

@Danzakidakura
not yet, and I don't have the intention to.



@me
Good boy�

@Johel


Omo...I don cheat tire this year sha....switching em like clothes...I still cheated this week sef...I just can't count...if the main chic finds out,Omo na war o...lol.


@me
You're a bad guy. Chop this chop that guy.

@greenie77

You are very free to do it again as often as you like. I am still wondering how someone who claims to be a pastor would easily term a fellow human being as eveninig newspaper or has your supposed calling as a pastor not be able to suppress your prejudice against women which have been very evident in the misogyny your posts reflect.

I am imagining the mental status of those who seek spiritual direction from you!

@me
Please don't judge my respect for women by what you see me write here. Like actors their roles may not have a reflection of their true character.

I just want to enjoy the comic side of these discussions and laugh. Most times I notice that the discussion actually become exciting when I raise some of those things and the ladies reaction make me laugh.

I'm actually by nature a lady's man. My baby cannot trade me off for anything in the world. I have a lot of interaction on daily basis with women both married and single. I have always been a close confidant of the advanced single. I know that a lot of them are good - character, education and self respect. It's just that life is a mystery.

I love you, ImaIma and poco because you ladies are very vocal.

From now on I will be supporting you. Now smile my baby. God bless you.

This guy makes issues out of nothing. Which church with good doctrine will overrule the importance of parents in marriage? The pastor and the church guides the intending couple but the consent of parents are fundamental.

Which pastor will join a couple in marriage without the parents giving the hand of the bride to him?

This man just want to trend!!!

@Vyolet

The OP, a married man has cheated severally and no one is calling him out, cos he is a man. Let a woman confess such now, all the mails on nl will descend on the thread to bash her entire existence, words like hoe, cutlass, axe will start flying around.


@me
It's a man's world. Sorry it's not our fault. But I'm a new man now for so many years. Sex is deceitful and addictive.

@HitRun

What does cheating mean please?


@me
It means doing the Mr ataga and chidinma thing

@greenie77

Do you know what words that are intended to demean means, especially from someone who claims to be a Pastor?



@me
Hahahaha....stop crying baby. I'll not do it again.

@greenie77

I guess because Zebra do sleep while standing up, you that can't because you have to lie down to do so means you make obeisance to the one that stands!


@me
Compare like with like and cite like example with like example. it's more logical. I take all these as a friendly chat. So I watch my language. Even though this is a faceless forum I have never for once used gutter language.