Culture › Re: Why Do Igbos Especially The Anambrans Marry From Their Tribe? by vivalavida(m): 3:37pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
sleekangel85: If you check my thread,it's a question not an allegation all you needed to do was to give ur advice to d Lady.I know d Yorubas nd Hausas do dat but in dis case d guy is igbo.You Igbo guys aren't giving me answers dat I want instead u r paranoid.Abeg no be me start am oh. C'mon shut da Bleep up. You had ulterior motives for creating such a devilish thread and if u want u condescend to your level right now,we will and we will make u regret creating such a stoopid thread. Lousy bingo. Tell ur fucking friend to go and marry frm her fucking tribe |
Culture › Re: Why Do Igbos Especially The Anambrans Marry From Their Tribe? by vivalavida(m): 3:35pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
bigfrancis21: Igbo bashing has become quite a common thing in Nigeria such that it has become normal to bash Igbo on every single thing, even on things that are meaningless.
You created this thread to ask why Igbo prefer to marry from their tribe. Are you really serious? This is a question you opened this thread for looking for 'answers'? Would you have opened this very thread in the first place had a Yoruba or Hausa guy been the one who preferred to marry from their tribe? Yes or No? Why would a Yoruba parent reject a non-yoruba suitor, and that will not be an issue. In fact, such action is justified. A Hausa parent will do the same and no dust will be raised about it. But when an Igbo parent does the same, then its a big deal. It is a serious issue that calls for serious attention and criticism, then you begin to get tags like ''Igbos are 'tribalistic'', 'they are 'selfish'', it is an 'Igbo problem' e.t.c. Minor issues that aren't issues when done by other tribes become a serious issue when Igbo is involved.
I look around me, majority Ibibios marry within the Ibibio tribe, majority Hausas marry within Hausa, Yoruba within Yoruba, why should the Igbo marrying within themselves even be a question in the first place? Despite the level of inter marriage between whites and blacks here in the US, majority whites marry within whites, chinese within chinese, blacks within blacks, and you're going to sit there and tell me that it is a problem when Igbos prefer to marry Igbos?? Like seriously??
I get your point about love being the most important factor between 2 people from different tribes and there are marriages between Igbo men and non-Igbo women however majority Igbos don't need to look outside for love when they can find it within themselves. The same love you mentioned as important, Igbo men get it from within the tribe. Why look outside? What about culture preservation and values? Why should Igbo preferring to marry from within even be an issue in the first place when other tribes are doing the same? Is the creation of this thread even justified in the first place?
Tomorrow you're going to open another thread asking 'Why do Igbo people speak Igbo?' Like seriously?? Chineke Gozie gi |
Politics › Re: I’m Not In Any London Hospital - Buhari by vivalavida(m): 1:07pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
Burger01: When you grow old, someone will ask you if you are dead. Come to Nairaland and tell us your exact reply to the person. Buhari is dying soon. Just know that. U might even die first and be his fore-runner to hell. God punish u for quoting me |
Politics › Re: I’m Not In Any London Hospital - Buhari by vivalavida(m): 12:49pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
Even when obasanjo called yaradua and asked him *Umoru,are u dead?* he claimed he was alive,hale and hearty |
Politics › Re: Why I Dropped Buhari For Jonathan — Odumakin. by vivalavida(m): 10:35am On Feb 22, 2015 |
I love yinka odumakin. He is a true yoruba man. Below are excepts i picked from his responses
In 1964, in one day, Chief Obafemi Awolowo enrolled 400,000 pupils into schools. The children of those enrolled that day are now professors. Fifty years after, some people now turn us to almajiris, putting billboards all over the place to tell us that one meal a day for our children in school is change.
Now, let look at this analogy: I am in a cage and somehow wants to open the cage so that I have my freedom. But someone now says I should stay in the cage but will make sure my children get a meal a day inside it. If the only thing I will get to stay inside the cage is for my children to have a meal a day, I will not stay. Even if the person has a political party willing to make my father its presidential candidate and my mother his running mate, I would go on the path of freedom.
If not that the world is coming to an end, is it some of the people in APC that will be talking about corruption? Individuals who are poster boys of corruption; some have cases before the Economic and Financial Crimes Commission. The way some people are desperate for change, if some notable armed robbers were placed before them and they were told to chant change for such individuals, some would still shout it. For me, it is not about APC or PDP, there is nothing being put forward that is different. |
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Politics › Re: Audacity Of Hope: A Corper's encounter With President Jonathan by vivalavida(m): 9:52pm On Feb 20, 2015 |
bayulll01: barcanista do u know why am angry with you is because you suppose to be a light that will shone and instead u decide to buried the truth!barcanista we all stand for one thing in this life,just know that the way of the wicked may seems enjoyable but the end is destructions,I av come to like you not because you once support apc but u speak the truth,Apc and Pdp are same coin,but we know the truth of those that will perform when we get to the throne,peace barcanista See begging of life. Lolz |
Politics › Re: Why My Aide Tore His PDP Membership Card — Governor Dankwambo (photo) by vivalavida(m): 6:11pm On Feb 20, 2015 |
Most of the wealthy individuals in Gombe today are those engaged in building materials and other businesses and most of them are from the South East,
This is the part i love. I dont care about what else he was saying |
Politics › Re: Seun And The Mods Ban These Cloned Monikers Baccanista And Sincerenigerian OR... by vivalavida(m): 11:03am On Feb 19, 2015 |
Ngozievergreeen: [s][/s]
Udoka Osuji, She is better than your late mother. Lol. See mumu |
Politics › Re: Seun And The Mods Ban These Cloned Monikers Baccanista And Sincerenigerian OR... by vivalavida(m): 10:47am On Feb 19, 2015 |
Beremm: Thanks alot, the someone cloned my moniker using berem.  That one? No mind dat geh. Shebi dat omo alata dat was PMing cramjones then abi? She lives @ alaba rago with those hausa men and she has adopted their aboki mentality. |
Politics › Re: Yoruba Leaders Blast Buhari, Endorse Jonathan by vivalavida(m): 10:45am On Feb 19, 2015 |
So after they called Obiageli a mol,she has defected too. That is so gud. Congrats to customized13 for showing her the way to redemption |
Politics › Re: Seun And The Mods Ban These Cloned Monikers Baccanista And Sincerenigerian OR... by vivalavida(m): 10:42am On Feb 19, 2015 |
I like this obiageli and beremm |
Politics › Re: The Gospel Of Change According To "Saint" APC by vivalavida(m): 10:02am On Feb 18, 2015 |
Even id PDP paid barcanista,warriz the big deal? Werent we all here when hafiz oyetoro aka saka was dancing and singing *i don port ooo,i don port go MTN? Barcanista has ported to PDP. So u all should get that into your rhick skullz. I wish barcanista can even recreate that saka's porting video. This time he will throw his broom away and run under an umbrella cause of the heavy rain and watch while the rain carries the broom away.lolz |
Politics › Re: The Gospel Of Change According To "Saint" APC by vivalavida(m): 9:52am On Feb 18, 2015 |
NgeneUkwenu: [size=13pt]Change is when you begged NgeneUkwenu FOR FORM OF SECURITY and he diplomatically swerved you aside, and now you are Singing for the PDP while eating back your Vomit![/size]
Berem, egift, ngeneukwenu, barcarnista, Obiagelli, demdem, Omenka, GenBuhari, kelsoft, OrlandoOwo, Caseless, MichaelSokoto, gbawe, donphilopus, koboko69, cramjonse, arresa, cleverly, ilugunboy. See them. Paid phuulz. All of you dont equal barcanista. All y'll do is rant and rant and then curse everyone out. Bunch of phuulz |
Politics › Re: APC Is Now Dead On Nairaland! by vivalavida(m): 9:28am On Feb 18, 2015 |
Demdem:
Bastards like ur shameless self will allege but when called upon to substantiate ur claims, u fools go dumb. Jonah-daftt till ur early grave. Ode nie |
Politics › Re: APC Is Now Dead On Nairaland! by vivalavida(m): 11:22pm On Feb 17, 2015 |
berem: I should make it clear to you that I am not being paid to support APC and Buhari. Nairaland friends who know me personally knows I am not being paid to support him. My support for Buhari is borne out of my passion for a change from this clueless government. If I am being paid to support Buhari,I don't think my family will also be Buharists.
Please,this would be the last time you will accuse me falsely. I don't normally have verbal exchange of words with women especially if they are anti-Jonathan. This would be my last reply to you on this thead. Shut that your trap. You are being paid. You are a paid goon,a paid hack. You,obiageli,gbawe,omenka,demdem,ilugunboy,agbameta and some others are e-warriors. How come an ordinary berem selling curtains @ alaba rago is having an event with atiku and co? Nnem shut up |
Politics › Re: APC Is Now Dead On Nairaland! by vivalavida(m): 11:17pm On Feb 17, 2015 |
berem: madam, what proof do you have that I am being paid to support APC and Buhari? Do you have any proof? Everybody on nairaland knows u arre being paid. When i say everybody,i mean EVERYBODY. Remember your meeting with omojuwa and co with Atiku @ eko hotel? Lol |
Politics › Re: A.C.N, A.N.P.P And Others Called For Interim National Government In 2007 by vivalavida(m): 11:33am On Feb 17, 2015 |
obi4eze: Exactly! The guy is just like water. I just wonder what would happen if he doesn't get what he wants from PDP. He claims he is not a supporter of any party yet he wanted to join the media and communication dept of APC. People like him are just looking for their own good... Is berem not there for her own good? Is Gbawe not heading the team to furnish his stomach infrastructure? Barcanista is hustling. As ling as it is a legitimate hustle,i am down with it. What is good for the goose is good for the ......... |
Politics › Re: A.C.N, A.N.P.P And Others Called For Interim National Government In 2007 by vivalavida(m): 11:29am On Feb 17, 2015 |
oneeast: We hereby crown barcanista the Islamic APC nightmare. .lol
Thank goodness this one has seen the light. One vote down..many more to come.
GEJ till 2019.. This can only be chino my man. Where have this niccur been? |
Politics › Re: Introducing Chief Olusegun Obasanjo:The Navigator of A.P.C Ship of "Change" by vivalavida(m): 9:09am On Feb 17, 2015 |
OEPHIUS: People actually forget that we know President Obasanjo is not a good man. We also do not like his personality that much. we think he is a cow and talks too much but does he have a structure that a party can use?
That is the most important question.
Now can we talk about better things like how come oir foreign reserves is at a low which is why we can't shore up the Naira's fall.
Or why the minister of Finance/CBN governor has been quiet about the economy lately.
You people really are not tracking the inflation numbers are you? I pity us What structure does Messers Obasanjo has that you are screaming about? Where does structures not in place and yet he lost his ward? Where they not in place when he lost almost the whole south western states? So much for structure. The dude has no electoral value and has gone senile,hence his noisemaking as if he is a market woman |
Nairaland General › Re: Barcanista Blackmail: My Stand by vivalavida(m): 10:01pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
olatunji21: I don't trust u too... I believe u "might" do d same in d coming days.. Hahahahaha They have come for berem's head |
Politics › Re: Interim National Government: One Propaganda Too Many (barcanista) by vivalavida(m): 7:42pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
I had to read from the first page. Wow. This is so unfair to barcanista. Cant someone voice his/her opinions again? Must party affiliations stop one frm saying his/her mind again? Or is their a gag order on dissent on APC members online? Must it always be about the herd mentality?
Barcanista,you have learnt your lessons today, |
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Nairaland General › Re: The Barcanista Issue : My Opinion And Proposals by vivalavida(m): 3:41pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
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Nairaland General › Re: The Barcanista Issue : My Opinion And Proposals by vivalavida(m): 2:29pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
Cant wait for these yorobars to back stab berem. Chai!! Per-adventure it happens,someone should just gimme a mention.please i beg u all |
Politics › Re: Who Is The Best President Nigeria Has Ever Had? by vivalavida(m): 7:42pm On Feb 14, 2015 |
rusher14: For trying to clean the Augean stables. Ridding Nigeria of the one factor that impoverishes a large generality of its people. No doubt General Muhammadu Buhari takes the plaudit.
We can try to play this any way we like but even Abacha with far less funds did a whole lot more than our present occupier of Aso Rock.
We all wailed and screamed blue murder when Turai Yar'Adua attempted to make mockery of our democracy. Little did we know that the one who was to come after her would be worse than a shrew. Hardly a crime of the husband one might say but tacit support he hads shown by refusing to rein her in.
Same for his attitude with the litany of lawbreakers and ex-cons who litter his cabinet and inner sanctum.
Corruption leaves hospitals without drugs, deprives the studious child of the merit he/she deserves and leaves many seeking work even in the face of wealth.
One who faces corruption head on is one who gives hope to the down trodden.
Buhari is it.
Buhari fights corruption and makes things work.
Buhari best ever and hopefully he would get the opportunity to steer this ship on the right course. Look @ this funeral dirge |
Romance › Re: Reasons Why Guys Nigerian Dump Ladies After Getting Under Their Skirts by vivalavida(m): 7:33pm On Feb 14, 2015 |
humilitypays: @tosyne2much, all what u said are nothing but the truth! Well done guy. A standing ovation for u. But unfortunately, ladies won't listen because they don't love to be told the truth most times
Another reason guys dump a lady after going down with her is because most ladies have no other good value to offer to a guy aside their body...hence, when a guy goes down there & realises this lady has nothing else good to offer to him aside sex, he will definitely run at any given opportunity.
Solution Ladies try and make yourself valuavle so that u can have other positive values to offer a guy u are dating; believe me, no guy will dare leave u even after having sex with u severally
You maybe wondering what other good/positive values u can offer to a guy u are dating?
1. Try and be active in his financial growth- giving him vital job/career tip offs, secret biz tips, things he can do to increase his income, etc. Don't give him money or don't spend on him, never u try!
2. Help him cut down on his expenditure and waste. Help him save more than his spends.
3. Most men are domestically not organised; help him organise him house if u can.
4. If u know anyone that can help him get a better job, get into a better business deal, win a contract, get promoted at work, graduate with good grades, pls do.
Don't sponsor him to travel abroad if u live in Nigeria. You can only sponsor him to come meet u abroad if u live abroad too.
Avoid spending on any guy...its wrong! Help him become financially responsible not spending on him cos it will boomerang on u.
These are some of the positive values u can add to his life aside sex. If u do this for any sane guy, whether u guys have sex a million times or not, he won't ever leave u, never, except he's insane which he will sure come back to his senses some day!!
But unfortunately, majority of single ladies today believe that their only job or role in a relationship is to provide the guy with sex while the guy takes care of all their financial and material needs; now tell me why won't guys dump them after having sex with them
No man dumps a valuable lady with plenty values to offer aside sex! So so true |
Politics › Re: Who Is The Best President Nigeria Has Ever Had? by vivalavida(m): 7:10pm On Feb 14, 2015 |
TITOBIGZ: May God run ur life the way GEJ is running d country.FOOL   And may God flog u with koboko the way buhari and his hench-men were flogging Nigerians in 1984. Say amen |
Celebrities › Re: The Youngest Looking 60 Year Old Woman In The World (pics) by vivalavida(m): 3:39pm On Feb 14, 2015 |
Damn!!! I likey |
Health › Re: RIP DJDOLA- We Will Miss You by vivalavida(m): 5:53am On Feb 13, 2015 |
That is cancer for you. RIP to you dude and i pray God grants your family the fortitude to bear this loss |
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