₦airaland Forum

Quite alot of this kind of mini refineries ( both legal and illegal) are scattering all over Niger Delta. Many Oil marketers/importers patronize them, buy cheap and sell at official rate.

After all, Subsidy as claimed by government could largely be a scam.

crown08:
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Where is the property?

IyaebeTheGreat:
Is it fair on the son considering the fact that he's a very responsible child and isn't responsible for his mother's behaviour

There is more to this than what you guys are seeing. Are the other children not his?

It is very irrational of a man to be partial in dealing with his children especially if they are responsible ones. Except the other children are not his, I don't see any rationale behind giving 90% of his properties to one side. No matter how bad the 2nd wife was, she will have her good moments and memories with him as well. The third wife too deserves something from his properties. As an elder, you don't create future problem for your children because of your selfish interests. This single act of his can resulted into anything unimaginable after his death.

Aigbedion141:
Omo! Was a gambler for 4years only GOD knew how he manage to pull me out.
Now I'm into womanizing spent over 300k within 4months.

I'm extremely tired and saddened, And always remorseful! I regret everybit of my actions after chyking olosho (Hookup, hoe).

Once I'm broke sex doesn't cross my mind.
But the moment there is enough capital my mind is filled up with different theories of sex style.

Initially I started it to kill depression, boredom and shyness.
Now I'm addicted, as a knowledgeable man I'm aware it will obstruct my pathway to success and it's diminish glory and destroy destiny.

I'm very willing to stop and will be very grateful to the advice i will be receiving here.
Thank you to everyone who contributed and to everyone who read.. love always.

Your major problem is lack of quality sex and love from a decent girl. Once you are able to find good girl or got married to one, your crave for hookup girls will drastically reduce. Sex is very powerful to a willing mind, except you do the above, no amount of advise or therapy can safe you until you finally gone broke or contract a deadly disease.

Also try to build your self worth, a man with dignity and self worth cannot be addicted to sleeping with hookup girls. These quick sex are only useful as one night thing probably when you travel for business or occasions outside your state or country. A man of integrity would rather have a beautiful side chick if he is married or change girlfriends for different taste if he is single.

richard870:
I doubt this is a lady's profile, sounds more like a male

Rokiat is a full bloody woman. One of the oldest members on Nairaland.

I will always chose the mother except she has no chances of survival.

SalamRushdie:
At this point the danger of not swearing Tinubu in is a lot lot worse than swearing him in ...Let's be guided ...the best time to stop his presidency was at the primaries, the next best time was at the ballots ...Even the judiciary cannot risk removing him at this point, the risks will outweigh any benefits

This is my major fear about utterances of the oppositions and their supporters. Like you had rightly said, the best time to stop him was during APC primary, the 2nd best time was February 25th.

I witnessed the after match of annulment of June 12, 1993 as a teenage boy, I still remember the kind of atrocities befallen our dear nation during the time for almost 3 months despite being under military rule. If anyone try to stop him at this stage, the only end result is total disintegration of Nigeria.

What I noticed is that oppositions are just too desperate, petty and equally only after power, nothing else.

It has even becomes irrational desperation. I think it should be establish that only elections related matters be bringing before tribunal.

madridguy:
It is far better and rewarding marrying a widow than marrying a single mother.

God bless your wisdom sir.

sonature1:
Bola Tinubu ruined everything by working with INEC to undermine Nigeria's democracy. A character like him is not fit to be the president of Nigeria. So, stop blaming other politicians but blame the right person, the Druggie.

How sure are you about this? It is morally wrong to be accusing people in public without fact or concrete evidence. In as much as we may not like or want APC to retain power including myself, let shun emotional/irrational politic and embrace logic. With the present political reality, there is no way Atiku, Obi or Kwankwaso would've won with highly divided votes.

If election is indeed rigged, and you have evidence about that, you can always prove it at election tribunal and get justice. It is so wrong of politicians to be making inciting statements capable of putting the country in a serious crisis.

If you watch APC lawyers very well, they only focus on election matters and political parties involved. Why would anyone digress from this but building up on what happened in the private life of his opponents more than 40 years ago? This is too petty, disgusting and cunning way of claiming what doesn't not belong to him.

By the time those selfish and unfortunate politicians set this country on a serious crisis, that is when every gullible eye will clear. We are gradually heading toward a very dangerous situation without knowing.

If these desperate power mongers meant well for this country, they would've based their law-suits solely on elections and not to hit up the polity by frivolity.

Lolz, Fake story.

So you counted the number of prostitutes you slept with since 2013, and still noted down the ones you did without protection?

Experience bring worst out of people.

KiNg0G:
I'm dieing deep within me every time money comes my way. Just know it's time for me to suffer throughout that week. I lodge a hotel, carry women buy drugs and start gambling on sporty bet until I'm drained financially, physically few days before I come back to my senses with not a single one naira in my account. I feel like I'm cursed to be rich with no peace of mind. But when all the money is gone, I can manage 1k and cook food, eat well, drink water... but give me 1million. That's when my suffering start...I forget to eat or think just back to my suffering ways. I can't help it

I have prayed to God to make me poor for life because it's yet again another suffering when money comes my way

Nlfpmod

Don't stress yourself too much, some life events are still coming that will finally change your orientation. I just pray you don't past 50 years before this happen.

@op, in as much as I will agree with you that there is generational curse, I will also advise you to work on your mindset. The way you think is very vital to your development.

You will be surprise the next person had more issues he/she is facing than you. You are never alone as far as Nigeria is concerned, only the rulling class and elites are enjoying this country presently. Try to focus on your Transport business, get connected with another dealer, and if possible, try other things you are good at.

And most importantly, keep hoping on the Lord, he knows everything about your predicament, he will never disappoint you. Always pray and bath with SEA SALT to wade off negative energy from your self.

Wish you best of luck in all your endeavour.

folake4u:
Why are you shouting?

If that's your reality, I'm sorry about that, but don't project it on another person.

Where did you see me shouting?

Though some siblings and families are exemptional but learn from other people's mistakes, don't wait until it happened to you. A word is enough for the wise.

Obi fuvk up big time, why approaching the court on election you know deep down you did not win. 6 millions votes is not a bean for a party that couldn't boldly claims 100k votes before in general elections. He should've build up on that and expand it against next election.

Criminals in APC and PDP known this before, they just allow him to continue in ignorant, so that they will use it against him in court should he eventually win. Honestly, Obi is not a smart person to be allow to pilot affair of a complex country like Nigeria.

Though federal government has their shortcomings but Governors destroyed the system the most. They are the ones always diverts the local governments funds, and without functioning local governments that are very close to the masses, we are going no where in terms of development.

I want Arsenal to win the league title. If they can draw Man City and Chelsea and beat Newcastle and Brighton, they will surely achieve it.

This woman is senseless, I wish someone gave her a practical lesson that will change her stupid mentally for life. The same hypocrite who will hide behind men during a gun shot but will start claiming equal right, just because the same men deliberately made it so.

Physically, men and women are not equal. The day men stop protecting women, is the day they will all become vulnerable prey to the nature.

Men and women are blessed with knowledge but only men are given the wisdom.

Humans naturally are mostly attracted by positive energies in which most bad girls processed. They simply know how to navigate their ways into men hearts compare to self acclaims good girls.

sisisioge:
My Sibling o.....it means the 5m is still sure for me and I wont have to split it. More money be that

I pity you. Humans are horribly selfish by nature, and can do anything unimaginable for money, especially the money that comes as gifts or inheritance.

crazygod:
Because INEC went back on their words, their promise to use BVAS.

Bvas would've been hacked and caused serious problems for INEC. The best method for now is to upload only results collated and signed by all parties agents at polling units.

Iamgrey5:
I support this message, although I don't necessarily believe Tinubu is at par with Awolowo untill he proves himself in the next four years.

I usually hold Obasanjo in high regards before now. The old man truly disappointed me during this election cycle.

Not only at par with Awolowo, he is actually greater than Awo by being liberal and achieved what Awo pursued till death.

Tinubu being progressive like Awo and Abiola learnt a good lesson from their downfalls. He made use of them and came out victorious.

As times goes on, you will understand life better.

You don't need to be rich before you get married, all you need is source of income and a good spouse who is also working. Also, have the number of children you can comfortably care for.

Lastly, don't get married without having a source of income.

Femmyfamous4u:
I even initiated an idea that we create a joint account for our unborn children with the aim of saving like 20k each in the account she should non-commital response.

I feel your pain man, financing family alone these days is not an easy task at all. Let me teach one thing, selfish women hardly listen to peaceful talk or suggestions especially the ones that will curb their excess. You don't need to discuss anything with her or sit her down blablabla, just find some excuses and drop the money you feel is OK that will give your chance to save and invest.

Stop listen to her complaints, if the money is not enough, tell her to add to it or borrow you till you get enough money. By the time you do this for 6 months, she will get use to it and stop bordering you on some bills.

@EriMma1, if you work and earn a decent 6 figure, and you still dragging pocket money with your husband, then you must be a wicked useless wife. What on earth will you be doing with your monthly salary? I guess you will be spending it on yourself, family and personal developments, while the innocent son of another woman keep labouring to take care of you till he develop terminal stress or HBP and die before his time?

See, you are not doing him any favour by marrying him or give him sex, because he can always get the same favour without getting married to anyone. He only marries you as a partner, team player and assistant to run a family. Besides, he did not benefits more in this arrangement than you or has advantage over you in future, so why expecting him to carry all the loads alone while you earn decent income and not an handicap?

@op, if you spend all your youth days to satisfy ungrateful woman and fail to plan for your future, she will eventually spend her money on your children later in future when you must have gone broke or unable to make better money again and turn them against you at old age. She will made them believe you were useless ever since she married you. They will believes her because she is the one currently spending on them. By that time, her major focus would be to make you suffer and die alone.

A woman who earn in 6 figures but still expecting a mere pocket money from you does not love you, she is capable of doing something unimaginable to you in future.