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sisisioge:
Whew! You are so insensitive!

Firstly, you and your husband decided to be breeding children like rats since the cost of rent has been taken off your expenses right under the roof of the ones that housed you. Poor woman would die inside each time you pop out another baby like a rabbit while she keeps waiting unto the Lord...how insensitive of you.

Now she has lost her baby and using yours to console herself but nah...mama fruitful couldn't bear to share...whew!

If na me be her o...I will kuku tell my husband say seeing all these kids in the house is breaking my heart...you guys should give us space for a while...won't you guys just wonder if I'm wrong .
Iranu!

That's unfair
You can't ask OP and husband to terminate their pregnancy when it happens so as not to be "insensitive".
They're not God who gives children.
While I understand how painful it must be seeing OP get pregnant year after year, you cannot blame OP for that. She's not complaining that they're unable to look after their battalion children btw

Kiddinpoh:
Iyawo arugbo

Age is nothing but a number jor..
Have you seen Sade Okoya and Baba Okoya? Both are looking as fresh as anything. She hasn't aged a day since she married the old man 20years ago and now 4 kids later, while he also seems to be getting younger in his old age
There is a 40years age gap between them, btw. They also seem to have genuine affection for each other.

eni4real:
People say, Time will heal..

Provided the man turned a new leave, completely!!

Well, I pray time heals her pains...
I pray she comes out of this stronger and more clear headed.

danilmo:
Since u are ignorant of medical actions, then Y adding salt to an open wound..

beside can u outline complications of Pelvic inflammatory Disease for her, since u know more than those vampire doctor

The guy you quoted is so dumb, it's unbelievable.
Why make assertations on something you claim to know nothing about?
Mad o

eni4real:
I was talking about the negative outcomes of Pelvic infection you wrote!!

Are you sure this topic is not a Fiction??

You will be surprised that worse stories happen in real life.
What the eyes have seen atimes, will leave you eternally speechless.
That's why you see so much bitterness in many marriages , and even if OP resolves all differences with her husband, things can never be the same.

golddare:
To live with the taught of the possibility of not being able to have a child again is bearable compared to HIV my brother. But I still feels she has Hope.

Magic Johnson has lived with HIV for over 2 decades and he is still standing strong.
Many live with HIV in our midst. HIV is probably safer than the Coronavirus right now. HIV has just become a chronic disease, that can be controlled enough not to be even easily transmissable.
The problem with HIV is the initial hype when the disease was first detected , when there was no treatment for it and it was more or less a death sentence. No longer the story now. Nigerians have just refused to move beyond the death sentence that used to be associated with HIV, even though it's not same again.

eni4real:


Runsgirls should learn from this oooo

Remember OP is a legally , fully married woman and not a runs girl.
Even marrying as a virgin will not help you, when your partner is unfaithful.
Many women who are not sexually all over the place have been in OPs position and even worse. Some have HIV, some have lost their womb all because of a sexually promiscuous and careless partner.

distilledwalex:
Medically this doesn't add up.. Sepsis from PID?? Which doctor would ask you of your sexual status cos of sti AND WHAT SURGERY FOR GOD SAKE.. To remove Ovarian Cyst or what?? Come.. You have a good story but badly presented. What stop your doctor from running an MCS test to detect the right antibiotics for your so called PID

Are you a qualified Dr?

So why are saying she's lying?

Acute PID can cause sepsis, a very nasty one at that and can cause a lot of pus and fluids that may need to be drained out surgically.

If there's already a collection of pus and fluids, your antibiotics will not work until that pus is drained out.
Your mcs means nothing in this case, until the pus is removed.

freshvine:
Dangote be forming richest man in Africa for a decade now, yet a dead man liquid stash keep rolling in

It's actually Nigeria's money. Money stolen, that is being recovered.
All that has been recovered so far isn't still up to Dangotes wealth.

Thieves.
I remember Maryam Abacha saying the Dantatata family cannot dream of having a fraction of the money her family has/stole.
How the times have changed. Dangote is now the richest man in Africa- billions of dollars, of course, and the Abacha family is not recognised for anything good. Money, they no longer have access to. Power is also far from them.

mayklef:
Eko 4 show....Millions were ranting, few turnup 4 protest...sum evn came 4 marathon spit**
typical Afonja, Keyboard noisemakers

Majority of those complaining are not indigenes of Lagos, or even Yorubas.

What's even more bewildering is the fact that this man knew he had gonorrhea, treated himself and kept mum to his wife .
He didnt even have the decency to get her treated, even if it's under the guise of lies such as it's an old infection which was discovered incidentally when he went for routine medicals or something. He treated himself and kept quiet about it.
That one can kill o

What's happened, has happened
In my opinion, that marriage isn't worth its salt. Not only did he cheat, he also gave you a nasty infection with complications. He's definitely the enemy within, and you've been sleeping with the enemy
The cheating will continue. Facts. And possibly with same woman and others too.
Do you want children with such a man?
With regards to procreating, it's still very possible. If your tubes aren't both damaged, pregnancy may still occur naturally. Otherwise, you have the option of IVF.
Your risks of ectopic pregnancy has probably gone up too, if I may add.
He did you dirty, real dirty.

Acidosis:
That's what you get when you marry your ancestor. A friend (mostly a partner in your age group) wouldn't cheat on you with a married woman of 4 kids.

You know little about real life

Ustec:
Selfish?
You ladies are something else.
You even went further to advice the upcoming virgins just to make them feel bad like the lady been discuss.
Miseducation Don reveal all una sisterhood shit.

Is it wrong for a virgin to experience heaven on earth?
Please, stop every wickedness this 2020.
Allow women reach the promised land, abeg o

cococandy:
Once in her lifetime or for some period?

My sister what are we doing with occasional orgasm?

It’s a requirement. If the peniis cannot provide it, he should be open to other methods of achieving that. Local woman now knows what local man knows.

Hahahahaha

I didnt want to sound greedy

mimimile93:
I KNOW A HOE WOULD COME OUT HERE TO DEFEND HER KIND. GOD PUNISH EVERY WIFE WORLDWIDE

Ògún kee you dia.

May you feel the wrath of Ayélála.

An interesting perspective from Phrankleen here

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7E632E82hVk

Lyrics from Stone's Roses' "This is the one" song
I absolutely love it


:
A girl consumed by fire
We all know her desire
From the plans that she has made
I had her on a promise
Immerse me in your splendour
All the plans that I have made
This is the one (×5)
She's waited for

This is the one (×3)
Oh this is the one
This is the one
She's waited for

I'd like to leave the country
For a month of Sunday
Burn the town where I was born
If only she'd believe me
Bellona Belladonna
Burn me out or bring me home

And this is the one
This is the one (×5)
She's waited for

Chai what a song. See lyrics.. encore, encore


This is the one (×3)
Oh this is the one
This is the one
I've waited for


Oh this is the one
Oh this is the one
This is the one...

The British have rejected Harry's wife, and he has also rejected them.
The snub is second to non. They definitely felt it. He took back the reins of control in his own little way.
Someone says Harry is regretting his decisions. Same Harry that played a certain type of music- Stone Rose's "this is the one" song on his instagram page at his last engagement?
In Jenifas voice - Bye Britain, See ya, catsch ya, larra
Many on here really do not understand British people's innuendos and passive aggressiveness. Harry is properly British, and properly schooled in their ways.
He can hold his own well. It's a game he is well versed at.

Some lyrics I found interesting in the song...

I'd like to leave the country
For a month of Sunday
Burn the town where I was born
If only she'd believe me
Bellona Belladonna
Burn me out or bring me home
Etc.

Very nice rock and roll song. A man utd favourite too .
Aswearrit, Harry is raving mahdd....
Mahhhddd o

midnighter:
Exactly. Even in the recent Brexit drama, her "powers" actually amounted to zilch. She is told what to do and where to sign.

She is a representational symbol of nationhood; the real power lies with government whom the royals gave almost all their rights to how many years ago to stop them from being overthrown like other European countries

As simple as ABC. Several of their European cousins were killed in the various revolutions against their monarchies

sassysure:
U don't know what u are talking about.
So let's leave it that way.

It will be interesting to hear your thoughts on the functions of the queen and how much power she wields politically.
She is mostly a ceremonial figure in England.

sassysure:
The same qoura exactly where u got this from has this
And the stuffs I posted up there.
This is the governor general among them. It's more than ceremonial.
Britain does not involve in the day to day running of affair in Canada but that does not mean they don't have their fangs in Canada.
Politically, if war starts today between Canada any which way,Britain will automatically come to the aid of Canada with ease. E.g., assuming war starts between America and Canada, Britain will stand by Canada.

Also if America and Britain goes to war, Canada will stand by Britain.

Yet both countries are independent.

American and Britain are allies. That's a very strong term politically.
The Queen even in Britain is technically a ceremonial head, despite the utmost respect given to the monarchy.

salford1:
Lol. Trust me. We would rather align with the US than that glorified dead empire. it's 100 percent ceremonial. If the prince trespasses on my land, I will shoot him and ask questions later.

My chest....

Stoppittt.....

sassysure:
So why did Harry go to Canada instead of U.S. where his in law lives and where the wife is established. Is it not better for them to start there tha where they will have no footing?

Meghan is from usa. Why did they choose canada?
Baba, forget tory.

They knew what they did

His wife was established IN Canada. She has lived there for years. The Prince secretly courted her in Canada and not US

salford1:
Trudeau is a friend to Harry. In addition, they moved to Canada since it is the most Liberal country in the world for now and we are not toxic and poisonous like the British. Like I said, we don't care how they chose to live their lives. If Obama was in Power, they could also have moved to the states. They simply moved to where they would feel welcome and not hostility.
I agree, sense will not kill them

You forget Meghan also worked in Canada for years and made it home.. Canadians are way nicer people than Americans too btw.
Sorry o, awa American people here. Na joke I dey joke o.

Such a sad story...
RIP ..

African Americans are not so bad tbh. Marry the educated ones among them, and make sure you're not a bum meaning you have a job and can provide for your family. You will be well taken care of by an AA woman. They are also keen to learn about your Nigerian culture and are more than happy to be assimilated to it. They want their children to have an African identity, and they aren't bad generally. Though, they won't take some foolishness some Naija women take from their men o. You will see correct craze if you try am.

BRATISLAVA:
it's like they don't get it. They have no proof that there was racism. They've just assumed it because they think she's black. The issue is her character an inability to blend into the organization she's forced her way into.

How did she force her way into Royalty? Why did you use the word force?
Did she use jazz on Harry? Or got pregnant premarital for him?
What lies haven't they peddled against this woman? Before they dug up her background, I heard positive reviews about Meghan. Until we discovered her mum was a undisguised black woman. Until we discovered her evil half sister and brothers who havent seen or being in contact with her in over 10 years but felt they deserve something from her. They went as far as writing public letters to the Queen and Harry on why he shouldn't marry her. The jealousy was not even hidden at all, and that's probably because they're American, dem no fit hide their wickedness. If na British half siblings, they will dig the blade deeper from the back and not in front of her.
What haven't we heard
1. Initially it was claimed that he married her because she cunningly got pregnant for him. They waited months and didnt see sign of pregnancy. When she finally got pregnant, they said she will deliver earlier than expected because she must have been pregnant before wedding. Na so dem wait tire before dem begin ask again say which kind of prolonged pregnancy be this o? That one vex dem again o.
2. Dem talk say na IVF she do and na twins dem dey expect because evening newspaper like her suppose no get belle easily like dat. God come shame dem, na one baby she born putting an end to their beer parlour lies.
3. Dem talk say her papa send am private school so she owes her father her life. If you get money, you no go send your pikin go private school? No be your duty as a parent be dat?
Same father who was staging and selling pictures before the wedding. Is that one a father?
You wan talk about her half siblings wey be witches? They have only tried over and over again to sabotage her wedding to the Prince
Meanwhile, we heard the evil half sister has 2 biological children who don't talk to her, and a mother who doesn't want anything to do with her. So why should Meghan be held by the throat to have anything to do with the woman. They hadn't even been in touch for over 10 years.
then the less evil half brother too, who also has children estranged from him, has been to prison for drug related offences, who also never spoke to Meghan in over 10 years. What exactly do you think she owes these people ? She barely even knew dem as they no grow up together
They were already adults when Meghan was born. They are at least 18 and 19 years older than her. Old enough, to have left their father's house and his new wife.

Rajiokazaki:
......for all your knowledge, you 've not even pointed out a hint of racism here... this inferior mentality has helped to keep black neighbourhoods in your said Texas behind .... you keep looking for things that aren't even there.... Meghan knew what she was walking into..

This was a tweet by a veteran BBC reporter on the joyful announcement of the birth of their child- born a prince and 7th in line to the throne of England.
It's really tragic when you find foolishness where you expect wisdom

crackkhaus:
Perhaps they should sort out why they "mistakenly" gave her a divorced woman's title first.

https://news.sky.com/story/royal-review-after-meghan-given-title-of-divorced-woman-11913741

Yes, you obviously have concerns about her being divorced.
Which is fine, she's not your spec.
However, she is exactly the spice, Ginger needed in his life.