₦airaland Forum

Danyyyyyyyyyyy:
I don't have any regrets , except that I made the first move twice and I grabbed a perfect man who just chose not to make an effort with me , coz he may have been hurt in the past , I ignored his red signals the fact that saying I love you is like punishment for him ,the fact that he always says sorry and makes absolutely no corrections , the fact that he barely communicated with me , no vision , no ambition , no goals , no future plans , only knew three ppl and one was a child , hid me like palliative, he was good looking , spoke like an actor , dark and handsome , its like he was trying to say "you should be lucky to have me" but I'm also very pretty so I know I had chances outside , I just kept wanting the wrong one but I'm glad its over, I'm going to enjoy my single lifestyle and breath fresh air till I spot a lovey dovey that deserves me. no more batman relationships

Be my friend, you sound like a good girl ....

Melst:
I just had to talk. I honestly don't know what you are trying to defend or the point you are trying to make by defending that act or comparing it to what you described up there. A woman pins a pregnancy on a man is usually done out of love. Either a selfish love for herself, or love for the child since she didn't consider abortion or love for the said man. This doesn't justify such deceit yes, but comparing it to what that guy did is plain unreasonable. That you'd intentionally impregnate a girl because you want to punish her that she insulted you. How low can one go? Then he is defending himself that he claimed responsibility. Imagine! See what the girl passed through. Do you know what abortion does to a lady mentally and emotionally? Do you know the rigors of carrying a pregnancy to term? Because either consequences would have been too brutal if he had thought it through. Even in the western world where abortion is legal, women go for counseling pre and post the abortion schedule. You young guys will think everything revolves around your penis and money.

Talking about cheating gfs, are there no cheating bfs all over? Or is it because these days, we have more of boys whining all over the place than actual real men. Gosh!

Well said.

ichommy:
"Give a dog a bone, leave a dog alone / Let a dog roam and he'll find his way home" DMX - Ruff Ryders Anthem.

Rest on Dark Man X, Yonkers ever.....

Classic....one of my favorite lines...may God grant him eternal rest.

Aburada:
Damnnn niggarrrr
Isoright

2 cold bottles of beer for you for not being a pussy ass niggarr

This is the same thing I did to one single mother that year. I don't want anything to distract me from my daily hustle because there's no love in the street

I only derive joy from my weed not from any woman

Smoke up
Drink up
Bomb Chinese websites

WeChat/Alipay/courier/Consignment



You had to check the moniker if it's

slawormiir

You tried wella but police for Jigida, na boy's scout for Lagos

The country is not thinking right, why not use this opportunity to transition to democracy? A man ruled you for decades and he suddenly dies and then you replace him with his son, something must be wrong with that country.

7. You Are Much Smarter Than You Look:
Really? Like seriously?!! So beauty and physical appearance is now directly proportional to intelligence? People usually use this statement when they are trying to say ‘you are beautiful/handsome and I was not expecting you to be smart too’ or ‘you dress and appear hot and I wasn’t expecting intelligence to be part of it’. Attaching beauty to one’s mental capability is very dumb!

This one got me

Good development.

I wonder what took over her in the first instance....

meobizy:
When I say Nairaland is broke Yoruba boy central, you people act like I’m speaking Latin.

So what are you doing here?

27Pushing30:
Google Tsabalala and bernard Parker

Even Beni McCarthy and Shaun Bartlett also returned to play in South Africa

What about nomvete?

The level is SELF DEPLORATION nigerians do is worrisome

Even the criminals are actually being criminal so they can leave Naija

Whocursed this country

This is Nigeria....sh*thole country according to DT.... there should be no comparison whatsoever...

That's a wrong move in my opinion, we however wish him well in all his endeavors.

Sarmiz24:
Lol first of all the ‘ode’ in my statement is meant to be casual that why I stared my post with an ‘lol’ I bet you haven’t stayed in Lagos b4 sha... and to the rest of your text I’m not a yahoo and no where in my text defended that I only made a point that karma is a fairy tale simple have a nice day Mr Legit hustler, everybody for internet go just dey claim legit hustler who come be the jobless Nigerians? Well I came in peace and I left in peace shalom

Maybe you weren't schooled properly or you stay in one of the ghettos in Lagos.

You can use the word "Ode" for close friends and not strangers and acquaintances.

I am not your friend...get that, Mr. peaceful Lagosian.

Sarmiz24:
Lol Karma ain’t shiit man, you are too old to be believing in fairy tales.. why e karma never karma all the politicians ode

I asked a question and instead of you to answer intelligently, you are calling me "ode", if I insult you and your family members now, you will start singing another song...anyway, be a Yahoo! boy without peace and let the rest of us face our legit hustle in peace. Cheers bro.

ictjobber:
Yet for some reason Aftican politicians are the most Prosperous..

'Prosperity' is relative and subjective.

A billionaire with a terminal illness or a thousandnaire with good health, who is more prosperous?

Brunosamel:
Most of them are not financially educated that's the major problem most of them have...

But majority of them are cheerful givers that why some of them never go broke in the long run

So, you think cheerfully giving away other people's (stolen) money is an hedge against karma?

Can Shekau just do the needful on one of this man's family members? He needs to get sense.

spiceadole:
I was 22.
3rd year in medical school.
I had my first boyfriend.
He was about 32,a resident doctor in the university teaching hospital.

I thought I had found love... Finally.

He started pressurising me for sex barely a week we started dating.
I wasn't ready.. I was a virgin and wanted to maintain myself that way till after wedding.

3 months later, I thought he was for real.. and I gave in.

I grew to love and adore him.
Spent my little spare time in his house, cooking and cleaning.

I spent Christmas and New year with him..He drove me to the airport that morning and I travelled home to my parents.

Next thing,he stopped picking my calls,or calling me.
He barely responded to my messages.

He gave excuses as being too busy at work.
I returned from home and he wouldn't see me ..
Continued same way for about 2 weeks.

Then,I visited him unannounced .

He told me he was no longer interested.

He never loved me...He was sorry for everything.

That his friends made him place a bet about sleeping with me since I was too reserved and proving to be too decent,not involved with anybody within university and hospital environs.

He went on to say he was supposed to show them videos of our knackings and my nude pix...but he found out I was indeed decent and didn't do it.

He had somebody he wanted to marry from his tribe(Yoruba).


That broke me!

That I didn't commit suicide was a miracle.

It took me 4 years before I had another relationship , after graduation...and I made sure
Sex was never involved.

Instead,I watched porn and masturbated in my closet to relieve sexual tension.


I dated 2 more guys .. Got married to the last one(a colleague too) and we relocated to the UK.

Wherever you are,I hold nothing against you,ADEKUNLE

I am thankful your act shaped me.
You people are not called DEMONS for no reasons.
I learnt how to close my legs and place value on my body.

I sense the pain and regrets in your comment, but thank God you have moved on, just find a place in your heart to totally forgive him.

It is well with you, I wish you a blissful marriage.

CaveAdullam:
A man and a woman can't be friends. There's no platonic friendship between both of them.

Women use it as a leverage to get what a man can provide. And men, like patient lions waiting behind the woods, will predate on her at the right time. This's simple biology.

To this rule, no exceptions between matured and normal adults. Respite is but for a while, because at the right time, place, ovulation, libido, all dresses will fly out!

However, men are naive, the reason why the friendzone lingers and they are interred inside it. Men think being friends will make women change their mind and offer them sex freely. And if he at the right time, he fails to launch his missile, he will continually sink deeper into the friend zone until the woman finally discard him. The friend zone is beneficial to the women because in most cases they received without opening their legs wide, while the male loses because women keep on with the harangue: bestie, we're just friends, platonic relationship, blah blah blah.

Whichever way, "bestie" is a scam, and both party will leverage upon the ignorance or attitude of the other: Men wants a taste of the cookie; women wants the materials.

Absolutely untrue. How can you say this? That a man and woman cannot be friends, what kind of thinking is that?

What you have written are your opinions, please stick to them and do not generalize.

I have a very close beautiful female friend and it never crossed my mind to sleep with her.

Infact, I played a very big role in her choice of a marriage partner.

The husband knows we are good friends and have not attempted to dissolve our friendship which spans over 10 years. Someone I didn't sleep with when she was single and available, is it after her marriage I will commit such an atrocity?

Keep healthy friendships be it with a male or female. They can positively impact your life.

...and lest I forget, we lived few houses away from each other, worked in the same organization, rode to work together everyday, hung out a lot and attended official functions in the company of each other.

I only reduced the closeness out of respect for her marriage.

A man with cash is always funny, get the cash.

2shaw:
He was a greedy thief,who wanted to cash out cool 3m as proceeds if he had crossed up to benin Republic. What stopped him from taking it to owode onirin or ladipo. Highest 1.5m shaply dem go pieces am.

Do you pray to have your car stolen and dismantled in the way and manner you just described?

Belgium deserves to remain No.1

Lukaku also deserves to be Europe's best....asides, Messi, CR7 and Haaland.

Haaland's father is an ex-City person....I repeat, haaland is one of the world's greatest footballers....taking over from Messi and CR7...not forgetting Mbappe as well.

Mixedfruit:
Mohammeds and Adamu everywhere . That's why the country is backward.

Exactly.

I just weak for the dullard.

BrownCarton:
Haha.. She is only attracted to the chase, once she gets it, it will no more be appealing.

Ignore a woman, she would seek your attention....chase and stifle her with attention, she would lose attraction for you and seek that attention from another man.

elisha820:
What should I do?

You are still asking what to do?

Lomprico2:
its obvious you don't love her and she knows, so here is the trick pretend to love her, profess your love to her, give lots of attention to her, I bet you she will be scared n run off.

This advice is very deep....a lot of people might not understand.

Hushbingo:
This is becoming serious. My girl could barely spare a day without seeing me or calling me every five minutes...

Everywhere i go, she follows. Everything i do she wants to know about it.

She's in her final year. She blackmail me by threatening suicide whenever i mention break up..

The thing is, she doesn't want to leave my house again.


There are things about her that are way beyond my expectations. Things that are secrets so i won't go into that side.

One thing is, she doesn't ask for dime from me. I only give her money out of my heart. She has spent on me more than i have spent on her...


The real mata is that i want to be a bachelor again. She won't let me be and then this her monitoring spirit everywhere i go...

Please advise me what to do.

You make me laugh so hard that I can't even think of an advice to give, you must be a comedian....

PrimadonnaO:
Logical. I feel this is the biggest Internet-breaking news in Nigeria this year.

I literally had chills because I had always seriously wondered how Don Jazzy was unmarried and without kids.

Yeah, it's a very huge revelation.

He confirmed he doesn't have kids anywhere.

Odidigboigbo:
Bros, he has been in music before the formation of Mo'Hit. Even Mo'Hit was formed in the street of UK before they returned back home.

You still don't get my point.

Don Jazzy, D'banj and their crew were living in the UK.

Don Jazzy probably didn't have papers and he desperately needed one, so he got hooked up to this babe and they got married at the registry in Nigeria in 2003.

Don Jazzy and his crew returned to Nigeria to quickly key into the promising hip-hop music industry at the time.

The babe must have been processing papers for Don Jazzy and expected him to relocate.

Don Jazzy refused but instead went ahead to form Mo 'Hits' records with D'Banj in 2004 and that ended the marriage.

These are my thoughts.