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Grow up and move on. You want to get married and then keep an ex as a side chick? You're better off playing with a loaded gun in your mouth.

Better move on and forget her. If you're the type so concerned about cheating on your wife, better look for someone else without history. Personally, I'll say zip up, extra marital sex is wahala.

Is it just me? I don't want to see a naked woman except we're romantically involved.

I don't understand the obsession with people craving to see other people unclothedness.

What is the motivation for providing everything for a woman who isn't your wife. Is it excess wealth, love or pure foolishness?

I can never understand why a man will give all to a woman who can afford to work just because of sex that is available everywhere.

They keep asking you because you're always in their DM looking for sex.

A guy has no business talking to girls who he isn't dating. If the one you like and want to ask out is demanding, block her and look for another.

The idea of wanting to talk to every girl you meet is silly. You're asking for unnecessary stress and liability.

Any girl that's not your babe should be kept at arms length. No girl you keep at arms length will be bold to ask you for anything. It's because you're smiling unnecessarily and chasing pussy up and down like a starved simp.

You people are always coming up with nonsense.

No, that's the simple answer. It's very adventurous though but not worth it.

If it's your personal office, that is you are the CEO and you're with your partner, then please fire down.

Keep shut and face front.

Poorly edited. Same tiles, not same place.

Why do we always have the need to over flog a movie with stars?

The storyline was just there. Truth be told, I was a bit bored. I kept fast forwarding unnecessary dialogue.

Acting was quite good, our actors usually do a good job.

Ratings 6/10

It's culture and culture is a beautiful thing as long as it doesn't involve human killings and sacrifices. Culture is what makes us unique amd should be respected.

When they give you money for food, what happens tomorrow and next? If you want to beg, go to the streets and carry a bowl, then you'll ensure continuous supply of money.
If you're really serious, look for other manial jobs. Wash cars, wash peoples clothes etc. Anything is more dignified than begging.

https://www.nairaland.com/6644084/suffering-boy-graduated-man-did

https://www.thisdaylive.com/index.php/2017/02/03/i-did-menial-jobs-to-survive/

https://www.pressreader.com/nigeria/daily-trust-sunday/20140420/281517929112758

Inspire yourself with these stories. 👆

Technology has made people not to socialize and interact much with actual humans. Nairaland and twitter is not a summary of Nigerians.

Forget what people say online, most people online are either jobless kids or frustrated people with lot of idle time on their hands. Personally, I don't take people online too seriously.

That being said, what men want- actual men, is a woman who is respectful, faithful, has good manners and has self respect.
Most men in actual fact only talk about women's finances just to ensure she can survive without him.

Men don't really care how much a woman makes, just be able to do something for yourself. That's where self respect comes in. Don't go around being a beggar and your man will use his discretion to support you financially.

Stop using what boys say online to judge. Most guys and girls here don't know their left from right.

Everyone knows it's overrated, that's why majority who spent effort in getting it are always disappointed after the act.

The hormones keeps pushing one to it. Most people know the outcome but the hormones wouldn't let one be.

https://www.nairaland.com/6644084/suffering-boy-graduated-man-did

https://www.thisdaylive.com/index.php/2017/02/03/i-did-menial-jobs-to-survive/

https://www.pressreader.com/nigeria/daily-trust-sunday/20140420/281517929112758

Read any of the articles above and get inspired. Social media is breeding a new crop of beggars.

How to know fake story tellers on nairaland.

They usually deliberately use bad grammar to try to make them look genuine. Writing without paragraphs and all to make it seem there are barely educated.

They always come up with the victim story. Some even deliberately try to sound really weak and helpless, just to seem believable.

The question is what is their motive? Are they being paid to come up with these stories or it's mere idleness? It baffles.

This irrelevant old man is disgracing himself just for the money he will get. When these politicians go broke, they start disgracing themselves just to be able to get food to eat.

If you don't trust your wife then don't take her abroad. Marriage is marriage and you may still be liable in case of divorce.

I hope you know that if your wife is doing much better than you, you can be the one being paid by her when there is a divorce? Spousal support is not for men only.

Life is hard my brother. Whenever you think of how bad your situation is, remember the deformed beggars on the road begging for handouts.

Personally, I dislike online beggars, maybe because most of them are actually scammers.

Anyway, like the other guy said, no one owes you anything in life. Instead of reducing your ego to beg, go to a car wash and work there. Washing of cars or dishes doesn't require any special skills.

Avoid becoming a disgrace to your self and family name. There is no excuse for an able bodied man to beg. Being disabled or sick may be an exception.

Woke generation. I can only imagine what the next 20 years will be like

That's why marriages these days hardly lasts. Desperation from women and pressure is usually the cause of failed marriages. Women don't care if you're compatible, just have money and you're husband material.

I asked a friend who wanted to get married recently if he has discussed things like number of kids they want to have, issue of relatives coming over and such other questions and he said no. What exactly do people now discuss during dating? Favorite sex style or what?

They're always buying houses and cars even when more popular people are struggling.

EFCC, LIRS and FIRS, wake up. It's only in Nigeria that unpopular and upcoming excel more than veterans

The East is suffering now from the monsters they created. I feel for my friend ls and family living there.

Legend. History will remember him when the likes of Pele, Maradona, Messi, Ronaldo Di Lima, Ronaldinho etc are being mentioned.

When you excel in your career, there's no such thing as the greatest, as everyone has their personal opinion, the most important thing is being recognised and acknowledged in that industry.

Now go and make your billions son!

Many of these gutter girls have their brothers even on this thread making comments. We have male versions of these loose and hungry girls right on this forum.

It's easy to tell by the way they beg shamelessly and use gutter language. The family values are failing and there'll be a serious problem in years to come.

If it's by any means true, then it's a serious red flag for a man like Alex to choose to be celibate especially to a hot girl like that.

From my experience, women that are highly focused, prudent and calculative are not easy to deal with if you're not like them.

From my perception of the girl, she seems highly disciplined and focused. Such women should not be marrying celebrities, they should marry their kind- someone who's likely not in the spotlight. That's the only way to have a good marriage.

Either a simple man or a great, romantic hubby. Choose your pick.

RIP second greatest footballer of all time after Diego Maradona. You will always be remembered.

Interesting topic. Many years back I couldn't keep a relationship for a variety of reasons.
1. I find constant keeping in touch very tiring, I just can't call everyday. I usually send a message once in 2 or 3 days, just to check in. That was a major issue and no woman can stand that.

2. Again, I only wanted a woman around when I wanted sex only. Immediately after the deed, I usually tell them let's go out even when they want to chill and just watch a movie. I'd rather we go to a joint and have a drink or food and then I drop them home. It was quite a selfish act I know, but I was young and liked my space.

3. Most days, I wanted to be alone and when they call and ask if I'm available, most times my answer was always no. Most girls saw me as unserious and a playboy but in actual fact I just liked my space. I nor like wahala.

I mainly just did flings and for a long time, I was a side kick, they had their main boyfriend.
When it was time to marry, I sat up, adjusted my ways and thankfully, found a woman who understands me. After all these years, she still respects my need for space.

I will prefer tattoo when you do it already married to me. The tattoo should have a significant meaning.

I can marry a lady with subtle nose piercing or multiple ear piercing. Same with a lady who wears leg chain.

What matters the most is your personality. If your tatoos and piercing are moderate, you will not have an 'olosho vibe ', except you go overboard.

mushroomFarm:
Let me leave you with these pictures of myself, my classmates with our language lecturer and me with my friends here in Yakutsk.
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Despite being a federal university, we are only about 15 in a class. And they don't attempt to burden us with lectures. Itx the same way when you are teaching Russian kids. If a kid does not want to learn, it's fine. You don't have to force them.
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Thanks for reading.

These are basically Asians. You're not living amongst native Russians.