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Osimhen to the world. Dude is on fire, I only hope age doesn't catch up with him like Obafemi Martins.

Our idea of interesting content is always rubbish and weird stuff. We can't attract an audience with creativity, our people are amused with rubbish.

You can spend hours watching discovery ID, BBC Entertainment, Nat Geo etc, but with us it's always about sensational content, especially the cooked up ones.

Our social media content is even worse. Silly skits and pranks, so appalling. It's tough to enjoy Nigerian content if your IQ is above average.

Blogs want to attract readers but unfortunately, they have no intelligent content. Can't blame them though, the average Nigerian is amused by nonsense and IQ reducing content.

People spend all day watching these silly skits that makes me cringe, I wonder why we are easily amused with nonsense.

Take this to the job and investment section. What you have here are misguided teens who are looking for cheap sex.

I could have replied you if it was an appropriate section. Intellectual discourse is a waste of time here. This place is for laughs and entertainment.

Where you wan see married women here? You should have gone to family section. What you have here are teens and frustrated old ladies.

As for the question, it depends. If you're still hot and sexy, some men will still hit on you, even if you wear your wedding band.

However, as you age and look more like a mum, you'll soon start getting zero attention except for some men who are naturally dogs and will sleep with anything in skirt.

Marrying a girl below 28 these days is a risk. People are becoming less mature.

In the past, a 22 year old girl was very mature, these days you see women in their 30's behaving like kids. I cringe when I see some whatsapp status of people over 30. Same applies to men.

Every generation is less mature than the last.

This thread is funny but as a fellow man who is older and more experienced, take my advice very seriously.

You can't get respect from a woman who is 'above' you or equal to you. You have to be a high value man for ambitious girls to value you and take you seriously.

A high value man can collect half of his woman's salary each month if he wants but he wouldn't. The woman will have so much faith in him that she's ready to be giving half her income out because she believes in him and knows she can get 10 times the return.

Stop blaming women and work on yourselves. I look back at 15 years ago when i just started my career and laugh when I see the kind of women I was scared of approaching because I felt they were above my league. Such women are nothing to me now and I wouldn't touch them with a long spoon.

Men should keep striving for wealth, self esteem, knowledge, focusing on a healthy lifestyle, meeting like minds and doing everything possible to be a better version of themselves. No woman doing well for herself will value a half baked man. Women date up, it's the way it is.

Many men are sex addicts. The sex is not even giving pleasure anymore but they must have sex just to feel good.

Personally, i believe sex should not be too frequent, that's when it's looked forward to and best enjoyed. Too much of anything removes meaning from it.

Men and women don't need friendship, it's a waste of time. A married woman especially should not be close to any man, it's a recipe for disaster.

The average man just wants to shift a woman's pants. It's how men are wired. Our wandering minds start to imagine what's underneath that dress and the day an opportunity comes, he strikes and then the deed has been done. The only way to avoid that is to not give room for familiarity to avoid developing any emotional attachment to him.

Nigerians should stop complaining on social media and TV. We are not a serious people, we complain and then go and vote bad leaders because of peanuts, political affiliation or ethnic sentiments.

These things may be innate. I don't know if contentment can be taught though. I've always been pretty content.

Even when I can afford very flashy things like my friends, I am always happy with whatever catches my fancy as long as it makes me happy, from women to cars to clothes.

I never really have an iota of envy in me. I don't dwell much on people's successes or failures, I just shrug and move on. I only focus on my set goals.

Anyways, I don't know if contentment also means mediocrity but I'm happy that I'm a content being. Gives me so much peace and makes me sleep better.

The question I always ask before justifying anything is to ask if I'd like my kids to also do same.

Anyway, define your own morality, whatever works for you.

I've stopped bothering about others, as long as my family and I are on the right path, everyone else can go to hell if they choose to.

This is naija, it doesn't work that way here.

One would have expected this 'old layer' to leave this kind of childish talk for the kids.

Katcall:
do you agree with the school of thought that doing hookup is cheaper than maintaining a girlfriend?

It depends. There are expensive hook ups and expensive girlfriends. They're cheap hook ups and cheap girlfriends.

Not every girlfriend is a leech, some girls are very low maintenance, but such girls are few.

It depends on what you want. With a girlfriend, you have someone to connect with. Intimacy is much nicer when you have a connection. Hookups can be a disappointing experience most times as the sex is boring, bland and mechanical.

To each his own. People should choose whatever they want.

tosinhtml:
That is why I asked where you live. You could be living in a small village in Borno state, hence your experience could be different, you're the first person I know that says sex is hard for women to get. An M.D can get another M.D to still sleep with her, not a big deal at all.

Most women can't give sex without some emotional or financial expectations --- What you are referring to is "Commitment" & not sex.

Comprehension is your problem. I'm done.

tosinhtml:
Please where do you live? Maybe your experience is based on where you live.

Also how old are you?

Because you're the first person that is saying Women lack opportunities. Maybe you were referring to men, not women. You must have mixed up something in your post.

I should be asking of your age. If you are my age then you must have seen many things amd experienced many things. Stop repeating what your friends say or what you read online.

Many women are sex starved. If we're literally talking of sex, then it's available to everyone, but will a working class lady just open her legs to a random man at the bar or to her gateman? Many women can't get a man of their choice to shag them. It's not so easy for a woman to ask for sex, especially when she knows she'll be dumped after the sex. Most women can't give sex without some emotional or financial expectations. It doesn't work that way.

It's far easier for the M.D to shag the cleaner than vice versa. If we're just talking of sticking something into something then it's easy and available to everyone even the bike riders.

I like it when hôrny kids gather to 'educate' other hôrny kids. Nemo dat quod non habet.

Even my 5 years ago pictures are different. People will put on weight, dress better and generally have a better standard of living as the years go by, all things being equal.

Anyway, I condemn a bad marriage and no one should be in an unhappy marriage if it can't be resolved.

pocohantas:
There is nothing like lack of opportunity for a woman. It is self-control, discipline and strong will.

Even mad women are getting laid,
It is only a knucklehead that would think it is hard for a woman to find a willing lay in this Nigeria or all over the world.

Emphasis on LAY. Don’t come here to tell me of commitment, I know the difference.

Thank you

Actually there is lack of opportunity for many women. We have a lot of sexually starved females. Not every woman is cheap enough to open her legs for just anyone. Some women have preference and would only open for a man of similar or higher status. Unfortunately, some of those men ain't looking her way.

Same way many men are also sex starved. They could easily tempt the orange seller to sleep with them for money or even for free but some men also have taste and would prefer a girl of similar status and such girls ain't even looking their way.

Men even have it easier as they could easily get paid sex from these hook up apps. These hook up apps now even have some very cream chics. Again, with men, it's just sex, no emotions attached, so it's easier for a man to just lay the pepper seller and move on without feeling disgusted with himself. Not so for women.

They theory of women being able to get sex with the snap of their fingers is a fallacy. Many females have resorted to masturbation especially with their dildos as they can't attract their type of men for sex.

Badb0y4lyf:
Can you send picture of outside unit. Did you buy it new and how long have you been using it. Has gas been topped before as well.

Bought brand new in 2016 or so. Maybe when I'm home, i can send a pics.

DenreleDave:
10k

People like you can't even afford a decent meal not to talk of Aircon. Wetin concern agbero and over load? Get out jor.

[quote author=Richhard post=121747115][/quote]Make your offer.

GAZZUZZ:
30k

Haba!. I'll do 50k last. Still very functional.

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BRATISLAVA:
You're saying it was not avoidable?

The many lives lost to such avoidable incidents are heart breaking. The relevant agencies and authorities must stand up to their responsibilities.

I've gotten so much mentions from people criticising me. They probably didn't understand me.

The relevant agencies can only do so much. The average Nigerian is horrible. As for the topic, those driving big vehicles constantly seek to oppress and intimidate on the road, especially after taking substances.

We need to do more as a people, act more responsible. 90% of the people who criticize government officials will do worse when given half the opportunity. That's my point.

Kswine:
I won't bring myself so low to your level man, like I said earlier stop assuming everyone is so dumb as you are. My explanation is straight and detailed enough for anyone to understand. I don't know why you feel the need to attack my comment, you don't know me from anywhere and you just assume my comment was copied from somewhere. Man please get a life!

Note: AS and SS are both related to the sickle cell gene

If after breaking down everything to you like a 2 year old, including adding screenshot, you are still arguing about your folly, I give up.
You foolishness will be exposed offline someday where you wouldn't have the privilege of spewing nonsense behind a keyboard.
Dumb, wannabe medical advisor. I only hope you're not a medical student, you'll be a disaster waiting to happen.

Kswine:
Seriously am not suppose to reply you because it's obvious you don't know what you are saying but don't worry I'll explain and I hope you learn from this.
The AS genotype is also known as sickle cell trait. Sickle cell trait is an inherited condition in which a person has one normal hemoglobin gene (HbA) and one abnormal hemoglobin gene (HbS). If you still don't understand, Google is your friend.
And stop assuming everyone is so dumb like you. Peace

Own up that you goofed. AS is different from SS. The sister is AS and the copy and paste advice was tips to help an SS patient.

What is so hard in saying you made a mistake? AS patients are as normal as AA and only show signs of sickling in high altitude. They don't need any special care during pregnancy and childbirth, only SS do. The sister isn't going to experience a 'crisis ' during childbirth.

Go and read your quote again. You goofed, don't further increase your ignorance level. The only reason I'm even bothering replying and correcting you is because I dislike people who copy articles without understanding them and thereby spreading falsehood.

Kswine:
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It's important for your sister to remember that having sickle cell disease does not mean that she cannot have a healthy pregnancy and a healthy baby.

The sister doesn't have sickle cell. The epistle you copied doesn't apply here.

How? People should stop making statements just to score political points.

Obi is my man but let's be real. Can you control a stubborn or drunk driver? These BRT bus drivers drive like they own the road. Same applies to container carrier drivers and all those lorry drivers.
They just want to oppress and intimidate others with smaller vehicles.

There is a limit to what the government can do, we as individuals should learn to do better.

Kswine:
If your sister and her spouse both have sickle cell trait (AS), then there is a 25% chance that their child will be born with sickle cell disease (SS). It is important for your sister to speak with a healthcare provider who is familiar with sickle cell disease to discuss her options and to develop a plan for her pregnancy.

Here are some general tips that your sister can follow to help ensure a healthy pregnancy:

Seek prenatal care early and regularly: It's important for your sister to receive regular prenatal care to monitor her health and the health of her baby. Her healthcare provider may recommend more frequent visits or specific tests based on her medical history and any complications that arise during the pregnancy.

Stay hydrated: Drinking plenty of water can help prevent dehydration, which is a common complication in people with sickle cell disease.

Get enough rest: Fatigue is a common symptom of sickle cell disease, so it's important for your sister to get enough rest and avoid overexertion.

Take folic acid supplements: Folic acid can help reduce the risk of certain birth defects. Your sister's healthcare provider may recommend a specific dose of folic acid based on her individual needs.

Consider genetic counseling: Your sister and her spouse may want to consider genetic counseling to better understand their risk of having a child with sickle cell disease and to discuss their options for future pregnancies.

Be prepared for a potential sickle cell crisis: Your sister should discuss a plan with her healthcare provider for what to do in the event of a sickle cell crisis, which is a sudden and severe pain episode that can occur in people with sickle cell disease.

It's important for your sister to remember that having sickle cell disease does not mean that she cannot have a healthy pregnancy and a healthy baby. With proper care and management, she can increase her chances of a successful pregnancy and delivery

What exactly are you writing? You didn't read before copying and pasting.

@ topic,
Allow your sister be, she's not a kid. Her choices, her life. The consequences of any bad decision will be hers to face. What's with the misleading topic? Why are you dying? Better grow up.

Solomon and David. Assuming we're not mentioning Jesus who should be every Christians favourite.

Interesting generation. If this guy is a student, he'll also tell you he has a side hustle. This is his side hustle; begging for handouts.

In this generation, everyone is a model, entrepreneur, influencer or actor. The hustle generation.