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One reason I ain't leaving my country is because these countries can just change policy overnight and send you to the trenches.

For those who have nothing even in naija, then by all means take your chances.

Effect of doing too much. Who light's fire in an enclosed environment? This generation is too woke. From dropping cake from the ceiling to smoke bombs when the couple is dancing, to 'stoning' the couple with bundles of money.

If only these things make a happy home, we would have understood. Rather, there's far more focus on the ceremony than the actual marriage.

I'd rather have kids and no partner, rather than a partner without kids. Kids are my legacy. Partners can come and go.

saweide:
How sir

You're asking how? You're either a troll or highly gullible.

Are you a toddler? Only toddlers are easily deceived.

Let them take their chances. Those in their 30's and 40's can hardly make it work after taking their time.

Our parents married early and it worked, it's not the age, it's the fact that we now know too much. Everyone has suddenly become 'woke'.

Let them take their chances. Those in their 30's and 40's can hardly make it work after taking their time.

Our parents married early and it worked, it's not the age, it's the fact that we now know too much. Everyone has suddenly become 'woke'.

TradingGod:
lol


I hate it when I see a grown ass man giving a fvck to the antics of a broke bitch


Look OP let me tell you the truth, nothing is wrong with You, You are perfectly normal, infact take this as a blessing because the less time you spend interacting with a broke bitch the better for you


Make money and see as those same girls that rejected you will start forming familiarity wuth you once they see that you are finacilly secured



Your goal in life is to make money and not have a girlfriend, when you have money that is when you will know that you were never ugly but just broke


Broke bitches hate poor men that see sex as their purpose in life




Pick yourself up, ask yourself why are people making millions monthly and you are not,



Make money be your new girlfriend, and watch as those useless broke girls will start following you about

Just curious, how much money should a man make before he can start being confident and attracting women? Ten million, hundred million, one billion?

Care to share some money making techniques you know that works without fail? I want to start taking this make money advice seriously. I'm not getting younger.

Correct your post. Apple music works on Android. The app is available on the play store.

Available. Good to go

I believe this is a joke? It's terrible for a man to be poor, especially if he's married. He'll lose respect from his wife, kids and inlaws.
That sex you're looking for will depart from you. As sad as it sounds, even your wife will withhold sex when you can't provide. Those who provide are not even guaranteed sex on demand. Their wives still come up with excuses.

Anyway, if sex is your problem, I'll still refer you back to those 'olosho's'. They're the only one who provide sex on demand as long as you have your money. Learn to protect yourself also.

Honestly, I can't say if cheating is a choice or there is a cheating gene. Chasing women is stressful. I have friends who are obsessed with women, always looking for a new woman to conquer. I can't understand it.

We did a bit of that when single, for fun and adventure, but I don't know what drives these men to still continue after marriage.

Chasing women is a fruitless exercise when married. You gain absolutely nothing. You lose time, resources, respect, peace and emotional stability. I can't yet see one positive thing about womanising as a married man.

Goztino:
I use to have this mindset until I traveled to Germany for my masters.
Then I realized the following .
1. Most nigerians are very selfish and waiting like vultures to start billing you but can't contribute for your success when you need their help, so they don't actually deserve any shit from you.
When I wanted 4.5million to complete my block account money, I met almost all the rich guys in my place for loan but none of them gave me one kobo, they were all giving flimsy excuses.
Some of them even made mockery of me and told me to learn to cut my coat according to my size. Most of my classmates also faced the same shit when they tried to ask for help.
Only my immediate family members actually showed concern.
My parents emptied their little bank account, my siblings didn't have money but they showed concern and supported me spiritually.
But all the outsiders were giving excuses and watching from a distance.
Now, how do you think the person will quickly give a damn about anyone outside his immediate family members when nobody outside his immediate family gave him a damn when he needed their help?
2. The bills abroad is much and many people after paying them don't feel like getting billed from outsiders who don't really give a damn about them and who would turn their back on them when you need any slightest help from them .
3. Those abroad don't actually owe you nothing. As brutal as this might sound, but that's the fact.
People usually harvest what they sow. Now ask yourself how much you have sowed in the life of that person you are billing?

Do people still beg 'abroad' people for money? Except the very poor ones. The people who will 'beg' you are your family members.

By the way, before you travel out, you are expected to have done your research and gathered enough funds. Nobody owes you anything, same way you owe nobody anything. That people refused to help doesn't make them bad.

Rokiat:
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What is more important the ATM or the money?

It doesn’t matter the giver what’s more important to note here is that pu….say is life, because it don’t only give you men pleasure but most importantly it birthed you.

Chris Rock said it best in selective outrage, a nigga could be dead with his di.ck out and people will pass his dead body and not give a F but now a beautiful woman can stop traffic.

Niggas done gone to war over pussy killed each, worked hard and spend to either get the pus.sy hair fixed, get the puss..y nails done, take her on vacation, get her car repair take her out etc etc you get it.


Ya all misogynist niggas keep lying to yourselves but puss..y is power.

The innate drive for sex pushes men to do silly things for women. You're right, foolish men have killed and gone to war for women.

The issue is that with all the 'power' of their vagina, women still get discarded after use. Every woman has a vagina but it's surprising to see many poor and wretched women. It shows that the vagina isn't the issue, but other factors that the owner of the vagina owns is what makes her valuable to a man.

A vagina can't keep a man, sex is just temporary pleasure.

Available

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emmanuelewumi:
I love traditional men. It took a traditional man, 21 years into his marriage before he got to know that his wife was his landlady. Not knowing that the rent he had been paying in the last 5 years went to his wife


The case is now in the court, the traditional man wanted to claim ownership of the property

What is the meaning of traditional? I hate in when boys who can't keep a 2 weeks relationship dabble into adult talk.

Your boss is an arrogant fellow, without any regards for you. Tell him to f off.

Don't let hunger drive you to lose your self esteem. Trust me, you'll still get kicked out in future by this arrogant 'chief'.

My wife works but I foot all the bills because I choose to. Although she buys things for the house on her own accord.

I'm a traditional man and I choose to take care of everything. I don't give her an allowance though, just occasional gifts, monetary or in items.

I'm not advising for people to do same, split the bills if that's what works for you.

My handling all the bills comes with its advantages, my wife doesn't begin to challenge me unnecessarily. When women contribute with you, they start seeing you as equals instead of you being the captain.

Maybe I should clarify, try to marry a woman you earn far more than. I've never believed in being with a woman who is in the same financial bracket as me. Women are not wired to be providers.

DBlackCeazer:
I'm interested, how long have you had this phone please?

Email jazzpha@ymail.com for phone number let's take it from there

transforma1:
what are the device specs and your location?

6/128
Lagos.
Email Jazzpha@ymail.com for phone number if you're interested.

Learn to use paragraphs, it makes reading easier.

Drealman20:
That is how you are thinking from your own side/point of view.

From his own point, he might think u wana sell for cash urgency... Which is why he proposed with cash..

So the intention matters and the buyer can't know the exact reason u r selling except u tel him..

So he is not totally wrong

Your reason is even more shallow. So, I need 100k urgently and then you offer a phone and 20k, how have you helped me?

The quality of reasoning on this forum baffles me everytime.

By the way, people who don't have money should learn to keep away from advert posts. It's not compulsory to comment. The other day, one rétard was pricing air-conditioner for 10k.

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Sunnybabe:
swapped with A51 and add little cash?

Why will I want an A51 when I'm getting rid of an A52? What sort of thinking is this?

Why not swap with S23 and also add little cash.

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A good lesson for all. Many people think they're above the law because we live in Nigeria.

The law is there and will be activated when the 'powers that be' decides to use you as a scapegoat. Always keep the law if you know you're a 'nobody '.

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She wasn't given proper orientation.

Just know that even your kids you made so much sacrifices for can abandon you when they make money. Nothing is impossible and should be a shock.

The secret to happiness is to expect nothing and appreciate everything. Always look after yourself, never abandon self totally for others.