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ekpotek:
You do not need to add photocopied of your wife and kids passports. Only provide the passport numbers as requested. Yes you will need a letter of invitation, passport data page, utility bill as proof of accommodation, if you intent to stay with someone in the U.K.

Thank you. I would have to cancel the application then. My main intention was to stay in a hotel but i hadn't booked yet so i just decided to fill in my cousin's details. I can't begin to bother anyone for documents especially when i ain't staying with them.
Thanks again, i appreciate your response sir.

Hi, i want to apply to UK alone for a 5 day visit. While filling my application there was a place i was asked to put my wife and kids passport number even though they are not travelling with me.
My wife and kid both have a US visa on their passport though. Am i also to make photocopy of their passport and add to my application?
I'm going on tourism, simply sightseeing and having fun. I'm staying with a family member, do i need a letter of invitation from my cousin?

You wan marry? You write like a kid though.

bbeautylik:
You can't tell what will be tomorrow, what if in eventual she later earned more than you, will you send her packing? Common sense

You don't get it. It's either stay home and do chores or work so hard and provide comfort and others to do the chores. Non ambitious and archaic people that see chores as a big deal. There is technology and paid help to assist.
I pity women who are providers. It's better they are not married than have a lazy husband whom they provide for. My only exception is the sick. Men, if you lose your job go and work as a conductor instead of being idle and washing your wife's panties and going to buy her sanitary pads. Only men that are failures prefer to do chores than hustle.

bbeautylik:
Thank God I didn't marry the type of your person. What do you want the wife to do? especially when she earns more than you, cook for you, take care of the kids and the house, provide more than half of the house expenses. Now you want to tell me you can't help? Is she your slave?

God forbid i marry someone like you. Why would my wife earn more than me? I come this life come play? When I'm not sitting at home washing panties and cooking. Too bad you married a lazy man who sits idle at home and does your chores. Don't ever compare me with losers. I'm a hustler, born to hunt and bring back the goods.
My wife spends her money on herself and the kids. She's grateful for the life she has, an eazy life. I know she'll never trade it for me to start staying home to wash panties. Tell your husband to step up hun.

aljharem:
Op you are a good man but trust me it is not in your place to wash your wife's clothes. From experience I would advice you don't do that again unless she is completely indispose for that period and not because of party. Everyone needs to understand their role and where they come in to help. If she is sick etc then help out.

Brother don't do something you would later regret

Again just an advice. God bless your union

He just got married and he's still enjoying his wife's milk. We were once in his shoes. When the bills start coming fast he'll understand it's not in his place to be washing plates and clothes. Till the day his wife will disrespect him. Women only appreciate at the moment. My guy will be a man someday and understand better.

richyblink1:
Didn't see this on time, wouldn't have bothered replying you. So you mean having time for your family and assisting the kids with home work as well as helping your spouse are all irrelevant to you?

I pity the woman you end up with. What a statement!!!

Mature man indeed

You are a dunce if you can't comprehend. Anyways, men who don't intend going far in life are the one's who spend time washing their wives panties.
Spend the time you spend sweeping and cleaning to hustle more. Then you'll be better equiped to hire a maid and a cook for your family.
Where the time wey i wan take dey wash my wife clothes when I'm always on the move thinking of how we can all have an early retirement, see when i replied you? 10.30pm. A holiday, massage in a spa, good education is more valuable to most women than a man sweeping the house and cooking and can't provide more than the basics. Wait till the day your wife will tell you that you're useless and compare you with men who are achieving. Otondo

richyblink1:
Brotherly, when it's Saturday morning, it's family chores first. Then I can go hang out with the boys much later after assisting my senorita with vital chores.

For the records, i leave home 6:20am every morning and returns by 7pm from Monday to Friday. And once I am home I immidiately start my nanny job (carrying, singing and playing with my girls as we have 5 months old twin girls) till the sleep let's say by 10pm or so depending, knowing fully well that my betterhalf will take over if they wake at midnight/early morning. While I equally sing and play with them Saturdays and Sundays to allow their mother rest.

Trust me, there is no better joy than singing and dancing for my girls daily. In fact I do James bond on wheels daily just to get home on time to play with them before they go to bed. Mind you, I equally wake between 2am and 3am to check on my squard(betterhalf and the twin) incase they are awake or need my assistance.

Nice man. I guess you're newly married. Most men are like that when it's still new. Very soon you'll have more responsibilities and need more money. Then you'll double your hustle, stay out more, socialize more and won't have time and strength to babysit or do chores.
Mature men no longer have time for irrelevant things, they make money and their wives are thankful as long as the needs and even wants are being met . These same women would call you lazy even if you do all the chores but can't provide their needs.

Goody goody people. If it was such a sin, why does God allow unmarried folks conceive and yet we have pastors and many who waited for the wedding night but can't have kids.
Again, what does it matter if your child is dedicated privately? You want to show off to everyone you have a child? I personally opted for the private dedication, i hate crowd and show off, it was just me, wife, child and the pastor and to tell you the truth i did it just for the formality.
I had already dedicated my child to God myself and that is good enough for me.
Bottomline, you hold all aces. Find a new church or accept the private dedication.

Amazon bought loafers, nice sha, keep up the hustle but durability is an issue. Most guys wear 42, 43, 44. Keep that in mind when buying next time.

Joavid:
You're a He-goat!

Your fada.

This i consider to be my free advice to young men who are single and successful.
Please stay away from a trophy wife. I know that it may seem cool to flaunt that beautiful girl around as your wife and you desire beautiful kids but most times, these flashy girls have too much attention and wouldn't hesitate to follow the next man even after marriage.

Marrying a beautiful girl does not in anyway guarantee a happy marriage. Most of these ladies don't care being single mothers because they know that they are beautiful and would always attract men.

The trend now is for ladies to get married, get a child and move on to the next man. They know your funds will guarantee their kids will have a decent life while they have the freedom to taste all the perks of singlehood. We should stop falling for these tricks.

There are many responsible women out there who might not be so attractive but they are willing to be married and stay married. Wealthy single guys should go for these girls, they guarantee a more stable home and peace of mind.

For the randy guys who can't keep it in their pants, after getting married to that decent girl, you can keep the flashy gold diggers as side chicks if you like. Like they say, you can't turn a ho to a house wife.

This is my free advice to all successful young dudes. Be wise, stay wise.

Delusions of grandeur

dacblogger:
Did he achieve any other thing apart from being an actor

Which one u achieve?

Nigerians are funny. We never address the issues at hand. At Op, i understand it can be frustrating, it might seeem like the love is almost drifting apart and you feel like abandoning her for someone else. TTC is never a smooth situation for any couple. This is where the issue of why did you get married crops up.
Hang in there, hopefully you guys would conceive sooner than later. The important thing is to love each other and reassure each other. Do not allow external pressure, side talks and silly advice get to you. As a last resort you can always get a surrogate or adopt. The only thing without remedy is death. Cheers.

Elkay3:
Autocorrect!!! Not my fault, it's a "her". I would have said my gal friend but this isn't relationship advice.
Thanks for the corrections. I really appreciate.
But seriously, I didn't know it's a female thing until now. Are you really sure of this?

Sure. It's an abnormal growth in the female reproductive system, google it.

That's the in thing in this country now, bunch of lazy people. However if she's not greedy she wouldn't lose much.

Elkay3:
Most people would be scared, but truth is, it's a simple operation. I believe less delicate than other operations been done. I've had 2 friends that have gone through it, in fact, we go jogging on Saturdays with him

Just stay calm. Breath normally. It's nothing serious.

Men don't do fibroids operation. It is well with the OP's mum.

chizzy4love:
You totally understood my write up.Thanks

As for people asking me to give her some of my money,even if I give her 2m to add to her 1.5, it still won't do because after setting up a business you still need to fund it with your reserve for about 2 to 3 more years before it stands firm.Many people are just commenting without even thinking.

She can't cope with 3.5million? She be real mumu then. One of those dull girls that always look up to a man to think for them. We know their type, unmerited 2.1.
Get ur behind and work, middle class family my foot. We don see women wey their rich husbands die, they sold tomatoes to train their kids. Una be real mumu abeg.

Irritating poster. You're killing your sister faster than cancer. All men must die but not all death should be sorrowful. Nothing says a miracle can't happen anyways.
The most important thing isn't how long we live but how well. I've lost loved ones at a young age but i smile when i remember how good they lived
Better cheer up or gerrout of here before you infect more people with this negative energy.

Conscience at play. After eating Akwa Ibom State allocation you wan dey form saint. Next news please.

A general wore paramilitary uniform, na u common colonel nor fit wear am.

Na insult dem insult u ba? Your people do worse by killing those hosting them. Keep quiet and move on.

You should have put before and after pictures. How much to fix 2007 Camry?

Interesting read, it would be nice if polygamy was optional like the muslim religion allows. Not every woman minds sharing her man, likewise, not every man would want to be polygamous.

But as usual, Africans love copy copy. Polygamy was our way of life. Not all our ancestors had more than one wife. Everything boils down to freewill. Let's do away with the hypocrisy. Personally, one woman sef na wahala but i have Muslim friends who are coping fine with it, no judgements.

Dear VO, what are the consequences when someone whom was filed an immigrant visa for by a sibling is no longer interested in migrating to the US as he is now settled here and doing well in his business and now has a family. He would rather prefer occasional holidays to the US instead.
1. Will the petitioner have to inform the authorities to cancel the petition?
2. Will canceling a petition affect application for a B1/B2 in future?

Mums are the best. Like if u love your mum.

Igbos have no loyalty. Highest bidder, no beef. I'll take no loyalty to smiling at you while stabbing you from behind.

Addicted2Women:


When i went to China, i was shocked, i saw them manufacture Rolex Replicas and Audemar Piquet replicas, i bought 3 Rolex for $400, came back to New York and went to a Rolex shop and sold each one for $13,000

You sold a fake rolex to a rolex shop? Lol. You must be the greatest liar of the century. First and foremost, you don't know what a Rolex is, so quit the b.s.
No watch seller will buy a Rolex without it's certificate of authenticity. Every certificate of authenticity is checked out using a unique serial number to ensure it's genuineness.
The only people that can buy a fake Rolex are street corner hustlers who will not pay more than 100 bucks.
Go and reformat your lies son.

Second colonization needed. The way the black man is wired is definitely faulty.

Why is Civic so cheap? I saw a beautiful new model civic for same price with an older model Camry, but i went for the Camry instead because people kept saying the Camry was a better car.

I just think Nigerians are the ones causing this wahala by stigmatizing cars. The stigma causes price fluctuation. Civic is in the same range with Corolla yet Corolla costs far more. Civic is a fantastic car and i will go for it in future.

@op,nice car. Happy sales.

What you've outlined are not serious issues abeg. Yea, i may advice u not to marry him because u guys are not COMPATIBLE.

But then, some couples marry each other even when totally different, yet they complement each other. As for his flaws, not being 'spiritual' (spirituality is a personal matter, 90% of people running to churches and mosques are hypocrites, knowing God is a different thing entirely ), drinking liquor occasionally (most likely a social drinker), not planning (a bit exaggerated, no adult won't have plans for his life. I want to believe he went to school and has a job, anyway, most women help men become better managers and planners), he doesn't read (not everyone likes to read, they are a thousand ways of gaining knowledge. Reading doesn't put food on the table, even though reading is actually a good thing to do).

I would say run if he is violent, womanizes, has no ambition or depends on u for his upkeep, has no regards for other people, doesn't care for u and maltreats and disrespect u. We all have bad friends, but we know where to draw the line with them. Again, a lot of friendships start drifting apart when marriage happens. A woman who knows her man will know how to separate him from a friend she doesn't like.

My dear leave him alone if u wish, but this man could be worse. You could be the one to actually put structure in his life. But then, marriage is a personal choice.