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Food / Re: If You Could Only Eat One Food For The Rest Of Your Life, What Would You Choose? by kadman(m): 10:00am On Sep 17, 2014 |
B R E A D !! Agege Bread.. I'm not even joking ! |
Fashion / Re: What Is The Name Of Your Body Cream? by kadman(m): 6:08pm On Aug 14, 2014 |
Elizabeth Arden - Visible Difference |
Romance / Re: Tired Of This Relationship by kadman(m): 6:56pm On Jan 10, 2014 |
OP, How can YOU not call her to find her if she's alive or dead. Long story short, I hope you bought the car in her name. And I hope you don't get it back. All these silly men who after break ups ask for the biros and pencils they gave in the relationship. Urgh. |
Religion / Re: What Is Your Favourite Christmas Carol? by kadman(m): 12:00pm On Dec 22, 2013 |
Oh Come All Ye Faithful |
Fashion / Re: Some Cute People Are Not Photogenic: Why? by kadman(m): 10:50am On Dec 06, 2013 |
1. Good camera. 2. Good lighting - natural light. 3. Know your angles, some people left side look better than their right side. 4. If you have cheek bones make the best use of it. 5. Instagram |
Crime / Re: Murdered Nigerian: UK Police Place £10,000 Bounty On Killer by kadman(m): 12:26pm On Nov 28, 2013 |
GeneralShepherd: Why are Nigerian students being murdered left,right and centre? They complain we are criminals, but yet fail to protect the innocent ones amongst us? First it was Ada Obih in the US last week now another Nigerian! Why? Because they go nightclubbing in very dangerous areas when they were sent to study. If you sit your black a.ss in Cranfield or Milton Keynes surroundings, and study like you are supposed to and avoid dodgy places. You'd be fine 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: I Think Life Is Unfair To Women & Guys Need To Be Realistic! by kadman(m): 4:52pm On Nov 19, 2013 |
INFO TECH: I agree he should aim high in life: By improving on his looks, aiming high in his carrer, upgrading his enterprenurial skills e.t.c but not trying to get with someone who has one or all of the above without having any himself! That is what we call a chancer or scammer. Rule of thumb is be the kind of person you'd like to attract. However Nigerian men seem not to have heard of this saying with the dating stunts they try to pull. |
Romance / Re: I Think Life Is Unfair To Women & Guys Need To Be Realistic! by kadman(m): 4:45pm On Nov 19, 2013 |
INFO TECH: Yup, I'm sure he's one or the other. But convinced he's also broke. . If not he'd know the finer things of life are not cheap. |
Romance / Re: I Think Life Is Unfair To Women & Guys Need To Be Realistic! by kadman(m): 4:32pm On Nov 19, 2013 |
anselm791: All you've written here is how life's hard and unfair to men, I mean with the day dreaming, working hard like P square, paying for sex while all the women have to do is to be hot? Unless you were once a woman, you shouldn't be writing poo about what you don't know poo about. You think it's easy to be hot? You think the fitness regime, beauty regime, weaves and wigs are FREE Broke, bitter man.. that Sir, is what you are ! |
NYSC / Re: Picture Of Youth Corper With "Killer Curves" by kadman(m): 12:43pm On Nov 18, 2013 |
Nairaland has got to be kidding me with this stupidity !!!! WTF ? 2 Likes |
Health / Re: Most Popular Recreational Drugs by kadman(m): 2:55pm On Nov 14, 2013 |
GustavoFring: I especially like to smoke a joint when on a comedown from the MDMA. DAMN !! You get this in Nigeria? |
Family / Re: Why Do People Use Burial Ceremonies To Show Affluence? by kadman(m): 2:58pm On Nov 06, 2013 |
I don't really understand the "Muslim thing is the best". Yes they bury the dead quickly but a month or two later when enough money has been raised they through big crazy "owanbe" parties just as big as Igbo / Christian Yorubas. Or am I missing something? I'd appreciate some enlightenment. @ Topic, it's a senseless practice and something which is stupid. My family have done the same for my grandparents but even we knew it was silly and we just conforming to social norms. Alas, I do not see an end to this practice. |
Phones / Re: Moving Your BBM Contacts From Blackberry To Android BBM by kadman(m): 10:02pm On Oct 23, 2013 |
Nice one OP, I forgot the email address and password I used to register for BBM. Any help with this? Thanks |
Family / Re: Bullying Make African Kids Stronger But Kills The American Kids: Why by kadman(m): 8:28am On Oct 18, 2013 |
stillwater: The society is different. Our experiences are too. Even church is different. The longer you stay abroad, your emotions start getting softer too and forget A is Z to us. It's only murder or death that gets an expressive response from us. Then you would see Africans rolling on the floor. You are only celebrated when you die in your violent husband's house than when you divorce him. There are millions of girls in Nigeria that have been raped that just picked up their underwear and went on as if nothing happened. They only feel shame and do not feel that there's an injustice that has been done to them. Take the ABSU rape victim for example. What dignity that woman is protecting is beyond every single brain cell in my head. I'm still annoyed about that incident. See the poverty in Nigeria, and we say we have a government. We are not in touch with our emotional side. We have been desensitized to hurt, pain, wickedness, dejection, hate, strife, and helplessness by the biggest bully on earth - the Nigerian government. We have been trained very very well in a concentration camp Nigerian style. We hardly commit suicide but show our fruits in other flamboyant styles like fraud, crime, prostitution, aggression and the incessant need to loot and loot and loot. PREACH ! PREACH !! PREACH !!! |
Health / Re: How To Stop Obsessing Over Your Body Image And Beat Negative Thoughts. by kadman(m): 2:00pm On Oct 16, 2013 |
One of the best articles I've seen on Nairaland lately. There's a misguided conception that Africans living in Africa don't suffer from body image issues - well in 2013 we do! Another misconception is that men don't, well I'm an African man and I do. I have come to realise to a certain extent I always would, but I've come to use it positvely, by going in excercise programs and a reasonable diet. Notice I said reasonable, this means a diet I could sustain for the very long term, which can adpat to changing life situations. To deal with body issues; set a goal of where you possibly want to be, set up a reasonable diet, start a training program - doesn't have to be crazy to start with but something to jump kick. Then set another goal and repeat. And remember a healthy body is from inside, read and educate yourself how to feel good inside - I'm talking detox, colon cleansing, proper knowledge of vitamins e.t.c Working hard on my body in the last two years has changed my life, I look good and more importantly feel good, I have confidence that shows in my work and relationships. It's not enough to think you can beat a negative body image mentally, you actually have to do something about it. Same way you can't just beat poverty by thinking - you gotta go out and get a job 1 Like |
Education / Re: How Many Years Did You Stay At Home Before Gaining Admission? by kadman(m): 8:43am On Oct 16, 2013 |
Two years. But that was for my mum to save money for Unilag Diploma as I just knew my head couldn't carry JAMB |
Politics / Re: Agagu’s Son, Feyi Condition Critical; Flown Abroad by kadman(m): 9:34pm On Oct 10, 2013 |
Wumcy: it is nt conpulsory u pray 4 them but remember wot u wish others will surely come back 2 u You're just a fool. Slow fools like you are the ones blessing those thief's calling themselves politicians. Fool |
TV/Movies / Re: Family Guy Vs The Simpsons: Which Do You Prefer? by kadman(m): 11:12am On Oct 09, 2013 |
maxi-t: THIS IS THE TRUTH ! A lot of people will not get Family Guy because they don't know the real life references or people the joke is pointed at. Yes Family Guy has jumped shark a few times, like when they do those Star Trek / Star Wars episodes. But when it's good.... man it's good. Best episode Stewie beating the crap out of the dog "where my money at?" punch punch "where my money at?" |
Celebrities / Re: Genevieve Nnaji Vs. Agbani Darego - Who Rocked The Traditional Outfit Best? by kadman(m): 2:03pm On Oct 01, 2013 |
Ms. Nnaji if you please ! There's no need pitting Genevive against anyone else. She's #WINNING ! Never seen the woman make a bad fashion choice. Genny is every woman ! The face, the skin, the figure. . . Hmmmmmm |
Celebrities / Re: Mary J Blige Performing In Nigeria (Pictures) by kadman(m): 7:25pm On Sep 28, 2013 |
minute: Dang! She is truly the queen of hip hop and there will never be another. Now here is someone who knows music ! I'm not a big MJB fan, but during the drama period of her life.. she brought the drama like no other ! The No More Drama album.. whao ! |
Car Talk / Re: Woman Survives Her Car Being Crushed By A Container by kadman(m): 11:25am On Sep 26, 2013 |
ONESON1: God have mercy You quoted the WHOLE article and ALL the pictures ! Why ? Are you a slowpoke !! Jeez |
Travel / Re: Private Jet Owners To Pay $4,000 Luxury Tax by kadman(m): 10:57am On Sep 26, 2013 |
Why is the tax is US dollars though? |
Celebrities / Re: Mike Ezuronye's 31'st Birthday Party Pictures by kadman(m): 9:54pm On Sep 25, 2013 |
#1-stunner: Ha Ha.. if you know Frank Papas means you went to Unilag and you were a bubbler ! |
Nairaland / General / Re: When Was The Last Time You Had N5 In Your Wallet? How Did You Spend It? by kadman(m): 9:39am On Sep 25, 2013 |
Yoshi-Master: Gala is now 50 bucks? Damn . . . |
Family / Re: For Abused Wives, Girlfriends & Men!!! by kadman(m): 10:31am On Sep 24, 2013 |
kreami diva: He He He |
Family / Re: Lessons To Teach Your Daughter That She Will Never Forget... By Alison Bryant by kadman(m): 4:14pm On Sep 23, 2013 |
chucky234: Every one of them is a potential prostitute,each one is a suspect. Including your mother, sisters and neices? I mean no offence but I'm just curious about your thought process and would like your answer. Thanks 4 Likes |
Family / Re: Lessons To Teach Your Daughter That She Will Never Forget... By Alison Bryant by kadman(m): 4:01pm On Sep 23, 2013 |
Great post! OP was it this thread that inspired your write up? For Abused Wives & Girlfriends Only - Family (https://www.nairaland.com/1444825/abused-wives-girlfriends-only/27#18313085) Because a lot of us were just talking about all you just said. Brilliant ! |
Family / Re: For Abused Wives, Girlfriends & Men!!! by kadman(m): 4:00pm On Sep 23, 2013 |
justplainpaul: Aunty swagg no kwams. no problemo. dem dey hide my posts self. so i go carry my madness go another place. but b4 i go, i go recommend one book for u weh i hope say e go help for your marriage. the name of the book na THE WISEST WOMAN IN THE WORLD by Lawrence ossy okeke. try get am, he go help u well well. This book sounds like one of those how to "please your man" books. It's always the same recipe really - Cook for him, have his babies, pamper him like a 5 year old whose mother did not take care of him properly, whilst being submissive at the same time. Please notice that author is male, why's he writing a book about the wisest woman? Of course he would perceive a woman as wise when she does his biddings. OP, as someone said avoid these modern day slavery manuals. 2 Likes |
Family / Re: For Abused Wives, Girlfriends & Men!!! by kadman(m): 9:53am On Sep 23, 2013 |
coogar: THANK YOU !! That is all really. Nigerian men just do not have etiquette (I'm a Nigerian male). False bravado, chauvanistic attitude, and just plain socially stunted. You wonder why they are all suspect women abusers ! |
Family / Re: For Abused Wives, Girlfriends & Men!!! by kadman(m): 4:11pm On Sep 19, 2013 |
Nashville: It's the same Coogar who said so. The brother lives in a timewrap and keeps saying that this is not the West. Well Coogar most people here live in Nigeria and are saying it's not as you say it is. Are you living in your own world mate? I spent 25 years in Nigeria (including the village) and didn't see all this stigmatisation to single / seperated women. |
Family / Re: For Abused Wives, Girlfriends & Men!!! by kadman(m): 4:03pm On Sep 19, 2013 |
25Calibre: I'm glad we could come to some sort of common ground. I agree with the highlighted. Also many valid points. OP - I'm sorry your thread became a debate ground, but oh well it's well meant. |
Family / Re: For Abused Wives, Girlfriends & Men!!! by kadman(m): 3:59pm On Sep 19, 2013 |
bukatyne: I think Coogar still lives in 1913, when people fetched water at rivers and knew everyones name in the village e.t.c (I'm sure even then women were going back to their parents home). Is it these days when you get back from your bank job at 9pm half asleep and don't know the name of the people even living in your building? As I said the only stigma I can think of isn't society but religious ties (either religion). 1 Like |
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