₦airaland Forum

Well, I don't know you personally, so I honestly cannot sympathize with you.

I know many so called "evening newspaper that are terrible. By terrible, I mean very terrible.. Their character is nothing to write home about. They are so bitter and frustrated towards men and every one around them as if we caused her singleness. They are all over nairaland.

Having said that..... Let me just say this.

Most Nigerian girls don't know what they want in a relationship. You started dating @ 21, what category of guys did you date? Reasonable guys or guys in your age bracket? I don't know so much about the spiritual husband thing so I can't relate.

An 18 years old girl should not be in a relationship with an 18 years old boy. I mean, what will they be doing if not fvck, fvck, drink, smoke and fvck? 8/10 of such relationships doesn't lead anywhere.

Date guys at least five years older than you and give him your terms and conditions. Tell him youre not in for games. Tell him you want a real relationship. Of course you could have sex cos
it's your body, but be sure that you are building something. It doesn't necessarily mean it must lead to marriage, but tell him "let's just get serious with each other and see where that leads us. In the event that it doest lead anywhere, there should be no hard feelings. He could be broke, but he must be focused.

Most girls date little boys that are yet to even know their right from their left. After spending the best years spoiling around, they now want to settle down with reasonable guys and when such reasonable guys are not forthcoming,, they start to get bitter towards men. What a waste of time!

What annoys me the most is that such boys they had fun with will not even like to marry her.

I always say that as a girl, with your character and what you have in-between your thighs, you can make even the toughest and strongest man kneel down to beg you to be in his life.
And again, as a lady in your thirties who have had at least five relationships that didn't lead to the altar, then 9/10 times it's your fault and it takes something extraordinary for her to finally settle down and even if she does, it will be with one widower who just needs someone to cool of with.

Me I don talk my own.

No offense.

Happy new year to all of you nairalanders

His business

Meanwhile....

This habit of going to church every 31st of Dec for one rubbish crossover night should end this year.

Make Una get sense for this new decade weh we don start so

We weh no fine..... Make we hide our face before one nairalander go use our pic do meme.

The man first old sef.

RIP all the same

Na insurance company go buy new trucks, so Dangote no go too worry.


RIP to the dead

Once a criminal, always a criminal

Titans = Body odour
Malians = oozing armpits


Issorite

Oya oooo

All ye chronic bachelors, go and do the needful.

As I de so, I de go Benin tomorrow go meet my babe family hahaha

If I hear....
Team 2030

You should rephrase the question to At what age is ideal for a guy to start a serious relationship?

We never get one you de talk of two.

You can't be talking about a fiancee without having a girlfriend of 6+ months.

That one concern him followers.

Facebook, WhatsApp and Nairaland don do me.

Any other social media is not for me

I don't even know whether to believe this story or not.

It sounds to evil to be true

Southern Nigeria and crime is like young girls and menstruation. Some have regular menstruation, some have irregular menstruation.

The only language they know and understand is crime. The pressure to make it big is just too much.

Even here on nairaland ( a place dominated by southerners), you hear words like:

my brother hustle oooo, make your girlfriend no dump you follow rich man ooo, hustle ooo, so that you go buy Benz next year, hustle oooo, make your village People know say you be big boy. Hustle ooo, make your children no ask you why you no be like Dangote.

Yet, you wonder why their region is filled with so many criminals, mostly youths from the ages of 16-45. Na the hustle de de hustle so.


The quest to make money at whatever cost has always been the average southerner's undoing.

Dear southerners, for once, be contented!

RIP to the dead.

CHoccolaTE:
Later they will say what are feminists fighting for

Femi what?

I'm talking about reasonable women, not bitter and frustrated ladies that have never been able to keep a man.

Sheeples thread

It's just a change in date and calendar, nothing else will change.

All those new year plans, goals and resolution na wash.

Every new day presents you with an opportunity to start all over.

You must not wait for January to come before you set up that business or anything you want to do.

Again, only the calendar will change.

9ja fvckery continues

Truly, it's a man's world.
I just cannot stop thanking nature for making me a man.

Imagine a wife having to suffer for her husband's indiscretions?

The more I try to be a faithful man, the less I can, knowing fully well that my woman will always be there to clean up my mess.

Chai!

To be a man is truly a blessing

If Stella Dimokorkokus tell us the story behind this Bentley now, Tonto go begin vex.

pocohantas:
Giving birth to you was enough opportunity to face death.

Almighty Poco mentioned me.
My comment make sense be that.
Happy new year to you aunty Poco

They no go ever send women go this kind place, na always men.

Yet, some fools still believe that a man and a woman should be given equal opportunities in the society. Why can't they give them an opportunity to face death?

Anybody that knows about international politics is sapiosexual according to nairaland.

Issorite

There is nothing like unconditional love.

Even Jesus Christ doesn't love unconditionally.

The only unconditional love is the one that exists between a mother and child.

Lemme book space

Just a question oga, you don chop her kpormor? If yes, bravo! But if no, just stick around a little bit, try to chop and then free her.

The problem with most guys is that they don't accept rejection. I'm very, very sure that if that girl had told you she was in a relationship, you still wouldn't let her be. So it's better for her to just give you one fake hope.

I don't care how beautiful or classy a bitch girl is, once you tell me you have a boyfriend, I swear I'm never having anything to do with you as regards relationship.

I no fit chook my preek for toto weh another guy de chook at the same time, except I no know.

You're asking if you should break up with her. The question is, is there a relationship in the first place?

Just fvck that girl commot for there.

We have so many weak/puss! niggas parading themselves around.

Goodluck Jonathan's biggest mistake was trusting the northerners.

An average aboki man will always favour his religion over anything.


Aboki people bahd.

Before nkor.

Southerners, with all their degrees and exposure are being controlled by the less educated northerners. Southerners just have certificates, they are not as knowledgeable as they always claim. Some aboki states are even better than some oil producing states in terms of infrastructures.

Take Bayelsa state for example. A very small, oil rich state with just few local governments that should be the envy of other states, yet It's one of the most underdeveloped states in 9ja with creeks everywhere.

All what southerners know how to do is drink, fvck, prostitute, join cult and kill, hate on each other, assassinate, form gangs and every other bad thing you can think of.

At least north's major problem is religion, what is south's major problem? We don't know.

Instead of them to unite and fight this northern dominance that has stagnated this country for decades, all they care about is call each other afonja, OSU, flat head, akpan, Ekaite, etc.

Southerners, wake up! Wake up and unite so that you can fight this nonsense going on in this country.
South should rule 9ja for 30yrs without aboki smelling that seat and see whether things will not start working.

I'm from a minority tribe in the middle belt and there's not much we can do. But southerners have a lot to do. Unite first, produce a candidate, and then the middle belt minority groups will support you.

We've suffered so much in the hands of this bigots.

You fit each other really well.

When you had a job, you insult her at will.

Now that you are out of job, she gives it back to you hot, hot!

Birds of a feather, they say flock together.

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