₦airaland Forum

Samirana360:
every sack is justified.....don't pray to work for someone....
u r are corporate slave if u an employee....
buh all of us can't be boss....so take it like that

Not so. I know of cases where people have challenged their sacking in court and won. There are labour laws in Nigeria, unfortunately most workers have no idea about them.

Olalan:
Any governor in lagos will been seen to have performed giving the resources at their disposal, Ambode did his best but how he made lagos one of the dirtiest state in Nigeria now still amazes me.

Ambode has failed, he doesn't deserve a second term. If APC is serious about retaining Lagos state they better not give Ambode the second term ticket he is so desperate for.

These people have no shame at all. Why not just retire behind the scenes and allow some new blood into the body politic?

lilbazy:
Please you all should endeavor to desist from Voting Muhammadu Buhari Come 2019. Godbless Nigeria

Who should we vote for instead?

thegentleman:
I'm a of dude of about 28 years, I just finished my NYSC program and I secured a job that pays me about 50k, my girlfriend who is about 25 years too just acquired a job that pays her about 60k per month too.

Is it advisable I go for M.Sc. program or just settle down for marriage with my girlfriend and then follow my career later.

We both stay at Ibadan, the city is averagely okay.

What's your take ?

Can you do both? Because one might not wait for the other. If you go for one out of the two you may lose the other one.

vanbonattel:
I remember how yoruba peeps were supporting this clown in 2015 just to make sure he returned to power to complete his destruction of imo state.

Was it Yoruba people who voted him into power in Imo state? Use your brains if you have any.

This oversabi tatafo woman will soon find herself back in jail. Stay tuned.

Earthbound:
Oluwa, nibo ni oju re wa?






Born in Lagos, Nigeria, Adekunle studied in Nigeria before relocating to the UK as a teenager.

Our country has failed us. You can't grow up here, go to school here, work here and achieve this kind of feat. Who did we offend in this life?

The problem is us. We keep allowing useless leaders to rule us.

Money laundry tinz. He's just giving us an idea of how much he stole while he was in govt.

Alex80s:
Ambode is a coward. It is better he fights and lose not stepping down without resistant. How can a former gov infiltrate your government with traitors? First, he should sack all appointed positions. Stop every contract handled by Tinubu and award to another company. Make a public statement about his actions and Tinubu's greed . With this Tinubu will know that he is a man.

If he had clean hands maybe he could do this but he himself is not clean and he will be exposed. Starting with who is the real owner of Visionscape.

You made a big mistake. You shouldn't have revealed it all to him at once. That is too much shock for any man to take in an instant. Instead you should have acted like it was a recent development and made an appointment to see new doctors. Then you could have shared your diagnosis with him like it was a new thing.
As it is now you just have to either give him enough time to allow him to get over it or just allow him to move on if that's what he wants to do.

Kiishii:
I don't even know how to start, I'm really sad and i know it is my fault, i'm sorry if it's a long read i need advise please bear with me.

When i was still single at age 29, I left a relationship that turned out be a mistake so it took time before i met someone else, at age 31 I noticed changes in my period (one month off, one month on) it has never happened to me before so i didnt take it to be anything, then it started skipping 2 months at a roll, then 3 months, i became worried cos i wasn't sexualy active at all. During this period i met my husband and we started something serious, to be on a safe side i went to see the doctor, he said i was fine that it's hormonal changes, he gave me some drugs (mostly vitamins) but it was still skipping, when my husband proposed, i went back to the doctor, he did series of tests, when results came out he said i'm having symptoms of POF, i was shocked, i cried and cried cos it's unheard of for someone my age, i told him i'm about to get married what can i do he said i should start taking hormonal injections since it's too early to be POF, i started taking it and praying all will be fine, all this while i didnt say a word of this to my husband to be or anyone else, then we got married, i took in immediately, it was the happiest day of my life, when we discovered it was triplets i cried tears of joy to the extent that my husband wondered why i was soo happy, i gave birth to 2 boys and a girl, i really thank God for his faithfulness cos i was soo nervous during the pregnancy.

My period was still skipping, then this year march it stopped completely, i went to see 2 different doctors to be sure, they confirmed i have POF (early menopause), i cried and still thank God cos he blessed me with the fruit of the womb but i couldnt bring myself to tell my husband, then he started noticing i dont buy sanitary pad anymore, he asked thinking i was pregnant i always tell him no, at a point he had to ask me if i want to make the pregnancy a surprise, that was when i knew it's time to tell him the truth, i knelt down and told him everything, i held nothing back, he was shocked that i could do something like that to him, he said i should have told him before we got married, i told him he wouldnt have married me if i told him, he was angry, he said what if the hormonal injections didnt work, it was an expensive and wicked gamble, i told him it worked that's what matters now, he abused me and walked out of the house, he didnt come home till the next day, since then things have never been the same.

He hardly talks to me except when necessary, we dont gist and joke anymore, i always beg and beg him, he says he's forgiven me but he goes back to his moody self, we hardly make love anymore, when he finally does, he doesnt look at my face, now he wants me to quit my job so i'll have my full attention on the kids, recently we had a fight about it and i told him point blank i cant quit my job the kids are fine he said i must do that, he doesnt want anything happening to them since i'm no more fertile, who says that? I cried my eyes out that night, It's not my fault nature took it's course on me, i never imagined something like this would ever happen to me.

Now he doesn't talk to me at all anymore, i'm about to tell both our families everything cos i've begged and begged him and i'm tired, i want anonymous advise that's why i'm here, please please married men and women or whoever, how do i go about this?

God bless D'banj and his beautiful wife. They are extremely strong to be able to get over such a tragedy so quickly.

krendo:
How can you pick a vp when you have not picked the President?

They are not picking a VP. It's called zoning.

mhd5757:
What if the condom tears without you knowing it? It happened to me before twice.

She clearly said "if you remove the condom" not "if the condom tears". I think it's obvious to all that it's a totally different matter if it accidentally tears.

kunleweb:
Is this excuse legit when many fathers and mothers of the previous generations got married before they had jobs and were not at the mercy of jobs

You think the economy faced by the previous generations is the same as the economy of today?

They have finally decided on which one of them will lose most gallantly next year.

kodded:
wizkid you be fvck boy o, see the kind WOR WOR gal you bleep






God knows if I'm famous, all these wor wor girls no go smell my door



abeg read my signature, headache dey do me

He was a nobody when he got her pregnant.

Cinderella5:
I am of the opinion that the men who leave their homes looking for a stranger to sleep with are under a spell, i don't think its normal.

Prostitutes who under any guise collect money to sleep with strangers are possessed.

These two set of people represent the dark world, i only wish they end up marrying themselves but the sad thing is they don't. The guy who has finished all his sperm on prostitutes is likely to end up with a God fearing responsible girl, while the girl whose vjay has lost its elasticity due to commercial sex will end up with a 'good guy'.
life is so unfair.

Now between brostitutes and prostitutes, who can we say is responsible for the thriving immoral market?

You sound like a self-righteous Pharisee. Beware because on every point by which you judge others you also shall be judged.

I didn't see any kissing in that video o. It was just a long hug. People need to stop trying to tie this woman to scandals biko.

Tajbol4splend:
This statement expresses more of uncertainty, so you can't have any deduction

Why don't you do your own research into it and let's see your deductions? Maybe you will be the first person in history to determine the actual cause.

Tajbol4splend:
What does this have to do with race

Fibroids occur more commonly in black women than in other races. They are benign tumours of the smooth muscle of the uterus. The cause is not known but is likely to be genetic hence the relationship with race.

FarahAideed:
Avoid bread and sugar as a woman

Bread and sugar have nothing to do with causing fibroids.

Gr8lex:
Some people will still tell me that this is a natural phenomenon just like homosexuality

Your comment is not a logical comparison. Incest has nothing to do with sexual orientation. The choice to have sex with a family member has nothing to do with being sexually attracted to any gender or both.

Edu3Again:
Pls dont talk to me like i went to school on quota.

Being a Southerner I went to school on merit.

The Baylesa man was only appointed after they sacked the Fulani man last week.

And he is ACTING

Sounds like you're taking it personally. Don't be such a tribalist, it's not worth it. It's true that many of Buhari's appointments have been lopsided in favour of the north but Buhari won't be president forever.

Edu3Again:
These people think we are daft.

The heads are Northerners the spokes people from SE.

When the decision is taken with Buhari's Cabal, then the Southerner comes to present it.

The current head of the DSS is from Bayelsa state. That is certainly not in the north.

gidgiddy:
It is the duty of all well meaning people to stand up to tyranny. GEJ was a lot of things, both good and bad, but he wasn't a tyrant.

He was a loser and he allowed a lot of terrible things to happen under his rule. The fact that things are bad now does not mean we should forget the recent past and allow a loser to rebrand himself.

OneCorner:
Buhari jailing igbos because he did not like us

But it was his Igbo neighbour who dragged him to the police station based on false accusations.

I know Malcolm Fabiyi, he is the real deal. That guy needs to run for president himself instead of Sowore.

Jaqenhghar:
What assumptions? I know Niggerians. I know how they act around foreigners. I have worked in international firms in Niggeria amd have seen all the coonery and ass kissing Niggerians do when they see a foreigner. Niggeria is one of the few places where its citizens still call Lebanese, Chinese and Indians "master" these I see I know so whats "assumptions about wjat Im saying. You even said it here yourself that becaise a british national said he likes it here then automatically(to you) it must mean all is well. Such coonery.
Back to the state of the country I dont care how much money you make Im telling you that your money cannot buy you safety or security . Your money cannot buy you a quality education ( can you name one institution of learning that has cracked the top10 schools in africa?) your money cannot buy you quality health( why do people opt to travel abroad) your money cannot buy you the basic things. These are things the average joe in other countries gets and is able to afford. So no no mater how much money you have in this shithole you cant live a good quality of life. In fact if you have money you cant ride certain cars because thieves, kidnappers, robbers and even the police will come for your head.
So tell me how having money automatically makes life better for you here?
And FYI I already left the shithole long ago. Leaving was the best decision I ever made... no regreys whatsoever

Good. Stay where you are and don't come back. Bitter man.

lefulefu:
hope u read on nl some days ago about a certain state in naija where a politician was sharing onions and pepper to ppl. That tells u how really poor nigeria has become.world bank two months ago rated nigeria as one of d country having d poorest ppl in the world.we are right now dragging with afghanistan.

Actually the World Bank rated Nigeria as the country having the highest proportion of poor people in the world overtaking India. So yes Nigeria is the country with the most poverty in the world, but the irony is that Nigeria is not a poor country! You are still looking at society instead of individuals. For example, why would you compare yourself with the people queuing for onions and pepper instead of to the politician? The mentality of most Nigerians is rooted in dependency and begging instead of in opportunities and ideas. Those who know how to take advantage will thrive and prosper while those who do not will keep looking for how to escape. Nigeria is good if you know what to do.

lefulefu:
too many?..guy if dem combine nigerians with other africans and dem compare our number to the mexicans..do u think we are up to the number of mexicans?. I doubt if its d number.I was watching on CNN where they were saying trump is trying to open up more options for more europeans to enter into the US and block d passage of non whites getting into d US. If wat u saying about US removing d visa lottery from naija is true then it must be trump admistration that did it.

https://ng.usembassy.gov/visas/immigrant-visas/diversity-visa/

https://www.quora.com/Why-is-Nigeria-excluded-from-America-Visa-Lottery-list-of-countries

Those links will answer your questions.

lefulefu:
which time did they eliminate the visa lottery option? A colleague i knew in school just travelled to the US in 2015. He claimed he won a visa lottery. From the pics he posts on facebook he's actually in the US.

He must have been in the final batch allowed to apply from Nigeria. Since 2015 Nigeria has been excluded from the US visa lottery.