₦airaland Forum

Femmyfamous4u:
Dear Friends, i would like to know if it is normal or I am being paranoid. while we were dating i noticed that my now wife does not really like sex as we hardly do the act.

She was good in other areas so, I felt with time things will sort itself out.

After the marriage, I made it known to her clearly that I will want to have the sex as much as i desire but i must say for about three months now, we have only had it about ten times. I do not want to cheat on her but my needs are not met and I have told her this times and times again with no change.

Now, she is pregnant and it is worse. What do I do my people?

Average of 10 times in 3months is not too bad, that's like once a week.
Well, for the newly Weds, it could be more. But with time, sex frequency gradually declines

SmartPolician:
First Bank just paid me #20k in old notes now.

Nigeria is the world's most confused country right now.

It's understandable now, is it not better to pay you in old notes than to risk arson

sammirano:
Go and recover your destiny in Abia State. It is Yorubas that are to blame for the rubbish these refugees are pushing. People that couldn't survive in their poor and dying region. Wants to make a change in the place feeding them. People that are known in making premium bad decision. I believe after this elections this people needs to be put in place.

Leave them, they are pushing their luck too hard. They have always been known to behave like this. The same behaviour that led to the civil war, no be today e start but this one too will fail as usual.

Rheader:
After putting Nigerians through untold hardship. Emefiele it shall never be well with you!

Amen!!!

IyaebeTheGreat:
Is crypto and forex enough to start planning marriage? What other investments do you have? Don’t be deceived sir, love is not enough in a marriage, a woman will always think ahead, the future of her unborn kids, the kind of environment she’ll want her kids to grow up and the rest. Women are love mathematician, you must calculate and get it right to some extent . So it means in her calculations she didn’t get you as the answer. It’s not that deep, these are some of the reasons why women shouldn’t date men in their age range, it mostly doesn’t t work out.

Even though what you have said is absolutely right, they (women) a lot of times don't get it right as well.
I remember a time I wanted to date my colleague at work for marriage targets but she gave me conditions. The woman I finally married at the same time didn't care and today, I can say we have been blessed. Even though we still pray and work for more while she is still unmarried about 9year now

IyaebeTheGreat:
Is crypto and forex enough to start planning marriage? What other investments do you have? Don’t be deceived sir, love is not enough in a marriage, a woman will always think ahead, the future of her unborn kids, the kind of environment she’ll want her kids to grow up and the rest. Women are love mathematician, you must calculate and get it right to some extent . So it means in her calculations she didn’t get you as the answer. It’s not that deep, these are some of the reasons why women shouldn’t date men in their age range, it mostly doesn’t t work out.

Even though what you have said is absolutely right, they (women) a lot of times don't get it right as well.
I remember a time I wanted to date my colleague at work for marriage targets but she gave me conditions. The woman I finally married at the same time didn't care and today, I can say we have been blessed. Even though we still pray and work for more

LeonSaab:
nobody is asking you not to live anywhere in Nigeria but to say the states don't have their host is a big no no.....you won't go to kaduna and claim it's no man's Land, a Yoruba man will not go to Akwa ibom and claim it is no man's land , so don't come to Lagos and say it is a no man's land, your father has no knowledge of its history and its host are clearly visible......

Na Lagosians cause am. It started when they gave out their land to non-indigenes - Ojo (for free).

It's even more pitiable for the Obidients that their recalcitrance and stubbornness to accept good development and growth is waxing stronger.
I have now come to the conclusion that this Obi revolutionary movement would not have moved this country an inch up, rather it would sink the country if it ever happened.
I wish not to be distracted by the machinations of the Obi followers, we are already used to it. I just want to start re-positioning my mind to make the best use of this progressive regime that is about unfolding in Nigeria.
I wish the Bola Tinubu all the best, I hope he corrects some of the wrongs and ills of our society, so we can really witness meaningful development and growth.

GeneralPulal:


This election has proved it that Igbos are coward..

Deep down their heart, they're not happy SS voted for tinubu, but they don't have such gut to call them out for betrayals. This is why they're calling out only wike, just to use him as bait..

Bayelsa
Akwa Ibom
Rivers
Delta

All voted for tinubu. So ask yourself, why Wike?

The other day, a pastor from SS origin told the Igbos in Lagos to leave. They couldn’t face him, it was yoruba they’re calling names

Despite that SS is nearer to SE, the Igbos have never for once called Delta a No Man's land. Why? It is because the Niger delta didn't give them such liberty..

Kano, just like Lagos is filled with all Nigerians. The Igbos for once have never called Kano a No man's land. Why? It is because northerners didn't give them such liberty..

The west is the only region that gave Igbos much liberty and this is why the west is the only region they're showing Shege. Had it been we placed them where they belong eversince, all of these wouldn't be happening..

I'm sure if Tinubu is from the SS, lord knows Igbos can't say a word!

Modified: To those quoting me, I never said tinubu won all the states I mentioned. I only said they voted for him.

You will live long and live well sir.
In their place they don't sell land to outsiders. But in Lagos, they buy land, build properties and claim the entire state is no man's land.
Do we have any Yoruba in the government cabinet of any of the eastern states? But here, they are Commissioners and all that and then they turnaround to challenge the natives of state that the state belongs to nobody.
Their own Anambra, Enugu, Imo, Eboyin etc all belong to them.

Why go through his phone in the first place. They say what you don't know won't kill you. It's frightening how young people of nowadays have sold their souls to the devil because of some useless money that Emefiele just made useless in our hands.
That devil of a friend must be one of those stupid Obidients.

juvewalex:
They have no other option than sending their congratulatory message to Tinubu...

Asiwaju, may you reing favour every Nigerian.

Thank you sir! Na the kind things wey I wan dey hear be this, not some stupid petition signing.

madridguy:
I am waiting for Pa OBJ congratulatory message.

It will never come, those people are just using Nigerians to settle personal beefs

Some of these Obidients are truly worthless! When Wike donated campaign vehicles to Obi, you people did not call for his head. When Wike made his demands to the PDP and Atiku and warned them of dire consequences ahead, all of una dey coma then. Now that your candidates have lost "you want Wike dead or alive"
When Buhari hide naira with Emefiele una love am that time. Na wa...
Wike is a great man, I admire him and will vote for him in future, may God keep us.

Cholls:
My brothers and sisters of the Yoruba and Hausa extraction, I will like to thank you all for the support you've given Jagaban. Thanks for not letting Chinedu laugh at us

Haba Oga suma suma!
Oja mi laraje?

Just like the normal face-face interviews. Just be yourself, smile, listen attentively and respond as intelligently as you can.
Relax it will be fun!
I would advice you use a good ear-piece for better audibility.

FreeStuffsNG:
Asiwaju is a listener and compassionate father, grandfather, leader. He already responded that 4-year course will be 4 years!

The uncouth mob recruited by Mr Obi, liars, haters , bigots and the unpatriotic electoral fraudsters who massively and fraudulently rigged elections in Igboland for Mr Obi lule pii!

God chose to use the victory of Asiwaju to confound and confuse the vain worldly ones who lied that they hear from their 'god' to hate and lie against Asiwaju from the pulpits. God rejected, disgraced and humiliated them so that their hate-filled followers will know that they are fakes and all their prayers against Asiwaju Tinubu was an abomination to the Lord.

Congrats to my President-Elect Asiwaju Tinubu and VP-Elect Shettima.
check my signature for free stuffs!

Hmmm... Words of wisdom here! Nice one...

Fahdiga:
This one thinks he can get away with this daylight robbery he perfected with that Yakubu of a guy in INEC. Nigerians has vowed to reclaim by any means possible the stolen mandate they unanimously gave to Obi through the ballot. What happened to Abiola will be a child's play when it will start. History is about to repeat itself.

This claim is baseless - who and who is unanimous? I voted for Tinubu, so did millions of other Nigerians alike. What is unanimous here? Simply say you voted for Obi, just like others who believe in him.
Do what you must but no violence just as our President-elect has spoken. Go to the courts....

This is not celebrations time yet, a lot is wrong with this country. We that voted for Tinubu did so because we believe he could right some of the wrongs.
It is time to start planning and forget about celebrations. We are all suffering in this country, when is it going to be better?
Tinubu now you are in, please, start planning, forget about the past and whoever has wronged you. We all have a stake in this country and react differently to things. Pls leave Dino Melaye and start planning your magical cabinet now!

Massiveglory:
One of the saddest day in Nigeria's history.
Tinubu did not win election. What he won is a monumental fraud.
Vision without integrity is a recipe for calamity.

He will not be President of our nation.

Wake up to reality and keep your hopes alive, so that any abounding opportunity does not evade you.
Let's move on together, we are not enemies, we all just want a better Nigeria only our candidates are different, the mission should be same.

Aufbauh:
Congratulations to the President-Elect Tinubu Bola Ahmed of the APC!
May you succeed as Nigerians won.
It's a victory well deserved.

Amen ooo! I pray he succeed o... Make he no disgrace me. Please, Mr. Bola Tinubu do not put us to shame. We have defended you with all our strength, faith and life, at least change the narrative. I know Nigeria will not get better in 1day, buy set the foundation as you did in Lagos.
YOU MUST DELIVER SIR!!!

thebestprice:
Latest and first post election images of peter are just beginning to emerge .

Here he is this morning 28 Feb 2023 ,in transit at the Asaba international airport.

His time will come after Tinubu. We will all vote for him unopposed! He will still be President in this country. He appears simple and honest, I like him and respect him but I want to see what Bola Tinubu can do as a President.

Gobengroup:
Seriously I can't believe my Omoluabi brothers can be brainwashed like this but we move.. We're still flogging them wotoporously even after everything...

Asiwaju is here

There is no surprise, Yoruba people have been known to be disloyal and very rebellious. That's why the other two tribes are always ahead in terms of unison.

It is not as if Obasanjo sincerely believes in Obi buy he does all these out of his long-time feud with Tinubu. Out of all 3 Candidates, of course, the only person he doesn't have a discord with is Obi hence, his support for him.

FreeStuffsNG:
Yes o!!!Bigots and nsobu nsobu mob lule piii

Congrats to my President-Elect Asiwaju Tinubu.
check my signature for free stuffs!

The beauty of it is that as Oga Obi (with all due respect to him) come chop votes from APC for south west, Oga Kwankwaso was there to chopulate Atiku's votes in the North too. So its still very balanced and to the advantage of our daddy Baba Tee!
Kudos to him. My vote no waste but I promise to haunt him if he does not deliver. Na fight to finish .

Wagwanbrethren:
No 🧢. This man is a strategist. He keeps eating the big meat, and leave the bones to the other contestant! 🤣
Una go chop bone tire. Tinubu is your father, no doubt. He deserves the accolade!

Reality is dawning in, and it's obvious that this man is Nigeria's next president.
Your vote your choice. Vote whoever you want!

Nice one! I am certain he will not let us down

tianshie:
Oloriburuku akuse. Sanwa Olu na ma lule lagbara Jesu! E lo photocopy ara yin wa. E ti to.

Oonikuree! Mo lowo ju father e lo. Son of a bastard!!

No cause for Alarm. Sanwo Olu will be back and very comfortable! A ma jade tan ni!
Tinubu is not out of the race yet just because of Lagos competitive results.
All of una eyes go soon clear, when he emerges winner of Presidential elections.
Anybody way go talk ENDSARS will not see the next administration.

MartinCorridon:


Why are some people crying in advance?

They were queueing up to asslick Buhari... calling him a tough General just last week.

EFCC went to Tinubu's polling units... Military tanks rolled into Lagos. Buhari was praised for ensuring a free and fair election.

Little did they know that the tanks were for those trying to destroy Lagos with EndSARS Part 2.

Do anyhow and see anyhow.

"These elections were free and fair". That's what Obi supporters were chanting last week. For once we agree with them.

Didnt you guys ALL agree that the cash shortage and fuel scarcity were targeted at Tinubu? Were you not jubilating? Why are you now crying?

Baddest!

I pray you win! But just winning is not the goal but nation-building. I wish whoever wins can rebuild the country but we are far from it.
May God help us.
I voted my own choice. Let everyone do theirs...

We obviously just deluded. One random error from the INEC is tagged Tinubu's cheating! Na wa....

Nijablast:
Asiwaju is voting now voting

Somehow I admire this man. I know he has his obvious flaws, but he was the one to start the real development of Lagos. Whenever I drive with ease around my area and lots of parts of Lagos, I thank him. He tarred the roads. I don't enter BRT but it is remarkable. He paid for my SSCE - the first set.
I know there will be backlashes from his government if he ever becomes President, just like any other candidate. And just like I have also suffered in Lagos but I die here, cos I was born here.
I remain devouted, loyal...
Will cast my vote in few minutes, I will be here to demand justice if he wins cos there is nothing to celebrate yet.
I will condemn him if he fails.
I had once taken the fight to Alausa before, about 2years ago at the Ministry of Transportation and head office of VIO in Ojodu. After 2weeks of "fighting" and contending with them, I eventually won the case and everything was returned back to me without àny payments. I be wahala person too

Massiveglory:
No shock if pmb vote obi.
The man's actions is clear

All of a sudden, all of Easterners and Obi supporters are in love with Buhari. He is no longer Jibrin from Sudan
How life can quickly flip on anyone!
We are all just deceiving ourselves. Everyone is out to protect his interest and not necessarily the interest of the country.