₦airaland Forum

Babara1994:
Some ladies ehn...that's how rude they are o

So proud and arrogant. Parents have a lot of work to do on their girls.

Men the ritualists and murderers always making daily headlines nko

slydog:
You failed to identify health care. You are one sickness away from death in our comatose health sector.

Few moments ago, I witnessed someone collapsed on the street and 911 was called while on the phone they were telling the caller how to position his body and do CPR while doing cpr fire service came with their medical team and began resuscitation, less than 5 mins later emergency medical service came in. It was my first time witnessing such, what I did was to count the number of paramedics on ground for one person. I counted 7. They had mini versions of a number of medical equipment I don't know which they used to resuscitate him, while they were prepping to put him into the ambulance police arrived to ask some questions.

This was just someone walking on the street. If this happens in Nigeria, that fellow is gone, not only do we have no one to call for emergency medical services, but the fact that all fellow Nigerians will do is to gather round, block fresh air, shout eyah, video you in your dying moments and maybe pray that God accepts you into paradise.

Here, I see people moving and driving with mobile oxygen with hose connected to their noses and still functioning. I've met someone walking with colostrum bags and functioning well, and smoking his crystal meth. The fact that he cant pass shit normally wont even kill him, rather its OD from his crystal meth that'(( kill him. Meanwhile, my mother inlaw almost died of intestinal obstruction.

The fact that life is valued and precious here supercedes all these facts which if I even want to tackle, I'll tackle all.
Your money will not save you when medical emergencies happen and you're told there's either no doc available, or no equipment/outdated equipment, or no power.
Talking about easy to become millionaire, I met a Nigerian real estate Millionaire here in Canada. There are others. Truth is in these societies, you really don't have to be a Millionaire to enjoy the good things of life. I arrived Canada last year, I'm not a Millionaire but I already have carribean boat cruise and vacation to Cacun next year. Racism? Forget that, we have our version in Nigeria in different dimensions.
If you want to stay back in Nigeria, by all means, if you have the means to japa, do it the right way. I even feel coming in as a student is a waste of money, though I realize that's the only option for some, just ensure whichever process you use is legit.

You just arrived in canada...in 7 yrs or less when you realize how grossly anti-social Canada is you will be back in Nigeria....

naptu2:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f65XCfN2Q68?si=1G_g2lDk7LdAbFv4

Tokunbo Wahab

The black man! His own worse enemy....

duduade:
Dismiss them because she's a foreigner abi

Why do are we double standard

So unfair

Most Nigerians have colonized minds....

Dittodat:
You are missing the point. I'm sure there are some decent and ethical Nigerians but they are very few. The fact is that the majority of Nigerians will steal if given the opportunity especially if they think that they can get away with it. Most are stealing even though they know that there's a very good chance of getting caught.
No society is 100 percent corrupt or ethical but you need a vast majority of your people to be ethical to have the kind of institutions like police to be good. If the vast majority are corrupt then you cannot have a good police force and other institutions. It's not the top people that make your society run smoothly, it's the everyday police officer, civil servant, immigration officer, court clerk, petrol attendant, Nurse in the hospital, the Doctors at public hospitals, etc. If these are not ethical and are corrupt, you can have all the laws you want, but it will still be a messed up system. That's just the reality of life.
Compare the average Scandinavian to the average Nigerian or African. And most Scandinavians are not rich by the way but they are usually satisfied with what they have.

Very well said! And someone actually disliked your comment. These Nigerians have a long way to go.

porka:
There is no underlying anything. That's the way blacks are wired.

That is the most convenient way to avoid life's responsibility.

Give him one million chances in life is will end up the same way.

Did you not read him saying that the RCCG people too got fed up?

He started a programme in Unilag in the 1980s, he abandoned it for a greener pasture (a security guard).

Many Africans or blacks do not live for any meaningful purpose in life.

They just live to 'enjoy' life without even knowing what enjoyment mean.

Oh, my friends are traveling abroad, let me leave my work and travel too.

Ahhhh, my friend's misfortune is not my portion...

Most blacks around the world hardly take a thought of anything before they commit their lives and resources into it.

Black people are not guided by sense and thorough analysis but impulse and emotions.

We never take a stock of what would happen if we took this or that decision. What can possibly go wrong?
What would I do if my permutations fall off the mark? How quickly can I make those adjustments? What resources do I have?
What is the exit strategy? What are the social networks to help me cushion the impact? How long could this adventure take?
What is even the essence of it?

It happens till this day.

Just imagine people not bothering about handing 4 years of their entire lives to useless politicians and making projections for another 4 years to be similarly wasted.

For blacks, time, purpose, legacy, responsibility and critical thinking are not high stakes.

A typical black person's life revolves around food, partying, human and object worship, debauchery, vain glory, wild hysteria and shifting responsibility to some gods.

The man was going to Japan for business (if true) but he couldn't care what might happen during business down time.

He was just satisfied with being the 'only successful' black man in the white dominated county.

Just one Italian or Indian would achieve the same feat and the whole place will be filled with Italians or Indians so that they have a social security system and buffer against hard time.

Not Africans. Not blacks. The black man doesn't understand such concept.

All the time he was sponsoring his nephew through school, his own child was going through hard times.

He doesn't even know where the other children are in America.

It's not a race thing....there are such people in every race....

BloomingDale:
Christians and Low IQ is like bread and butter. Israel wants the gas and oil off the coast of Gaza which belongs to the Palestinian people, hence the genocide and here you are shouting god of Israel.

I've often wondered myself why Christianity relies on theats to make people be in line and act contrary to reason....

Concerning Israel I think religion should be removed out of it and if Israel has committed crimes in Gaza, they should bear responsibility for it. And vice versa....

GuruboiNaija:
https://.ng/2023/12/15/akpabio-in-gods-will-for-me-ill-succeed-with-him-tinubu/

This Tinubu guy has understood Nigerians well and is now playing to their religious sentiments.....

First the victims of airforce bombing in Kaduna he told them its God's will and now too he is saying this one is God's will....

Always announcing plans....

hammerFC:
U SEE, THAT IS HOW LOST AND CLUELESS U ARE.


U CALL ISRAEL CHRISTIANS.


U WILL SO GET YOUR ASS BEATS.


U NEVER SABI WHERE U DEY.


THIS IS NOT POOR VILLAGE WOMEN U RAPE AND BABIES U KILL IN NIGERIA OR DEBORAH.


YOUR DEAD BODIES WILL BE SO GREAT, THAT BIRDS FROM ALL OVER THE WORLD WILL HAVE TO GATHER TO FEAST ON IT.

Shut up....birds are already feasting on dead bodies from ur family

hammerFC:
U INVITING YOUR OWN DEATH.

No you are inviting your own death through your stupidity.

Your death is imminent....better go and repent of your sin of worshipping Israel instead of worshipping God.

hammerFC:
ISRAEL WILL NOT PAY FOR ANYTHING.


GAZA WILL BE DESTROYED COMPLETELY.


RALLY YOUR BEST MEN, GO TO ISRAEL, IT WILL BE YOUR GRAVE SITE.

The God of Israel Himself will punish Israel for its colonial crimes in Gaza....Palestinians are God's creature just as much as Israelis....

CrownLands:
That means, God "fights" those who contend against His Chosen.

So if am Israeli man rapes an underage girl just keep quiet cos you can't speak against God's chosen right.

Hamas will pay for its crimes in Israel. Israel will pay for its crime in Gaza preferably let their punishment come directly from their God.

hammerFC:
LET ME BREAK IT TO YOU.


U SEE THAT LAND?


IT IS ISLAMIC LAST BUS STOP.


THE BIBLE MAKES IT CLEAR THAT WHEN ALL ELSE FAILS, GOD HIMSELF WILL FIGHT FOR ISRAEL.


FORGET YOUR CHRISTIAN TALK, THEY ARE NOT CHRISTIANS.

Which people are not Christians?

CrownLands:
Don't speak ill of the chosen people.

You can speak ill of the chosen people if there are concerns their actions don't align with the commandments of their God..fear God not men....

Urheadmaster:
Those that are attacking Israel for defending themselves against HAMAS the terrorists groups of murderers should continue doing so in their own perils.

The same fate awaits them

Israel is trying to colonize Palestine...most that something the Christian God would encourage....being Israel is not enough and doesn't make them untouchable....the key question is is what they are doing trying to colonize others pleasing in God's sight?

franchasofficia:
Easier said than done.


Or let me say, easier typed as a comment than put into practice



Women should enjoy their life well well while single cos that is their best time in life while men's best time starts from 35yrs above and ag this age most men are financially buoyant and married, and they must recover what they lost when young while the ladies were enjoying all manner of male attention and pampering lol




Childbirth changes women. She might still look beautiful outside with nice clothes, fashion sense and body packaging, but only Oga knows that the value is no longer the same like before no matter how hard Madam tries to package after childbirth lolz

You forgot to mention something....most girls already have had their fun before deciding to get married while the man was either doing born again or was working too hard (even though some guys had their fun too sha)....so it's unfair to tell the man to stick to one woman who has had her fun who you are not her first...why shouldn't the guy hv his fun too??

ruggedtimi:
Lots of kidnapping on the highway. Only last week sunday/saturday abut three reported cases along eastwest in port hacourt

Why don't we hear of female kidnappers who shoot dead Men are the problem of this world!

iwaeda:
https://punchng.com/gunmen-kill-one-kidnap-seven-on-lagos-ibadan-highway/

The world would be a much better place with fewer men...men always causing problems up and down..

Kelvin30286063:
On Wednesday 6th of December, I was driving my family from Ondo to Akure to launch a new business.

We plan to start the event at 12 and it was already past 11am so I was rushing. Along Akure road, I saw this three police convoy going in front but they were not very fast.

I have a really fast car so I was like, I should overtake them and be on my way, I flashed the last pickup with about 3 policemen at the back but they didn't make any reaction and didn't gesture for me to go.

The road ahead of us was long and free, no incoming vehicles so I saw it as an opportunity.

After flashing twice again and no response, I decided to overtake all three pickup vehicles quickly so I switched to sport mode and decided to use my pedal shifter to go faster.

As soon as I revved and started overtaking them, they went crazy and started driving zig-zag on the road leaving me absolutely no room to go.

At the end they ran me into the nearly bush and parked me off. One of them decided to use their vehicles to intentionally brush my car while parking me off the road. They all came down, almost 20 of them and started shooting in the air.

They started shouting come down from this car! Hitting my car everywhere with fist and hitting my glass with the tail of their guns. Somehow my window didn't break even after they hit them 5 or 6 times. (Respect to Acura on that)

One of them pointed his gun at my vehicle and was about to shoot. I roll down my glass and started begging them.

My wife was sitting in front with me and my 2 year old daughter was sitting at the back in the hand of a friend we took along with us to act as MC for the occasion.

My wife quickly collected my daughter from the guy and held her to her chest cos she was already panicking and crying.

I think that was what saved our live cos as soon as they saw my daughter, somehow they calm down a little and started trying to drag me out of the car.

I vehemently refused to go down cos I know I will be beaten or even shot. After a few minutes of acting upset, shooting in the air, one of them that was fat and looks like their leader came down from the middle van.

That was the first time I noticed that the middle van was actually covered at the back which means they may be carrying something. They didn't use a bullion van so there was no indication that they were moving money and they didn't use siren either.

Long story short, the big guy that looked like the boss came to me and said why did I overtake them.

I explained that we were in a hurry and I flashed a few times before I attempted to overtake them and I also saw that the road was clear.

He looked at me, looked at my wife, looked at my crying daughter and looked at the guy at the back then asked me to come down that nothing will happen to me, I took my company's ID card and my guy at the back and I came down.

He checked the ID and said don't do that again. The others were shouting he must follow us to the station bla bla bla but he was calm.

Eventually they let us go.

They damaged the bumper of my vehicle in the process.

I know I was in the wrong by overtaking them without anyone gesturing that I can go but seriously, WHAT IS THE RULE TO THAT?
Especially on highway, with a wider road and not within the city.

I had to apologise to my family later cos I know it was a traumatic experience for them and I accepted my fault but I'm still confused on how I was wrong. The road was straight, long, clear of incoming vehicles and I flashed and horned.

Are we expected to follow convoy from wherever we see them to where ever they are going even if they are driving at 80km per hr?

Don't you know that the black man is sick and power drunk naturally?

Mentholated:
Marriage is an outdated tradition abroad. Totally unnecessary. Humans naturally get tired of one another but cling on each other for survival. Once you exit survival mode, you will naturally want to have more freedom to explore life. Once you are in a non- judgemental society, the rest is history.

I believe that marriage in its traditional form is outdated and needs to be reformed....one of hose reforms is that it should be made normal for women to bring money to run the house.....this is partly because they are more loyal to their feelings than to your sacrifices....even after bearing all the financial burdens, she could wake up one day, with changed feelings towards you and leave you....

sukkot:
So guys we need to understand that women are drawn to protectors and alpha and strong men. It is how they are wired.

Something happens to a Nigerian man when he gets abroad and the women notice it. The man gets emasculated by society.

He goes from being a strong figure of authority in Africa to an unwanted disrespected black man in the west.

Even a 17 year old white boy on the job can almost slap that 40 year old naija man on the job and he will be shaking and calling the 17 year old boy, Sir.

The man is emasculated by society. Goes from being an alpha dog in naija to a puppy in the west.

Our women sense these things and to a woman if you are not an alpha dog you are just useless.

You start emptying the trash and making breakfast and washing dishes now as the man. Jobs that you used to hire maids to do for you in naija.

Not only can a 17 year old white boy disrespect you on the job but you are now a dishwasher at home. You have no value in society.

Anywhere you turn up you are not celebrated but tolerated.

After a while the woman starts to see that this guy is truly worthless to me, why do I need to coexist with this emasculated societal reject ?

I am better off by myself and I can get a better job than him here as a nurse.

He has become a burden to me.

This is why most women chase their husbands away from home after they both relocate abroad

The reason women leave men after they go abroad is because marriage is not necessary abroad....the woman is given money by government, the police are responsive, what do you need marriage for??

989900:
That struck-through part has little or nothing to do with it.

I've had the privilege of visiting a few African countries, and over the past 20 something years, the privilege of interacting, working, befriending/unfriending, almost all the over 50 nationals of Africa, either in Africa or out of it.

My verdict: There are smart people all over Africa, and dumb people as well.

On the average, Nigerians are generally more exposed/informed than most other Africans; above all, Nigerians are more daring, brave, courageous, and confrontational.

Ask people who went to Libya in the 90s, they will tell you Libyan policemen have a saying: one Nigerian is equal to 10 other Africans (in everything, from good to bad).

Being confrontational is savage and barbaric.

Hanndye:
It's the way to go. Housing is a business, there you be no privilege to tenants to take landlords for a ride. The issue of tenants locking up apartments and disappearing into thin air should also be looked into. Methinks there should be a limited length of time that tenants can do that.

This is a welcome sudden awakening.

While the apartment was locked up has rent not been paid?? Why are you trying to control someone else life? The black man is cursed

Akaegwu:
Property agents in Lagos contribute 80 percent of the disputes. They are simply wicked

How??

BennyDGreat:
Monthly rent won't work in Nigeria.
A lot of people are too difficult and dishonest.
It will create so much problems the government will not be able to handle.

Doesn't this show how savage the black man is??

Righteousness2:
One thing many do under Stand today is that the Greatness of America all these years has been because of its relationship with ISRAEL.
America became a super power because of founding fathers deep relationship with ISRAEL.

The relationship with ISRAEL will also be a major cause of her fall.
I know the present America leadership will soon turn its back on Israel as Nomerica today has turns its back on God.

You will just open your mouth and be talking nonsense. America itself was founded on injustice, killing of native americans. The actions of Isreal must be consistent with the teachings of the bible.... this conflict had been solved long ago - East Jerusalem and West Jerusalem would solve the problem according to UN solution.

chazon:
Am in my 30’s, My wife and I have been living in separate locations about 4yrs now. With intermittent visits 3-4months intervals.
Few days back wen she visited, I exchanged one of my new fones with her so while I was checking out the fone so I could delete some stuff and familiarize with the fone(her previous fone ,now mine)I casually stumbled into her FB & WhatsApp and saw sex chats with different men including her ex. This will be first ever I would be checking her SM, calls, SMS or whatsoever.
When I confronted her with these evidences, she rather than apologize to me, began guilt tripping me with how she’s been ignoring my own philandering (but no evidence, she’s just basing them on speculations).
She dragged the fone in a bid to snatch it from me at the Mall in public.
I told her point blank how disappointed & angry I am and am separating from her.
I arranged for for logistics to take her to our house in the town she stays.
She’s called my dad. I have no idea what she’s told them, but I got evidences.
We do not yet have a child together.

Did I overreact??
How do I deal with this situation
Mature advices will be appreciated from experienced people

Nobody is anyone's exclusive property... this is what ive come to realize ooooo.

finallybusy:
Japa gone wrong. Black monkeys will always abuse a system in place. No wonder the UK government banned health workers from bringing family members over. The man has ended his life. I wish the children the best.

Na you and ur papa be monkeys who lick the ass of the British Island savages aka white monkeys....

ednut1:
female gender mutilation is an heritage in many African societies. Child marriage too. Are you in support of , After-all its heritage

Oh ye colonially brainwashed soul....female mutilation also occurs in Europe....and child marriage too...western Europeans are savages....

Discountsempai:
Nurse thought she was in Nigeria where praying for patient is met with gratitude well well.

Again, the problem with Nigerians japaing is that they take no time to find out about the culture of the country they go to.

The UK, ladies and gentlemen, is a post religious society. That means a large percentage of the population is either atheist or agnostic. They don't do prayers. As a Christian,your job is to pray for them in the privacy of your house. Not to place your hands on them.

But Nigerians are so focused on the money that they do nt focus on the things like culture and so forth. UK ,people ,no be Nigeria.


Am sure she will come home and give testimonies about how she was persecuted for her faith. She was not..she was just plain unwise.

Next time, pray in private. If you must pray directly seek consent first. UK is not a Christian country. Has not been since the colonial times self.

Good post. What Britain spread around the world was freemasonry not Christianity. It's more probable that Christianity came to Nigeria thru Egypt and Ethiopia - both mentioned in the Bible than thru the hungry British island savages