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Hiploko:
Dear Nairalanders,

Please what is your advice for a planned marriage with scenario stated below

1. 12 years age difference (Man 38, Lady 25)
2. Man works with about 100k salary and Lady a 200 level student
3. Both seem to believe in each other
4. Both on the "short" side of height
5. Have known each other for one month
6. The man's mum is worried about the height issue and desires a taller lady
7. Both attend the same church

The responses will be appreciated....

1. Well, 12 years isn't so bad but it would have been better if shorter. To ensure there is lil generational gap. Imagine marrying someone who is a die hard fan of nokia and believes they are still the best and u, a newer generation and lover of Samsung/Android? U feel me (Note: i'm 7 years older than my wife )
2. 100k isn't bad to start with but where I have problem is the issue of the lady being a 200 level student: Will u still love him by the time you are done with your programme in school? Will he still appeal to u?
3. That's a good one as long as you are sure of it.
4. Em em ... short as in? 3.5ft? Or shorter? Or you are both .....
5. Are u kidding me? Eskiss ma, allow the relationship to grow before you get worried o! One month is a bit short to just decide and dive into marriage.
6. That should also get u worried. You need the mum on your side for peace sake but nothing is impossible.
7. I don't give a f****k if u attend same school. Attending same church is not a guarantee for a successful marriage.


I'll advise u finish your school and don't be in a hurry to "get ownership for a mr.dee".

kennedith9:
Especially if she shows no remorse about it.

It's pretty easy na:

Ensure she does HSG at a good hospital.

Meanwhile u sef must do sperm culture to be sure dem never use your something something do � glorious evil

I have 640gb Hdd that came with my hp dm4 USA specs and works great.

I'm selling cos I use SSD now.

10k only if interested

famousbowale:
Hello guyz, sorry for been the first to comment on my own post.

I'm currently planning for my wedding towards March next year. My self and my wife to be are trying to keep it as simple as possible, if possible just for family members and friends of about 250.
Believe it before I could say jack our budget is already hitting #3.2 million.

The post above was share by a Nigerian base abroad, this made me begin to wonder if it is necessary to even wed at all?
Why spend our hard earned money on wedding of a day?
That money can get us a land or start a little business.
Just thinking

Ogbeni, carry your wife go registry joor.

U won't even spend N100k.

Then do traditional just to fulfil cultural righteousness. U spend max 300k but you must learn to behave like someone wey smoke the wrong weed and adulterated cocaine or else, your inlaws will put you in to serious financial mess, which you might never recover.

3.2 Million for kini? Nonsense.

See if u have that kind of money, go and build a house and if u have already built, buy yourself a good car. And if u have that already, omo, put am for your business.

Don't spend more than N500k cos anything can happen tomorrow. What if she divorces u?

Gboy101:
to be frank, 25k can't last me for 2 weeks with management. so how come family men are living on that?

Bros, u fall my hand.

What is 25k? How can that last u 2 weeks?

U no go chop or u no go leave your house go work?

Pls don't even say that again o!

Se, if dem dey give u 15 Million every month like the senators, your pocket go reject am?

Please, lets all aim higher o!

That 25k na just 1 month data subscription and credit calls e be o

Earthbound:
I am of the opinion that a man must try to be as honest as possible to his wife, but she does not need to know EVERYTHING. Right?

Being honest and telling her everything are 2 different things.

Take for instance, you work with a security agency like, lets say D.S.S. and somehow, a top information got to u about an assassination attempt on some high profile personality and you need to do some underground works to stop such occurrence, you will tell her? In the name of being honest?

He.ll bleeping No bro! You are not under any obligation to tell her.

And that don't mean you are not being honest with her but she just has to stay on a "no need to know" basis.

You can be dishonest and still share everything with your wife and vice versa.

Very impressive!

Zoharariel:
I have said this a couple of times that unless Russia puts Israel in her place, Russian servicemen in Syria will continue to be killed like cockroaches.

There is a lot more going on beneath the surface than first meets the eye. Putin's relations with Netanyahu blurs the boundaries & greys the narrative. The fact that Putin is saying it “looks accidental” doesn’t ring true …it looks anything other than accidental.

While it is true that one of the reasons these provocations are happening is that Russia is winning in Syria, militarily & politically but unless Putin is ready to damn the consequences, nothing will change.

Russia must declare a no fly zone over Syria – anyone entering to bomb must be at the mercy of the S400. Otherwise this will continue and if Amerika gets Syria, Iran will be next and then WW3 - Armageddon.

Israeli plane apparently passed just in front of the plane, The Syrian Arab Army got a lock, Israeli doglegged & left, missile lost lock & chose the biggest target…..our plane. Israel violated protocol, called one minute before the attack, not enough time for our bird to get out of the way.

The SA-5 (S-200) is an old system from the 60’s which uses a semi active radar homing missile and how it works is quite simple.

When the ground system detects a target, it illuminates the target with it’s radar like a torch and launches the missile.

The missile then follows the radar reflection from the target until it gets close enough to detonate, goes bang, shoots plane down.

However the beam from the radar "torch" can be quite wide (miles wide), F-16’s are quite small, IL-20’s quite big.. and the missile itself is pretty dumb.

As such, by hiding behind the larger aircraft, the smaller aircraft can almost guarantee an incoming missile will prioritise the large aircraft reflection & kill that instead.

It doesn’t actually matter if the missile was launched against the smaller target in the first instance or if the Identification, friend or foe (IFF) comes into play. The missile itself is too dumb to care. It just goes for the largest thing it can see.

The ball is in Putin's court!

The bolded got me laughing hard.

You are very correct bro. Most missiles are dumb and i doubt if there's a failsafe mechanism to call back the missile/make it self detonate without hitting the target or that would have been done

Kingsdave:
I pray so...... Cos I can't wait to be normal..... Low self esteem

Raise your shoulders bro! Don't feel low, ok? You will be fine

Kingsdave:
I have done STD /STI test in 3 different hospital.
... Yielded. No bacterial growth

Bro, you are good to go.

You will definitely overcome the erection thing jare!

Relax bro

Kingsdave:
I have stopped working there for over a year plus

Ohh really?

I'm sorry to say this but please, try check up on your urine. I mean, take a urine test to know if you don't have any infection, most especially, staphylococcus or something else.

As harmless at staph is, its a silent destroyer.

One can't be too sure, you know

Kingsdave:
Thanks bro when I worked at the bakery I use to stand for 7 hours without sitting

Ohh ok.

Just try to take enough rest everyday so your body can have time to recover and please, stop getting worried.

I'm sure your erection will come back when ur mind isn't on it.

nwaobitex:
Naso den go just dey minus N50 from my account everyday. I decided to send amadioha on them. They now reduced to N10 everyday.

They will say my subscription to parental services has been renewed. Dial *902# to stop(I dunno if it's spirit that subscribed that one coz nobody touches my phone)

So I dialed the code to stop but they say I don't have any active subscription. It's been going on for the past week now

Honsule
Mynd44
Seun
Lalasticlala

Disgrace them on twitter. They hate that and would do normal sharply.

They did same thing to me until i fired them! Kia kia, they stopped whatever nonsense service that was deducting my money

Kingsdave:
Yes..... I noticed that my erection doesn't last when I tried having sex.... But I think my problem started when I stopped having morning erection...... Which multivitamins should I be taking

Don't worry. Its not everybody that has morning erection everyday. And that doesn't necessarily mean there is a problem.

But not lasting when u tried to have sex is a pointer to the fact that probably you should pay more attention to your health than u "john-thomas".

U can dry daravit multivitamin or any other one but ensure it has zinc and ginseng by checking the components.

And sometimes, you just need to rest very well. It could be that your body is over-stressed.

And please note that our bodies are different. For instance, I'm into media production it involves sitting for longs hours and sometimes, standing for long hours and other times, super-stressing your brain when editing/producing motion graphics BUT that doesn't stop me from having erections, ok?

Study your body and know what works for you bro!

Once more, keep away from enhancers oooo! I mean stuffs like pasuma power, etc, they do more damage than good. And at the end of the day, does not address the key problem.

Cheers bro! Awaiting good news from you.

Kingsdave:
Erectile worries
I'm having issues with my erection, no morning wood only ones in a while... I have gone to the hospital ran tests ranging from blood sugar, cholesterol, testosterone and other hormones all appeared normal no infection was detected.... blood count was also done it was normal...... I can't maintain an erection more than 2 minutes, I don't masturbate at all.... don't take anything sugary right from time cos my parents were strict about sugars... I take Pap with honey no sugar..... I use Lipton for my tea instead of Milo. the doctor I met at FMC prescribed Ginklat for me for 20 days...... I took it before 12 days my libido increased and I was having erection almost at will but after the 20 days..... some days later my erection started dwindling again and I'm not around to go back to FMC cos I travelled...... I'm so sick and tired of this.......... I don't really know what caused this....i have been thinking and started suspecting if it was caused by my past job cos I worked in a bakery, I was in charge of the oven..... I'm so frustrated..... please I need your contributions

The issue is not with your body but your mind.

You are probably disturbed consciously or unconsciously.

Did u try to have sex? If yes and that's when u discovered ur erections don't last more than 2mins, then u should pay more attention to your health and mind.

Using enhancers won't solve the problem but would profer a temporary fix: you would suddenly become a super man for that moment. After which the problem will return.

Just take a note of the following (talking from personal/friend's experience):

1. Malaria/Typhoid: If u have any of those, you might have trouble having or sustaining
2. Sleep: If you are not getting enough rest/sleep, that could be a problem. Sometimes, we just close our eyes without sleeping and the two are not the same.
3. Mind: If your mind is troubled, it will tell on your body

While fixing the above mentioned stuffs, ensure you are eating healthy and balanced diet.

Multivitamins with zinc will also help.

Whats the price of the Camera and Lenses "Only", please? Thanks

omotolsy:
500GB HDDs - N8,000

128GB SSD - N5, 000

4GB DDR3 - N6, 000

Call 07030771728

Can u give the full specs of the ssd? I can see its PNY.

And how low can u go with the price?

I have 180gb intel i'm using in my hp laptop running windows and 128gb samsung in my mac but i just need an extra for experimental purpose only so, holla back price wise.

Thanks

Lucasbalo:
My friend Mr Libya, don't give yourself a BP over Pootin who doesn't give a fvck about you.

I'm glad someone is also seeing things from my angle.

Most guys think russia and china gives a Bleep about us but they are all mistaken.

I hope y'all heard what china is doing in kenya and other african nations that default their loan payment?

Contumely:
Free is 15gb naa?

Yes of course, the free version of google drive is 15gb but unfortunately, 15gb isn't much and it can get filled up easily in no time

Contumely:
My friend's system crashed two weeks ago and he lost all files including his scholarship proposals, several articles etc.

I tried updating my whatsapp yesterday and had to clear some space owing to ""...free up some space to continue... "error message.

It dawned on me that I have very valuable pictures and documents on my phone which I almost deleted or which may be lost forever should I lose my phone hence the need to have an online storage.

So my people, what's the best online storage for files especially documents and pictures.

Just buy google drive 100gb space. Its just N390 per month or if you prefer yearly payment, its just N3,900.

tayooluwole:
i raised a thread here days ago about how my girl friend of almost two years started avoiding me (https://www.nairaland.com/4714794/regret-loyalty-girl-friend-crying ). She has changed her phone number. To cut it short, she has finally reunited with her immediate ex before me. But at first, she was claiming that her parents suddenly don't suppprt our relationship due to my home. We are from the same Osun State but different towns. I found this excuse so flimsy, so I decided to carry out research on what actually happened by secretly perusing her phone. This is when I discovered that she and her ex are now back together... Even she was busy fucking her ex while I was still sending her money...Sometimes she will demand money from me to go visit her ex. I confronted her with the fact I got, she could not deny further but only to beg me that I should just take her as my younger sister and we should forget about the past. I so much love this girl that i find other ladies disgusting as far as relationship is concerned. As i am, i am depresesd, I am rushing back to Lag tommorow to nurse the wound, cos as long as I remain in town, there is no way I will be coordinated... Woman finally got me and break my heart for the first time... I don't think I can ever love again in my life... I learnt my lesson in a bitter way. I learnt this her ex is married already oooo....but her motive behind re-uniting with him is what i don't know. THIS is a girl that we have been together for almost 2 years. Cos of little distance everything started changing. She even aborted for me 3 times on her own demand that she is still in school. Based on my experience with her, I never still beleive what is happening... All in all, lesson learnt, I don't think any lady deserve geniue love except the one you legally marry..

U will still love again bro, ok?

Everyone has had their own share of heart breaks and yours is not gonna end the world.

You just gonna change your shock absorbers from chinese to German or American so nothing anyone does will surprise you.

Go grab a bottle of cold malt and well peppered grilled chicken and enjoy your day jare!

By the way, karma is a superwoman and always gets her job done perfectly!

allytinted:
Can you please throw more light on the airtel 3gig for 1000 plan or probably give the code. Thanks

Dial *144# on airtel, you get the double data menu with: N300 for 750mb, N500 for 1.5gb and N1000 for 3gb.

But its not for every sim but I found a lil hack.

Just buy a brand new sim, migrate to smart trybe using *312#, once you've migrated, dial *144# and automatically, u are eligible.

I've confirmed this on two brand new airtel sims. Though the double data promo will last 6months according to airtel

As per this oga mtn, i'm going to try it out asap!

Hello guys.

Please, is there a way to pay for google drive upgrade plans?

All banks have been blocking every card in the name of DCC: Direct Currency Conversion laws which prohibits them from allowing transactions involving buying online.

Don't even mention gtbank cos that's my main card.

Any suggestion is welcome.

Thanks

ifyalways:
Amebo who asked u?

If he actually has a wife somewhere and needs the injection, he would at the very least know the name . He was online by 8am and saw my question so it's strange he didn't reply.

Are u the alternate moniker or just new to NLD? happy weekend, either ways.

God siddon. Atleast, u now know the meaning. Olodo nairaland

ifyalways:
You keep cash at home ? What is anti rouga injection ?

He meant anti rhogam injection and RhoGAM (rhod immune globulin human) is a sterilized solution made from human blood used to prevent an immune response to Rh positive blood in people with an Rh negative blood type. RhoGAM may also be used in the treatment of immune thrombocytopenic purpura (ITP).

Sadgirl1281:
I can’t believe I just laughed for the first time since at your last sentence lol

But thank you for for these. Would go with this logic to help me through.

I was surprised when he said I sounded remorseful. The annoying part though was he had actually called my poor father in Nigeria as if everything wasn’t enough to tell my dad how he wasn’t still back home but I am sounding remorseful and just wants to be assured we wouldn’t fight again blah blah... I was like gush why would he have to call my dad again?

Its good laugh away our issues, don't you think? And yes, laughter is good for the soul.

Why did he call your father? To report his own daughter? Abegi! See, he has realised he went too far and is losing both the battle and the war together so chillax jare. He will soon show face.

And please, ignore all the drama. We men and our silly ego.

Like i recommended, chicken and chips with a cold bottle of red wine will keep you calm till he comes knocking.

And u can ask him this sef, prior to his arrival: "Darling, what do you want me to prepare for you when you're coming? Your favourite, right?". Prepare a hot steaming delicious meal.

See, every man likes food and matters of "za oza room". After that, u no get problem jare.

I'm awaiting your testimonies

Sadgirl1281:
Yeah but that’s going to be the very hard part not just him coming home. It is not just going to be easy recovering and being amongst his people. Remember I am the woman here, married into his own family in which all of them are even located here so any family function or activities, I would have to be or mostly there so I can’t really escape. Would I be frowning when I get there or what? It’s hard.

Also I’m not an introvert, the difference is just I’m not in my comfort zone. I just moved here after getting married, family isn’t here, have t started working so a whole lot to settle in here.

We spoke again today and he said he’s now convinced that I am truly remorseful and all that.. that it is now his own part to get past the hurt, that aside the pushing, the fact I insulted him back by saying at his old age, he didn’t marry early or that’s why he didn’t marry early which was a response to the hurtful words he said he said to me. He said that even though he said hurtful words to me, should I have responded?

The only part I may need help or let me not say help but God should help me is just the after,ath. Facing everyone.

My dear sister, are you telling me, if you were single and you were offered a job in say UK where you don't know anyone, you now have a quarrel with your boss, you will start feeling somehow cos you are not in your comfort zone? What is that? See, I won't agree with you on that. Learn to be confident always, ok? Your daughters/sons will need you to help them with their personal confidence and if you, that they look up to has confidence issues, how will you help them? Be confident, no matter what, ok?

Ohh, So he's convinced you are remorseful, ehn? How did he get to know that? Your hubby should join Odunlade Adekola to act comedy. He has come to his senses lil by lil and instead of apologizing, he is simply using scope to want to come back home. Anyway, I'm glad he is coming around.

See, that aspect of facing his family, not being able to look them in the face etc is bullshit! Its only in your mind and a popular preacher once said something and I'll tell you: "If you can kill it in your mind, you can kill it in your life".

Its just a damn feeling and you just have to kill it to be able to move forward and to the next level.

Confidence and wisdom are 2 keys things you need. Every other thing is secondary in this case.

You've really not done anything waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay out of this world. We've seen some women stab their husbands right in the head and nothing happened. They are still happily married and doing fine.

Stop feeling bad jare and go get yourself some chicken and chips with cold bottle of red wine. Everything will work out, ok?

Sadgirl1281:
That’s the other part killing me and eating my soul, that even after we make up, how and which face would I be using to be visiting his family members? Am I going to ever be comfortable and it is a forever thing now.

As much as I tell myself to ignore and just let him be, all eyes are on me which makes it difficult. The other time the Mum called me, she said I had not called my husband when I didn’t see him home, she was like wow, did I just stay comfortable so I had to explain to her I did call but he didn’t pick, the first time he moved out of the house.

Secondly he had said when we spoke, that if I feel ignoring him and letting him would mend things that I am wrong.. That I have to prove to him and show him why he should come back home.

You have to learn to live irrespective of what people think/say about you.

And don't allow this lil things to eat you up. You sound like an introvert. You know, someone extremely introverted and that's probably your weakness which your hubby is capitalizing on.

Even if you didn't have a fight with your hubby, your inlaws might still work against you. Its one of those things.

Your hubby and mother inlaw are playing a game and you have to learn to be a grandmaster.

She knows it is not right for your husband/her son to pack out of the house and instead of correcting that, they are simply making you feel bad for everything.

You are a couple and its just 2 of you or did you get married to more than one man on your wedding day? Or married to his fam?

See, keep your fingers crossed and let everyone run their mouth. After a while, they will get so busy fighting their own demons that won't even have time for you.

As per your hubby saying you have to work to make him come back home, he is seriously sleeping on okada if that's what he is waiting for.

Next time he tells you that, ask him politely "what exactly do you want me to work on so you can come back?" "Pls tell me cos i'm willing to work so you can come back".

I'm sure he will dodge the question.

Relax jare. He is simply a spoilt kid who grew up being begged even when he did something wrong.

My aunt got married to such man who ended up killing her in 2014. He died too 2017 and guess what? Left their untrained children doing as they like.

Don't end up that way ok? Don't let these things eat your soul and cause you to be depressed.

Sadgirl1281:
Good day everyone,

I feel all alone and not heard, more like the whole world against me, hence me coming on here to see th best way I could seek any advice.

I’ll do my best to be very brief and concise and go straight to the point.

You have a good job, independent and everything, you meet the love of your life, boom date and get married and travel out of the country to start your lives. Of course you would resign and leave your comfort zone. In other words that’s what I did of course and traveled.

As I said to go straight to the point. Got married early this year and as usual the first year marriage woes, arguments and misunderstandings but nothing out of the extra ordinary.

Hubby and I had a misunderstanding this faithful day and while he’s not violent, He knows how to spit venom from his mouth. His words would pierce your soul or any deeper than his soul. Words were exchanged on both sides and he said things I had told him in confidence, my weakness and threw it on me and I reacted physically by pushing him. We didn’t talk for 2 days and and then the next day he left the house in the morning.. I went out hours later only for my dad to call me in the night from Nigeria to mention my husband had called him and told him everything how I pushed him, he’s left the house to go somewhere etc... And not only that he told all his family members. I felt so hurt being that I do not have anyone here and because he has his own family.

Issue now is we have talked including our parents etc. but he said he’s not going to come back to the house now until I assure him and work for it. I have to prove to him why he should come back home.

I would like to ask for suggestions, while aim very hurt and in shame, I can’t express it as my pushing has overshadowed everything. He even told his folks our other petty fights and the words I’ve said to him etc They have said I am the woman and the one who did the violence so I have no choice.

This is the best I could summarize so I left a whole lot of details but what am I supposed to do to make him come back home?

Hmmmm.... its very normal for couples to run into arguments/quarrels etc BUT the concept of maturity must never be left out of the equation.

And yes, you pushed him, so what? Did he bang his head on sharp knife? What about the emotional/verbal abuse he spewed out of his mouth? That's provocation if you ask me and please don't even think I'm trying to give excuses for you but I want you to see things from an outsider point of view.

I am happily married and yes, myself and my wife do have heated arguments. She gets me mad and sometimes I shout but trust me, once those seconds are over, I make sure we pray together; get up early and help her heat up water for her bath, etc.

But the aspect of him reporting you to either his/your family is a f.ucking no no! When u guys wanted to get intimate back then, did he ask for permission from his/your mum? So why in heavens name would he do that?

Cos even when the matter dies down in yours/his heart/mind, trust me, it will never be forgotten by those he told.

Your husband made a terrible mistake and I can confidently say he is not mature one bit.

And to make matters worse, he moved out of the house?? Ohh lawd! Where did you get involved with a child?

See, i'm not gonna feed u any depressants or pet you cos chloroquine tastes bitter but cures malaria; hence, i'll tell u the bitter truth:

Leave Him Alone! He needs to grow his tail.

See, I have a lady who happens to be an inlaw to me and also, married to someone like your husband. He has also packed out of the house and left the wife alone. This is to tell you this stuff isn't new to me.

He needs to be left alone to grow his tail so allow him to spend as much time as he can. You are the one who is in love with him and he isn't reciprocating the love you have for him.

Find something doing to keep your mind busy.

You have apologized and done all you can. What else does he want? Biko, live your life, ok? I may sound hard but trust me, some people won't get their grind until nobody pets them.

paste007:
I tried rendering it which took about 8 hours but it didn't come out well, someone Pls help

Hey bro, what does the stuff you are rendering entail?

Maybe if u can post a screen shot then I can try to help you render.

By the way whats your computer specs? And what do u mean by "it didn't come out well"?