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U must hv exhibited d maga traits for her to muster up such liver. I don tire for these girls sef. No shame at all. Money for hair in d first week? By end of d first month na to bail o...

Well, I'm sure she'd give u some credit for even asking her to come. She probably thot u'd just ask for her account number and wire d cash like d usual ewu guys are

But maybe some of em aint to blame when we be blasting 'she must chop my money' in d car

Heymus: calling these romantic?

No. I like d meanings behind d names. How does a name sound romantic? Talk abt hw sexy a physique is. Dat'll sound a bit more meaningful

"What Is The Physique You Find More ssexy When You See" is more like it

I don't knw abt romantic, but I like these meanings Ogomegbunam, nwaezemefuna, ota o ba yo mi oluwa ni o je

Ur idea might hv worked elsewhere but certainly nt in nigeria. and definitely not on NL jz!

A man likes the chase.  A man values most what he works hardest for.  You are the prize and a prize is not easy.  Men work for the woman they view as the prize

Whoever tells u men like chasing a girl who's busy playing hard to get?

A girl's playing hard to get = wasting my valuable time. on my own resources? Time, money, efforts and I continue to persist? For what? Does hard to get guarantee me of cheat-free relationship? Or her punny turn my 'long beast' into a diamond cane? Nonsense!

Well, we'll see abt dat when she's 28 tho

Op after reading tru d comments, I hope u get d message

We are all basically animals. Just higher. Its d self control (in dis situation) dat makes u d higher animal u are

the divorce laws in nigeria need to be amended so that a man is forced to provide for an ex wife, i think that will reduce the number of dead end marriages that occur in nigeria because if a man knows that if his wife leaves him and he still has to provide for her...

u ppl are beginning to take men for a ride on certain matters. What is this idea supposed to bcome? In ur quest for equilibrium and justice for d woman folk, u'r beginning to take it too far

I'm offtopic but all these attempts to enslave a particular gender because u want to liberate d other sickens me . If men and women are equal, some ideas shld not crop up at all.

[quote author=Ileke-IdI]What should he do?[/quote]He? I thot it was going to be 'what should she do'. Who sent him? let him deal with it. He should luk for anoda school. + She owes him nothing. A gud lesson to stop being mr nice guy

When I got to d part of ur sister's pastor telling u abt d girl in ur church, my shock gave way to a rib cracking laughter!
But since u're less concerned wit such manipulations, we shall stick to topic.

@ topic, don't go. This is one mistake u shldnt attempt to correct, at least not now...yrs later her anger/hatred may hv calmed off. Or she comes to u instead. Personally, I won't agree to any planned meeting. Till we coincidentally meet on d way.

I hear 'hell hath no fury like a woman scorned' but I don't know how true. Why dnt we do it like this. Go and visit her, then come tell me if dat saying is true.#onasecondthot#u may nt even knw wat damage is done u

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They jst don't learn, do they?

dat u spend on guys doesn't make u 'undumpable'. The money shld even make a guy want to stay, u gotta describe urself more. Truthfully, on wat grounds did they leave u? Be sincere, don't jst paint em black.
If u'r not obnoxious, one will stay. But using money as 'fair' advantage not to get broken-hearted is quintessence of one who deserves what she gets.

LORH

*laffing out real hard*

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* I want someone that will always shout at me when i am wrong even doe i think i am right.
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Will this same someone think its ok for u to always shout at her when she's wrong?

Yes. IMO, It is possible. U can love 2 ppl for different reasons, filling up 2 different gaps in you. Where u decide who u love most lies in d reasons why u love those 2 ppl. The reason dat matters more to you leads ur heart.

U love ur mother for being ur mother. But presently, anoda woman (an aunt, mentor or jst friend) might be d person giving d motherly care and assistance. In this woman lies a stronger attachment of mother-daughter. Or having 2 friends of which u need to decide who'll be ur lover. One loves football/outings as much as u do, she's funfilled but has little time to cook for u, d other one is so spiritually/morally upright, takes care of u but bores u socially. Here, ur hunger for d need/desire for d different reasons will choose her for u ie while u admire both traits, football does not hold more meaning for u as a spiritual life does. But u'r d type who talks,eats,sleeps and wakes in football then..

Offtopic: though I disagree u can love two ppl equally.

Why do guys act the way they do:
In realting with others or in their personal pursuits
Emotionally
Psychologically
Socially
Spiritually
In Marital affairs
Financially
At work with their jobs
Etc

The way u act stems from d way u think, so this shld take u on a journey to d man's mind. The rationale behind his philosophy towards life in general. Does a guy's experiences shape d way he acts or d way he acts determines his experiences? If so, are there experiences peculiar to guys? and how do they react to such occurrences. Bla bla & blah

Except d manufactured ones, are d fresh flowers sold in exotic shops not plucked frm some garden but preserved & packaged for sale?

Anyways Op, I think its a thing of culture. Traditionally its not an intrinsic part of our society here (dats if it happened here in nigeria, or africa generally). The gentleman's act of giving flowers is a part of many cultures in other continents but here its totally useless and a sign of being clueless. While elsewhere in d west, asking for a date with a gift of flower in hand almost certainly guarantees u one.

Even with d much we've successfully copied outta western culture, this still remains useless to d average african lady born, bred in africa. IMO many african ladies with western sophistication do not welcome this act wholeheartedly still.

BTW guiness is better or jst do spirits

When ppl who steal 18million naira are not yet awarded? You gotta steal $18m to be rewarded.

Sit ups. If u are very diligent wit it, it'll reduce in 30days. Its painful & exhausting but its ur jackpot. Slimming teas et al are jst craps. Eat whenever u wish, just get very religious with sit ups,mornings and evenings.

ballabriggs: A foolish protest. If you get shot while protesting on this, I will rejoice. You know why? Because this is not what affects the price of garri or the naira. There are other things that affect the value of the naira and not a currency reform.

If d coffin bearing activists catch u and lynch u, I will rejoice. You know why? because ur post reeks of myopic 'wisdom'.

I think u shld identify wit d garri team. Take d oath and join. U hv same traits they've got

This goes to show how porous brains d garri ppl can be. If u are truly bothered abt d price of garri in d market but can't figure out how d introduction of 5,000 naira can/will affect it, then u r useless to d activists fighting for d common man.

U're grade I dull

After giving ringim d undeserved awards, u more or less sacked him. Obviously he didn't perform even to ur low standards. Award more undeserving crafty men..
Paralympians deserve more than majority on this list yet no encouragement for them

meanwhile, dnt get too engrossed on this list lest you are caught unawares. I'm already preparing my mind for the next presidential shocker come oct 1st
The name 'Nigeria' might be changed

No doubt, electricity has improved, even d mosquitoes in my house can attest to dat ..I hope it doesn't get worse wit d recent resignation of barth nnaji

I think dat Adenuga deserves an award for his input to d country. But a GCON? If only we had much regard for these national awards it won't be awarded shamelessly to those undeserving lot.

Can't ppl decline awards they certainly knw they dnt deserve. Its even those who deserve it dat reject it. This they do cos of d dishonor now associated wit d so-called national awards.

Even d GCFR is without prestige any more

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oluafolabi: Hian!!! If I hear.. Outgrow wetin..?? That one cannot outgrow anything.. The only thing left for the OP to do is to endure and adapt

wit dat kinda guy if Op believed wat I said, then she'd believe their honeymoon will be in las vegas. she'd also believe she will deliver her children in a hospital and dat he wont name their first son 'ikporomodun'

*Laughing, I fell from an iroko, decided to go home and still fell frm okada. Got home and still rolled off d bed*

Hilarious!

Op love transcends all human manners. Be patient wit him, he will recover his senses soon enuf and outgrow these behaviors 

I think its abt time Nigerians came home
Its abt time everyone came home to develop their fatherland.

With d living conditions of some of our ppl in diaspora, More countries worldwide shld deport more nigerians (but wit humane treatment); it'll be better for some of them in d long run

I swear to god, some nigerians r just living hopelessly without freedom. no good jobs: just d vain idea of living in d US or UK et al. Some of them cld hv been better off here in Nigeria with peace of mind