₦airaland Forum

Midas01:
See the comment coming from you.... Lol

We meet to have more sense in Nigeria as a whole. Sense to make proper judgements. Sense to enable us desist from blaming victims rather than perpetrators.

Sense to enable us see black and not call it white.

QED.

Iyaebe:
Most times I don't really understand you,so you are blaming the woman and not condemning the unfaithful married sidechick and the adulterous man in question who is shamelessly forming vex.I truly don't understand you most times

erubati:
Pero doesn't want to let go of tuface and always using the excuse of his kids to see him under the same roof.
Annie came out to say tuface and pero slept together under the same house with the pretest that he wanted to be with his kids which isn't proper for a married man.
Come-on,tuface is too big not to have a place to stay when he travels to the US,where his kids can come to see him anytime he is around.

Pero doesn't want to let go of Tuface....

How old is Tuface?

46yrs!

You mean a 46 year old man cannot decide who he wants to have sex with? We both know that Tuface can decide to meet his kids at any place of his choice if he doesn't want to stay with Pero.

Shame!

erubati:
Na she we go beg make she marry.
Na overseas she dey wey she fit get men wey go marry am asap,even get toy boys wey go dey shine her congi anytime she wants.its here in Nigeria she no fit to get cus if the culture and all.
I blame her for all theses shenanigans cus sumbo also gave birth to tuface's kids without giving us this kain headache

mariahAngel:
Of all the threads to mention someone on...




It’s an old thread.

erubati:
Nonsense post.
We are talking about u attempting to break a happy home, ure here talking about wig and filter

elonmuskbaby:
This is a very vulgar and unnecessary display.at least have some respect for your parents and in-laws and be considerate of parents with kids who shouldn't be exposed to activities like this

Weddings particularly in our culture are family celebration where family,friends and in-laws gather to celebrate with you.by the way we all have sex but not everything should be done publicly at least apply decorum and public decency so you attract respect to yourself.

Its a wedding not a strip club.anyway man wey marry runs babe should expect anything

TheGift:
What has happened has happened. The 19 year old boy is more responsible than many of you justifying abortion just because He is still struggling. He is a realer Man than you guys. And His parents are wise, to not throwaway the gift of grandchild just because it came through the exuberance of their child. Many people are out there looking for children for years with no luck. A lot of you guys really need to grow up.

DBestDoc:
Lol, this boy is so entitled ee,
So you do not care that you’ve almost ruined that girl’s life? She’s also a teenager I’m sure and you want her to be burdened with the responsibilities of motherhood.

People do very abominable things with so much confidence these days that I can’t help but shudder in dismay.

If it were in the days when things were better, the parents of that girl would be the ones coming to your family with the community youths to discipline you for bringing them so much embarrassment and pain today, you the offender is contemplating going to their home to add salt to injury. Hahaha, I’ve seen it all.

Please don’t go causing that family more trouble, let them take their decision as they deem fit ‘cause they’d be the ones to bear any consequences that may arise from this mess you guys have created. Give them some space and use a condom next time.

You’ll have your offsprings when the time is right.

Ayanwukoma:
My girlfriend from the neighborhood got pregnant for me last month, though we are both young still living under our parents roof.
I told my parent's about the situation, they were both happy at least they having a grandchild, but was surprised when my girlfriend called me last night, that her mom says first thing tomorrow morning They going to the hospital to do an Abortion.

I asked her why, she said her mom says am a tout, a street dog, over her dead body would she let her daughter bore my child.


Am thinking about taking community youths to their house this evening.



Ps: her mom is troublesome the whole community knows her just because her husband is wealthy, wouldn't want to go with my parent's and she start insulting them.

My parents are ready to assist me in taking care of the child.

Am 19.
I do menial jobs
I also tear tickets in a popular junction in my town.
That's council related.
(Hoping to further my studies next year)



The reason she's doing this, because am not a rich Yahoo boy that drives benz, but still
I can't let them abort my child.

mardis:
Side hen indeed she is
The whole situation is messed up, the wife acted without seeking for advice. Well, as far as am concerned it is not yet bad for the wife. Unless the wife is full time house wife with so much time to while away. As for me the game just began, i will just sit back, relax and watch all of them

GboyegaD:
While I'm not doubting his statistics overall, I feel he is sentimental. If most people come for a paternity test because they are suspicious, shouldn't that weaken the overall inference?

Why would a government mandate DNA testing? It is the choice of the potential father and that needs be respected.

SunnyChus:
Personal Development Goals Overview

Personal development is an important aspect of an individuals life. Personal development is a lifelong major undertaking. Cultures all over the world, since ancient times, have added a lot of value on personal development in order to bring children and youth into the society and fulfill and assume meaningful roles within it. Religion, philosophy, and ethics all encompass methods for personal development and self improvement. I have made a list of a few areas where one can set personal development goals. Though far from comprehensive, this list includes areas which constitute a large part of our lives. The areas are self-improvement, career, health, lifestyle, family, relationships, education, art and culture.

Personal Development Goals: Examples

Self Improvement: This is an area where constant growth and improvement is possible. You can enhance your skill set, you can take up something new, or you could finally get those projects done that you've been putting off. A personal development goal example would be to stop procrastinating and finally get your garden landscaped.

Career: Career growth is one of the most important areas for setting up goals. Work is what one does for a major part of time and also one's identity and self esteem is based on where they work and what they do. Working towards a promotion, increase in responsibility, or an increment in salary are all examples of career related goals.

Health: Working on aspects of your health such as losing weight, increasing your stamina, or eating healthier may be on your mind. The right thing to do would be to select one as a personal goal and act on it.

Lifestyle: Many people are looking for ways to enhance their lifestyles, and you can easily do so by setting a personal goal, such as enrollment in a wine tasting club. Other ways that include are taking a class for music/art appreciation, attending a sculpting workshop, planning a meaningful vacation, or taking up any new sport.

Family: Personal goals regarding family could be, setting a date for marriage, having a child, meeting family members you haven't met for a long time, organizing a family get together, etc.

Relationships: Setting up personal goals for relationships is a good way to approach them and helps you to monitor your progress. Goals could include finding that special someone, going steady, setting a date for engagement, etc.

Education: Education is a key area of personal development in two ways. It often describes who you and where you work. Continuing and enhancing your education for a career or out of interest is always a good goal for development. You could finally take that foreign language class you've been thinking of, or take some time out to study art history or Renaissance studies. Other options could include taking advanced courses in your area of work or an advanced degree in management.

Art: Art is an important aspect of human life which has the potential to give a lot of satisfaction and personal growth. Attending art lessons, taking up a musical instrument, or attending an acting workshop could get you started in this area.

Culture: Culture is a vast area to explore and you could do this by learning a new cuisine, traveling, going on an archaeological dig, learning a traditional dance form, etc.

As seen in the above paragraphs, setting personal development goals require a few basic steps. One is to set up the goal by identifying an area and setting up a sample personal development goal within it. The next step is to put a time boundary on the activity, that is, when to start and how long it should take. The next step is to setup the personal development plans. Once the goal is decided and the time boundaries are set, it is simply a matter of putting the plans into action.

Culled from....www.familylifeguide..com

Sirjendon:
All these Oyinbo Theories no dey work for Africa,

Achieving a goal in Africa is about making money, either Illiterate or Not, Omo, Owo ni Koko

MrbonZ:
I just want to know if I am the only one to notice it, some female bosses are usually overtly arrogant, abusive and overbearing and most times they bring their family problems to work and can't deal with the stress that comes with working.

This is not a misogynistic post just an observation from me. Do you guys also experience this.

Mindlog:
The guy's confidence is scary....a married side chick?

Intersexxsherry:
yup he is the husband