₦airaland Forum

saphiere:
I've been a victim.
Exactly. Mine hid the camera. I was at his mercy for years. But God who knew my heart turned things around for me.
Long story my dear. He made me do some unthinkable things to prevent him leaking the video. I was really at his mercies.

I have a very long bitter story to tell my children.

I now see where your disdain for men comes from.

You have to heal before entering into another relationship/marriage so you don't transfer the bitterness of your ex to another man.

You wouldn't enjoy him and he won't enjoy you also. Even if you choose an angel, your cynicism would become a self-fulfilling prophecy.

It is well with you.

Edusouls:
All women have the gene of prostitution from birth, is just that some don’t trigger it.

And all men have the gene of rape.

You see that generalizations are foolish and should be limited to the women in your family.

FutureIsFemale:
Nollywood actress and scriptwriter, Nnaji Charity is of the opinion that Nigerian female celebrities are advanced prostitutes, WonderTV Media reports.

Nnaji took to her Instastory to air her view on Nigerian female celebrities.


, she captioned the post.

This is coming after Nollywood actress, Tonto Dikeh alleged that her ex-boyfriend, Prince Kpokpogri has incriminating photos of several Nigerian female celebrities on his gadgets.

https://.com/being-a-female-celebrity-in-nigeria-is-more-like-an-advanced-runs-girl-actress-nnaji-charity/

She should go and sit down jare

They have started.

A number of the male celebrities are studs by day and gaybriels by night.

Everyone knows that men & women in the entertainment industry anywhere (Hollywood does not have it's reputation for nothing) and at the 'top' generally have their own set of morals.

All these stories are just to entertain and you move on to the next.

If you are not aware madam, hotter gist has come out for Aunty Mo.

lwisee:
Abeg na Gistloverblog talk am oooo.

I no get strenght for wahala.For more tori go and check gistlover_blogy on instagram.
I cant just stomach the numerous allegations.

Lesson: Ladies,only your mother should be your female role model,period!

Moderators : Dont put this on front page oooo


https://www.gistreel.com/media-mogul-mo-abudu-dragged-to-shreds-over-alleged-back-to-back-amorous-relationship-with-lagos-governors-other-top-politicians/

This link doesn't have the full gist

Honestly, nothing surprises me o jare

So daddy Rotimi that sang gospel song dey do man & woman?

Besides, all these men that Mo Abudu allegedly slept with, none of the wives divorced the husbands? And her daughter's FIL too?

When we say these matters have nothing to do with financial capacity, they think we are lying.

Anyways, at their social level, their morals are different.

@Lesson: Only Jesus or Mohammed or whatever you worship should be your role model.

Nobi gospel artist Amaechi dey chop front and back so?

anuofGod:
Business strategy. If you know, you know
Federal government now gives corps members who gets married during service year #500, 000

Is that so?

Theunbothered:
Maybe the animal in you can't see why this is messed up.

Military personnel abroad don't do this, they face their work, but Nigerians still want to do more than colonial masters.

When Nigerians stop acting like bullies at every chance we will stop calling abroad "saner climes".

It is a mark of foolishness and lack of home training to insult a poster who has not insulted you.

galaxy2020:
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Hmmmm, fun? Me I hold my football boot tight, incase I witness unusual movement, the camp had no fence then, we were the first set to use that place. Mad guys full that our camp then and na them ginger some of us. My brother no play with Nigeria armyoooo! Na small Satan take wicked pass them.

That's why I said fun to watch from a distance.

So what happened to the guy/solider and the guys in the camp generally afterwards?

WowSweetGuy:
Hush! What do u mean...they are superwomen? Taah. I know football babes that will beat many of them well

@bold:

Right back at you

galaxy2020:
During my NYSC year at Nonwa, Tai lg in Rivers state, one aboki solder slapped a uniben student (name mike) because of simply issue, the guy no waste time, him return the slap immediately, the slap nearly fall the solder guy, na there we all come get moral, the halla, the stand for mike, until camp commandant intervened and took both of them away to his office for reconciliation. Parade end gbam, we asked the ladies to go to their hostels, the guys stayed back. At the end, the solder was reprimanded for slapping a corps member. Wen mike come out, we carryam for shoulder the shout and hailam as we returned to our hostels.

This would have been fun to watch....

From a distance

descarado:
One slapped me inside taxi cos I asked her to adjust for me and everybody kept quiet.

I saw star

You get mind

Ossy2020:
This is wrong irrespective of what the corper had done. There better civil ways to address issues

You want a military personnel to resolve an issue in a civil manner?

For me, if there is no injury, threat to life or repeat occurrence, the female corper should just swallow her ego, suck it up and move on.

That's one of the experiences during NYSC

Ten years later while gisting with your friends or recounting the tales of your NYSC:

'I remember when that idiot pour dirty water for my body. I stand up like G, dust myself enter room' bla bla bla.

Maybe it is the boarder in me (boarding student in secondary school) that doesn't see the need to nitpick and whine about every incident.

Swichnerd:
Female officers and their inferiority complex

Oh please!

Male officers in camps don't terrorize and intimidate corpers?

I remember during our time that they belt us out of our dorms by 4:30am for morning parade.

Or the male soldiers that harass civilians at barracks and on the road are also female or also have inferiority complex?

It is hard to blame you when your female counterparts also genderize everything.

Pweetyccee:
Na wa ooo
Me and dat woman go fight beta fight dat day

You want to engage a female solider in hand combat?

Don't try it.

Don't even think of telling your brothers to engage her.

Wow!

There is a friend that sticketh closer than a brother/sister.

God continue to be with them.

owobokiri:
Yeah, it's for titiled men and for serious occasions by matured adults. Normal traditional everyday dress looks more like the normal "brocade" or "senator" attire that's common amongst the youths these days....

There are a many traditional female dresses for the igbo gal. Most revolve around the traditional wrappers like the akwaete designs which are very environmentally friendly considering the fact that we live in the tropics..

It seems my earlier suggestion on Ankara would work if they want to infuse Nigerian flavour into their schooling experience.

Traditional wrappers won't work either for the girls.

crackhaus:
She may not need to sleep with random men anymore...
This one account she has gotten (if it's really worth hundreds of millions) is enough to set her up nicely.

1. She has really lived up to the saying, "If you're going to eat a toad, better lookout for a fat and juicy one..."

As aunty has overachieved her target, they will increase it so she will need another OP in a short while. except she resigns after her commission is paid.

1. She did well

If a man comes out to say he can't marry a marketer tomorrow, he will be misogynistic

Marketing in the bank is not a job; it is 'let me hold body till I find something else'.

I would never pick up a marketing job myself or let any of my kids do so. Even a marketing husband sef no jell. I heard a fraction of the men also sleep with gaybriels to meet their targets.

owobokiri:
Used for sowing dresses for "TITLED MEN" in igboland

So only titled men should wear ishi agu?

I would also assume that men can use it on their wedding day because it is a very special occasion?

Is there traditional everyday wear for Igbo men/boys? Do women/girls also have something they wear everyday?

Fiscus105:
If i am the guy i can never ever marry such a cheap girl. A girl without diginity such girl, as house wife can sleep with her son/daughter lecturers for him/her to graduate

She can sleep with anybody just to have her way in tight situation.

But it is not your story na.

The guy in question still sees her worthy to be with.

The girl can also decide the man is not worthy to be a husband; a man who has no mind of his own and succumbs to peer pressure.

The both of them are flawed and would work if they work on their weaknesses.

Neither of them have the moral stand to 'reject' the other.

Looks very colorful but a poster has said it is not every day material.

Maybe ankara would have worked.

And I see the girls wearing regular uniforms.

They should have chosen an attire that boys & girls can use for uniformity.

owobokiri:
Ishi agu is not an everyday dress for heavens sake! I'm all for the showcasing of our amazing culture but we should also realize that wearing a dress code for the right occasion is important in terms of preserving our culture. These days I see some wayward females sowing skirts with ishi agu materials. Many young boys use this revered material to sow their "fashionable" T shirt. Arù!

What is the Ishi agu material for?

Thank goodness you confessed you lifted it from somewhere.

@OP: since you have 'feelings' for the girl, woo her and get to know her without sex.

Since she was a virgin, you don't have to deal with 'sexual incompatibility' which is the excuse for pre-martial sex or sampling today.

Both of you also have character defects that you need to work on:

1. You succumb to peer pressure very easily and have a weak character; there was nothing stopping you from saying no: it is against your principles to request for sex in lieu of a favor or random sex or bla bla. You are also the type of person that would do anything for people's approval. If your 'friends' told you to steal, would you? If they told you to kill the girl after sleeping with her, would you? I wonder if you have the strength of character to run your inherited company successfully.
Good part of you: You are humane.

2. Madam...... You sold your virginity for millions of Naira! You are doing well o Is it all offers you must accept? If you can't meet your target, does it occur to you that Marketing is not your line? What's your game plan now? Sleep with random men when you are stuck with meeting your targets again? You were too desperate and took the easy way out. If a prospective client asks you to sleep with his dog or be a Potty Portia for three years' target, will you succumb? Where are your moral principles?
Good part of you: You are persistent (divert that persistence into a more profitable venture).

The both of you can work out.

Kdon2:
You should be ashamed of yourself if you are a man of dignity. But no you choose to take advantage of the girl.

There was an offer on the table, the girl took it.

Did he force her to sleep with him?

Or is it all offers you accept?

DJ Cuppy needs to learn how to dress her body in a flattering way or employ someone professional to do it.

That way, she would know the shade of pink, style of bum shots, type of fishnets, style of hooded jacket etc. that would fit her.

ahnie:
What this guy needs is a hard ground breaking sex,the type that would burst his scrotal sac and reset his memory .

Mariah.angel what do ya think?

With men or women?

Anyone you see claiming 'all men are this', 'all women are that' has unresolved issues.

And there are PLENTY men/boys and women/girls in that category on this forum.

Bluntemperor:
I don't know what the man is talking about.
Assuming you have four or three kids,can you still buy with same foods stuff with the rising prices in the market compared to 2014 now.
The Naira is getting weaker and as elites,he should stop being economical with the truth!

Why would someone who can not comfortably buy food have 3 - 4 kids today?

Our Government are like P in Psychology sugbon we need to be very truthful to ourselves and HELP ourselves!

How would those kids go to school? Cloth properly? Do the parents even have a future plan for their kids?

Upworkwriter007:
Our intellectuals are soo disconnected from reality. If naira is strong because people can eat with 500 naira. What of the 27.4 million Nigerians that earn less than 100,000 per annum? It means this category of people can only spend there money on food and will only eat once every two days....You see, even the local value of naira is very week. If the president of Charters Institute of Bankers can talk like this, then we get big problem.

Is it a disconnect though?

Does he feed his family with N500 per person per day/meal?

He is talking of CBN rates:

When he travels to the US or shops on foreign sites, during conversion, do they use CBN rates? Or Aboki FX rates?

Is he claiming that speculated rates are respected outside the country than CBN rates?

Same CBN rates that are artificially low so that those in power/have influence can buy at a reduced rate.

This crab mentality will take us nowhere!

kingscare1:
Mehn. Stay safe and make a huge amount of money because the Nigerian system is structured against the average and the poor to either battle it out or die helplessly.

The worst part of it is that people will rush to type RIP to a VICTIM of bad Nigerian system than to help them to live when they need help to live.

Fvcked Up world!

He wasn't poor, all his kids school abroad.

And his family & wife's family are rich and they have a number of doctors in the family.

WeRblessed:
Beautiful, classy and industrious lady. God will continue to empower you more and guide your son's footsteps.

Please Nigerian parents, bleaching your children's skins is child abuse. You are damaging their epidermis / dermis. Please stop it already.

To think she allegedly dragged a celebrity mom for same thing she is doing.

Shows she is a vile person.

Evangelynn:
Not necessarily true,a child that will turn out right will turn out right.Children will grow up and leave the home no pare t should sacrifice their happiness and individuality because of children that will grow up and leave the home.

Wayward and negligent children does not necessarily have to do with the parents not being there it is the choice those children choose to make in life.

Parents especially mothers are human beings and they need a life outside their children nobody should sacrifice what makes their life fulfilling because they have kids that may or may not repay them when they are of age you can take this view of yours to your home but don't tell this to career and focused driven women.

Do you think career is more important than child upbringing?

Tajbol4splend:
Men do these crazy things too, you said fear women right? The guys the ladies are fvcking probably have their own girlfriend somewhere too feeling irreplaceable like Beyonce, so when a guy cheats on his woman, he does it with another woman or another man's woman, and when a lady does cheat on her man, she does it with another man or another woman's man, so everyone has a share of this guilt

On point.

Ayotemide:
Who is sending Misogynistic Threads to the front page? Why
does your entire existence revolve around what women do?

What is misogynist about this thread?