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kangminhyuksho:
Racket boys has finally ended. Lol in my mind it ended 2 weeks ago so I wasn't even invested in this final episode, it just felt like I was watching some end credits or something. Lol I liked how everybody was falling in love upandan aigoo. Happy to see cameos from my queens Yuri and seulgi. I'm not a sports person at all which is why I avoid sports themed dramas like the plague. I must say tho that among the very very few sports drama I've seen, this is my favorite. I guess it's cos the focus of the drama was more on friendship, family and community than the actual sport. I am also ashamed to say that after watching 16 episodes centered around badminton, I still don't know shi!t about the rules of the game and I'm not even the least bit interested in knowing, yes I wear my shame with pride.

So after 11 episodes of you are my spring's young do basically being top 5 sensible male lead in a drama ever, these stupid people decided to introduce noble idiocy into the plot. Urghhh I'm so freaking angry, like I have been hyping him up especially when he told Yoon Park he wouldn't discuss dajeong with him, I was just like gosh what a man, what a beautiful self assured man and now what? He's breaking up with her cos he's sick? Bi!tch puhleaasseee! Urghh I wanted to punch him, like I wanted her to throw him off the roof. Then the idiot went home to cry, I'm like congratulations dipshi!t, you're sad, she's sad, I'm sad. Well done. It's not even that he's just breaking up with her, he even had the guts to say mean things to her, hospital playlist's ik sun didn't even do half of this and I canceled her, I swear jo young do is canceled, I don't care if he comes back and apologizes on his knees shedding a bucket of tears. We don't want your love again. Lol see me making mouth, I've already uncanceled ik sun cos oppa is behaving like he'll die without her, I bet I'll still forgive this idiotic young do (Urghh I need to steel my heart, I need to remain mean lol). Anyway I'm pretty sure next week will be them avoiding each other even though every cell of their body is screaming for each other, I can't believe I have to sit through that bull, abeg this drama should do and end. Lmao so last week I thought their dad probably repented and left them his fortune as an inheritance, aigoo this pathetic scum of a leopard that refuses to change his spots left them debt. Tufiakwa! I also don't know why that chaebol woman is going above and beyond to protect Ian chase, is he the only doctor that she can bribe to kill her chairman or whatever it is she wants. Anyway that boy needs to rest with his mumu strategy of trying to guilt trip people, last week he was blaming dajeong for being scared of him, this week he's blaming young do for not saving him when they were younger mtcheww. Bi!tch please.

descarado:
Telemundo ke?
I have never watched it. No be all these Indian soap?
I dey come

SeaTrade:
Madam,stop fooling youths.
Tell them the bitter truth,
Even if a woman loves you and there is that financial gap between the man and her,80% of the times she will be wondering or regretting what she is doing with you and feel like she is wasting her time most times.
They always want men that can lead them,but how do you as a man,lead someone that is more succesful than you?
Not that they need money from the man,but they just need a man they can look up to /who can serve as their role models and trust me,there is no way a poorer man can fit this criteria.
That is what you modern women do these days ,trick young guys to marry you people and later kill the guy with insecurity, nonsense.
If you are a rich woman,better go and find your mates,but most times your mates don't want you so you resort to trapping broke men and fooling them that the money won't matter,
What a joke!

oldtruth:
First class humiliation. If he is tenant in that community, he should just pack and go far from the area. If he is a landlord, he should travel and comeback with another wife.

Soon, he will turn to a laughing stock and if he mistakenly have an issue with a loose person, he might end up suicidal. This one na heavy uppercut

mariahAngel:
I have a father and 3 brothers (very handsome and very caring by the way), who were born and raised in Nigeria, and there’s absolutely nothing toxic about them. (Aside uncles and cousins o)
Please stop generalizing and spreading falsehood.
It matters to people like me who care about people in their lives, both male and female.
Those men would do anything for me, my mother and sisters in a heartbeat!

The way I wonder about most men who spread hate and total falsehood about women on this platform, if they have women in their (real) lives, is the same way I wonder about the women who do the same.
The hate is sickening to read! My God!

Do you not have any male relative who was born and raised in Nigeria?
If you do, are there no noble one (not even a single one) among them?
If there’s at least one, consider that one before you term all as toxic!

SultanOfPuna:
That's how My mum always say
"you can be anything, u want to be"

Until I told her I want to be a porn actor
That night, them call family meeting untop my matter.

Afamsi:
If after This she still remain submissive and loving, then she is truly a good woman and one of a kind.

traihit:
Understand thou, that in all thy ranting, more people have heard the man's voice than yours.

Christianity is an ideology that was never tested but yet condemned. Few are true Christians, many are Churchians. Yet, the bible is complete.

The man loves completely and the woman submit totally. There can never be chaos where the two exists.

thorpido:
Sadly so.Our parents' time,it was the man the wife looked up to for finances.Nowadays,there are women who can support communities with what they make.
If it is sex,they can easily get that from anywhere.Some can even do with just intimacy gadgets.
If the average man is still thinking my money,he's on a long thing.

descarado:
If you haven't met this type of MIL, I pray you don't meet such.
What wives see eeh, if not for societal and religious discrimination, some won't last 2 yrs in marriage.
And our fathers always exonerate themselves when they are the architect of this circle of problems.
I haven't seen a woman dearly loved by her husband that has time to fight with her daughter inlaw over her son. Never.
She don't even have time.
When she come for omugwo, she will stay just small and go back to her husband cos she miss him dearly. Papa emeka will not even allow emeka to rest.

Enskynelson:
Of cos, they make money but they won't make themselves the head in the eyes of the world. There are so many rich men out there but the truth is that, their wives are the source of the money. A good woman has all the money yet makes her husband comfortable. How did that woman OP was talking about even get to build house and the world knows she is the one? The good woman will do same but everyone will think her husband did it.

OPTOSUN:
A couple lived in a rented apartment. Happy family to be precise. The wife earn huge salary compared to the husband... so she decided to build a house without informing her husband. After completing the house, she finally inform her husband that they will be leaving to their own house tomorrow. Assuming you are the husband, what will you do?

SeaTrade:
That one no go work for me sha ooo.
Few months ago them increase my babe their salary ,the way I carry triple my efforts and sit up ehn,even me sef shock No be me you go pass lailai.
Not to talk of woman building a house and I go come pack my things go dey live with am,
Abeg ooo.
I believe say man suppose pass woman for things to dey right and for respect to be and she has to look up to you to fulfill your ego(yes,that is one of the things women were created for,to massage male egos).
When woman pass you financially ,educationally,even with common sense and exposure,whether she loves you or not you will be reduced to nothing,
Even if she don't show it,you can't stop to think it is what she thinks of you(as nothing) or you sef might feel guilty for being nothing.That's how the ego of a man works.
You and your babe go dey na una go go see her friends that just came to town or so and them go dey discuss their time in Paris on vacation or their study years for UK or dey argue which store for Milan dey sell quality or cheap pass and all those things and you go tell me say if you as a man no dey alright you go stay that kind relationship unto wetin?
Them go intimidate you die with ordinary lifestyle and your prick go dey shrink daily till e finally turn to TOTO
Make sure say you always pass woman,if by chance or miracle she come pass you,better leave am go to another smallie weh you pass well well for your mental sanity.

Enskynelson:
A good wife will build the house but everyone including her parents will think her husband built it

Wittyduchess:
Legally the house belongs to the wife, in absence of a will by the deceased.


That first son gibberish is tradition not according to laws of the federal republic of Nigeria.



But the question that keeps bugging me is this;

If his father was still alive, now that he has returned from South Africa to marry and settle down , would he have ejected his father from the house too?

Slimslimqq:
oh! My bad. I didnt seem to read it well. He's a Yoruba boy. Ibadan

duchaB:
Maybe not, prolly just envy

bravehost4u:
hope you have the muscle for maintenance. My Friend that got a Naija used Benz has virtually turned into a Mechanic.

Go for Corolla or Camry and experience peace

Miyachi:
₦1.5 million and Mercedes in one sentence, isn't that an aberration?

Ovems:
Good afternoon, Happy New Week! I know you have seen Hello Me, is it an Older woman younger man drama?

budaatum:
Four ex-wives and a yacht require a lot of money since you got to pay to park them.

ImaIma1:
Naaa...these men's family unit is mother + children. Wife is a outsider that comes to interrupt their unit and should be done away with if she messes up. Their mothers are the heads of the family units.

Meanwhile we hardly hear about FILs causing problems. Or didn't they also "suffer discomfort for their children". It's the mums that like to use emotional blackmail for their sons and they fall glat for it

descarado:
So many of them here

Some don't even know their background. They don't have root. Nobody thought them family values cos they lived the street.
Some are so bitter they never see something good on the opposite sex.

elonmuskbaby:
obviously!

Awon my word is law
I'm the man of the house
My mummy Said..
Virtuous woman singer
Submission choir master

descarado:
Them never born that man in any of my extended family to make major or even minor decision like that without consulting the wife. So also the wife.
Family will tear you apart when such matter is brought to the table.
Who do you think you are?
Because of few coins you will start feeling on top of the world?
Poverty and money miss road srr twins.
That's an act of somebody who rolled in the mud of poverty and when he finally managed to get few coins, he started behaving like hushpuppy.
Nonsense and ingredients

elonmuskbaby:
exactly

I don't know about Muslims but for christians the Bible says leave and cleave

You want your wife to leave her parents family and cling to you but you still want to be attached to your mom's aprons

Infant boys that should still be suckling with feeding bottles getting married.orisirisi