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KillingIsFun:
Black is beautiful


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She is indeed beautiful.

@OP:

People need to be very careful: sex is more spiritual than physical and exchange of spirits/powers and all sorts happens during sex.

Omo, she cook the artwork very well.

Super nice one!

At this rate, every Mallam with im kettle.

I thought men engage women and buy them a ring?

Well, a girl should propose to a man and buy him a ring.

Then you can ask why he is not wearing it.

Case closed.

Dminister:
No rituals in Yahoo. It's all about consistency and grace. Those who do rituals are ritualists only using yahoo to front and to deceive people.

This is the fact!

Grace in yahoo?

Grace from where biko?

J2381:
Personally I don't believe any such stories. Ritual killing and the so called ritualists from what I've read so far, are people who deal in human body parts.

So this issue of Yahoo Boys using girls is something I find very hard to believe and it sounds like another superstitious belief.

What do you think people who deal in body parts use them for?

GboyegaD:
I don't believe in money rituals as a person.

You don't believe in it aka you can't do it

OR

You don't believe in it aka it doesn't exist.

If the latter, do you believe in any religion?

Jerryherd:




If you believe praying to Jesus Christ, Mohammad SAW, Allah and Jehovah can bless you and aid your success, so what is hard in believing Satan, Demons , Genomes , evil spirits can also bless you with their own kind of wealth

You better be careful, very very careful as theres more to life that science and scientists don't understand



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Only non-religious peeps make sense when they say these things don't exist.

But you believe in God (depending on your religion) and you don't acknowledge the devil exists, dreamer.

@bold:

Those who know what's up know that life is more spiritual than physical.

Bigman101:
Good morning nairalanders!!

Pls I need advice.. Here is my story.. I do business with my brother (selling) so because of that I come in contact with women (customers)..

But the problem is this: there is one particular young woman that do patronize us. It all started when she expressed gratitude towards me.. Since then I feel something for her, I dont know how but I really do love her, but she is married.. I really don't know how to go about this, seems like am involved emotional to her! I wish I & her could be dating ...pls advice me how to become emotional distance from her...

Pls moderators help push this to front page for more views and replies.

Madly in love says it all.

@OP: cure your madness and you will be fine

Nkan be!

The husband might even know that the wife beat up his mom however unwilling to open the can of worms.

What an elephant in the room.

Naijanascam:
Provide the most necessary things in your home and see your money resting in peace in your pockets

Resting in peace kwa?

SportsHD:
Mr DNA and master chief don derail the thread.

gratefulme40:
And currently open to new relationship with a financially stable man!!

Toor!

AuroraB:
A jobless man should get married because, a job will come based on that Isn't this recipe for disaster?
If job loss happens to the wife and there's a kid in the mix kwanu
For this Nigeria ooo

I thought the OP's premise was if you have a source of income and have not 'made' it?

A man should not marry without a source of income.

AuroraB:
Yinmu.com

You do you

They are Biblical principles.

Not able to explain in details now.

The problem is that poor people have too many kids.

If they have just one kid in addition to themselves, they will do very fine.

wany:
Is this really coming from you.

What?

How do you leave an abusive relationship of almost a decade, jump into a rebound relationship and go back to your ex?

Do you like yourself at all?

Madam, learn to love yourself first.

You really need it.

Well, marriage is to bring about blessings and multiplication.

If 1 chases one thousand, 2 would chase ten thousand and get a good reward for their labor.

This blessing/reward for labour is by principle though.

Oh! So nature made only black men promiscuous?

And some posters I am jawjawing with on another thread said it is all men.

Is this the black God's configuration?

JESHAL:
I take full responsibility but I'm saying in the garden of Eden they were both equals, if Adam was superior that nonsense probably would not have happened, regardless he chose to follow his wife and disobey, it's his fault

Have I stated they were/are not equal?

Or do you think my stating Eve was deceived is absorbing her of blame?

Have you seen anyone acquitted in court because he was deceived to carry drugs? They will only add the deceiver to the case.

Ignorance is not an excuse before the law.

JESHAL:
Women are Hypergamous nature
Men are polygnous in nature


Very big differences

A woman has to be promiscuous to be hypergamous.

If she is with A and sees a better B, she has to leave A for B till she gets to Z.

I don't believe the hypergamous/polygamous nonsense anyways.

JESHAL:
They were both created equally remember, until God cursed women to be under men's authority

Don't seek plausible deniability, take responsibility for the mistake you made and bear the consequences of your actions

I think you should take your own advice.

You stated the fall was a result of a deceitful woman who wanted to be like God.

And I corrected you that the woman was deceived and the man disobedient abi your Bible is different?

descarado:
So many professors.
We will survive las las

We will survive

DEMZEE:
Nature, God....

Same God that created Adam & Eve?

Not Adam & Eves?

It is part of the consequences of the fall of man.

And either men or women can be promiscuous.

Afterall, Durex calls Nigerian women are amongst the most promiscuous women in the world.

That alone blows your theory out of water.

JESHAL:
Fell as a result of a decietful woman who was pedestalized and wanted to be like God

A deceived woman and a disobedient man.

Adam had the right to reject the apple you know.

DEMZEE:
Fornication and adultery are buffers against human sexual biology.

Men are designed to be promiscuous, women are not, male's sexual mating strategy is fucking as many women as possible and women mating strategy is alpha bleeps short term //beta bucks long term.

Religion invented marriage to ensure both genders compromise on their mating strategies and reach a conclusion.

Who designed men to be promiscuous?

God?

Or the fallen man?

JESHAL:
Reality is Sexist
It's Misogynistic hatred of women and misandrist hatred of Men that is societal problems
Feminism has served it's purpose we already have equality of opportunities except these mordern one that wants special victimhood status and privilege exclusively for women

I assume 'reality is sexist' to mean men and women enjoy certain privileges the other doesn't?

If yes, I agree with your post.

queenblossom:
Na God go bless you for at least speaking up for the truth. I will say it anyway any time that I am a strong believer of feminism. Any man condemning feminism is an evil man. Period. We are fighting for our right. We deserve to be treated as human and not as slave. If christ came to the world to wipe away our sins. Then the sun of Eve is not supposed to continue to follow us till we die. Or did jesus only wiped the sin of man and not the sin of woman.

@bold,

Really?

Are you a Christian?

@sin of Eve:

God said
1. Man would till the soil to eat;
2. Woman would have pains during childbirth and be ruled by her husband
3. Snake would crawl on its belly and his head would be bruised by the seed of the woman.

Looking at the above, 1 & 2 will keep having till tomorrow except the person enjoys the grace of God. For instance,

1. Jesus promised us our daily bread however you have to work for it. He can however direct you towards the path of lest work and give you rest/peace. Die example, a coach said God told her to drop her most hectic course and doubled the revenue from other sources. Even yahoo boys that seems not to work for their money spend hours trying to convince/confuse people to part with their money.

2. Women still experience pain from pregnancy to child birth. Physical and emotional pain. However, we have women like the Hebrew women who birthed easily before the Eygptian midwives came so they would not kill their sons. A woman can key into that, people have testified of very short labours.

b. Ruled by her husband: largely dependent on the husband chosen. We have the Abrahams who listened to their wives and when confused, went to God for clarity. We have the Rebeccas able to deceive Isaac and live in peace. We have the virtuous woman praised and adored by her husband. We have the Jacobs who believed in a collaborative marriage even though polygamous. We even have the Jezebels who ruled their husbands. We have the Abigails who were wise/sensible because they could 'disobey' their husbands and diffuse a tense situation. And so many other stories in the Bible. Then the new testament law of love and submission in marriage.

C. Satan/Serpent unfortunately has no way out. He has to face his punishment/curse.

Men & women are lucky that there is a way out.

DEMZEE:
Fornication and adultery are both buffers in religion against male sexual mating strategy and women sexual mating strategy

Meaning?

jesusjnr2020:
Sexism Or Feminism? Which Is Worse?

For me, it's clearly sexism, because it's discriminatory and has led to the abuse of most women and also much domestic violence against them.

Even before a woman is born into the world, and still in the womb, she already faces discrimination and rejection from men and also some of her fellow women, like her inlaws, when they get to know find out that she's a girl not a boy as most of them desired her to be.

A girl child is more or less being treated as a second class citizen, with no rights or real value just for being female, while a male child is usually treated as a king and being accorded with much respect just because of his sex.

What a woman goes through in this world just because she's not male is better imagined than experienced.

Men still crucify and blame the woman for all their woes just as Adam did, because of mistake she made in the beginning, as if Adam was a nursing baby that was forced to eat the forbidden fruit. But even nursing babies are able to reject food they don't want.

She was punished for her sins, and that has resulted in a lot of suffering and bondage on her part, but the coming and death of Jesus was meant to also change that and redeem the woman from her sin and its consequences. However that seems not enough for men who want to still keep her in perpetual bondage forever, as they seem to still hold that grudge against her and haven't forgiven her yet.

This include many so-called Christians and church leaders who claim to be of God, yet were still doing everything possible to keep the woman under the bondage and curse of her sins, such as that which was broken by Jesus. But the church ought to be different from the world, and reflect the changes Jesus had made with respect to the redemption of the woman through His death, however they're not much different in the respect of the mistreatment of women, thereby making the efforts of Christ to redeem her to be of none effect in the church.

It baffles me the extent to which many so-called Christian men have no regard for the woman.

They still blame her for every mistake they make, as though, regardless of what she tempts them with, they cannot reject her temptations, and say "NO", as some men have proven to be possible in the Bible which they claim to be the Word of God, like Joseph the son of Jacob in the respect of Portiphar's wife.

They behave like the sexist' Pharisees, who brought only a woman to Jesus and said she was caught in the act of adultery, but couldn't see the blunder in that, as a woman cannot be caught in the act of adultery alone and without a man. John 8:3-5

Hence their sexism and hypocrisy was already clear to Jesus, prompting Him to ask anyone of them who had no sin to cast the first stone, because only leaving out the supposed man caught in act of adultery with her and bringing her alone was a sin in itself, since the Law they tried to use to justify their actions actually commanded that both the man and woman caught in the act to be stoned to death, not just the woman. John 8:6-7

That's the same way most Christian men, including church leaders, behave. For instance, you'd hear them speak constantly and consistently against feminism, but hardly mention anything about sexism which is much more evil and has done more damage to the church and Christian marriages as a whole, than anything feminism ever could.

Women are being mistreated and beaten by many of their Christian husbands among other things, but because of the sexist' mindset and manners of most churches, the men yet feel justified and encouraged to continue with such evils, as they're given the impression that they have all the right to do whatever they liked, while the woman has none and ought not to question them, because as the saying goes, "women ought to submit to their husbands!"

Such oppression is what actually leads to fights for freedom, just it is with racism, so I wouldn't be surprised that feminism in the church is actually a product of sexism in it, as it's one way women are trying to stand up for their rights and saying "enough is enough' for the mistreatment and abuses they've suffered as a result of sexism in the church.

So whatever it is about, it's wouldn't be intended to discriminate against the men or oppress them as sexism is, but to defend themselves and curtail the prejudices they suffer as a result of just being female.

The woman however is not absolved of all blame for her sufferings, because she's also responsible for some of them, and she would be punished for it as the woman, Eve, was in the beginning. But that doesn't mean that any woman who decides to do what's right, should still be punished and kept in perpetual bondage for the sins of another woman, even though she's been set free from it, just because she is a woman.

Jesus said that only one thing is needful, and that the woman who had chosen not to follow Eve's example, but to do things right instead, and place the Word of God above everything else, including men, had chosen that right part, which no one could take away from her. John 10:42

So if the church likes, they should continue being sexist towards the women, but according to this Jesus' saying, once a woman has chosen that right part of God's Word and placed it above everything else in her life, including men, there's nothing they can do to take away that part from her, because that's all a woman needs.

God bless.

The topic is controversial and different from the OP.

I think 'Sexism or better put 'Misogyny in the Church's is a better title because you are dealing with sexism from one angle: man to woman.

That said, I have opened a thread on same issue. While I have not noticed the general misogyny in the Church (outside marriage), the Nigerian church greatly enables terrible husbands.

Greatly.

That's why any woman who claims to be a Christian should study the Bible and know what is expected of a Christian husband and demand it in her future spouse.

Stealing or lying, which is worse?

Adultery or fornication, which is worse?

starstunna1313:
NONE… JUST DO WHAT YOU HAVE TO DO, BUT FOR ME I CAN NOT TRADE MY HAPPINESS FOR RELATIONSHIP. SO FAR I AM HAPPY TO LEAVE THE OTHER PERSON SHOULD TRY AND SORT HERSELF OUT. SIMPLE

@bold:

You are so selfish and not ready for a relationship.