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pocohantas:
Sounds cool now…

Tomorrow if they tell you to pay her child support, you will ask why she couldn’t work for her own money.

I wish you two love and light. May joy never depart from your home.

Is child support for the child(Ren) or mother?

While they are married, she is providing emotional support while he provides financial support (in simple terms).

If after a divorce (God forbid ), we still expect that man to provide financial support for his wife (not kids) with the typical (he must maintain the lifestyle she is used it), is she also obligated to provide the emotional support he is used to?

Ozil my twin, how did you break up with the girlfriend of your humble beginnings and pick up a soccer slut?

Na karma be this

October babies have more sense than this na

Teenage relationships just started?

While I was in secondary school, there were plenty peeps who cut grass for making couples' list.

This was about 20yrs back.

And I had seniors in the very late 90s deboarded/suspended for getting pregnant.

angelfallz:
Lol you did not say anything at all.
I would take it that maybe you were busy or feeling sleepy when your comment.

1st bolded,
Wetin concern hotel, concern NEPA bill for compound? The oga is just a werey.

2nd bolded, unless he ate the money, there is nothing to apologise for. If he has the money that must mean he also has the other tenants money. He should call a meeting to alert the other tenants that the woman wants to collect her money back, what they decide at the meeting he should abide by it. simple.

My post was to the OP and I am sure he has picked whatever he needed to (if any).

Headworld4real:
Good day to everyone,

Yesterday evening I had a little misunderstanding with my neighbour who happens to be a police women at (Ojulelegba division) concerning the issue of payment of NEPA BILL. I happen to be the coordinator sharing the NEPA bills, nepa pple came yesterday do disconnect our light base on the level that we refused to collect perpayed meter which we are not aware of it when they brought it.

After the disconnection, I called everybody to explain what happened to them, this police woman started shouting that she will not use the same perpayed meter with us. That she will get her own perpayed meter separately which is fine for the rest of us because she a trouble woman.

After the meeting I just saw her at my door calling me to come out which i did, she told me to refund her money which she paid for the month of MAY. I was like, i dont understand ma. She said she is not going to pay for any bill that i should refund her which i refused. She started shouting and threatening me that she is going show. Immediately, i called her husband to report the matter to him. Which he told me not worry my self about that .

To my suprise, when I got to work this morning, my boss called me to come to his office that i have a query to answer. When i got to the office he told that why am i fighting somebody that can take away my job, i was like... Sir i don't understand. He said he got a report that I was abusing a police officer concerning light issues in my compand yes or no and I said yes. He said I should go that he will get back to me. I work as a supervisor in an hotel.

Pls, what do u think I can do to save my job? A little advice will help. Thanks....

You have gotten lots of good counsel already.

Like peeps have said, the hotel needs the policewoman more than they need you.

That should tell you your position in the matter.

Please if you have her money, return it. If you don't, apologize and explain to her.

Since your boss has already defended you while appealing to her ego, just tow his path and move on.

Pick your battles wisely.

Money cannot buy class sha.

Calitoscassius:
They are lucky no one pays taxes in nigeria. If you pull this kinda stupid stunt in some countries the tax man will come for you for his own bulky share. Next time you will hide. The HMRC would also like to know where, how and when you acquired such cash.

No one pays taxes in Nigeria?

The way peeps come up with facts sha....

Angelfrost:
You don't learn infidelity from a cheating partner... Matter of fact, no decent person gives up his or her decency in response to the indecency and indiscretion of his/her partner. That is too lame an excuse. Perish that thought process!

Cheaters do so because they want to! SIMPLE!!!

@ bold:

100%

@OP:

Some people chop liver, choo heart join.

Your lover's husband caught you in his house and you still have the guts to Continue eating.

That man should watch his back before his wife and her lover kills him.

One4me:
In your small mind, the only type of Crime that can be committed, has to be LEGAL?
What about Crimes of Morality?,
what about Crime against Virtues?
What about crimes against the Marriage Vows, Loyalty, Integrity, etc
What about Crimes against "Position of Trust" or will you say the same thing if a Teacher Impregnates your daughter and claim she was in-love with him?

I guess Nigeria has become so debased, to the point that very Bad and Evil things have become "NORMALISED" to people like you.

That Man awaiting trial (still innocent until convicted), will never leave that Prison alive, that Correctional Officer has signed his death warrant and he would die mysteriously in that Prison.

The greatest threat to any married man is when your Wife starts phucking another Man.

It is definitely small mindedness and lack of common sense to result to insults if you do not understand a post.

What legal crime has the correctional officer committed?

Under what law would he be punished?

What legal crime was committed here?

olabrinks:
a fifty year old is not fresh like wine, please you men should please stop deceiving yourself. No 20 year old high value woman is Dating a 50 year old unless there’s multi millions involved and only 7% of men in the world acquire that wealth. Please stop being delusional, men peak at 35 and it’s downwards from there.

No human being is 'fresh' in the sexual market (especially for a new partner) after spending 50yrs in the same body.

Well maintained (if they do), yes!

Doesn't change the fact that they are already aloku.

@OP:

Why is a 28yr old woman interested in a 38yr old man sef?

Two years from 40? About 50% of average life span of 80yrs?

Why is the husband's family so involved in their business for starters?

DrObum:
Like, she was meant to run and leave the pregnancy behind?

Hahahahahaha!

Gadafii:
America and her gun wahala, nigeria with her cow/fulani wahala, South Africa with looting, German, Netherland with flooding, UK with knives attack...every mallam with him kettle

As in, the kettle reach every Mallam.

Congratulations to her.

@Rhodaogunpeju:

What does he say when you suggest spicing things up?

What do you mean by spicing things up?

From the OP, you are not interested in politics which he has picked up; what are you interested in?

Can you both meet at a point? Develop interest in politics/ just listen to him and also discuss your interests with him.

@sex appeal, what turns you on in a man? What appeals to you sexually? Can you implement it in him? Is there something turning you off unconsciously in him? Perhaps his weight? Lack of similar interests? Lack of romance?

Do you guys still date? Go out together? Romance yourselves? Talk about your sex life?

There is nowhere in the world earning N50m/annum ($100k) is considered poor or lower middle class.

That person is rich in Nigeria and edging towards upper middle class in other societies using the dollar as a base line.

Funny thread.

I hope Madam Brenda's hands is 100% clean in this matter sha.

Because Naijaloaded is too small an outlet to cause a dent on her image and keeping quiet would have died the matter/allegations than this dragging she is doing.

pocohantas:
The girl lies too much and has turned this thing into a reality show.

- At first she said she knew nothing about his personal life. She doesn’t know if he was married, but he had this married aura.

- Now she knows he was married and had marital issues.

- She said they drank, smoked and he wanted sex which she wasn’t ready for. So he started chasing her round the house till she got to the kitchen. He choked her and she stabbed him in self-defence.

- When his body was examined and it showed the man was strangled, she changed her story again. This time she told us how she tied him up while he was asleep.

Why does she keep changing her story?
What is she hiding?
Who is she protecting?
Why is the press indulging her?
Why is someone being held for a crime as heavy as murder laughing?
Why does she even look so relaxed and beautiful? They loosened her hair, washed it and combed it out for her. A murder suspect.

Could it be that she knows something we do not know?

I just pity the late Usifo because it is obvious he died for nothing. This is disgraceful to him and the family he left behind.

May God give her lawyer the grace to defend a client who keeps changing her story per second. Nothing she has said so far is admissible. Let’s just focus on the major thing, she killed the man.

Las las, nothing would happen to her.

There is something seriously off with the case.

She seems to have very big gods behind her.

@Thermidehby:

The only problem your 'friend' has with her boyfriend is the fact he is stingy.

It is either she gets him to become much more generous and placing her on monthly allowance OR she gets a richer, more generous boyfriend.

Once he is generous and has money to spend, he can do no wrong to her.

Welcome to 'Nigerian' marriage 101.

I am amused when I read people's fantasies online; the real world never disappoints.

If this happened in Nigeria or Africa, ndi saner climes will not let us rest.

Congratulations to Italy jare.

After that sakamaje with Denmark, I wanted Italy to beat them.

bjprodint1:
(a)Dont marry out of pity.(b)marry someone who loves what u love(c)marriage does not change people(d)only love cannot keep ur marriage(e)obey ur parents,they know whats best 4 u

What is your definition of love?

Every mallam to his kettle.

The people on this thread are strong sha.

You intend to marry, sex with, eat with and generally live with someone you cannot trust with your money.

Better safe than sorry.

For surprises, you use the most familiar person so it is natural.

How can they pick a random person?

Who knows, the hubby MIGHT actually be a serial killer.

On the flip side, the employee might have filled her mind with fear from the constant male smearing around so she sees danger everywhere.

If the second, she should renew her mind.

How did b*tch translate to 'beautiful women'?

Is this what your momager taught you?

observer24:
Nobody forces anybody. Most women engage in this freely and afterwards cry victim. If a man wants sex in return for assistance, you can easily say NO and move on. If you weren't raped, then you agreed to have sex in return for assistance rendered. That's consent. No pressures. No force. No advantage taken. You have willpower. Say NO and stop crying victim.

@bold:

Simple as ABC.

It is laudable that they are taking steps to correct it. With more women empowerment schemes, coke for sex should stop or reduce.

Wetin person nor go see?

It is either the President was nepotic or she was truly supportive of his government.

But again, it is good to be appreciative when required.

The man overstepped his boundary and offering the wife N500k instead of cautioning /appealing to the husband is adding fuel to the fire.

While the husband was/is wrong to 'shout' at the wife in public, you cannot control the reaction of someone who has to cough another N350k to get a phone.

This is where heels are good sha.

Just use your heels to stand on his shoe and smile thinly telling him with your eyes not to shout at you in public (if continuous) while apologizing for the broken screen with your mouth.

If she was chosen by God, why not?

Is the story because they are not married and have sex simultaneously?

Baba Mufu does same at Alapeere, he is just married to them.