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Zabiboy:

Every single Human on this earth is a Hypocrite..
Both Me, you, the O.P, our parents e.t.c ...
Even our children, grandchildren and generations to come would still be hypocrites...
Denying the above further highlights the hypocrisy in you

Hahahahahahaha

This was hilarious!

Pablo25:
A Nigerian father identified as Felix Obazee, has revealed that he employed his son, Uyiogosa, as a security man at his company.



Obazee, who is the CEO of Fionet Security Services, made this known via a LinkedIn post. He shared photos of his child dressed in the company’s security uniform and said that he did it in order to give his son quality parenting.

In the post, he posed rhetorical questions to people, asking if they would choose to teach their kids their business or shield them with the flimsy talk that they do not want them to suffer.

He also thanked God for the grace he bestowed on him which enabled him to bring up responsible children, that would become leaders of their generation.



Mr Obazee’s post received numerous reactions from LinkedIn users.

Read some of the reactions:

Dotun Jegede: Talented young man builds petrol tanker prototype, photos go viral “My daughter is 10, she helps me document my consultancy income at home. She helps input data and collate client database. On this very Satuday, we both went out inside the estate to do some online submissions plans sorting.

Abraham Ojo: I hope you paid the young man.

Bala: Felix, you are my most envied parent today and will be for a long time. But credit must also go to Uyi (who deserves and lives his name ‘Praise’) for submitting to your guidance. It is not easy these days to convince adult elite children to discipline methods like these.

Kelechi Uchenna: My opinion, I would introduce my children to my business and let them know that they are welcome to join the business if they are interested. They can be executive directors or non executive directors( owners) depending on their choice…

Source: https://www.solely4kids.com/2020/10/nigerian-father-employs-his-son-as.html

Watched this in a movie starring Makanaki and Ruth Kadiri.

Good one daddy.

Son is still trying to form small swag in his uniform

Is this the right time for the award?

The elites consistently living in a parallel universe would end in revolution.

Kondomatic:
I no get anything to prove abeg.


You're so right, I was once trying to see if a relationship will work between I and one gehl like that but then I noticed that she sabi make references to her ex.


"you're sounding like Alex"
"That's what Alex would do/say"


Omo nah so I reason am come see say nah to be more like her ex sure pass.






I leave am.

Hahahahahahaha

Sorry.

Kondomatic:
Divorced women should look for divorced men. Very simple.



I can't marry a divorcee, it either she was the problem or the man was the problem.



If she was the problem then she is still a problem.


If the man was the problem then it's still a problem.
I don't have the energy to prove to anyone that I am not an ass like her ex husband.

Anyway which way, you are sha not doing.

I agree with you o jare.

@bold:

Not only divorced people:

Same with young men and women who have consistently made wrong choices under the guise of foolishness, wokeness or freedom.

They will happily take trash from the nonentities not expecting much from them then put you on high jumps to prove you are 'good'.

mariahAngel:
As Christians, as long as the spouses are still alive, they're still considered married if they married in church, separated or not. (Till death do them part)
It is okay to marry a widow/widower than a divorcee.

@bold:

Something that 'Christians' of this generation do not consider.

Marriage under the Christian vows is a covenant broken by death.

The only reason permitted for a divorce in the New Teastament is adultery.

Can they marry after that: is debatable.

Seperation is allowed if an unbelieving spouse decides to walk away. This provision is IF you were both unbelievers before marriage and you converted.

Who you marry can make or Mar you.

angelfallz:
i agree with you. however, some men don't see it like that.
for the bolded it would be hard to find a man that sex is not important to.

I never said sex was not important to men

angelfallz:
What if the wife was denying him sex?

He has the option of walking out of the marriage if sex is so important to him.

The adulterer/adulteress might have a 'good' reason: 'he/she is nor good in bed, not attentive to me, we are in a long distance marriage, I am doing revenge cheating' etc.

However, they want to eat their cake and have it. They want to have the value the other spouse still brings to the table (home management, money, prestige, societal acceptance, security, secular and religious standing, child care etc.) and 'have their fill outside'.

It is often said:

Half bread is better than none.

In some cases, none is better.

What is the business of your fans or AC with the issue at hand?

Instead of you to offer a heartfelt apology to the lady you battered, you are telling fans 'you are on top of the situation'.

Means you were more concerned that you were found out and not the fact you beat someone in the first place.

Sighs.

Anither woman would read this, put up with you and start wailing after 1 year how evil you are

Jemiwizzy:
I don't know why men have this habit of cheating. Why must you cheat when you have a wife?

My big sis left her husband's house today because she caught her husband with another woman in her matrimonial bed.

Sometimes I think being single is the best way. All this cheating here and there is too much, can't believe my sister has to go through all this pain now.

Sorry to your sister about the betrayal and I wish her strength to carry on irrespective of her final decision.

@question: men cheat with women.

@Reason: the root reason of adultery is selfishness.

Kemimarch16:
Money is not everything, I want to address my husband as MY HUSBAND and not our husband

Hahahahahahaha

The real daddy wa.

Built2last:
In Nigeria, Parents want their divorced daughters to re-marry but don't want their sons to marry a divorced woman.

Why?

Hahahahahahaha

'Werey dun wo, ko se bi lomo'.

If you understand that proverb, it would be clearer to you.

On another level, Ned is right.

Princesses are women/wives who are sugar babies, trophy wives, relass and be taken kiaroff types.

Queens are home keepers/managers, resource managers, making sure all is well.

Happy birthday princess

Pathetic.

Oga, you would have just divorced or moved on.

Now your kids are orphans because you acted in a moment of madness.

Beverlyjean:
I totally support her...this country is really mad... the north are busy planning on how to hold on to power for the next 600 years...the South is busy celebrating porns.tars and rewarding them

Madam, please remove the 'Is it because I am a woman' part from this discussion.

Kudos for making us very proud without stripping or giving BJ on screen.

darlenese:
WTH
These girls are now trying to rubbish the whole #endsars protest thing, what nonsense are they talking about ?
Very soon you will hear #Yahooboyslifematters
Rubbish

She has told us why prostitutes joined the campaign.

Others might not be so bold/truthful to say why.

I am sure Yahoo boys and their family members would be part of the #endSARS protest.

Teacher1776:
A responsible police force can function to put an end to Yahoo boys without itself being a nuisance.
Things must be done in a civilised manner. In the modern world fraudsters are not detected by randomly harrasing every young man found with a mobile phone.
Here, SARS abandoned the real task of fighting crime and ended up being Robbers themselves. That is the SARS that must be ended.

True.

dvdlamb:
Of course, people partake in ENDSARS protest for reasons , a very few for genuine change of state of affairs, a few for a better policing and better Nigeria and junk of them for irrational reasons.

Minor edit:

People partake in any protest /course for various reasons.

Most not selfless or out of geniune concern.

crackhaus:
Lmao... so you have sharp tongue like this

Innocent me?

This must be a joke!

Madam Angela did not know the culture she was marrying into?

Did she & Michael not talk about kids?

How can Michael's family engage her to 'let Michael have kids from other women' (whom I suspect is already existing)? Do they even engage Nigerian wives for such?

If kids was so important to Michael, why did he marry an older woman?

Before you build a house, you count the cost:

Can two walk together except they are agreed?

Bunch of jokers, them all!

Karleb:
How do you expect the gods to forgive you for not leaving this shiithole when you had the chance?

Sometimes, little mistakes have big consequences such as this.

Travel out to do what?

AIlahuAkbar:
They don't send any upkeep, the last time one of them visited was during November last year and since then she hasn't even called, I recently called her to inform her that NEPA is about to disconnect our light and the meagre pension my parents receives barely reaches them to feed talkless of bills especially now that there's a hike in electricity bill, when I called and informed her to help, she said she doesn't have money, meanwhile she just received salary last week and as a Federal worker she's earning close to 120k, doesn't have responsibilities cos she is in her mid 30's, she isn't even married nor has kids, she's staying alone but doesn't remember she has parents at home.
Same goes to my other siblings too, they don't send any kobo to parents, nor send foodstuffs nor visits. they don't even call but surprisingly they're all federal workers and earning very well

I'm studying far away from home (University of Ibadan) while my parents are based in Delta, I only come home during vacation and I've been here with them since March, I go out and engage on hard labour jobs just to fetch a lil income to support them and make them smile cos you only have your parents once and when they're gone you'll never have the chance to see them again.
Just can't wait to fuccking graduate and start hustling for a legit business and income.
My parents are getting old (dad early 70's mum late 60's) and I pray God keeps them alive so I reciprocate their good gestures and take good care of 'em.
Meanwhile God punish ASUU and federal government join together for delaying the progress of my destiny

Have you engaged your siblings as to why they don't care for your parents especially as they no longer work/earn?

Liposure:
Its hypocritical to look after your immediate family and neglect your parent. Blood is thicker than water

The full proverb is actually:

“the blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb”

And your immediate family is also your 'blood'

NoToPile:
The bolded is my fear because I tried the freezer method before .

As long as there is light, it stays frozen.

NoToPile:
In fridge or freezer?


Thanks ooo, hoping God will touch their hearts to do the transformer on time.

Freezer.

I wash, strain and portion in ziplock packs. It stays fresh and frozen till exhausted.

Once it defrosts, it becomes water sha

Amen to your transformer o!

angelfallz:
Lol, i don't ask her how much she buys them, even when she tells me, i don't remember the price.

When you start spending, you will remember

NoToPile:
Abeg how does she dry the grinded tomatoes? Abi you meant boiling till all the water dries


At your 2nd bolded I was actually waiting to learn another trick.

The truth is its like all the tricks our mothers taught us are not working with the overinflated price of stuffs.


Okay lemme gist you small, yesternight our transformer hiccupped and they sent a watsap message on the CDA that one fuse did something and that testing unit of EKEDC will have to come and ascertain if its safe to reconnect, as hubby shared the chat with me, my heart did gbim gbim (my freezer ooo was what was on my mind).
We hardly put on gen because of the stable light, today someone has come to service the gen. ( costs money) by tomorrow morning the ice will have melted away, and we have to preserve the foodstuff , its petrol ( which was not budgeted for) we will use to run gen in the evenings.

Which account will that one go to now?

Washing the tomatoes and packing in ziplock bags would keep it as long as possible (provided there is light/constant gen).

@Bold: e-hugs

I almost cried when my compressor spoilt after stocking my freezer and I had to restock.

The resources wasted (money, time and energy).

Chai!

crackhaus:
Lol..

I know some people who will do less than 2k data sub in a month to be used only at night and weekends. Their office WiFi is used for everything once they resume work in the morning.

All na money-saving...

It is well

angelfallz:
Lool, yes buying in bulk is one of the tricks. Let me tell you one of the secrets my mum uses. You see tomatoes, my mum waits until it is the season for tomatoes and then she goes to the market very early around 7am. She now buys a basket or 2 of tomatoes very cheap, grinds it and then dries the tomatoes, it serves us until the next tomatoes season. Similar with dry fish and stock fish, in fact we have a whole sack of them in our freezer at home. the same for most of the other foodstuff. Mind you, we have two deep freezers.
So while buying food stuff in bulk is one of them, timing is another and other cost cutting measures which i don't know about. So my initial reply still stands.

Hahahahahaha @ very cheap (you did not put a tag on it).

And things have suddenly become more expensive.

Good strategies that can be applied.

Good housekeeping to mummy

NoToPile:

That's approx N60k/month for feeding five people.