Family › Re: Woman Gives Birth To Triplets In Edo After Her Husband Abandoned Her (Pix) by bukatyne(f): 2:55pm On Oct 07, 2020 |
Bkayyy: Read all of my post before you jump in like that. I typed something about the useless man and woman that commited this atrocity You were blaming the woman for something she has no control over (multiple births). Except there is information that she had kids prior, then she can be blamed for getting pregnant in their economic condition. |
Family › Re: An Average Home Monthly Expenses: by bukatyne(f): 2:50pm On Oct 07, 2020 |
crackhaus: Good you mentioned work, meaning there's an income coming in to cover spending such amounts on data.
Basically more or less the same amount one would have spent for transportation/fueling if they were going out to work everyday, so it makes sense..
Other than the above situation, and if a person is not making money from the internet yet spends so much on data, they better reorganize their lives. True. Except they replaced cable TV with internet TV. There was a time some guys did the analysis and switched especially those not so into football. |
Family › Re: An Average Home Monthly Expenses: by bukatyne(f): 2:48pm On Oct 07, 2020 |
crackhaus: Very necessary oo, especially among your sisters dem.  
Dem go wan live baby girl lifestyle with less than 300k monthly net income. It is not by income again. I was shocked when one oga resumed office because WFH is too expensive after comparison. 20 mins drive to and fro work and feeding is cheaper than running diesel/fuel for 24hrs a day. Add data to it. |
Family › Re: An Average Home Monthly Expenses: by bukatyne(f): 2:41pm On Oct 07, 2020 |
NoToPile: Loool how, after buying in bulk to gain some small change what else? Reduce quantity/quality, I am not even talking about anything extraordinary , just basic healthy meals oo.
Almost everything is double the price now.
You are a guy joor you won't understand until you go out there to buy these stuffs, you won't even know feeding gulps much until you add everything up to the last kobo.
If someone comes to ask me which should he/ she choose between paying a rent of 300- 400k and taking care of feeding for a family of four/ five I will advise the person to choose paying rent. At least you will gather money to pay rent once, chop money - you no dey pay am finish Rent of N400k per annum is a steal than feeding in this Buhari's Nigeria. Rent of N700k is more like it. And baby girl, still go for the rent  |
Family › Re: An Average Home Monthly Expenses: by bukatyne(f): 2:38pm On Oct 07, 2020 |
crackhaus: Still excessive.
What are they using it for? Instagram? YouTube? Facebook? Or are they conducting business on the internet? Work from home and/or online classes. |
Family › Re: An Average Home Monthly Expenses: by bukatyne(f): 2:24pm On Oct 07, 2020 |
crackhaus: Lol, how many homes are spending 247k a month based on this list though? Very funny 
This one is for people who want to do big man/woman, which is not a bad thing if you have the financial flexibility. However for a budget family, that list above can be trimmed down...
DStv 12k – This is unnecessary especially when you spend most of your day at work...unless you nor get work, and in which case, there's definitely no need. I mean who will watch all the channels in a 12k DStv bouquet when they are hardly home? The house na hotel? There's a compact family bouquet for less then 5k with enough quality channels (sports, cartoons, news, series, movies, educational).
Internet 20k – Obviously for people who are always on Instagram and YouTube watching videos wey no concern them. 20k will give you 110GB on MTN for one month, even more on other networks. Tell me one profitable thing that a busy man/woman who isn't into any online business will be using all this data for in a month?
Foodstuff 150k – Let me leave this one for women, only una know the food wey una wan use 150k cater for in a month, and for how many people. Unless you're implying that couples who are making a combined income of say 200k are not eating properly, or those earning a combined 300k are using half of it for only food abi... Mehhhhhhh! One wise man be don talk say belle nor be show-glass.
Fuel 30k – Depending on your car engine's type, and how much time you spend driving around (you're not doing Uber o), this can also be reduced. Nor be every time you go dey run AC, and please stick to buying cars that will conserve fuel. Comot eye for V6 and luxury vehicles dem.
Deliberately left out expenses on the maid and electricity, as these can be fixed and may not be cut down.
Summary: If one has the income to support a 247k monthly expense bill, please go for it. The ones who like to act like big man/woman with their less then 300k a month income, you better receive sense and be guided... Na real receieve sense and be guided o! I know companies that packed up and people just lost their jobs. Or CEOs realizing that some roles can be done without and the employees relieved. This COVID-19 was really woke the world up financially. |
Family › Re: An Average Home Monthly Expenses: by bukatyne(f): 2:20pm On Oct 07, 2020 |
angelfallz: An intelligent woman would know how to tackle feeding. How would she tackle feeding? Give us examples. People would pick a thing or two. |
Family › Re: An Average Home Monthly Expenses: by bukatyne(f): 2:19pm On Oct 07, 2020 |
IyaTola: An average home monthly expenses: Dstv 12k Internet 20k Maid 20k Light 15k Food stuff 150k fuel 30k (assuming you have 1 car) Total: 247k No Rent, pocket money, School fees, tailor, Health, helping relatives or any luxury expenses. A lot of homes run on insha ALLAH because how much is the man earning? Keep in mind not everyone will have a white collar job or a thriving business. But these young folks will come online and tweet rubbish because they’re so out of touch with reality. MTN has a N5k internet bundled for 30Gb. Except you mean N20k for the family. N150k for food per month must be for a very large family. Food is now very expensive however, this post COVID-19 world is time to cut costs. Things can twist and turn at anytime. What rubbish are the young folks tweeting though? |
Family › Re: Woman Gives Birth To Triplets In Edo After Her Husband Abandoned Her (Pix) by bukatyne(f): 2:09pm On Oct 07, 2020 |
Bkayyy: See wicked woman, bringing three innocent children to suffer with you. Please it is not a must that everybody will procreate. If you and your partner can't afford to take care of the children, Zip up and close your Vagina. The man responsible for this wickedness is supposed to be given death sentence Wicked woman  ? Did she split the embryos herself?  |
Family › Re: Woman Gives Birth To Triplets In Edo After Her Husband Abandoned Her (Pix) by bukatyne(f): 2:06pm On Oct 07, 2020 |
Godchosen001: Don't blame the husband, things are now expensive And running away would reduce the cost. |
Celebrities › Re: Thacutegeminme: Why Lil Frosh Beat Me - Girlfriend Breaks Silence by bukatyne(f): 2:00pm On Oct 07, 2020 |
Thank goodness, you activated your brain and ran. You did not marry him and started lamenting when he continues the boxing after marriage. P. S.: When you are sharing your hotspot with someone, a call interrupts the connection. And why a live-in relationship  |
Career › Re: Secondary School Teaching Vs Lecturing: Which Of These Two Jobs Should I Choose? by bukatyne(f): 11:20am On Oct 07, 2020 |
LikeAking: Take the P uni JOB. E get more levels. One more thing Babes. The OP should make a life changing decision because of access to more sex? Go and wash your head seven times in the Lagoon. It is desperately needed.  |
Career › Re: Secondary School Teaching Vs Lecturing: Which Of These Two Jobs Should I Choose? by bukatyne(f): 11:01am On Oct 07, 2020 |
Emir8: Hello Nairalander, I really need advice concerning making a choice between the two jobs before me. My family members are divided over which job I should choose.
I'm working in a highbrow secondary school and my start up salary was N75,000. After three years, my salary is now N96,000.00. I just got a lecturing job with a private university and my gross salary according to the appointment letter is N88,000.00. My father wants me to continue with my teaching in the secondary school but my mother and fiancee are pressuring me to write acceptance letter to the university and accept the offer. There's no time, both the university and the secondary school will be resuming on 12/10/2020 and I have to make a choice between now and Thursday. My fiancee is already calling herself "wife of a lecturer" and threatening that she will quit the relationship if I did not accept the university offer. My mind is in the secondary school because there is free lunch and N150,000.00 housing allowance per year, but the university doesn't give lunch and housing allowance.
Should I go and become Mr. Lecturer and sacrifice my secondary school benefits? . Continue in the secondary school, do your PhD and reapply to another university. |
Celebrities › Re: Stephanie Okereke Linus Celebrates Her 38th Birthday Today by bukatyne(f): 10:58am On Oct 06, 2020 |
armyofone: What's the name of the short hairstyle ? Was it relaxed ?
Bukatyne, any idea ? I am guessing she did bantu knots or twist outs (braids/twisting). It is more of how she played with it. |
Family › Re: Husband Ends Marriage After 6 Weeks Because His Wife Used Juju To Make Him Marry by bukatyne(f): 12:01pm On Oct 05, 2020 |
Jazz expired in six weeks?
The lady should get a refund. |
Family › Re: Is Marriage Supposed To Be Enjoyed Or Endured? by bukatyne(f): 12:10am On Oct 05, 2020 |
How your marriage is going to be depends on you.
If you want to enjoy it, you prepare to enjoy it. This means if you don't prepare to enjoy it, you automatically prepare to 'endure' it.
@Endurance: While it is used in a negative context for abuse especially domestic and adultery, you must be prepared to endure some things.
Like in life, there are some circumstances you endure for a greater tomorrow. It could circumstances such as living apart, challenging illness, childlessness, loss of job, in-laws interference, initial incompatible sex life, a special needs child, persecution from a spouse if one person converts to another religion etc.
While enduring any of the above or other challenges life throws at your marriage (if any), you work towards solutions or acceptance with your spouse. |
Romance › Re: . by bukatyne(f): 12:03am On Oct 05, 2020 |
TheUndercover: I remember vividly a day I boarded a bus (danfo) and I was sitting in the second row going for my daily hustle as usual and along the way a lady got in at one of the bus stop and sat in the first row directly opposite to me. She was was wearing tight clothing and revealing her endowments you know what I mean and suddenly I felt her ass moved closer to my knee. This is where my ordeal started 
I moved back to keep my leg away from her ass but she will still move her ass closer to me, I tried to avoid eye contact through the front view mirror by resting my head on the first row sit and still push my legs back a little but she always push it back to my knee grinding her ass to my knee. I looked up our face met, she gave me one seductive look, I couldn't even say anything because the temptation was too much. That moment, for almost 30 minutes, gave me goose bumps and my heart rate increased. 
She finally alighted from the bus and our eyes met again for the final time. I couldn't take that moment from my head ever since then. I also had similar experiences like that too.
Share Yours..
#Modified I had to delete the second story for obvious reason. Some people might start generating dirty thoughts in their minds. It can be quite embarrassing. Some guys use their knee to rub ladies' bum also. Anyways, 'aunty please adjust, you are seating on my leg' does the magic or 'uncle please adjust, you are pressing my back.' |
Family › Re: Men... We Need To Stop This!!! by bukatyne(f): 11:58pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
[quote author=midehill post=94615582][/quote]Yep! My husband's baby girl  |
Family › Re: What Does The Law Say? by bukatyne(f): 11:23pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
Switch places.
If you were the landlord, what would you want?
The law has no morals. |
Crime › Re: How Do We Explain To The World That These Men Are Security Personnel?? by bukatyne(f): 10:53pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
Reminds me of the police men we saw at Badagry area some years back.
They look more hardened and scary than armed robbers.
They gave this 'We become the armed robbers at night' vibes. |
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Family › Re: I Want To Start Smoking Weed by bukatyne(f): 10:17pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
bjprodint: this is the first time am hearing such from a woman .other women pray for their men to stop smoking but you have been wrapping it for him and now wants to graduate into smoking. i dont think your husband will want you to beat him so he will graduate to taking tramadol.
my sister,if you start smoking who will do the wrapping for you,the kids,i guess.
what a lovely family! Abeg leave me this night! |
Family › Re: I Want To Start Smoking Weed by bukatyne(f): 10:16pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
ITbomb: I remember what my landlord used to tell his son. He said "Solo, let me be the only one drinking so that person go dey wey go close door for night Oko Oro. |
Family › Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by bukatyne(f): 10:13pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
IamD18: I like your person.
I honestly like your person. 
I just followed you. Thank you. |
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Family › Re: Why Am I Depressed by bukatyne(f): 10:08pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
Righteousness89:
That's an opening for your Finances to be toiled Messed with...
Repent , Ask God for Forgiveness and Begin to tithe..
If you Gamble , Delete yourself from it.. If you are involved in any Unrighteousness, Immorality and all that! Make Amends! Repent and Ask God for Forgiveness.. So if someone tithes, is lazy, slothful or a gambler, you think God would bless him more than a diligent worker that does not tithe? There are principles of riches and ANYONE who follows those principles would be rich: Christian, Muslim, Atheist, Jujumam, Tither, Non-Tither etc. |
Family › Re: Why Am I Depressed by bukatyne(f): 10:05pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
martinskelly: I NEED HELP!
I'm just frustrated and depressed as I'm typing this. Life is not just fair, debt everywhere even with the good job i have I'm still not doing well.
Huge debt on my neck like I'm wearing slave trade chains, the more i try to get answers the more i dabble into much more problems (if you know what i mean). You know you are addicted to gambling yet typed the above? Why waste your emotions on depression when the solution is right in front of you? You work therefore earn. Live below your income, stop gambling, save and invest. To help live below your income, have an excel sheet to budget and track your expenses. If your village people are on your case, do auto-deductions from your salary and send to an account you cannot touch until after a certain period. Biko, clean up yourself financially and live innocent depression alone.  |
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Family › Re: Men... We Need To Stop This!!! by bukatyne(f): 9:48pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
midehill: Itz allowed... The article is not meant to please u  |
Family › Re: . by bukatyne(f): 9:48pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
mariahAngel: They weren't always that way...
I remember when I newly started frequenting the family section, I came across some of your threads and views, I was so shocked at how very insensitive (no offense meant) they were. Wait till tomorrow and same scenario plays out itself. No offense taken. |
Politics › Re: How Fani-kayode Caught Estranged Wife, Precious, In Bed With Naval Officer by bukatyne(f): 9:46pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
The fact that real names are named and police quoted. I believe this story. That doesn't exonerate FFK though: a man married four times is a colossal marital failure. They should help me slap that yeye DSS guy first. A whole father of three, you open your mouth paka that someone 'lured' you to an hotel. What did you think you were going to do? Praise and Worship  ? |
Politics › Re: How Fani-kayode Caught Estranged Wife, Precious, In Bed With Naval Officer by bukatyne(f): 9:42pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
Ok oo. So spouse of everyone that now cheats moves with camera around so as to capture the moments?? Hahahahahahaha! |