₦airaland Forum

Ishilove:
Women, guard your homes diligently.

Why na?

I don't like this type of play.

You want to draw us back to the 18th Century?

Biko stop it.

The wife owns her body and can do whatever she likes with it.

Ishilove:
See me looking at you with side eyes. Which strutting grace? Most times they look like floating twigs on the runway.

Ki re??

The lady like Olajumoke is lucky.

Olajumoke's luck was more a flash in the pan.

apache4:
ikota shoping complex just beside VGC

Cheap Ikota?

It seems that poster offended you in his/her last life

Loneliness is different from being alone.

Marriage does not cure loneliness, it however ensures you are not alone in the journey of life.

CsRockefeller:
Some sense in what she said though.

That is actually the easiest solution to her accommodation problem.


Easiest not best.

An abused Nigerian child would tell his mother to calm down and even demonstrate sitting down to her?

Starz825:
E shock you...
Too much Sex dey bring resemblance na

Within how many days?

Congratulations, may this one last.

Amen.

Joagbaje:
Wrong! That's my elder brother. Just their family friends



Wrong , it was just sent among friends for laff . But it got out of hand for good

Interesting.

They look alike in the last picture.

Ishilove:
I'm finding the story very hard to believe.

I do too.

Let's see how it ends.

There is more to the story than is said.

Let's see how this ends as it has been picked up.

What was the intent of moving her from place to place and ending up at the guest house? How did they/he successfully transport an unwilling woman they have nothing against (ruling out blackmail) to a guest house?

Did they all plan to rape her and only one went through with it at the end?

Kobojunkie:
She should go throw a party to celebrate the fact that she did not meet her end before she ended it!

@bold:

Toke has made the 'Relazzz and let him take Kia of me' popular on IG.

frozen70:
You have a right to your privacy

You can have so many social media accounts with different emails

Creat one and give him the password and another one which is strictly for your eyes only

If you keep refusing he will keep suspecting you

So men are naughty especially when they feel you are too happy being on your lane

@bold:

I assume you meant some:

Doesn't reduce the hilariousness of it though. I imagine such a man thinking of the next thinv to disrupt peace when his wife is smiling too much.

Gosh!

So beautiful

The picture of her in pink

I fact all the pictures.

Why Portia though? Reminds me of Dubai Potty Portias.

God bless you daughter, guard and guide you.

Mummy please maintain this skin.

Sirjames001:
. I believe in equity so I don't see reasons why she is panic

This can be twisted right back at you:

If you believe in 'equity', do the blood oath while she does your traditional stuff.

EOD.

omenka:
Igbere, the least you could have done was to tell us what she said was reason why her husband did what he did. After getting her name, address and who did that to her, that should have been the next logical question: WHY?

Is journalism that difficult?

I wonder o!

Mimiliciously:
1. He pretended o. The moment bride price was paid was when I started seeing signs that he was a control freak.


2. If I was the cowering kind, I would have submitted password two years ago. He can't relinquish everything in the name of marriage. My social media is my social media. He can do whatever he likes with his, let me do what I like with mine.

1. Let me 100% accept this. The way a practical/live case is treated is a little different from theory. If we are having a theoretical discussion, I would have given you my honest opinion

2. Back to my post below especially the bold:

bukatyne:
But you started this marriage with giving in to his whims.

Continue to 'don't nag, don't stress and let him be.'

If he wants the password or wants you to post his pictures, you have to keep giving him to the whims.

If you want to break free, then you have to overhaul the marriage and start afresh.

Do you have the strength and tenacity for that?

cruxgemmata:
So she gave some1 instructions to take pictures of her while doing that, all to post it on SM.

People are really suffering

@Bold:

They are.

Okuda:
lol. i was working at the time and had my own personal car and i am the first son so i know everythig about responsibility.

You did not answer the other questions

I have my answer.

I was waiting to see Nigeria in vain.

God console the members of her family.

Good thing the man has been arrested. Hopefully, he faces the death sentence or live imprisonment with hard labour.

ImaIma1:
That is a silly request. I think it is both; insecurity and control.

After almost 5yrs of marriage, my SM accounts still have my maiden name. My husband sees it and doesn't flinch. The most important documents have his names.

Some people major on the minor and minor on the major.

Well, OP's husband has decided to major on the minor and major.

truthsayer009:
In this scenario, she chose to cower before her husband & anytime she wants go haywire, she has the liberty to.

She most likely won't.

Men like the OP's husband don't 'pretend' before marriage. They are so confident they are God's gift to women that they will lay their cards on the table.

OP has been cowering, let her continue.

If she refused to retrieve her line because he said so, what really is SM password that the OP is fretting about except if she is a SM influencer, celebrity or it is a business account?

LordKO:
- Show me a cynical/suspicious person and I will point to you a perfidious person - a discerning person shouldn't be mistaken for a cynical/suspicious though.

- Show me a sententious person and I will point to you a hypocritically disingenuous person.

- Show me a paranoid person and I will point to you a person who has penchant for subjugation.

OP, neither he nor you are of strong ethical leanings, so endurance and tolerance rather than enjoyment and celebration will persist in the union, until . . . it's well.

Quite unfortunate.