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Health › Re: NCDC: COVID-19 Patients Without Symptoms To Be Discharged After 14 Days by bukatyne(f): 7:22am On Jun 05, 2020

JOHNSONSOLAFUNMI:
Haha

I can’t blame anyone that calls this scam, they know scales are falling from everyone’s eye, we can see through your bvllshit and biase

The media is the greatest cabal, waiting patiently to for their next agenda

Honestly, we need to really stay alert, do independent researches and make choices/decisions beneficial for us.

The media is a very dangerous tool for mind programming and control.

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Crime › Re: 2 Men Accuse Just Solomon Of Raping Them by bukatyne(f): 7:12am On Jun 05, 2020

A rape thread still on page one? shocked

Is it because it is guy on guy rape? cheesy

I didn't read the 2nd story, the first was enough.

That first story, the 'victim' is stupeed. A homo professed love to you. You were not interested and thought you could continue such friendship from close proximity? Not from afar if you were 'desperate' to change him or what he could offer?

You continued to sleep in his room? He started his bromance at 11pm and you couldn't find your way out?

He 'raped' you and you still continued the friendship?

Anyways, you were raped because you did not give your 'consent', no bi so?

Report him to the police, abi na SM go judge the case?

Nonsense!

Crime › Re: Man Rapes His 2 Daughters, Another Rapes 85-Year-Old Grandma In Niger State by bukatyne(f): 9:09pm On Jun 04, 2020

While I understand the surge of #MeToo, I don't understand rapists actually committing now the awareness is stronger.

Or is a case of neighbors being more aware?

Family › Re: To The Married; Does Money Bring Happiness In A Marriage? by bukatyne(f): 6:06pm On Jun 04, 2020

Like you rightly said, money gives comfort.

It does not give happiness in marriage however, the comfort can give a bit of respite in a loveless marriage.

And for some, the comfort is enough.

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Family › Re: Should I Tell My Mum The Truth Or Not ? by bukatyne(f): 4:48pm On Jun 04, 2020

Harshreality:
Well, I think you should inform your mother. But also beg her not to act rash

To be objective, what moral ground does the OP's mother have to act rashly?

Because her brother's wife did not welcome her son properly?

And so?

The OP's duty is to tell the mom so the girl isn't maltreated and/or abused in Abuja.

If the aunt is as painted by the OP, the kid sister would soon be forced to fend for herself which is a recipe for disaster.

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Family › Re: Should I Tell My Mum The Truth Or Not ? by bukatyne(f): 4:43pm On Jun 04, 2020

LewsTherin:
Angry or hungry?

A hungry man is an angry man grin

Crime › Re: "Tony Trace Of ABU Zaria Raped 72 Girls" - Suleiman Muhammad Murkthar by bukatyne(f): 11:27pm On Jun 03, 2020

tpraiz:
Rapist bro!

No argument

Let them lock him up and throw the key away if found guilty.

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Family › Re: Childhood Memory... Can You Relate? by bukatyne(f): 10:52pm On Jun 03, 2020

Mariangeles:
Are your names Bukola Tina?

Maybe, Maybe Not. grin

Family › Re: Does Living Among The Rich Affect One's Social Mobility, Finances Etc? by bukatyne(f): 10:26pm On Jun 03, 2020

sisisioge:
I thought he would have the minimum requirement to blend in, not like a fish out of water. Instead of building the mansion in the poor area, buy a flat in a nice community. They are people living around there too nau. He is probably a business owner or a professional too. He is probably educated as well...what's more? It is better for him to go and learn and reinvent himself than to be the prince in the village.

True if he can afford to blend in.

Family › Re: Childhood Memory... Can You Relate? by bukatyne(f): 10:21pm On Jun 03, 2020

Mariangeles:
Is your name bukatyne for real?

A combo of my names.

Do you think I would pick a moniker that doesn't speak to me? cheesy

Family › Re: Childhood Memory... Can You Relate? by bukatyne(f): 10:14pm On Jun 03, 2020

Mariangeles:
Seriously?

You take everything too seriously!

Of course, I take everything seriously.

Every training you received formed Mariangeles of today.

So even the tiniest input is important.

Family › Re: Childhood Memory... Can You Relate? by bukatyne(f): 10:12pm On Jun 03, 2020

Ishilove:
His quest for 'legend' status, apparently.

Family › Re: Does Living Among The Rich Affect One's Social Mobility, Finances Etc? by bukatyne(f): 10:12pm On Jun 03, 2020

truthsayer009:
You too like enjoyment

Ministeress for enjoyment cheesy

When we were younger and everything was gendered in English.

Romance › Re: Kanayo O Kanayo And Stella Damasus Throwback Photo by bukatyne(f): 10:10pm On Jun 03, 2020

HedwigesMaduro:
No I haven't. I'll look for it just to see how she is now. She's the major reason I love watching the music video of "Will you marry me" by Tunde One (I think?).

You will enjoy it.

Family › Re: Childhood Memory... Can You Relate? by bukatyne(f): 7:44pm On Jun 03, 2020*

I am going to sound like a spoilsport

BUT:

If a boy damned all consequences & punishment and played ball everyday, and did whatever he wanted to do everyday, why do you think he will grow into a respectful adult?

If he really liked to play ball, why didn't he learn to negotiate with his parents or release the outlet for football in other ways?

Why do you think he will respect you or care about your feelings to the detriment of inconveniencing himself or point of sacrificing something of value?

We aren't ready to change the narrative of men/women relations in Nigeria cheesy

Let's keep ranting online. wink

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Family › Re: Does Living Among The Rich Affect One's Social Mobility, Finances Etc? by bukatyne(f): 7:36pm On Jun 03, 2020

sisisioge:
Why won't you want to blend in? You network with your neighbours, attend the landlord association meetings, use the community garden...madam, your neighbours are the Folawiyos, Ezeego, Dantata...you must blend in

If he cannot afford it, is worse than living in a poor neighborhood.

It is like parents who send their kids to schools they can barely afford.

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Family › Re: Childhood Memory... Can You Relate? by bukatyne(f): 7:33pm On Jun 03, 2020

MrBachelor:
Picture of how we always look after our "El Classico"

We were never deterred by the punishment we usually received afterwards.

We damned the consequences as we always returned the next day, and the day after that, same way and assumed same postures awaiting same disciplinary measures.

We were legends!!!

@bold:

What made you not afraid of punishment?

Family › Re: Does Living Among The Rich Affect One's Social Mobility, Finances Etc? by bukatyne(f): 7:17pm On Jun 03, 2020

Coolabbie:
I will speak for myself and my experience.

I live in such a neighborhood and I love it. The calibre of people I have met just walking down my street is something that would never have been possible if I was living in low-income neighbourhoods.

Twice, I have gotten job offers without any mention of cv. One of them works closely with the governor, the other owns a radio station.
The people that offered me this job did not know me from Adam, they only know I am a neighbour.

Best, nothing beats the inspiration gotten from walking around your neighbourhood and seeing beautiful mansions, clean streets, and breathtaking landscaping.

The quiet, the serenity, the security is something I will not trade.

The sun even hits different here walahi

Please, don't do it if you can't afford it. But if social mobility is your thing, then it should definitely be an option.

#MyOpinion

@bold

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Family › Re: Does Living Among The Rich Affect One's Social Mobility, Finances Etc? by bukatyne(f): 7:16pm On Jun 03, 2020

covid2019:
As noted elsewhere in my previous thread: https://www.nairaland.com/5829221/build-small-house-now-keep, I have been seriously considering building a house, but after a few inquiries and inspections, I discovered that I could only afford a land and build in remote area in my state.

The effect is that my neighbours and everyone in my vicinity will be of low income or lower middle class. This effect is seen in churches, schools etc around there too.

Personally, I don't care about this but my elder brother will not allow me to rest. According to him, "Nigga, you like village too much, leave that place," he is of the opinion that I should even leave the state entirely-- he is New York based anyway.

NOW, these thoughts have been in my subconscious mind, having subliminal effects on me.

Considering, that this great forum has people from all walks of life, I have decided to bring this issue here: TO WHAT EXTENT DOES ONE'S RESIDENT ENVIRONMENT AFFECT HIM especially with regard to finance.

Should I forget about building now-- since I can only afford to build in a remote area now-- and rent in a highbrow, upscale area?

What are the advantages or disadvantages of living among the rich.

Thanks.

There are a number of things:

1. If you rent in an upscale area, how do you intend to pay the rent? Can your monthly income afford your stay there? For instance, the cost of schools in Lekki would be different from Iyana Paja. Same would be the cost of clothing, utility, market etc. You would however have access to meet people (if you are very very good at networking) for growth opportunities.

2. If you build in the village, can you afford to complete the house at once? Is it an area that would develop? What are the utilities available there? Proximity to your place of earning? Is it an environment you can build seclusion? If yes, is there security? What is the financial goal of your family?

Is it the amount to rent in the upscale area that would build in the village? Can you look for a semi-upscale area so you are not working for your landlord? Are there things you can invest the money that would yield more returns or even start earning income enough to pay your rent going forward?

There are many things to consider.

The rent in the city vs build in the suburb has gotten more complex than in our parents' time.

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Crime › Re: Peruzzi's Old Tweets About Rape Emerge Online by bukatyne(f): 7:07pm On Jun 03, 2020

While the tweets doesn't prove him guilty, it says a lot about what is on his mind. undecided

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Family › Re: Boy Child Education: The Another Way To Stop Female Gender Rape Saga [opinion] by bukatyne(f): 6:51pm On Jun 03, 2020

sassysure:
Haaaa
Yeah, majority of them have violent childhood according to novels o like Christian grey was sexually and physically abused so he grew up with that. I also see lack of love among the pattern.
I wish them luck o
Me that's allergic to pain as in seriously. I will faint before u start your ministration

I can't wrap my head around it.

As in, no mixing of pleasure and pain.

Hahahahahahaha at faint.

Romance › Re: Kanayo O Kanayo And Stella Damasus Throwback Photo by bukatyne(f): 6:47pm On Jun 03, 2020

sassysure:
Don't mind me. I love to watch Nigerian movies but those things are hindrances. I can't get around them.

Can't we be proud of what we have?
We are beautifully made. So many ways to make our hair glow, so many sexy ways to dress as ladies.
Look at the men. Getting more handsome by the day while we resemble black Barbie
When u see these male actors kit up and swag, then look at the females, u will be ashamed.
At least some still have sense anyway.

Men are finer than women cheesy

and age better kiss

Women are more appealing to the eyes and senses kiss

Some of them look like ojuju.

When you tell them to wear what fits, they say it is body shaming.

Fashion was created to cover flaws, they will wear the one that would expose theirs.

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Family › Re: Boy Child Education: The Another Way To Stop Female Gender Rape Saga [opinion] by bukatyne(f): 6:45pm On Jun 03, 2020

sassysure:

Don't even go there
U will collar me and drag me around like goat. WTF.
Or slap my bombom. I wouldn't know when I will slap you back o
These authors eeeh.
They have magic hands. Reality is so diff from fantasy

One of my friend said If anyone slaps her bottom or hits her, she will not know when she will retaliate and forget BDSM.

I still need convincing that nothing broke in those people when they were younger.

Is not this same body?

Family › Re: Boy Child Education: The Another Way To Stop Female Gender Rape Saga [opinion] by bukatyne(f): 6:43pm On Jun 03, 2020

I will attempt to answer these questions with what I have seen, studied and inferred:

1. What is the drive that makes the male gender the face or icon of rapist and why do they indulge in it.
2. Why is it that the female gender are the ones that are usually the victim of rape or is that there little or no report of the boy child story?
3. OR should we just forget the male gender rape since they are male and focus more attention on the female gender rape hat can possibly make a man to be a rapist?

1. The male gender is stronger physically than the female gender and has more testosterone. That means men would feel the urge for sex more and would use their resources (money, time, position, words etc.) to get it. That is why a lot of guys feel investing their time & money in a girl they have shown interest in should yield sex. The female gender also use their resources (sex, pressure, manipulation) to get what they want. That's why a girl after breakout would say 'he used and dumped' me irrespective of the 'narrative' that there is no user, they both enjoyed it. Yorubas would say 'won ja lole ara, owo and emi' he stole her body (sex), money (if there was) and soul (affection). The female gender uses pressure to get want they want from the male gender. That's why she would sulk, cry, beg, vex till he gets the iphone even if he doesn't want to. That's why generally (stereotype i know), the advise given to women is more of pressure/seduction/manipulation (cook sweet food, wear red pant and bra, sex him well today, bla bla bla) and advise given to men is more of strength/authority (show her who is the boss, take her home for re-training, do this, do that bla bla bla).

2. The boy child is also a victim HOWEVER, because there is usually no bodily harm in heterosexual pedophile encounters (no hymen/vaginal cavity) and a boy doesn't bear evidence of sex (disflowering, pregnancy etc) It is easier to move on. If a boy tells you he was raped, it is his word against the females. Also, it is believed that a girl bodywise carries more 'virtue' which needs to be preserved. This is taught from Lagos to Jamaica.

3. Rape on both genders should be focused on because your earliest sexual encounters usually determines the way forward except conscious effort is made to reverse it.

Unfortunately, a man would always bear the burden of rape while a woman would always bear the burden of slut/LovePeddler. New age feminism still wants the man to bear the burden of rape (consent ish is designed around women) while the woman is absorbed of the burden of slut/whoredom (she has the freedom to do as she likes).

Now, all these is what I call 'the natural state'.

Religion, personal development and individual exceptions will make some people behave differently from the 'norm'.

So yes, training of both sexes is absolutely important to 'reconfigure' the 'natural' state.

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Family › Re: Boy Child Education: The Another Way To Stop Female Gender Rape Saga [opinion] by bukatyne(f): 6:14pm On Jun 03, 2020

sassysure:
Even with your spouse.
As long as they are unaware of your intent and anticipated it, that's rape.

I read low key bdsm novels and it's all good until i decided to watch one. I almost puked. Sexual orientation differs a lot.

Hahahahahaha at 'it was all good until I decided to watch one.'

Romance › Re: Kanayo O Kanayo And Stella Damasus Throwback Photo by bukatyne(f): 5:00pm On Jun 03, 2020

sassysure:
I will finish it. Can u see his accent after years in US? Still the same.
Meanwhile somebody born and brought up in Nigeria is......let me not complete it
Or is it the wig and bleaching. The worst is ladies putting on children's gowns all in the name of fashion with that stupid fake eyelashes and long nails after applying layers of brown powder. lawd have mercy

Who vex you this evening?

That is beauty shaming grin

Crime › Re: "Tony Trace Of ABU Zaria Raped 72 Girls" - Suleiman Muhammad Murkthar by bukatyne(f): 4:58pm On Jun 03, 2020

tpraiz:
I know the idiot boy oh

Two of my close female friends have complained about this particular guy around 2017.

He's not even fine oh

That he raped them or what?

Is that he is a chronic cassanova aka 'use and dump' or a rapist?

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Crime › Re: "Tony Trace Of ABU Zaria Raped 72 Girls" - Suleiman Muhammad Murkthar by bukatyne(f): 4:56pm On Jun 03, 2020

Ariza:
That's a tweet by one person not from all the supposed victims.

BTW I don't believe they are up to the said numbers. Who dey make the register self?

Where is the 'safest' place to rape them? And for him to try with Jojo means he tried with others in his room.

A guy claims 72 and counting women has reached out to him.

While all encounters might not be rape, there is something fundamentally wrong with a guy (non-celebrity) who can find 72 accusers.

He should be called for intense questioning.

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Romance › Re: Kanayo O Kanayo And Stella Damasus Throwback Photo by bukatyne(f): 4:48pm On Jun 03, 2020

sassysure:
Saw it on my feed last week and watched though I stopped at the middle.

She is beautiful.

She was my crush. She and Genevieve. Said when I grow up, will enter movie industry but when I had the opportunity, village people no gree

That movie is on point.

Had a Tyler Perry feel.

Fantastic for a comeback movie.

She has it in her.

Crime › Re: Livinus Elem On Uwa Vera Uwaila's Rape And Death: Says "Good For Her" by bukatyne(f): 4:47pm On Jun 03, 2020

Mophasa:
Nigerian man who goes by the name Livinus Elem has given more insider details about the rape and murder of the 100 level Uniben student Uwa Vera Uwaila.

Mr Elem made a comment on Facebook where he stated that the late Uwa deserves what she got because she was dating two roommates.

He has however deleted his Facebook account after Nigerians asked for him to be arrested and investigated.

Recall that Vera Uwaila was viciously raped and murdered in cold blood at Redeem Christian church in Benin city few days ago.

“Good for her why will she be dating 2 friends at the same time"

https://www.viewsnaija.com/2020/06/good-for-her-suspected-man-gives.html?m=1

Let's assume late Uwa was dating 15 men at once.

Is that a justification for rape & murder?

I hope the guy has been traced and arrested.

Let him come and tell us the complete story. undecided

Crime › Re: "Tony Trace Of ABU Zaria Raped 72 Girls" - Suleiman Muhammad Murkthar by bukatyne(f): 4:44pm On Jun 03, 2020

Ariza:
Was the location of the rape incidents disclosed?

I can't seem to get that in the OP, Will you help by pointing it out? Thanks.

Read the first tweet in the OP by one Jojo.

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