vickydankal: You have to understand that sexual satisfaction comes from many factors other than sex. But I will center on sex but in all money is a requirement to: 1. Stay in shape 2. Eat healthy 3. Maintain smell (deodorants) 4. To go to the gym 5. Room environment 6. Good cream The reason for the above is because sexual satisfaction for a married woman is philosophical and emotional. When the above is met we can start talking about changing styles, weekend gateway, reassurance of your love for us and always telling us how beautiful we have remained to you etc the above don’t have to cost an arm, good planning and right timing is key . Ok a bit of my self. After breakfast my husband and I will say wish good day to each other. 1 Hour he will call or sms to know how business is moving Some afternoon he will send someone to get me lunch not up to 600 naira most times. 3pm his sms will come telling that an ugly girl just left his office but he had sanitize his eyes with my pics(yes I know he is lying) Few minutes later he will tell me how he wants to devour me, tie my pant and shaft my womb. By 4pm I’m coming home knowing that after the children has gone to bed we have unfinished business to settle. In the night it could take 2 -4 rounds to quench that fire and it could last us for maybe 2 days depending how busy our work are it could repeat the next day. Some other time we will send our children to grandma at WBHE and go to the next state for some good time. I’m married for 6 years though. I’m speaking from a woman’s perspective so it is not a general rule.
ibkayee: Are you saying you don’t think there’s a link between power relations between men and women and the attitudes towards rape in Nigeria?(specifically trivializing it)
I do not believe that rape alone is trivalized.
If the people went to report a case of confiscated land, the police would still behave same way.
Lanoye77: #JusticeForUwa: Police demanded for 'mobility money' before taking up my late sister's rape and murder case - Vera Uwaila Omozuwa's sister speaks (video)
The sister of Vera Uwaila Omozuwa, the University Of Benin student who was raped and murdered in a church in Ovie Quarters, Ikpoba Hill has accused the police of demanding for "mobility fee" before taking up her late sister's case.
The deceased's sister made the allegation after leading some youths in a protest to the Edo state police headquarters where they were received by Edo State Deputy Commissioner of Police in-charge of operations, Ayoola Ajala.
Uwaila's sister stated that she is disappointed in the Nigerian Police for allegedly refusing to following to take up the case when it was reported. She alleged that her father went to the police station in the community several times, but was told that they needed "mobilization money" for the case.
The rape victim's sister alleged that the police officers also asked her father "if her daughter is the first person to be raped". She affirmed that the rape incident occurred on Wednesday May 27, while her sister died on Saturday May 30.
One of the protesters also called for the interrogation of the Pastor of the church where the UNIBEN undergraduate was raped.
Amazinggirl95: Update.. People have been mailing with their picture for her to identify...but none is the father of her daughter..so pls keep it coming tnxs,this post was not fruitless after all..and all the kind comment..I sincerely appreciate...we are going to work with some comments here too...u guys r the best...
I would suggest those that don't meet the criteria of the father should be reported to the mods.
Tallesty1: The sad truth is that this protest won't change anything. It's possible that a rapist is among those carrying banners upandan.
Rape is a crime just like armed robbery and, kidnapping etc and I don't see how posing with banners will change the mind of a rapist or kidnapper.
Our society is fvcked up and that's where the problem is. If you go to boarding schools, especially private ones and see what youths do with drugs, you will agree with me that things will actually get worse.
Most of our youths are cultists and they rape.
Secondly, a male child should be shown proper love and care while being raised. A lot of males are put into the street to fend for themselves at a very early age, those who went into apprenticeship saw hell in hands of their boss' ma'am.
These leaves them angry and frustrated with zero respect for women and they're always ready to attack.
Posing with banners will not last a week before dying down and everybody will forget what happened until another person is raped.
We need to find out what is really the problem and deal with it.
LilMissFavvy: Bleep off, each time I mention men, I keep saying it, the men in my life are exempted, good men are exemptions, your kinds that litter this forum are the ones I'm referring to.
All the men in your family are good, the rest are evil
Oluromantic: So now your topic is suggesting that he should remain single throughout life bcus his libido is low? Is that the solution you're suggesting?
Actually, yes.
If you know you can't fulfill your sexual duties in marriage, it is either:
1. You marry someone also not interested in sex 2. You don't marry at all.
If they married in the Church, I am sure they ask the couple if they know/have any infirmity/illness that can hinder the marriage , they should declear at the altar.
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SweetCunt97: And she didn't do Welcome back for the number? Didn't get any call or message from d guy after getting a new phone fully knowing that number is the link she had with d guy?
Ishilove: This is going to be really difficult. The man is a total stranger who may probably not even remember her because he sounds like someone who is practices one-night stands as a way of life. She should just move on because I don't see this ending well.
You are just stereotyping the guy.
OP claimed they chatted a few times until she misplaced her phone.
Amazinggirl95: she never went back to the hotel or club ...since then till now...but she prays he see's this and dm..his daughter is a sight to behold...
ibkayee: Thanks but a culture that trivialises rape can also permeate the legal system, it's a bit more complex than just pointing out what the writing says is what I mean
Is the problem the fact that our culture trivializes rape?