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sassysure:
We raise our boys the wrong way. So the circle continues.

We complain about the men in our lives and yet ruin the lives of our sons.

My Nigerian friend here has 4 sons, add the husband and she works yet she is the only one who can cook in her family. First son is in the uni. Husband works 4 days and 3 days off. Assuming she has a daughter, she will die in the kitchen. U need to see her running around and she has lived in Europe more than 20yrs.
We bred those monsters. And tomorrow, we turn around to attack the daughters in law.
The circle continues

Saintmary:
Well, the biological reproductive clock runs for both genders.
Google it before quoting me abeg

vertueptime:
The black man sef na amebo, how wil you just go to d park and start videoing some one, anyone will feel threatened

Rozz:
see what a grown man is doing because of ordinary sex. mtcheww

queenice7:
So when I met him, I was in a toxic relationship. I was entangled with my ex and was in love with this guy at same time. This guy tried to make me leave my abusive boyfriend for him, tried to prove to me he was gona be a better man, infact he was like my dream guy and we were fucking even when I was still with my ex, when it seemed like he had gotten me and we were now dating, i eventually went back to my ex and it kinda disappointed the guy. Now av moved on from my ex, I am now very single and lonely, although av been fucking this guy ever since.
It's more like the both of us are just using each other to quench konji, the show of affection he used to give me then, the attention, the calls, the care, is no longer there, he just calls me when he's Hot and I also notify him when am Hot coz he's the only one am fucking, like am very picky, but deep down within me, I wish he can ask me out again, so I'll say yes and the love and affection would come back. Nobody has shown me much love like this and I guess the fact that I went back to my ex scattered the whole thing. He knows av moved on, and I've since been giving him green light for us to start dating aside just fucking but it seem like he's ignoring it, and my ego won't allow me to ask him. I feel like blocking him or sth bcoz it hurts me when he doesn't reply my messages fast or ignores it, but becomes very active and desperate when he's Hot

marviebeacinho:
It is now I understand what being strict does, it makes you live a life of pretence, cos when I got into University I wanted to explore everything I didn’t have the chance of doing at home.

I drank alcohol like crazy, smoked weed, hung out with rich boys, partying, doing drugs but when I go visit my Parents, I still act like that innocent girl they have always known.

My Dad’s strictness led to my Pretence, if he had drawn me close like my mum did, I would have been a better kid.

When parents use strictness to shut down a kids curiosity instead of guiding them, you are making matters worse for that kid. Because eventually that curiosity will lead them into adventures and exploring all those things you refused them to..

Looking back, al the flogging I received from my dad only made me more stubborn and ruthless.

Nothing really changed? Until my mum made me change for good.

Parents need to use wisdom not force.
https://www.marvelzglobe.info/2020/05/why-children-of-strict-parents-turn-out.html?m=1

yvelchstores:
very well said. Thank you ma'am

yvelchstores:
thank you ma'am. The man wants to be submitted to, he doesn't want to know what loving his spouse is. He wrongs his wife as a human and as a wife and then says, I provide so be grateful. He trash talks to his wife and then says, you upset me capping it with the Bible verse "grievance words stire up anger". The man referred to in this write up is never wrong... Infact his wife is possessed if she challenges his short comings. Every element of this world is to blame but him. Women wish he was their husband. He is a blessing to the world. He is the most blind human that liveth!

Greatzeus:
What? The story is on front-page, haven't you seen it? A rich educated popular personality. Wonder has ended already forget it

Bluehill1051:
So na bride price dey determine husband and wife.
Ur head is 98% ogogoro

Afamcy:
The man T.C Okere has mental disorder he is around 80yrs plus while the wife should be around 77yrs plus... Even when asked why he killed her... He said the wife is in the house sleeping... So he doesn't even know what happened.

GamalNasser:
Only two things Money or infidelity

Greatzeus:
Easier said than done You think those whose marriage hit the bricks planned it to be so?
A man just murdered his wife after 50 years of marriage,50 fuc king years.

Ishilove:
All of the above. My aunt gave me a couple of hard knocks back then.

Drfernandez:
Men what is the main reason why you will choose to marry a middle aged woman over a young woman?

DrMuzungu:
!diots. Instead of posting photos of innocent victims, post the photo of the b@stard who molested them... and all that before taking him to the village square to be necklaced.

MrBrownJay1:
you certainly doesnt need to DESTROY your health/life in the name of rebellion, thats stupid and only hurting yourself.

funmisticqueen2:
family tree, to contribute what exactly?

Family tree that cannot contribute to society, is that one worth existing?

rockstarB:
Real good o. Men should forget about trust and have DNA test done on their kids. See women here normalising paternity fraud.
How many women will come out true about a love child when she can go for the easy route which is paternity fraud. Love child of a man and woman can never bring the same consequences.

bukatyne:
@OP

4yrs later...

Are you married? Are you achieving your goal?

fineboynl:
everyone tell lies to get married or has a hidden secret as the truth would have disrupt the marriage plan.

its might not be a big issue just after the marriage either soft or strong lie, but it was done only to make the partner more interested in the marriage at earlier time, you know that secret or lies would have a catastrophic or hindrance.

and that's why people unleash their true character just after marriage. and you might think that your partner have change. but the truth is people actually do not change and what you see them change into is the real person.

and in some case but partners might be lying to themselves in a bid to make it works. and not knowing they are deceiving each other and making a fool of themselves.

it might be age related, abortion, bad character, having sex partner, sickness etc. the lies might not be a big issue but maybe it would have turn the table around just before the marriage who knows. but you just conceive it just to save the day and go on with the marriage.


what is this lie that you tell?

Honestly when I read this post I felt as though the writer was pouring out my heart on how I felt about birthdays.
*COPIED*
#5. Wishes don’t come true

The best wish I’ve ever had on a birthday goes like this; “Happy birthday dear. May life bring you everything that you are dreaming about.” This was sent to me by my crush. At that moment, all I wanted from life was to hear her say yes to my proposal. She said no to me several times yet she was wishing me to get everything I dreamt of. How ironic.

Of what use are all those wishes? They might come from a place deep inside but it doesn’t mean anything. They are just wishes. As you and I know, wishes don’t come true. They flutter and fly about but adds no meaning to ones life. Some of the wishes I receive on a day like this contradict each other. At worse, they cancel each other out so I end up with no wishes at all..