₦airaland Forum

rockstarB:
1) The course I was given to study in school. I never hear about that course before until I was given admission to study it. As I no get choice I studied it rather than stay home. Am not really happy about it because it's not my passion and I feel maybe I'd have gotten a good job if I studied something better.
2)its so sad thinking about my past relationships.
3)Business isn't moving because of Corona, customers dey owe me money
4)Corona dey delay my immigration progress, its really sad.
5)No good prospective man to marry. I'm really a fan of marriage.
What else? Life itself is a struggle. I've been dealing with consistent headache lately. But suicide isn't the answer

Acidosis:
You can call her "my in-law". It's not like you meet her or relate with her everyday. My brother in-law who is 15 years older calls me "my in-law".

There are people you wouldn't even need to mention their names especially when you do not relate often.

I call my sister in-law "iyawo." Never had reasons to call her by her name. I call some of my friends and cousins Baba, boss, etc., including those that are 10 years younger. In return, the younger ones (cousins) call me "Uncle" even though I'm not their Uncle in the literal sense.

Rogosa:
Yoruba

JourneytoEL:
we wanted to do a meeting and the leader refused to call him,saying he would rather call his wife because she is the head of the home because she feeds him

LordKO:
The person, or both persons, who did not come into equity with clean hands.

naija4life247:
Child Abuse is Oyinbo's phrase of encouraging indiscipline among toddlers. If Bobrisky parents had use igbati, ifoti, iforun, igbaju, igbati, igbarun, igbadi, iladi and other models of brain resetting slaps as at when due, we won't have a nuisance like that in our society like these useless White pigs.

Imagine going home, to tell your parents that you are gay. Two to three ifotis and igbajus, your brain will reset.

Leece:
My 50 Yrs Old Boss Shows A Lot Of Cleavage When We Meet, What Could She Want?

So I got this job around 2019 and I noticed from the very day I went for my interview, there was this woman who happened to be very lenient with me and cautioned others when they asked me tough question. All she did saved me from disgracing myself in front of 5 panelist. After the interview I waited till they closed just so i could say thank you.

When she came out around 7 pm she was more elegant and had this carriage that suits her age. I approached her and she recognized me immediately she was happy to see me and I thanked her. As I was about to leave she offered me a ride and being a very good conversationist that I am, I began to talk and she became very free with me. She told me a lot about her husband and his drinking addiction and how he neglected her sexual needs. I tried comforting her with words and ended by saying she is 50 na her libido should be dead by now, she didn't take offence but replied and said I cant handle her if we ever get down.

Fast forward to when I resumed, I realized she was the CFO of the organisation, now fear don catch me. I couldn't even look her in the eye to start a conversation. I think she noticed and she called me to her office and was laughing at me and later told me she would like us to keep talking the way we did yesterday cause she doesn't have much friends.

There was this day she was dancing to an old Fuji song in the office, her office is sound proof moreover it was already past office hours, i went to say goodbye, she called me to come in and didn't let me leave. I thought to myself another free ride.

She jumped up at a point and had a nip slip, i mean both breast were literally out. I just closed my eyes, she fixed it and was smiling at me.
Since that time till now she has been showing massive cleavage anytime i'm around her. She has started calling me my dear and other staff are calling me omo mummy and they dont know what I am facing

DaddyOpe:
I got married to my wife 5 years ago. Before we got married, she dated a guy. We all stayed in the same area. I live here because it is close to my place of work. Her ex lives in the area. He does building contractor. While they were dating, I met my wife. I was able to convince her to date me. And since the guy was always travelling, I was able to get close to her. I think I won her finally after we had sex. Because that first day, I scattered her brain. She later left the guy. I proposed, she accepted and we got married.

I will say, at that time I got married to my wife, her ex and I were on the same level financially. But, recently, the guy has turned to something else. He does building for people overseas. People said the guy's work is good and he is always getting contracts. My wife said he had a 2.1 in Civil Engineering. He started selling cement. He is now a dangote cement distributor. He built a duplex at the junction of my street. He has 3 cars in the compound (he recently bought 1 car during this lockdown that people are saying no money oo). I and my wife do not have any car. I am still a tenant. We have to pass front of his house every day.

During this lockdown, my office has being delaying salaries. It has not being easy. I have had quarrels with my wife in the past but yesterday was the worst. During the quarrel, she said she regrets marrying me. That if she had ignored me and married her ex, she would have being living comfortably. I almost beat her up. Then she told me that this her ex paid her school fees in 300 and 400 level when she almost pulled out of school for lack of finance. She regrets paying him back by leaving him to marry me.

Since then, I have not being myself. I just created this account to express myself.

JourneytoEL:
Firstly, many rich women are not vocal because of security issues in the country. Piping low is key to enjoying a long life as a rich woman here. I have interacted with a good number of them and they share feministic views. Also,the major reason most women don't marry down is because most men tend to have esteem issues because their wives are richer. Although i have met two exceptional cases, one the man still rides his cab till date in the morning, goes to his state ministry office, and later in the evening rides his cab, while his wife is a super rich career woman driving a venza, yet they are very happy both in and out. the other, the wife is a successful lawyer, very humble and nice, while the hubby works closely with her,helps in the house with the kids if she has to travel, infact they are so close i initially thought they were both lawyers. Now, the man is been mocked in the street for being a "sissy man". A woman cannot be humble enough for a typical nigerian man with esteem issues. Even if you are lucky enough to get a man with a good esteem, his poor family and friends will keep taunting him for been a "sissy" till he changes. That's why women love to marry their class and above.

Maize247:
Women This type of woman should be beating with iron rod with mercy

Abovebest:
And the man is wearing a Chelsea Jersey

Tonylyte:
I don't know if those of you teaching in private schools, like my humble self are facing the same difficulties like me too.

Are you getting paid by your employers during this lock down?

Our case is different here, ever since the lock down began we have not been paid even a dime or reached by our employer to know how we are coping during this tough period.

Those of us that understand better how things work, is it proper that way? What are your thoughts on this? Share your experiences too-those of us in private sectors.

DallasJ:
This lady is a very good wife.
She should have carried the man as well with her other free hand. I am sure most Nigerian men would love to have her as a wife.

Essenza01:
You are not avoiding egg shells, you are only being smart to get the Bill's being paid, the process is the navigation..

Ishilove:
Even with all the seminars, marriages are still crashing left, right and center

darfay:
Are we just going to sit here and pretend this story isn't made up? No one earns that much in Nigeria especially 42million and I don't know of any bank paying #15m per year

gurunlocker:
Twitter is full of liars.... I'm sure this is a fabricated story!

#42m? What position will pay that per annum at a "marriageable age"?


Unless she has worked closed to 20 years maybe and as well close to 50 years of age.

Smile4mee01:
I think Islam was right about women...

Ishilove:
They will turn you to a 'super wife' in 3 days?

Odiegwu

ideabuilder:
Not all Christians are Christian. To be a Christian you have to be apologetic about it

Roon9:
Goto rzim.org and listen to his many podcasts. You'd be blown away at his methods of delivery.

gaiusolayinka:
A person who supports a particular belief or political system, especially an unpopular one, and speaks or writes in defence of it.

So brother Ravi gave his life to speaking and writing in defence of the Christian Faith, as this verse of scripture,
"but in your hearts honor Christ the Lord as holy, always being prepared to make a defense to anyone who asks you for a reason for the hope that is in you; yet do it with gentleness and respect," 1 Peter 3:15

eleojo23:
RIP to him.

Lionessza6:
Both situations are not desirable ; single parenthood & enduring a toxic relationship for the kids. They both come with their own risks & heartbreaks ,but I would still choose my own happiness and peace of mind over any family structure that makes me feel like a hostage. A happy mother is a caring . Both of you will have added responsibilities of taking care of your new homes & also looking after the emotional & financial health of the kids as individuals. Now ,what each of you chooses to teach the kid will play a big role in how they will see the world as adults.

nairavsdollars:
I have come come across several posts about women describing their first child as 'my womb opener' even after they have committed several abortions before settling down and giving birth. With that, can the first child still be described as the womb opener?