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lovelin1993:
pls advice me on what to do...
A guy owed me 15k and he doesn't wants to pay me and I do go to his house to ask for the money bt my going was productive until I detain his jincheng bike bt someone now advice me to take the bike to the police that it would probably lead to something serious if it should be in my custody, so I did. the bike used up to 3-4 months in police custody before I went there for the clearing of the bike bt on-getting to the police station, the police asked me for the papers to clear the bike and I called the owner that I want to clear out his bike that he should bring the papers to the police station while I was waiting him to come bt the guy didn't show up till now..although I have cleared tje bike from police station with a lot of money since there is no particular for the bike bt where I borrowed money from to clear it has detain the bike again and we both reach an agreement that if the money would not be paid in time that he will sell the bike bt with what I'm seeing, the bike has sold the bike bt now the guy has paid 12k of my money he owed me, remaining 3k, and the bike was sold some months back bt the father to this guy is threatening me with SAS police...pls anyone should advice me to get out of this problem...the 15k the guy owed has cost someone to loss admission since he could not pay back my 15k in time...

Ricchcream:
You are smart.

Ricchcream:
Madam, we don't do movies here

Ginalex:
@the bolded, u are more than a man pleaser nne... Going about kissing asses of all the nairaland dudes so that they'll like you is what you live and breathe on ... Everything a guy does, you try to twist it and eventually fault the woman... Asslicker oshi like you ... Don't bother quoting back 'cause I'll ignore your very existence

Ricchcream:
Really?

Mariangeles:
You think you have life all figured out don't you? You think know it all and what you know applies to all women right?
Let's just hope you stick to your stances and beliefs when you're the one at the receiving end.

Ricchcream:
I'm just checking. Silly scallawags giving Naija men bad image upandan

Marshal9:
Please nairalanders I need your advice on this, I'm a final year student, and my rent is due I'm supposed to renew a month ago but travelled due to this pandemic.

I actually have the money, but I'm concerned on what will be the outcome since we're yet to ascertain when this will be over. Should I wait till this is over or pay already?

I believe no student is out there looking for new hostels, so there's actually no pressure on my landlord. But I'm still considering him after all it's his property and at the same time I believe the money will come in handy if this lock down extends indefinitely

Please I need your advice thanks

kazyhm:
Did you understand the op side of the story ?

kazyhm:
This is the best comment so far........

People use ego to to blackmail men that is trying to stay true to himself........I won't lie I gave been in the op boyfriend scenario before......I dug because of inconsistence in her stories......and I thank God I was ahead of her disjointed stories/lies/excuses


The op is not saying the truth.....and this days people justifying waywardness of females too much........

The op moved out of her parent's house to for what ? Meanwhile her boyfriend found out she had relationship while she is in her parent house back then from her Facebook chat...so why did she have to move out to be free ?

Sometimes the standard these ladies are setting does not conform with their way of life.

Expensiverichyb:
Share with us. What is that thing that made you think it's worth it. Tell us please

aduwak:
I am the only child, but still not the favourite.

Anumpama:
Dear nairalanders
.
This question have been bothering me for long
.
Is it good for parents to love one of their child more than one.

What is your view?

Mariangeles:
You are such a man pleaser!
You always find a way to make it a woman's fault in all your narrative! You always come from that angle. THE WOMAN IS ALWAYS TO BLAME! WHY?
You've tried to turn things around a couple of times with some of my comments by trying to change the course of the argument.
But why? Why? Why are you so hard on women like you?
Isn't it enough that men blame women for everything?
Try to change your mindset. At least, try to be more fair and empathetic towards women.

Vickiyxx:
When she is using my destiny how will I get a job ? I have been trying since 2011 but nothing . I don’t just sit and folds my hands and expecting everything from my parents, I have been trying to be depend when I used to live with them but nothing was working. I am now depend living alone with my children , looking forward to start something doing but I don’t even know where to start from.

omoharry:
you are right.

YoungPerson:
Take him out to the beach, tell him how much you love him and how much the relationship means to you, then tell him what is hurting you.
C'est fini!

Ricchcream:
I hope the OP has kicked the insecure asshole out of her life?! I hate weak people

omoharry:
I think he has .This is becos he belong to the new generation of men that have become sissy instead responsible men. These Lazy bones will want their women to feed and cloth them and at the same time, wanting to be respected as super boyfriends/head of the family. Not knowing that they have already sold their birth right.They want 50/50 in sharing financial responsibility but will immediately chicken out when it comes to sharing domestic work. Some have never bath , fed or clean after their children before..they will say it is a womans job but they quickly forgot the part where providing for the family is a mans job.. Some Nigeria men are selfish and complicated breed

Acme45:
she's 45 now. Women shouldn't lie with age, if she had told me her real age, definitely i wouldn't have ventured into the marriage in the first place.

nuelyoyo:
I think I now know the angle you and cococandy are coming from, but I think the woman blew it open because she is tired of the marriage.

Illuminated993:
I respect you.

nuelyoyo:
Please what wisdom are you referring to here? You means she should have committed paternal fraud? Chai, women!!

Cc: Cococandy.

MakyavelitheDon:
Very good question.
It simply means they didn't observe the right safety protocols nor did they make use of effective PPE.
Many hospitals are guilty of this and it's really silly of them as hospitals to be falling victim to infected but untested patients

swiperthefox:
All hospital and clinics, should mandate their staff to wear full PPE, when treating any patient that comes for treatment.

cococandy:
The new man won’t even want the child. She missed the opportunity of giving her child a dad.