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Jeromejnr:
Brilliant statement.

Thanks

UyaiIncomparabl:
Firstly, what do you want?

There are a whole lots of things that a woman can offer, only boils down to what you want! Relationships are too transactional these days!

That being said, this world is no longer a world of ladies sitting back and receiving all they need.

The desire to leave something worthwhile, a mark should consume every lady. This transcends just being successful.

This is no longer a period of walking around purposelessly or thinking the world revolves around you, your nails, body, shoes and clothes.

I want to see more ladies burn with the desire for knowledge and its application. Burn with the desire to make a change while making profits/progress .

Women are doing great things.

They just need to be consistent and marry the right man who won't derail them.

Happy birthday sir,

God bless your home and ministry.

Uniportadmision:
This has got to be the most selfish woman I've ever heard of, so because she wants to die in peace that's why the truth should come out this moment after 32 years, she doesn't even care about the husband, in fact I think she despise him. Kai this is wickedness at the highest level.

I began losing respect for women the day one pretender claiming love finish joystick still go another guy place same day collect another women! Now who be father of pikin?

After a year another pretender with flat stomach I met in February get belle for March, as a smart guy I go scan sharply, guess what? Bitch was 4months prego.

Tell me how I wan take marry? Mtcheeeww

For those guys, they shouldn't tell the man now, just force him to get another wife, at 70 he can still father at least 2 kids as compensation without him knowing.

@bold:

I Interestingly thought about that too.

Slurity:
Who is the biological father of Jesus? Joseph is the answer. This has answered the riddle the children are facing. I just love God, bible is so a complete book. It can answer ANY question or problem

Hmmmmm

The woman just cleared her conscience and transferred the guilt to her kids.

Now, they will be the ones with the moral battle of telling their dad or not.

The kids shouldn't tell him, continue to be good kids and care for him till death.

And forget any yeye father anywhere.

BTW, is it one father or three different fathers?

It seems his village people are getting closer.

anthonyuncle:
very true.

am used to hitting/touching girls in da a^ss,

when I was serving, a fellow corps member complained about it, but because I do bully her a little, she had to distant herself from me,

another warned me sternly(in public),

while others will just say stop, laugh and still come closer

Welldone

Till you touch one and gum there.

liberalchick:
Sorry I have to disagree. Go read her other posts she is not usually this meek. She knows she has been outwitted on this thread by other posters. Her comebacks were not as sharp because she had none. She touched on a topic that was much more bigger scope that she could handle. I sill love reading her posts sha but she goofed on this one.

Interesting.

Outwitted by other posters you say?

I do not create thread to battle wits. If you go through my threads, you would notice they are for educational and discussion purposes.

No amount of discomfort would change the fact that there is nothing like marital rape.

And the earlier intending wives know this, the better for them and the society as a whole.

If they have issues in the marriage that would prevent the wife from joyfully making love to her husband, they should sort it out.

I am not surprised that posters only seem concerned with the wives.

Should we assume that husbands are never 'raped'?

God comfort her family.

Such loss.

Mr. President,

Can we leave this gender politics and choose people (male&female) who are really capable at this point?

Perhaps when the economy has been rebuilt and only needs maintenance, we can start rationing the appointments again.

Sexual attention is everywhere.

Unfortunately, some don't like where it is coming from: harassment.

When they did a talk on harassment in our company, we realized that almost everyone (male & female) was guilty.

Alibecs:
Some complaining na just for show o

Till you enter trouble.

anthonyuncle:
if she complains-then it is,


if she doesn't complain-then it isn't

Very true.

The receiver determines if it is harassment or not.

The lady can also note if the guy is touchy Feely to everyone else.

That way, she knows how to proceed.
1. If she does not like it and he is like that to everyone, she ensures she positions herself way from his touch frame.

2. If she does not like it and she is the only recipient, she can report for sexual harassment and/or warn him off.

3. If she likes it, two ge four. Let them carry go.

Agugbadin:
Lies is one of their worst mistakes, A woman who is not a lawyer, who did not even attempt a university education let alone law school lied to a man in their church that she a lawyer, and they married and had children, there was job opening which that requires the service of a lawyer graduate, when asked for forward her certificate as the job was reserved for her, they duscovered that madam did not attend university

How did she pull it off?

LordKO:
I have two of them, one was like Pocohantas and the other was like Bukatyne.

Bros, what happened?

Happy Wedding Anniversary.

God bless your home and ministry.

Abbeylincson:
we were at the saloon today and dinner was on me.

Ok.

How are you bonding?

doitforyou:
hahahahaha what you just typed makes absolutely NO sense! you are speaking from both sides of your mouth. So you say marriage gives blanket consent then on another hand you are saying a wife can seek redress if she is physically injured in the course of an unwanted sexual contact. so if a husband wants to collect on a pre-consented sex because he is married (according to you) but for whatever reason the woman is not in the mood but he has his way with her anyway after-all the act is 'sanctioned' by God, what do you think will happen?

You are a very confused lol, I am happy that many people on this thread disagreed with you men AND women, please quit while you still have some dignity left. Most men aren't barbaric, they rather have sex with a wife that physically and emotionally wants them, not a wife that will just lay there on the bed and be emotionally removed from the act, because she has been brainwashed that she has no right to her own body.

It is no fault of mine that you do not comprehend my posts.

And it is not always that the voice of people is the voice of God.

doitforyou:
hahahahaha what you just typed makes absolutely NO sense! you are speaking from both sides of your mouth. So you say marriage gives blanket consent then on another hand you are saying a wife can seek redress if she is physically injured in the course of an unwanted sexual contact. so if a husband wants to collect on a pre-consented sex because he is married (according to you) but for whatever reason the woman is not in the mood but he has his way with her anyway after-all the act is 'sanctioned' by God, what do you think will happen?

You are a very confused lol, I am happy that many people on this thread disagreed with you men AND women, please quit while you still have some dignity left. Most men aren't barbaric, they rather have sex with a wife that physically and emotionally wants them, not a wife that will just lay there on the bed and be emotionally removed from the act, because she has been brainwashed that she has no right to her own body.

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kenzysmith:
pls dont get me wrong i did nt sees her as a prostitue i see her as my girlfriend is it wrong 4 me to ask my own girlfriend sex again? If she no open her her legs for me who will?

You are looking at it from a transactional standpoint.

You have spent money so she should open her legs.

How was the relationship defined from the beginning?

Gratefulheart01:
It's still better to be a dog, than to be a lady bitch these days, because a dog is more chaste than most things we call ladies.

Unfortunately, the population of the useless things becoming chaotic. After being uselessed, many will end up useless.

May the few good girls who value their body in this kind of perverse generation find grace and mercy from God; may they find good husbands who will love them with all the heart and live in prosperity. Good girls are the one of the best thing in the world. While the useless ones will keep getting mad with my post.

@bold:

Amen.

kenzysmith:
Good day, am in my mid 20 twentys, i met this girl last year and i ask her out she agree to date me from that period till this moment i haven't even seen her pant. I am worried if i should calculate the money i ve spend on her it should be roughly 20thousand naira. She have what i want in a woman back and front everytime am with her alone i insist buh she telling that is nt the right time to do it, everytime am with her he get how my body they do me. Pls advîse me how to convince her am very worried.

You did not let her know that you saw her as a prostitute.

So as you are spending money (20k in one year), you were thinking the right time for sex.

Hopefully she finds out that all you want is sex so she gives you your N20k with interest and dumps your sorry bottom.

lilianofentse:
What all males desire. Sex. Smh

Nothing wrong with that.

Women desire it too.

Why does it look staged?

There was even a guy with Bible in time to pacify the guy.

Anyways, the lady dodged a bullet although I have to ask why she was still in the relationship if she felt he was not worthy to be her husband.

essenceplus:
Sister bulky, if a woman needs something in a relationship, why not say I need this or I like this? Why manipulate. Ineffective communication to me in a marital relationship is childish.

Well.

essenceplus:
Title. Don't leave us guessing

Egbon Mama Mi.

Funnily, I am watching a movie where the husbands are rejecting the wives sexually abi not consenting to sex.

Husband A doesn't love his wife, husband B doesn't want kids.

The wives are scheming, seducing, raking.

Let me see where this would end.

Update: Wife A has ran away.

Update 2: Wife B drugged her husband and slept abi raped him. He has woken up and asked the wife why she drugged him

Answer: Shebi you are my husband and we can make love anytime. I did not know you were so good in bed, I would have drugged you everyday

Update 2 according to consent theory is rape.

Update 3: You'll know how yeye African Magic can be Husband B raped Wife A in the past.

Story derailed jare.

armyofone:
Repost but frame it in a way people would not mistake your intentions. Good morning!

The summary was that marriage provides consent to both parties so there can be no rape which is sex without consent.

However, in the course of sex, the husband/wife can force the other party who would sustain injuries. For instance, a husband can physically abuse his wife in the quest of sex.

The aggrieved party should seek redress as it shows the marriage has issues.

essenceplus:
Where then is loyalty? Where is loyalty?


All this modernist ideologies


Back in the days and recent times don't women get married to men who go to war and spend long times on battle fields. Please, loyalty is sacrosanct in marriage. I respect you too much to speak to you this way. Whatever happened to communication. Bar were drifting apart I need us to spend time with one another. What is marriage without effective communication. Baba you fall hand



Any little thing these days ladies gibe men divorce or attitude. Well in my wedding,I won't smile nor dance and let people know my heart is prepared even against a divorce. Cause this generation of ladies don't understand on an adept level what companionship,communication,loyalty and what marriage means

Cc Bukatyne

Some things are stranger than fiction.

doitforyou:
Pray tell please what are the signs a girl can give off that will make a guy think he is entitled to her number? Let me know so I can stop giving off those signs. You might be onto something here, please let me go and share this nugget of wisdom to all my beautiful ladies that were just minding their business and still got harassed for their numbers.

Are you telling me that you can't stand your ground and politely refuse giving men you have no interest in your numbers?

Ok then, keep giving.

armyofone:
How a man can enjoy sex while inflicting pain on someone you claim to be your wife is bothersome!
It's alright for the thread to be taken down - it maybe sending the wrong message to many.
Sex in marriage is to be enjoyed.
If one person is not in the mood, find out why and communicate.

Unfortunately, the thread has been deleted do you cannot understand the OP.