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GasAndOilTheory:
Can you see a tipical woman? This was her quote on this thread a while back
Then she said this today on another thread
funny isn't it?

If you did not understand my posts, the joke is on you.

I do not expect a man who has limited resources to be concerned about bach eve.

It is either he is lying about his financial situation or he lacks focus.

And none is a recipe for good husband material.

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Amakavula:
Hypergamy never sleeps.. if you know you know.

Maybe for you.

Go see millions of women breaking their backs to ensure the home is together.

No money and the guy is planning bach eve?

Obvious lack of planning.

crunchyg:
Please what's that in her water is it lemon or lime, someone should help me, and what does putting it in water do to the body?

Lemon

Good for cleansing the body system.

@OP

While it is painful that resources have been committed, one or both of them dodged a bullet.

A broken courtship is better than a broken marriage.

franchasng:
No other truth ever said!

Before you marry a girl, she should have been longing to marry u and doing everything possible to make u wife her. Her actions, her daily countenance should show clearly that she can't wait to he your wife before u marry her but some useless guys won't learn, they just go about begging ladies to marry them, how and why

It is women's right and time to decide the kind of man to accept as boyfriend!

It is men's own final say to decide which Lady to marry or not, it is the same all over the world unless to useless, stupid, sissy men

When I read posts like this, I wonder the class of women you refer to.

Anyways, water seeks it's own level.

While I have crossed this bridge, the onus is on me to bring up children especially women who know their worth so that men like you don't dare go close to them.

Tonto is the very definition of a cancerous woman.

Chai!

LiveByNight:
My dear Oprah didn't get to where she got to be people saying how nice she was, she got there by creating an interesting talkshow and getting people to come and say nice and terrible things about others or themselves

Where did people's opinions get anyone in life? No where ...Clinton had everyone say nice things about her and terrible things about Trump but Trump still defeated her I wonder why? Lol

Do you know what opinion is?

Who decided Oprah's show was interesting? People.

Trump is a case of like minds gathering and deceiving themselves that they are all that exist.

Who were the people voicing their preference for Hilary? The media and people who couldn't vote.

Did anyone actually interview the people who voted for Trump?

Very well written.

Nothing beats early marriage to the right person.

Truth is we do not train our kids for marriage early enough so they do not plan accordingly.

For people citing the West, they complain about low birth rate hence the constant immigration and lottery programs to boost their population.

Japanese have a crisis on their hands as their youth have stopped marrying.

It is the industrialization/information age that has made not relepenishing the old generation fine.

For people who say marriage kills dreams.... What can we say about Dangote, Otedola, Adenuga, Omotola, Dora, Okonjo-Iweala, Ezekwesili, etc. etc.

Early marriage even gives you more time to pursue your dreams. Marry early 20s, slowly build till your 30s and launch very deep in your 40s to 60s/70s.

You even have more time for your spouse when your kids are out of the home in your early/late 40s.

God help us.

peacettw:
I lost my respect for this man a long time ago. All I can say towards this supposed success is this, your time has come and gone... Leave the younger ones to find their footing. Michael Jordan retired from basketball and will forever be remembered as one of the greatest athlete of our generation with millions from endorsements etc.
Tiger Woods should aim towards that. Repair your public image first and help us forget your past deeds. Then work towards immortalizing your name in golf. Winning tournaments by a stroke of luck etc will not do that

Except you are his wife, his infidelity is really not our business.

We knew him as a master golfer and he has risen as a Phoenix from the ashes of defeat and succeed again.

I rejoice with him and wish him more years of such.

I am wondering the relevance of this information.

delivryboy:
It won't be long before you begin to work on your daughters' minds so you can have a day like this bride. It's not because you want to do it, it's a woman's instinct to survive and position herself in the minds of her children in case of the days of old age, the children would unknowingly favor their mothers than their fathers, it goes beyond immediate parents into the extended family, they begin to develop more attachment for their maternal relations than their father's family. Google up "Parent Alienation" and see how it works and the majority victims. Sorry, you are not the reading type I guess.

Why do you think children like their maternal relatives more than paternal?

delivryboy:
It is a fairy tale dream, more like Cinderella story to have a father who would bond fully with his children, the toils of providing for their development is greater than the need for bonding. Bonding without finance is equal to bombing, fathers are created to work, however form it comes, work takes a lot of time and energy, we live to cater for the children and their mother, sometimes it's easy, most times it's not. Fathers are also responsible for putting their foot on the ground and making some tough decisions that the children may not like so they gravitate towards their mothers who welcome them with her soothing mental breas tmilk making the father look so evil for making an unkind decision that would overall help the family. Mothers are not supposed to usurp their husband's position in the hearts of their children, they systematically occupy the children's mind space, by the time the father retires, the children are all gone both physically and psychologically. As we speak I'm typing from a drilling rig.

In your world, do mothers not work?

delivryboy:
Fathers dedicate their entire lives struggling and scraping the earth to provide the financial means for raising the family, they are in the army, on the rigs, police force, brick laying, farming and selling everyday of their lives. And because of work, they are hardly around the children so they are emotionally distant from the family, this long period of distance is what women latch on to create the attachment they have with the children. Instead of the women to impress on the children the importance of their father's toils, hence why he's not always around, they begin to hint that their father is seeing other women and that's it! Children hate their fathers for life. Today they say young men do not want to settle down and marry because of the financial situation of the country but many men may not be so willing to marry even in financial abundance because there isn't much to look up to in fatherhood these days, fathers have been portrayed as villain, cheats, abusers, brutes but fathers remain the pillars of the family unit no matter how much these now set of people called feminists want to change it, no wonder there are so many flaws in children raised by single mothers, they are filled with so much inadequacies, hatred and likely to make the same mistakes their mothers made and the unfortunate circle continues.

This is funny.

Mothers work and somehow, kids still bond with them.

If a father steps up to his role, his children WILL always warm up to him.

Men just want to eat their cake and have it.

Jiang:
awww


Oh God, I take my whole being beg you, please send such woman & such beautiful kind of love & tolerance my way.


Please Lord, am begging, bring dis kind of sweet union in my life & please put a metal wall between I & any slay queen

Hope you are also praying to be a worthy husband.

@checked86:

What would have been ideal to you?

mercyson:
“A virtuous woman is a crown to her
husband…” Virtue is an essential ingredient
required for a fun filled relationship. “Who can
find a virtuous woman? for her price is far
above rubies.” (KJV).



This is not a religious article, so don't be bordered, its about lifestyle



The above statement has a question mark.
This shows that they are few, when viewing
the population of the world. Her price tag is
higher than rubies; more costly ,than diamond.
She is far worth than any precious stone.
Above any imaginable gift.


Such a woman, is well known in her
Community and working place. Religious
people recognizes her God-fearing attitudes.
Her friends celebrates her. Her Husband
honours her. Her Children are proud of her
accomplishments.


What does it mean to be virtuous?


Virtue simply means having or showing high
moral standard. ”To be full of virtue” means
possessing and exhibiting all well know good
and godly characteristics.


The Features of a virtues woman is displayed
in her Love for her husband, children,
neighbours, friends, School colleagues, Work
associates and for the wider community.


A virtuous woman is not easily provoked to
anger. Easily forgives. Smiles and laugh often.
Does not gossip. She is not a talebearer.


Compassionate. Trustworthy. A self controlled
individual. Merciful. Not arrogance. loyal to her
Husband. Piety. Hospitable. Cheerful. Does not
quarell or fight. Prayerful. Commited to work.
Gentle.


Deligent in Business. She tolerate everyone.
Discreet. Chaste. Doesn’t envy. Honest.
Caring. meek. Wise. Faithful and committed to
assignments. Humble. A woman of integrity.
Responsible. Whosoever marries a virtuous
woman will rarely see trouble.


I know you are thinking that such a woman
does not exist on planet earth. Let me explain.
The reason why you think that way is because
you’ve not experience any of them. I had seen
and felt virtues in women.


Let’s continue,


Now, please understand that, there is no doubt
about the existence of these virtues in women,
although, not in all women.


How to be a virtuous woman?

you can't afford to miss this, read all and comment

follow this link -

https://www.pentameloud.com/qualities-of-a-virtuous-woman/

I see you talk about easy to forgive and doesn't get angry easily. I apology but I am usually very weary when a man especially Nigerian starts exalting those virtues.

It seems like a pass to misbehave and expecting the wife to be "virtuous'.

I hope you know that only a faithful and loyal man deserves a virtuous women.

Vyolet:
Everyone with their own time, congrats ma'am. If it were Nigeria, she wouldn't look this good as depression caused by society will most likely turn her to an old looking grandma.

She is Nigerian

KingAzubuike:
At 50 her cave of wonders would have expired and out of proportion. Well na white man she marry sha his tiny d*ck won't cause too much damage.

Really?

Is there anything wrong with selling drugs for erectile dysfunction?

Is having good sex a sin?

Sex is only a sin outside marriage.

All we can say is for Pastor to ensure that his customers are married.

Religion without knowledge and power is terrible.

Deji63:
Even the meekest of women can be deadly. Just be careful in your dealings with women. Patience is key. If the slap did not happen she wouldn't have been used by the devil. I am sure she did not know it will result to his untimely death. Lesson learnt

Wise man.

kenodrill:
May God save us(the bachelors)from every evil future wife IJN Amen

You want a wife that you will slap to death abi?

Gold digging gone wrong.

LordAdam:
The problem really is that due to human nature it's impossible to strike a balance. Cultures would always sit close to one of two extremes like a swinging pendulum. Power can intoxicate. So whichever gender sniffs it just keeps running with it until they reach an extreme and things swing to the opposite.

I mean in Georgian England, husbands had the right to hit their wives for discipline. Today, it is socially acceptable for women in general to slap a guy if she feels like it. Swinging pendulum.

-Lord

Hmmmmm

I do not think it is impossible to strike a balance. I think humans are too emotionally lazy to.

And very spot-on as regards civilizations tending towards the extreme.

That's the major error of 3rd wave feminism.

Nice thread.

Una wicked for this thread o!

@OP, help us tell your 'friend' to rent the decent cheapest accommodation so he can afford the annual recurring cost.

The man is a wicked man.

What makes the man think that his wife doesn't know that he can't produce children?

Oya let him divorce her and the kids na.

All these 'demonic' Christians.

kennybabs1980:
At 42, how can she abort such a pregnancy when village people are not pursuing her?
Since she is gainfully employed, let her just keep the child and take good care of him or her. When the child is 2 years, she should use style allow the man to knack her again so that she'll have two kids. Even if the man is not ready to allow the children to bear his name, Toyin is a good name for them or they bear her own fathers name. If she abort the belle and nobody comes across her till menopause, what happens? I wish her well.

You are a joker.

She should seduce him again kwa?

If at 42, she is still having flings with married men and want to abort the resulting pregnancy, we can seduce why she is not yet married.

Biko, she should pray the foetus is a twin (boy & girl) and close shop.

She should also use the N50k to register for ante-natal.

Once she has her baby(ies), she would be in a better state to get a husband.

And she should leave the man alone.

This woman sinks deeper still.

naturefellow:
Waiting for Instagram Nollywood Actresses like Regina Daniels and the likes to share motivational talks like Jennifer's.

Regina Daniels started acting in pampers.