₦airaland Forum

pcguru1:
Spot on, that's usually the only thing they have going for them, I notice those girls get intimidated by girls known for success.

I am amused when people try on prove a point on SM.

Each mallam to his own kettle.

PoliticalChinex:
Let's see the type of your breast to compare

It is NOT about my type of breasts, it is about using fashion to cover up whatever defects you have/highlight your strong points.

If she wore a bra with some form fitting clothes, our attention would shift to her nice shape.

And I saw class in this girl.

Topic says 'sperm'; OP says 'pussy juice.'

Something is wrong here.

Is she a lesbian?

You do not have the breasts to wear the clothes you like to wear.

What a tragedy

Ok, I took the pains to read the whole chat and I must say she is a pained woman.

Yes, she is crass and classless for using all the swear words in one post. However, if all these are true, then Chyna hasn't done right by her.

Her mom probably struggled to bring her up and send her through school so she has a better life.

Nothing wrong with acknowledging and helping such mom whether you think she is filth or not.

sexdoll:
are you saying it was a prostitute that gave birth to your stupid son NwaAmaikpe?

No wonder!!!!

He meant the girl must be good, willing and explorative in bed.

That was why he qualified it with 'my'.

Not too hard to decipher.

laudate:
Hehehe....the more things change, the more they stay the same. First, go and marry a maid after acquiring all your degrees, and come back here in a few years to share your experience. Several years back, a lot of men in our fathers' generation, married naive, young ladies with limited education, zero exposure and minimal ambition, believing that they would be good wives and life partners, because such women possessed domestic skills in abundance.

Okay, o! Fast forward, 10-15 years later after such marriages were contracted, those men moved up the career ladder and were holding distinguished positions, flying all over the world and making good money. That is when many of them realised that their wives who had limited education and poor social skills despite their domestic training, were actually a poor fit for them, or did not match up to their aspirations any longer.

So what next? They traded their 'maid-like' wives for newer, improved, educated and sophisticated models. Those new women or 'wives' were good to look at, educationally qualified, intelligent to boot and possessed social skills that could charm birds of the trees. In addition, their degrees and intelligence were a perfect compliment to the men's newly acquired wealth. Such ladies also knew how to make mouth watering delicacies, that could make the men lick their plates.

So what changed? When the men had nothing, and were just moving up in their careers, their own desires were also limited. So they chose the wives who they felt would not ask for too much from them, while managing the home front. As such men rose in their careers, positions, wealth, status and business/political circles, their tastes changed. Their lifestyles got upgraded. And they needed wives, consorts or partners that could fit the bill. In those days, such men had affairs with their secretaries, business associates, female colleagues and those at par with them in the workplace.

It is ironic how the same cycle still keeps repeating itself. I hope the men who are now seeking for maids who can clean, cook and perform well in the other room, would not change their tastes a few years later, and trade-in such women for newer, improved, educated models.

You know, you deserve a hug.

salt1:
I'm curious to know this woman's social circle.
I haven't seen the men marrying maids.

I know of Dangote's daughter getting married. Or is she a maid?

Rubbish generalization!

Hahahahahahahahahahahahaha

I am thinking that even for a maid to be married to a man considered above her class (cause I am sure she is not lamenting about mechanics and bricklayers), she must be polished to a certain extent.

And there is dignity in labour.

KingMicky3286:
You are righ my brother... The woman i wanted to marry told me that i will get a maid for her as she dont know how to cook and clean the house.

I just ran 440. I dont like keeping maids.. Its a child abuse.
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Your ex aside:

You don't like maids; do you believe in doing chores or you except her to do it all alone?

If you expect her to do it alone, is she going to work?

Unlimited22:
Wrong. It isn't all good.
Have you ever tried to maintain a coin in that position where it's neither heads nor tails?
It's really hard, and that's what we should be aiming for.
But you find out that most women are campaigning for the coin to be flipped on its side.

It is all good.

@Bold: Totally lost me there.

thesicilian:
When the wife becomes a fat lazy Nigerian housewife what do you expect.

I don't your reality however I know that an average Nigerian wife is NOT lazy.

monikmotivatioa:
A lot of women are now complaining that their husbands are no longer as sweet and honey as they used to be.

When gathered for discussions,they make up and generalize that the moment a woman gives birth or begins to have children,the ''love'' and feelings husbands have for their wives suddenly ...Read more: http://www.monikmotivational.com/2018/05/are-his-eyes-elsewhere-because-you-have.html

Post the full article here even though I have read it on your blog.

It must be a fraction of Nigerian men. Most of them pregnate their wives over and over again.

Interestingly, I know someone who sends his wife overseas each time she is pregnant tull she loses baby fat.

His attraction to her might have dwindled sha.

Again, there is a syndrome called madonna-LovePeddler syndrome. The men can no longer see their wives in a sexual way/ have sex with her after childbirth.

I always struggle to see most NLs POV in matters like these.

Everyone knows men and women are different. Everyone also knows that there are traditional marriage roles even though some couples seem to deviate from it.

Despite the divergence, most couples would still run a varying degree of the traditional model hence talk of percentages of dividing duties.

For the life of me, I have never seen a male NLer discuss who does the chores/keep the home when they expect a wife to 'equally' contribute financially.

I also don't understand the superiority of the husband because he traditionally should earn/contribute more. Are we saying that a wife is automatically superior if she contributes financially more than her husband and is excused from the traditional feminine roles?

Or would we say that dropping money is 'superior' to taking care of the home/kids?

Please note that I am not undermining the importance of money.

It is all good.

Femsyn:
An example of threads that made me fall in love with NL back in the days.

I was 20 when I joined NL, and I was sane. Compared to what we have now, I think there is more to it than just age.

I am just wondering how many peeps like me went to your profile to calculate your age

Well, such people have nothing real going on in their lives.

Never understood the need to prove anything to anyone on social media.

Onyi's stance isn't so strange or did men just start raping their daughters and SILs?

How many have divorced their husbands because of that?

The beauty of the Bible is that it can be used to justify almost anything.

An educated mother of two boys have told me same before so it is not really about not having kids.

Happy Birthday Madam B.

Looks so lovely for her age.

HardMirror:
Christians in america are as intolerant as anyother anywhere in the world.

Really?

10 years later, still very much on point.

Well go beg your husband if he will have you back.

I saw the part she said she is not missing a 'person'

So she means anyone can just kiss and handle her passionately and it would satisfy her? Interesting.

mrsefan:
It may sound wired but the fact remains that am a kind of person which gay love staying around and love buying me things before letting me know they re gay at the end of the day and it irritates me to know a man love a man. Some call me baby dear etc it's has been happening both online and daily life what can i do to stop them how can i deal with them
imaging a friend sending me his dick on whatsapp thinking it will seduce me and last week a guy i respected much called me to come and help him stay at home that he is free from work today that he has alot for me but when i got there he was wearing only shorts asking me dirty questions begging me to let him penetrate me that he will give me his care right now but i fought him and left and this just the begining of what i encounter with those evil please how can i deal with them

Taking your thread at face value,

You look like Bobrisky without his makeup.

The hair; the complexion; the looks; the wears etc. looks like you are trying so hard to be effeminate.

Cut your hair; if you find the traditional low cut boring, you can do styles that are manly: especially ones you have to put 'friction'. Don’t relax your hair anymore. If you want to, cut it very very low so that all that is left is a spotting wave kind of length with a razor sharp friction.

Lose the pinkish shirts and go for darker clothes; would compliment your colour if it is not from a bottle.

Lose the skinny jeans and tight fitted trousers; you look slim already.

Grow a beard not a goatee; it will break the smoothness of your face.

Like someone suggested, ask what makes you attractive to one of them and gradually change it.

If you can, relocate from that area. We don't want the gays ganging up against you because you are playing 'hard to get.'

Many are mad; few are roaming.

Watch your back.

Happy birthday Bianca's daughter.

The mother looks better though. Her beauty is ageless.

Wish she could share how she still looks so good at 50.

CSTR1003:
Ojukwu was in his 30s when he married her.

He was a young Oxford graduate who then entered the military, in an era when most of his colleagues like Buhari were secondary school drop outs fastracked into the army.

He was also the son of a multi millionaire.

So Ojukwu must have been one of the most eligible bachelors of his time

How old was Bianca when he married her in 1994? She was 26 then.

Are you saying he was in his 30s while Bianca was 26?

Meanwhile, he was 78 in 2011 when she was 43.

AFONJACOW:
abeg which church will seek notification from court b4 wedding their member... bru u are not talking with adolescent biko

Are you married?

Elxandre:
Until you hear the Man's side of the story for not wanting a church wedding, the rest na story.

Who knows if it was for financial reasons sef, and being a headstrong person, didn't want help from anyone.

If the man is the uncommitted devil y'all paint here, he would have rejected responsibilities for the pregnancy.

He accepted and had traditional wedding with you, leading to three kids.

Court wedding is the cheapest in Nigeria.

AFONJACOW:
so church marriage certificate will not do ? so thoughtful

The church will not wed you without notification from the court(for churches with legal right to conduct marriages) or court wedding.

The woman did not do church wedding.

ojlifa:
rubbish,you do traditional marriage they give you certificate at your local government.so who are you telling this lies to.men men draw your ears no marry any woman for court.do traditional wedding,the rest white wedding and all is just a waste of your money repeating the same thing marry cheap and save money for your family .

The woman has heeded your wise advise yet your brothers are crying like a kid whose favorite toy was taken from him.

northvietnam:
no cuz he would have opted for Abortion... or just walked away and body will beat him.

but he stayed and took up the responsibility of being a father and even went as far as 3rd baby...

the family and the girl is just so pained cuz she let her father who might be a Deacon( in one of those church )down by not having the So called white wedding..( church demanded for court wedding cert b4 they could be wedded)...

As far as he paid her dowry, they should not force him into court wedding

I am sorry I can't resist pointing out your callousness.

He paid her dowry and after several suplications, the wife and family moved on.

Why does the husband and his family want to force her to have a court wedding that wasn't important 9yrs back?

Is the dowry no longer in place? As it expired?

You are wicked.

northvietnam:
I think a man that fathered 3 kids with a lady, spent 9years with her in same Roof should be forgiving...

women r just teaching we single men Good lessons...
9fvcking years, 9years... that women is Devilish

Some people can be heartless sha.

I pray even my enemies don't across the people that saw nothing wrong in the man's actions or refuse to understand the woman's.

It is people like that who would pinch you and expect you to forgive.

Wicked people.

stuffs4me:
It is rather unfortunate that the woman is feeling like a god just because she's wealthier than her husband.


The woman has a very ugly and evil unforgiving heart. After 9 years and three kids, she still has the mind to keep a grudge in her heart.

Even if she refused to help the man, it doesn't mean God cannot answer the prayers of the man the way he answered her own. Nobody knows tomorrow.

I give you three gbosa!

Your ability to twist and distort issues is out of this world.

The story is clear; this is payback time for her.

Should she forgive the man and do the court wedding is another discussion.

But to say she doesn't want to help the husband because she is now rich is wickedness.

This will teach everyone that nobody knows tomorrow. Situations turn overnight.

Despite the whole make up and digital enhancing, she looks finished/faded.

It is amazing that while Churchill her ex seems to be doing well, she continually descends into self destruction.

Could it be that she is unconsciously mourning his loss?

She needs saving asap!