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baby124:
Very stupid. Lol! I am sure this is by a man. So delusional. How can a strong father raise a weakling like the writer explains here? Or does he mean an abusive father?

Hahahaha...

Check out the part 1/2 depending on your perspective..... 16 signs she is not a feminine women

kennygee:
That explains it. He's not well.

Tallesty1:
The guy has mental problem

Lols!

Check out the counter thread... 20 signs a woman is feminine

So peeps, a counter topic by same author....

See link to first topic: https://www.nairaland.com/3754361/16-signs-she-masculine-woman

20 Signs She is a Feminine Woman

Women and men alike have forgotten what it means to be a real women or men because of endless brainwashing. Hollywood, Feminism, and political correctness are responsible for that. This article is a guide for everyone out there that wants to live a happy life again. With this guide, men can identify feminine women again! I had trouble identifying them because they are so rare and because I was totally brainwashed. Women can use this guide to maximize their femininity to live a better life. Because let’s be honest here – a woman’s beauty is her most important asset. Everyone who denies that is a liar.

1. Hair: A feminine woman’s hair will always be at shoulder length or longer. Longer hair simply looks good, needs more care than short hair, and shows that she takes good care of herself.

2. Makeup: She wears make-up and we love it. The sexier her face looks the better she is in using make-up. I rarely see women nowadays without make-up. The ones that have a super sexy face are the ones I need to look twice at if they wear no make-up at all. Feminine women are professionals when it comes to make-up.

3. She Wears a Dress or Curve Boosters: Women are beautiful and brighten up my day. When I see a woman with a healthy body and a nice dress with a feminine perfume I get a huge smile when she walks past me. Women that don’t take care of their appearance are not feminine.

4. Her Apartment Is Clean: A clean apartment shows that this woman knows that a clean environment is important for her family, partner/husband and her children to feel good. A woman with a messy apartment works too much.

5. She Does Not Have a Car: Every day I see women driving in their cars. Women without cars have a stable relationship/marriage and value a clean home and the kitchen more than a car. After all, the man is the provider and not the woman. A woman should work part time at max, and choose a good partner. If they break up she can still take a full-time job or quit her full-time job when she has a good man. Also, women use their cars to get anywhere. They become fat and lazy. If you are a woman reading this then stop using your car for every meter and quit your goddamn job if you think your man can carry financial weight for at least a year. If he can not handle that then you should take a side job. But in the end, men are responsible for the income. If he doesn’t earn enough to supply a family, then you should not quit your job.

6. She Owns a Feminine Body: Fat or skinny women always behave and look more masculine (I have never seen an exception). Fat women are extremely masculine. If you are fat or skinny then watch your goddamn diet and stop using the goddamn car for every meter. In this picture below you have a fat feminist on the left starting to cherish her feminine side. Look at her on the right.

7. You Can Barely Hear Her : Feminine women speak softly. They don’t put power in their voice. They don’t command. When I hear a woman talking I immediately know if they are masculine or feminine just from the way they speak (this guide will make you an expert in detecting feminine and masculine women). A masculine woman talks loud and harsh and says disgusting things like “I need to shit” or “It’s cold my nipples are hard”. When I hear a feminine woman I subconsciously start to flirt with her. Masculine women repel me.

8. She is Submissive: If she is submissive she is feminine. They obey your rules, give good head and want to be led. Every woman that does not have a dominant partner will become dominant herself and become miserable. Be a dominant man and both are happy.

9. She Has Female Friends: There are a lot of women nowadays saying that they have more male friends than female friends. This is just an indicator that she wants to ride the cock carousel and that she is masculine herself. A platonic relationship between the genders is not possible. One of them wants sex. They are often both denying it. Women with female friends are more feminine. It’s very good if they have no male friends.

10. She Was Raised by Mother and Father: It needs a strong dominant father to raise a good daughter. A father that can not force boundaries & consequences with his women fails as a man. The women will become masculine feminists – I guarantee it.

11. She Seems/Is Shy: Shy women don’t go out dressed like prostitutes and pretend not to suck dick. They do not dress like hookers, they are submissive, and they are often very girly. They are also very loyal and highly intelligent.

12. She Is Girly: Pink is her favorite color, she loves dresses, bubble baths, ponies and all that feminine stuff. She is the exact opposite of masculinity. And this is why I love them. A girly woman is very rare nowadays as it is seen as weakness. Feminism is responsible for that.

13. She Avoids TV and the Internet: Women that avoid the media and the internet are more feminine. The brainwashing influence of the media is significantly lower without TV and the Internet. Sadly this is very rare since 6-year-old girls have smartphones nowadays.

14. She Has Good Manners: I have seen a lot of women that said the harshest things and behave like fucking monkeys. Feminine women have good manners. They don’t burp or fart around others. They also don’t yell around or show their tits in public like the feminists.

15. She Spends a Lot of Time in the Bathroom: What is more feminine 1. A woman that is spending an hour or two in the bathroom or 2. A woman that goes in and out… 1. Because femininity needs care. Applying make-up and going through their hygiene routine takes time. No woman that looks great spends less than an hour in the bathroom.

16. Family and Friends are the Most Important: When she values family and friends over a job that gives her “independence” then she is truly feminine. There is a man that has to provide for the family. If he can not do that help him till he can. If he can’t you have chosen the wrong partner. You can not build a family like that. And if there is no man that can provide for you, then work on yourself and your job till he finds you.

17. She Loves Shopping: I have heard some women say, “I don’t like shopping.” These are women that deny their feminine side.

18. Latina, Eastern, Asian or African: I know the cancer called feminism spreads fast but these women are not as affected as our western women.

19. She Does Not Know About Feminism: That seems to be a very smart and happy woman. Sadly these women are often in a relationship or married.

20. They are not Stubborn: Feminine women love to be lead and they know that arguments involve arguments and not feelings. They will not put up with drama or “argument” with feelings to not be wrong.

Conclusion
Feminine women are connected to their true nature and they live a happy life. They are not pill poppers, alcoholics or whores. So if you are women you must stick to this guide to be happy. If you are a man you should hold your eyes open for such women and approach them.

SSpeter:
You 're objective and unbiased!!

Thanks

dominique:
Na she go tire. I did some aproko on her facebook and saw that the marriage turned one year just last month, and she's already running after side-chicks, so sad

One year old marriage?

That's it!

[quote author=Tallesty1 post=55773351][/quote]Na fight

kennygee:
This article is so sexist making me wonder if the original writer had mummy issues growing up, maybe his or her mum was a career woman.

It is a him who suffered from depression bla bla bla... Below is his autobiography:

I am Phil Braselmann

…and I am a German politically incorrect man that lived with depression for 12 long years. I am also tired of this brainwashed and degenerated society and that’s why I left the corporate world and employed myself.

I got bullied, one of my friends died, my ex cheated on me, I was in psychiatry and I was in jail for 2 weeks.

I have a lot of experience with addictions. My ex girlfriend is an alcoholic and bulimic and I was a smoker for 10 years and I smoked 2 kilograms of weed per year. I wanted to die.

I have beat my depression and improved myself so far that I lost all my hair at the age of 24 and became Saitama. That wasn’t everything but as you can see I experienced quite a lot for my age.

I did a variety of jobs – I was a gardener, cashier, I worked in gyms and on constructions, all the jobs that require the body to do most of the work. I also have very bad experiences with managements and bosses – and I see that wherever I go.

At the 28th of August 2016, I said: “That’s it, I am done with this shit.” I immediately quit smoking cigarettes + weed and signed up at the gym all on the same day. I was seriously done with everything my ex left me.

I went through hell, I fucking cried every day for at least 6 months, I was done. The first day I didn’t cry was the day I considered a big improvement.

And now I am here after I swore myself that I am never going to be a depressed pussy again. I swore myself to help everyone that suffers from depression…

http://www.valorforfreedom.com/about/

I stumbled on a this article from Valor for Freedom...

This article is the counterpart to my “20 signs that she is a feminine woman” post. This article will help women to make themselves feminine again and it will help men to avoid masculine women. Sadly 99% of the western woman are masculine. These women are perfect for pump & dumps because they already sucked a lot of dick and have all kinds of STD’s. Western women love cheating – because our society encourages it. Just watch TV at midnight. And western society also lacks strong men that lay down clear boundaries that also enforce the consequences.

Always wear a condom and flush it down the toilet afterwards. Western women are not afraid to take the condom and put the semen in their pussies to impregnate themselves. Also only cum into the condom as they can use the sperm to put it on their bodies or children to charge you with rape. Western women are cancer. I don’t even need to write this article because you will think this is “normal“. And you think that this is normal because there are no sane feminine women left in the west.

1. She Wears Jeans or Very Tight Leggins: For me, jeans are a big sign that she is a masculine woman. Jeans have this rocky/western look and they look ugly on a woman. On the other side, you have these super tight leggings where you can see her ass + pussy. They are not ashamed to walk around like fucking hoes all the time. Hookers suddenly seem normal. Let a woman walk next to a prostitute. You will not know who is the hooker. Women can be whores inside the bedroom but not in public. They have no more self-respect or shame. They objectify themselves and blame men for objectifying them. Can’t get more retarded then western woman.


2. Short Hair: Women have long hair. Men have short hair. It is that simple. Why destroy your beauty with these bleeped up short hairstyles? They look plain ugly and masculine. I can understand them on old women. But not on young women. Women and men that think that this looks good are mentally ill.

3. She Has a Job: Jobs make men out of women. The masculine atmosphere in their job increases their testosterone. They have to be professional with no emotions (they are not allowed to be women). They get orders from a dominant woman and work with wimpy men who obey their orders. A feminine woman takes care of the house and the children. Get them into work and the drama will start. If they want to work then they should become self-employed with an internet based business. They can go pro there without the masculine work atmosphere and let their beauty and emotions shine in their work. Why should a woman (or man!) choose a 9-5 slave job over a family? I employed myself to escape that bullshit!

4. Some Don’t Even Use Makeup: A majority of these women don’t give a shit about their looks. You can seriously blame men for this shit as some really needy men tend to Bleep big whales and retarded women. These ugly piggies probably think “Why to improve myself, I get bleeped all the time and get all the presents without any work“. Some women look good without makeup but a feminine woman loves makeup.

5. Her Apartment is Dirty: She works more and does not even have time to clean her home or make some good food. This girl is no girlfriend or mother material. She probably does not even have time for you. If she got time for it and it’s still dirty as Bleep then she is simply lazy. No one wants that. Cleaning the house and taking care of a family and having your own internet business as a woman requires a fuckton of time. If you are too lazy to do that then you are not fit for a relationship.

6. She Got a Car: When women have a car they tend to drive for a 10-meter walk to the store. They become fat and never move again. At their job they probably don’t do a lot of walking. So they become fat, lazy and comfortable. Suddenly they look like a fat dude.

7. She Got a Disgusting Body: There are too many fat or muscular women. When you see girls that go into the gym they become these type of fitness chicks that look like centaurs. Centaurs are Male and not female.

8. She is Loud: When she speaks loud she is a fucking dominant attention LovePeddler. Feminine women have manners and speak softly. I can not stand these females.

9. She Got a Deep Voice: A deep voice is a sign of high testosterone or due to smoking and drinking a lot. Both are bad. Would not even pump & dump as this is highly unattractive. Nothing screams masculine woman more than this.

10. Dominance: Due to their job, feminine women start to become dominant. This is not the only problem, though. It can also be their feminist single mothers telling them to never rely on a man.

“My mother said to become independent and never rely on a man.”

Another reason are wimpy men. Women have no choice but to be dominant because their men are not. Someone has to lead in the relationship. They will only bitch when you tell them to cook or clean the house. Dominant women are highly unattractive to masculine men. They are useless too. Avoid them at all costs.

11. She Got Male “Friends”: More male “Friends” than females… Not only is that fucking masculine – She wants to keep multiple dicks available 24/7. When a woman says “I get along better with men“, think about that. She is a masculine woman that can not socialize with real women. The funny thing is she is probably more masculine than the guys around her. They treat her like a dude and want to get into her pants. She thinks she is around masculine men. Yet they all orbit around that slut.

12. She Missed One of Her Parents: A missing dad results in a lack of boundaries & consequences. A lack of a feminine mother will create a masculine woman. If they are raised by a single woman, they will become a feminist. From their mothers, they will learn stuff like dominance, strength, and lies like, “never cry“, “men do not hit women“, “you need a job“, and “you need a car“. If they were raised by only one parent that means that her parents were too fucking stupid / mentally ill to use condoms or the pill. She got bad genes from these idiots too.

13. She Uses Too Much Media: Women only watch this brainwashing bullshit like Desperate Housewives or Sex in the City. They are on social media to check out these whores like Rihanna and Madonna. And they are glued to their smartphone to use dating apps like Tinder, watch porn and write 10 Men at the same time. If she uses them she is brainwashed into being masculine and to become a LovePeddler.

14. She Got Bad Manners: Ever heard or read women say “I must take a shit” or “my nipples are hard” “I hit you if you do that again“? There are plenty of these masculine hybrids. Biggest turn off from my list. When I hear a woman saying these things on the streets I only look at them with disgust.

15. She Says She Is a Feminist: Just go home to stay away from guaranteed trouble and drama. Saying hi is rape – stay way.

16. She Hates Shopping: A Woman that hates shopping looks like shit. A woman that cherishes her feminine side with fresh feminine clothing is a happy woman. A new dress or a new couple of shoes or accessory make a woman happy. Do not deny yourself of that.

Summary
Western women are trash. You will never find a unicorn with all the feminine features. Not even half of these. Men are becoming smart and they avoid marriage because it favors women and has no advantages for men. If you want to find feminine women you have to travel to countries which do not allow a fuckton of immigrants and that are more right-wing and traditional. I recommend Poland or Bulgaria. The women there even say “get out of the kitchen it is not a man his place!” Awesome! If you ever find a unicorn you should keep it. Otherwise, I recommend pump&dump till eternity.

http://www.valorforfreedom.com/16-signs-masculine-woman/

I must confess I found the article hilarious! Feminine women don't work, drive, wear jeans? etc..

I stumbled on a this article from Valor for Freedom...

This article is the counterpart to my “20 signs that she is a feminine woman” post. This article will help women to make themselves feminine again and it will help men to avoid masculine women.

Sadly 99% of the western woman are masculine. These women are perfect for pump & dumps because they already sucked a lot of dick and have all kinds of STD’s. Western women love cheating – because our society encourages it. Just watch TV at midnight.

And western society also lacks strong men that lay down clear boundaries that also enforce the consequences.

Always wear a condom and flush it down the toilet afterwards. Western women are not afraid to take the condom and put the semen in their pussies to impregnate themselves.

Also only cum into the condom as they can use the sperm to put it on their bodies or children to charge you with rape.

Western women are cancer. I don’t even need to write this article because you will think this is “normal“. And you think that this is normal because there are no sane feminine women left in the west.

1. She Wears Jeans or Very Tight Leggins: For me, jeans are a big sign that she is a masculine woman. Jeans have this rocky/western look and they look ugly on a woman. On the other side, you have these super tight leggings where you can see her ass + pussy. They are not ashamed to walk around like fucking hoes all the time. Hookers suddenly seem normal. Let a woman walk next to a prostitute. You will not know who is the hooker. Women can be whores inside the bedroom but not in public. They have no more self-respect or shame. They objectify themselves and blame men for objectifying them. Can’t get more retarded then western woman.


2. Short Hair: Women have long hair. Men have short hair. It is that simple. Why destroy your beauty with these bleeped up short hairstyles? They look plain ugly and masculine. I can understand them on old women. But not on young women. Women and men that think that this looks good are mentally ill.

3. She Has a Job: Jobs make men out of women. The masculine atmosphere in their job increases their testosterone. They have to be professional with no emotions (they are not allowed to be women). They get orders from a dominant woman and work with wimpy men who obey their orders. A feminine woman takes care of the house and the children. Get them into work and the drama will start. If they want to work then they should become self-employed with an internet based business. They can go pro there without the masculine work atmosphere and let their beauty and emotions shine in their work. Why should a woman (or man!) choose a 9-5 slave job over a family? I employed myself to escape that bullshit!

4. Some Don’t Even Use Makeup: A majority of these women don’t give a shit about their looks. You can seriously blame men for this shit as some really needy men tend to Bleep big whales and retarded women. These ugly piggies probably think “Why to improve myself, I get bleeped all the time and get all the presents without any work“. Some women look good without makeup but a feminine woman loves makeup.

5. Her Apartment is Dirty: She works more and does not even have time to clean her home or make some good food. This girl is no girlfriend or mother material. She probably does not even have time for you. If she got time for it and it’s still dirty as Bleep then she is simply lazy. No one wants that. Cleaning the house and taking care of a family and having your own internet business as a woman requires a fuckton of time. If you are too lazy to do that then you are not fit for a relationship.

6. She Got a Car: When women have a car they tend to drive for a 10-meter walk to the store. They become fat and never move again. At their job they probably don’t do a lot of walking. So they become fat, lazy and comfortable. Suddenly they look like a fat dude.

7. She Got a Disgusting Body: There are too many fat or muscular women. When you see girls that go into the gym they become these type of fitness chicks that look like centaurs. Centaurs are Male and not female.

8. She is Loud: When she speaks loud she is a fucking dominant attention LovePeddler. Feminine women have manners and speak softly. I can not stand these females.

9. She Got a Deep Voice: A deep voice is a sign of high testosterone or due to smoking and drinking a lot. Both are bad. Would not even pump & dump as this is highly unattractive. Nothing screams masculine woman more than this.

10. Dominance: Due to their job, feminine women start to become dominant. This is not the only problem, though. It can also be their feminist single mothers telling them to never rely on a man.

“My mother said to become independent and never rely on a man.”

Another reason are wimpy men. Women have no choice but to be dominant because their men are not. Someone has to lead in the relationship. They will only bitch when you tell them to cook or clean the house. Dominant women are highly unattractive to masculine men. They are useless too. Avoid them at all costs.

11. She Got Male “Friends”: More male “Friends” than females… Not only is that fucking masculine – She wants to keep multiple dicks available 24/7. When a woman says “I get along better with men“, think about that. She is a masculine woman that can not socialize with real women. The funny thing is she is probably more masculine than the guys around her. They treat her like a dude and want to get into her pants. She thinks she is around masculine men. Yet they all orbit around that slut.

12. She Missed One of Her Parents: A missing dad results in a lack of boundaries & consequences. A lack of a feminine mother will create a masculine woman. If they are raised by a single woman, they will become a feminist. From their mothers, they will learn stuff like dominance, strength, and lies like, “never cry“, “men do not hit women“, “you need a job“, and “you need a car“. If they were raised by only one parent that means that her parents were too fucking stupid / mentally ill to use condoms or the pill. She got bad genes from these idiots too.

13. She Uses Too Much Media: Women only watch this brainwashing bullshit like Desperate Housewives or Sex in the City. They are on social media to check out these whores like Rihanna and Madonna. And they are glued to their smartphone to use dating apps like Tinder, watch porn and write 10 Men at the same time. If she uses them she is brainwashed into being masculine and to become a LovePeddler.

14. She Got Bad Manners: Ever heard or read women say “I must take a shit” or “my nipples are hard” “I hit you if you do that again“? There are plenty of these masculine hybrids. Biggest turn off from my list. When I hear a woman saying these things on the streets I only look at them with disgust.

15. She Says She Is a Feminist: Just go home to stay away from guaranteed trouble and drama. Saying hi is rape – stay way.

16. She Hates Shopping: A Woman that hates shopping looks like shit. A woman that cherishes her feminine side with fresh feminine clothing is a happy woman. A new dress or a new couple of shoes or accessory make a woman happy. Do not deny yourself of that.

Summary
Western women are trash. You will never find a unicorn with all the feminine features. Not even half of these. Men are becoming smart and they avoid marriage because it favors women and has no advantages for men. If you want to find feminine women you have to travel to countries which do not allow a fuckton of immigrants and that are more right-wing and traditional. I recommend Poland or Bulgaria. The women there even say “get out of the kitchen it is not a man his place!” Awesome! If you ever find a unicorn you should keep it. Otherwise, I recommend pump&dump till eternity.

http://www.valorforfreedom.com/16-signs-masculine-woman/

I must confess I found the article hilarious! Feminine women don't work, drive, wear jeans? etc..

megareal:
You still don't get it, do you? First, make up your mind whether I'm an irrational feminist or just sadistic and cruel.

I still maintain you are a bigot. The fact that I don't side with your sympathetic view on the boy does not give you the right to label me.

Moreover, I'm all for self defense. I don't care which way it blows. My father told us something profound "don't go looking for trouble, but when it comes face it with everything you've got irrespective of who it is. Because the trouble maker will keep preying on you and will never give up until you react". I've experienced that truth all through my young life.

And in this regard, the greatest compliment I can give myself is that I'm a very level headed female who treats others as I want to be treated. But don't cross the line cos I'm female, simple.

I think you are yet to meet very strong females who can take on anything, that's why you reason that we all play the victim card.

@Bold: Absolutely on point!

miredia:
"Deal with any bully" will land you an assault charge. The ideal thing is report any bully to appropriate authorities. Why breed a violent stock?

Assault when I am defending myself?

I am not breeding a 'violent' stock; I am breeding a stock that will be gentle as doves and will not take thrash as lions.

I am not reporting any bully to anybody when I can deal with him/her myself.

@OP:

I think a truly mature single lady is rare.

UIA04:
Wonderful

So you are saying that if a lady has a male platonic freind whom she ccan leean on in times of emotional, financial or even ssspiritual distress she is Not single I don't agree op

It's a pity the world has bastardiZed friendships and relationships and sex is So easy to get at the bart of an eyelid


Now I understand what my ex was saying when I asked him why he liked me and thought himself lucky to have have me one of the things he said' “B***A you don't have problem at all ”
At 22 He was the first guy I let into my life as confidant and later boyfriend

The bolded is what the OP is talking about....

A woman who has men who give emotional, financial or sexua.al support is not 'single'... She is enjoying what a lady in a relationship enjoys and claims she's single? That's eating her cake and having it right there.

It is like a woman co-habiting claiming that she is not 'married'. She might not be legally married however, she is a wife to the man.

The wife has just started exposing them...

Goodluck to her.

Happy revealing!

vislabraye:
I would like to help you.

Now this is 'harassment'

Where is the OP?

vislabraye:
Well..... technically, it's not harassment. Just kickback. Lolz.

Kickback in cash and kind....

God help us....

As long as people have the power to 'help' others, most will always want something.... money, sex, favour, marriage etc.

Is the sister hypnotized/deceived to be a second wife? If no, he should face his sister and leave the other parties out of it.

lilmax:
well,not one of those who value hard to get crap

girls that play hard to get with me can testify the continuous pain I gave them....

Well, there should be a balance and a wise lady who is interested in dating a man will not let him chase too much or disrespectfully

Trina0936:
Firm contract kwa?? There are others who would give that same contract without asking for sex and just because one door closes doesn't mean another won't open.

I am just saying that 'go own a business' is necessarily not the answer to all employment problems...

People are sexually harassed and blackmailed daily.... and not always at work.

It's better to find a lasting solution than running off to start your 'business'

Trina0936:
Strive to be your own boss! #selfemploymentisbest.
Passive income also helps because its not wise to put all your eggs in one basket!

What if a commissioner says he must sleep with you before awarding your firm the contract?

You think business owners are also not harassed? especially when they need favours?

legalifyNg:
(Four Minutes Read)

Sexual Harassment is a silent prevailing workplace menace, whose victims are both male and female.
The female cannot speak out because of the male chauvinistic settings of the society, and also, the male cannot cry for help because of societal expectations.
So both gender suffer in silence, everybody pretend as if it never occurred and life continues. Only that it does occurred!
Dealing with sexual harassment can be both trick and difficult.

1).What is Sexual Harassment
2).How can Business prevent Workplace Sexual Harassment
3). Facing the Music
4). What to do if you are sexually harassed


A) Sexual Harassment
Is an unwanted sexual advances, request for sexual favours; it may be verbal or physical. Sexual Harassment generally creates an intimidating, hostile, offensive and tense workplace atmosphere. It ultimately violates the victim's dignity as a person.

Ok

legalifyNg:
B).Examples of Sexual Harassment
It comes in all shapes and sizes. It might be an innocent or deliberate process such as

i. Making lewd suggestive comments

examples... you are beautiful and look take away (obviously for sex) might be lewd however, I don't see it as harassment

legalifyNg:
ii. Touching a woman's bosom or bottom

; Very crude, I agree

legalifyNg:
iii. Unnecessary provocative starring

: Really; I know someone who told a lady that he likes to stare whenever she passes to admire her body.... was he harassing her?

legalifyNg:
Some people are touchy people, who naturally tend to touch people when communicating, this might be a form of sexual Harassment especially when it's unwanted by the victim

. How can it be 'harassing' when you have established that the perpetrator is a naturally 'touchy feely' person?

legalifyNg:
C).How can business prevent it.
Business and workplace can do a lot to curb this menace such as

i. Sensitization of employees through seminars, calendars.t.c
ii. Creating a formal channel to report and deal precisely with such occurrence.
iii. Draw out sexual harassment policy.

D). Facing the music
Dancing to the music, the consequence, for your business might be fatal if not dealt with on time and precisely. Business and reputation go hand in hand
A workplace where sexual harassment thrives reduces the zeal or the urge of the workers to give their best, which results in low productivity.
i). Court Action
A person who sexually harass another may be liable under plethora of relevant laws, such as Lagos State Criminal Code.
ii). Employer’s Vicarious liability
As an employer, in whose employment such sexual harassment thrives without any measure to curb it, you may be vicariously liable.
In the end, it wouldn’t matter whether the employer wins or loose in court, because your business or reputation might just not recover.

E). What to do if you are sexually been harassed

There is no hard and fast rule to this, it ain’t set in stone. The severity of each case of sexual harassment differs
1. Confrontation: Express your displeasure in clear and bold terms. Those who sexually harass others are like bullies, they feed on fear and weaknesses of their victim. They have a nose for it, so you must toughen up, and suffocate your own fears to be a able to consistently stand up to them.
2. Documentation
Seriously, you need to document. whether or not you will pursue a legal action, you still need certain evidence, to report to a higher authority or to prove pattern of sexual harassment to other victims.
3. Report
File an Official complaint, in writing. Don’t make the mistake of complaining to an higher authority orally, people deny even their mother, so denying you never reported wont be hard. Also, get a stamped copy showing it was received by such person’s office for documentation. People naturally tend to take written things more seriously than oral ones.

4. Start writing another C.V
What happens, where the higher Authority that is to be reported to is the one sexually harassing you? You might have to look for job elsewhere or speak with your superman lawyer.

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If you are talking of boss/subordinate harassment or blackmail (because your colleague caught you in a funny place), I agree with you that the menace must be curbed and would advise people to peruse the channels you listed above to address them

However, you are talking of colleagues making sexual advances at one another, then I don't agree with you. Let's differentiate between harassment and office romance.

Where single and irresponsible married men and women are gathered, they are bound to be sexually attracted to one another and one person has to make the move.

Infact, I think this harassment thingy has to do with the perpetrator and how the 'victim' perceives it...

If a Ramsey Noah should kiss a random girl or Omotola spanks a random guy, I don't think they will feel as harassed as when a yeye colleague tries such.

Again, if they like the 'yeye' colleague, well harassment is over....

Like someone said, you can't rape the willing.

And if people feel harassed, they should start looking for other jobs while addressing the issue.

Overall Beautiful... dress. Makeup, posture, hair etc...

Tiwa, please stick to the crew who worked with you for this.

TheLordIsGr8:
In that case such a man needs all the help he can get: spiritual and otherwise. I mean, he was there the whole time.
That's why its important for people to talk a lot before marriage. But some people prefer to let you read signs as if you're doing a driving course.

But everything else is truly well spoken written.

Where is Evra tiri gbosa wen i need it? sombori help me wit dat pinsure

You will be shocked.

@OP,

Thank you.

A Muslim who doesn't want a co-wife and leaves the husband to marry whosoever he wants is selfish?

Did she stop Musa from marrying Juliet?

Is Musa's goal to marry Juliet his newest sweetheart or marry two wives by hook or crook?

I salute una.

TheLordIsGr8:
I have done so.
Did you add anything?
You could do well to enlighten me, lady

The lady I quoted said some Nigerian guys question their lady's 'prowess' in bed; I agreed and said men need to realize that some ladies actively pursue sexual fulfillment.

In the same post, I advised people to be decent.

So every spouse will actually learn from themselves how to pleasure themselves... the question is what happens if after 2yrs of marriage, the wife 'improves' and the husband starts wondering where she learnt it?

This is going in circles however summary is

1. Be sexually decent; the less body count, the better. .if possible, let it be only one (for men & women)

2. A lady though inexperienced or with only one guy can actually learn about sex and be better than 'experienced' ladies. Ditto guys.

3. If you don't trust a person, don't date/ marry them. No need second guessing what's up with your partner whenever they exhibit 'prowess' in bed.

I am trying hard to understand how slapping a bully equals slapping future husband and in-laws...

The Emir voiced out what a lot of parents teach their kids: deal with any bully instead of crying to mama/ papa.

Besides, I am sure the Emir is a sensible man and if he felt his daughter's action was wrong, he would have corrected her.

TheLordIsGr8:
Lies everywhere. So she can't learn with the husband abi? In fact the husband should be the best candidate for practice sessions.

I always maintain that as far as the man and woman are open minded, they can learn what works for them. In sex, the learning process should actually be enjoyable. It should be better than having ready made styles.

Reread the full post you quoted slowly.

kceewhyte:
...lol better grow up already

I am grown and I don't like them and will never do.

Besides, if growing up means me moving from higher standard of morals to lower ones, consider me forever young.

Pocohantas:

I agree with you as per se.X and the solution is to be sexually decent.

Again, the guys should understand that some ladies actively learn about se.X because they want to pleasure/enjoy their husbands.

It must be very hard getting married to the average Nigerian man sha.

@importexport:

Your points were jellying till it seems you want men to eat their cake and have it.

If you want respect, be respectfuland respectable

If you want commitment, be committed to the relationship yourself.

As the Bible rightly says, if you want friend, show yourself friendly.

@importexport:

Your points were jellying till it seems you want men to eat their cake and have it.

If you want respect, be respectful and respectable

If you want commitment, be committed to the relationship yourself.

As the Bible rightly says, if you want friend, show yourself friendly.