₦airaland Forum

tearoses:
The average man with his head screwed on right also will love to have a happy family; beautiful wife & children & looking forward to going home each evening
I dont think that any man wants to be buying food from buka every day and with no one to care if his socks match or not

@thread I have never met anyone who found Mr right, but decided not to marry him because of her career
If anything, I see more women rushing to the alter for the wrong reasons

16snow:
When reversed, is that actually supposed to be the place of a wife and husband? This is so ridiculous.

Toks2008:
Exactly the point i was expecting at least one female to state but rather than state this,they would prefer to rant and curse.

Must a lady open her legs for a guy she is dating?

At least if you say its over you do it with your head held up and even the guy will not have the guts to look down on you.

But because most of these ladies these days are so loosed,weak sexually and totally slutty, they will hurriedly open up their legs before thinking with their head.

Loving a lady is one thing and valuing her sexually is another thing and many ladies if placed on the scale of sexual decency as regards the number of guys that have climbed them i guess some will no longer have marital value.

So this piece like every other writeups of mine is a clarion call to ladies to live a sexually decent life so that they can have value in the eyes of their hubbies as well as outsiders.

In the world of our parents,it is a taboo for a man to marry a disvirgined lady but because the present world is rotten,we longer consider this.

But by my standard,asides from rape victims,any lady that have gone down with more than 3 guys before her hubby can be likened to a terribly used lady...quote me anywhere.

lezz:
Prolonged use of Viagra wouldn't be needed in productive expediency!!!

'Sides, I do not have a need for Viagra.

I can get it up and make you feel like the woman you were meant to be!

Lawalemi:
I never support elderly men exploiting young girls

craziebone:
such people most times are not into relationships of any kind for children. They have other ways of getting children.

nnachukz:
Another brother has bought untested and unchecked package. Sorry my brother, it is for better for worst. Write your will and hide it in your briefcase should you die on top of mountain Jerusalem where you are trying to satisfy her nothing will be lost. Olosho pretending to be church choir everywhere.

KINGinVAHALA2:
Be laughing yourself there. You re lucky your reply was in an online forum. If you were my fiancee and you gave me that K reply this night in my house, nting would have stopped me from not throwing you out of my compound and into the street this night.

aforti:
The virtuous man, the man who knows he is created in the image and likeness of God.
He thinks and functions like God because he bus created in the image and likeness of God

The virtuous man knows his purpose on earth is to fulfil creation to recreate and modernize what his master has created.

The virtuous man is not proud because he knows God resists the pride , he does not use his power and influence to oppress others because he knows that is not the image of God and likeness of God

The virtuous man respects others and their opinions because he Knows even God him self gave him free will the ability to makes his own choices

The virtuous man when married loves his wife as Christ loves the church. He gives himself into service of his family just the way Christ did. He those not yield to temporary temptations just the way Christ did not yield to Satan after fasting 40 days and 40 nights

The virtuous man is a savour to people around him. He is a protector, he the man who God looks at and says I am well pleased.

The virtuous man is forgiven, he is not guided by culture or societal norms because these things change. He is guided by the word of God because the word of God never changes

The virtuous man is not a fornicator, he is not a cheat. He does not stay up all night devising ways to cheat on his spouse because he knows ones he does so his marriage is null and void and he is nothing but and infidel in the sight of God. He values the wife of his youth because the Bible says so.


The virtuous man does not stand in the counsel of the ungodly, he is like a tree planted by the rivers of water. What so ever he does he prospers because the favour of God flows through him.

The virtuous man is that man who make people happy, he is selfless, egoless, not boastful do not yield to anger easily because he knows he is a god he is the image of God.

Who can find a virtuous man. His prices is worth more than life it's self.

otokx:
Pride always goes before a fall.

Barbarthundey:
Peter performs as Mr P... So what is Paul going to perform as Mr P2?

LaurelP:
We don't need to step into any shoes, we know you already.
You are Innocent Ujah Idibia, a musician, and father to seven children with different women.

byvan03:
Nah to forgive nah, as long he doesn't need anything from her and he isn't seeking a lovey dovey daughter/ dada relationship .

cococandy:
we awesome

Thanks dear

greatgod2012:
I take this as a "yes"

Andy1985ng:
I wonder what foreigners will say/think when they visit this site and start reading stories like this?

I love my country sha...

cococandy:
[size=18pt]DO NOT FORGIVE HIM!![/size]

byvan03:
There is nothing to forgive or not forgive here, tell him Ok and move on with your life. I hope he isn't sick or broke this one that he is seeking forgiveness . It's easier to forgive when he returns with genuine remorse not when he needs someone to prepare diabetic patient meals and foot hospital bills .


As long as you won't be offering anything for this repentance, just tell him" I forgive you " and move on.

byvan03:
They keep doing the crap they do because they always get away with it when the forgiveness crew start chanting their hymns, to whom it may concern sha . If he is still economically useful, try and weigh the usefulness and make him useful to you this time ;before he falls under hypnosis again like Tony Umez in Nollywood movies . If he needs babysitters or ATM machines let his harem do that . Pap is thicker than blood .

Bbsharon:
Hello everyone.

I was gisting with my boyfriend last week and we talked about what if someone approach me for marriage because we are age mate and he told me he has "PLAN B" if I leave him.

I was heartbroken and when he realised that he tried explaining that he is just trying to be on the safer side but when I told an older friend of mine about it she told me he (my bf) might be dating the other lady already but he loves me more. I became more confused and do not want to approach my boyfriend on the matter again because I do not want anything that will cause misunderstanding between us.

So I want to know other people's thoughts on this and if you happen to have been in such situation before please share how you handled it.

Mature contributions please..

Myroot:
Am from a family of six, and am d first child, our second son has been a wayward child and also refused to further his education, he has been a a pain on D neck of my parents, that dad has to rent an apartment for him outside, he took into trading illegal stuffs and was able to save 150000naira with mom. Now he said he can't do the job again that he wants to start a legal business and we found out mum has spend 100000, out of the money, saying my dad promised her some money and she used my brothers money thinking if dad sent the money she will use it to replace it, now dad didn't send any money to her, and my brother wants his money, and dad has give her now to 31st to provide the money or she should pack out of his house, what should I do? And so confused and I don't have that kind of money to give her, and a serving youth corper with my own debts to pay. Please help. I don't want my kids brother to go back to his wayward lifestyle. And I don't have money to support him. And I don't want my family to break because of money.

purityannabel:
my brother in law staying with us is driving me crazy. ....many at times when he comes back from school ...He will just keep his school bag and leave the house without my knowledge ooooo..... He won't even bother to fetch water just from the tank oooo.....if I want to cook I will go down stairs and fetch it before doing the cooking. then if he later come back he will ask me for food........
Am just tired of this teenage boy.....I dont know what to do ........Pls your opinion will be appreciated. ......

moyinoluwabun:
Must we all be in politics? I'm sure it's all for d monetary gain while his main talent will waste away.

Chukzyfcb:
The truth of the matter is you'v no point. You are looking for proofs to support gender-equality but the "koko" is that there is none. Even in our Nigerian constitution, there is no Fairness towards the men. YES! The same women shouting gender equality don't even knw that they are highly favoured.

1) According to the Nigerian constitution guiding rape offence, A woman cannot RAPE a man. Its not POSSIBLE according to our law .

2) According to the criminal code, fight between two men in public is seen as felony but between women its seen as a Misdemeanour(lesser offence)

3) According to labour act women are prohibited from any Night work be iit public or private attachment with exception to nurses only.
These are the ones I can remember, yet you think the Nigerian law is fair to us men. Smh!

nasha1:
Women are the architects of their own misery. There will never be equal rights for women in employment, political positions, social ,educationAl and cultural sectors. Women are their own worst enemy , extremely judgemental of one another, envious and hardly supportive of one another. The men will always be dominant in all aspects ,until women learn to stop criticising and condemning each other they will never get to the top. Most of the most successful women in the world are 95% criticised and abused by WOMEN. I wonder the day we will have female governors and a female president , I am certainly sure women will vote her out. Only a woman with a low self esteem will judge another woman just to make herself feel good. A Queen supports and praises a Queen. Women will NEVER get what they truly deserve in this world unless they unite in love . Women are always the first to cast a stone . If you all could spend 80% of the time you spend on being little demons in another woman's life and be more productive and supportive , we will be more respected and valued in our society . #yougiveoutwhatyouget#stopthehatesisters

i copied this from caroline instagram and many females celebrities endorsed it.i endorse this too especially with everything i read here on NL from women.Shame on women who are first 2 judge and pull their fellow women down because of difference of opinions.

Chukzyfcb:
Hey Miss, you are mixing everything up. Frst I said EQUITY(fairness) not equality.
Then you asked who should determines what is fair for a person? And I said all of us, men and women ,we adults in general. Our young boys today will become tomorrow men! Even if you are not vibrant enough to voice your opinion in public. You have little kids around you, You have little cousins or nephews we can all start by teaching them how to be fair to one another! There is no rule anyway that says a woman cannot head a man in an office. Or a woman should earn in thousands & a man in millions. We all deserve to be treated fairly! And I don't support equality. Women are weaker sex, there are certain measures you don't dish out to a woman simply because she preaches women equality. Women who talk bout gender equality are most clamouring for a right to be arrogant and talk anyhow to fellow man because she feels they are equal. NO! If we respect one another, talks of feminism wouldn't even exist! EQUITY is the watchword, treat a woman as you would do yourself & vice-versa. But like I said, this doesn't mean a woman cannot head a department in an office or other higher positions.